Evolving from pussy to cock

[isinlarsa]

I believe this transition happens in some ways with many men after being denied, but not all. I do have some thoughts on people, men and some women about bisexual activities at times, but this isn't the thread for my thoughts based on personal experience.

In my case I had a very similar situation as Isinlarsa, in fact I may owe him a PM reply. I have told my story before in other OHW threads and my experiences were many years ago, I am closing in on my mid 80's so I am speaking a lot using my rather vivid memories. I dated women off and on before marrying as well as after my divorce from my wife, but in the last couple of years of the 1990's I just got tired of the common ways it took before being allowed sex with women in general. Sucking cock was and is very direct in most cases and I admit I truly enjoyed giving head to other men. I did some as "clean up" at times with my wife and lovers who were okay with it. But since the late 90's I have been pussy free and the only sex I have is sucking off other men. I still enjoy doing it, but due to limited ways of contacting and meeting other men. I am not as active as I once was, but still love doing it whenever the occasion happens.

Would look forward to a PM from you. You and I are in the same decade of age, which shows that this whole sexual scene is not something that has recently started.

I totally agree and have replied to you PM just now. Back when I became involved with this lifestyle Many if not most of the terminology didn't even exist that I am aware of, and I was pretty deeply involved in it with my then wife.

Very true regarding the terminology. Cuckold was an old-fashion word that was not normally used. Hotwife was unknown, even though what my wife indulged in would have made her a hotwife.

[SubSnuggler]

I’m curious how cucks find these men? Do you ask your wife’s bulls if you can pleasure them, do they tell you, or are y’all using apps to find men on your own? I’m not even sure how that goes lol.

[AZPainter]

I’m curious how cucks find these men? Do you ask your wife’s bulls if you can pleasure them, do they tell you, or are y’all using apps to find men on your own? I’m not even sure how that goes lol.

Back when my wife was cucking me with co-workers and occasionally one or two of the clubs customers, she was the one who would be fucking a guy, learn that he was okay with me watching and some were okay watching me clean my wife up and sometimes my wife would have me clean her lovers cock with ones that she knew would enjoy this. So she was the one who would find the guys who might enjoy this and both would agree having me do this. Some actually wanted me to give them head before fucking my wife. My wife knowing I had sucked cock in the past was the instigator of this activity.

Since we divorced around 1980 I found men in other ways, a few were men who had been with my wife and enjoyed having a man give them a BJ. Others were found by me placing a notice I was available for this through the back page or alternative "news papers." I also tried dating women and in between the women I dated I would suck a few guys now and then. In 1999 I got tired of all the things it took to have sex with women I dated and I slowly began moving to only men. So ever since 2000 I only service men. It does not take long before quite a few men saw my "ad" and became regulars. I have a belief after the 20 plus years I have been strictly servicing men this way that if anyone interested in my "theory" I can post it or explain it in a PM.

[sana9889]

I’m curious how cucks find these men? Do you ask your wife’s bulls if you can pleasure them, do they tell you, or are y’all using apps to find men on your own? I’m not even sure how that goes lol.

Back when my wife was cucking me with co-workers and occasionally one or two of the clubs customers, she was the one who would be fucking a guy, learn that he was okay with me watching and some were okay watching me clean my wife up and sometimes my wife would have me clean her lovers cock with ones that she knew would enjoy this. So she was the one who would find the guys who might enjoy this and both would agree having me do this. Some actually wanted me to give them head before fucking my wife. My wife knowing I had sucked cock in the past was the instigator of this activity.

Since we divorced around 1980 I found men in other ways, a few were men who had been with my wife and enjoyed having a man give them a BJ. Others were found by me placing a notice I was available for this through the back page or alternative "news papers." I also tried dating women and in between the women I dated I would suck a few guys now and then. In 1999 I got tired of all the things it took to have sex with women I dated and I slowly began moving to only men. So ever since 2000 I only service men. It does not take long before quite a few men saw my "ad" and became regulars. I have a belief after the 20 plus years I have been strictly servicing men this way that if anyone interested in my "theory" I can post it or explain it in a PM.

You also never went back to pussy?
It seems like a running thing that once guys get dick, pussy is no longer interesting.

[Johor]

I think more men should enjoy cock. Especially those who dont get pussy.
I like both cock and pussy, but cock always feel more satisfying to play with.
A pussy won't get hard and show you that its enjoying you the same way a cock does. I have faked enjoyment with a lot of men.

When I am all horny and I find a cock to suck, my erection goes away and all my focus is on the cock and the man behind it. After I swallow his cum, I feel more stifired than if I had fucked a pussy.

The only time PIV sex is better is when I eat my own cum from it.

[knight4princess]

I can't help but get really hard while sucking a cock. But I agree that the satisfaction of causing a man to cum is definitely greater than if I'd have licked a woman to orgasm. I do like both, though. ;-)

[AZPainter]

I’m curious how cucks find these men? Do you ask your wife’s bulls if you can pleasure them, do they tell you, or are y’all using apps to find men on your own? I’m not even sure how that goes lol.

Back when my wife was cucking me with co-workers and occasionally one or two of the clubs customers, she was the one who would be fucking a guy, learn that he was okay with me watching and some were okay watching me clean my wife up and sometimes my wife would have me clean her lovers cock with ones that she knew would enjoy this. So she was the one who would find the guys who might enjoy this and both would agree having me do this. Some actually wanted me to give them head before fucking my wife. My wife knowing I had sucked cock in the past was the instigator of this activity.

Since we divorced around 1980 I found men in other ways, a few were men who had been with my wife and enjoyed having a man give them a BJ. Others were found by me placing a notice I was available for this through the back page or alternative "news papers." I also tried dating women and in between the women I dated I would suck a few guys now and then. In 1999 I got tired of all the things it took to have sex with women I dated and I slowly began moving to only men. So ever since 2000 I only service men. It does not take long before quite a few men saw my "ad" and became regulars. I have a belief after the 20 plus years I have been strictly servicing men this way that if anyone interested in my "theory" I can post it or explain it in a PM.

You also never went back to pussy?
It seems like a running thing that once guys get dick, pussy is no longer interesting.

I did for awhile. I dated several ladies for a few years and when I wasn't dating, sort of in between I would suck a guy off now and then. But by 1999 ( was getting tired of the dating game and pretty much only serviced men and by 200 I only had sex (oral) with men. I have nothing against women. I think most of them are beautiful in in all kinds of ways. I also understand and honor how many if not most women think about sex and I have a fair idea of what they want in life and sex. I say a fair amount because not every woman desire the same things in life and sex. I am friends with most of the women I have dated and as a professional artist for over 50 years. I still feel the need to paint them in the most attractive and respectful way I can. I love women as friends and beautiful to see. My problem is with me, if one wants to call it a problem, is dating became all most a game. Women that I dated were all in my age bracket and were going through the change, all women go through or had been through it and had no desire for sex in many cases. Enjoying pleasuring a man was much easier. I have had bisexual tendencies from a very early age so it was not a huge change for me. My very first sexual encounter was with a neighborhood friend two years older than me. He initiated oral sex from me and continued through school until he left for college. All the time I was servicing him and a friend of his, once I was old enough I also dated girls my age. My first full sex with a girls did not happen until I ws in the Navy and 19 years old ....BTW all of this happened in the 1950's. I am 83 years old now.

[sana9889]

I can't help but get really hard while sucking a cock. But I agree that the satisfaction of causing a man to cum is definitely greater than if I'd have licked a woman to orgasm. I do like both, though. ;-)

I agree with this. (i am more attracted to women)
Making a dick hard and cum just feels more real and fulfilling.
I love trans porn for this reason.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

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[All4Jenna]

AZPainter,

I'm very interested in hearing your theory that you mentioned a few posts back. Thanks for sharing.

[AZPainter]

AZPainter,

I'm very interested in hearing your theory that you mentioned a few posts back. Thanks for sharing.

I will go ahead and answer this after several PM requests. Please keep in mind this is NOT scientific and purely based on my experience. I sucked cock of and on between relationships with ladies and a marriage I'm 82 years old now so I have been sucking cock for 70 years. 25 of those years has been giving oral sex to other men. For roughly 8 0r 9 of these I had a group of men who would call me and then come to my studio which was in my home, at a time when no other man would be there or clients or models would be there, Of this group of men the majority were all married, "straight men who's wives would not or rarely give them head. The wives, for the most part did not like doing it for whatever reason. Some used it to get something they wanted to do or acquire, like bartering
for it but no other time. If someone does not want to do any sexual act or anything else for that matter, that is their right and should be honored in my belief.

This group of men changed over the years as someone moved away or whatever happens in peoples lives. Eventually another man would become a regular. There were also several men that traveled and when in town would call me for the oral service I was happy to give. I was giving someone a blow job every day and often two or three at different times of the day.

Of course over the year I have been sucking cock I serviced a large amount of married men and in fact I would guess nearly half or more of them were married men. Sure there were plenty of gay and bisexual men as well but as many married, "straight" men as well. So here is my theory. Most men who consider themselves straight and live a straight life will allow another man to suck them to completion if they feel secure that no one will ever know they did this and enjoyed it or in specific situations, cuckolding for example. Note that I said "most" men, not all men. Finding another male to give this to them is relatively easy. Gay bars is one but many straight men have no desire to go to a gay bar or club as it is to open and sort of public or the chance of being seen by someone they know. So ad, in giveaway paper on street corners, or online now is likely the most common way to find what they want, It is discreet, and no strings attached. No names other than a first name which may or may not be a real name. Another place is adult book stores, particularly ones with the small video booths. Sometimes but less often than any just named may be word of mouth. No pun intended. I had several over all my years doing this that came to me via word of mouth. Pretty rare though. So , that is my theory. Coming to my studio did not appear unusual as I had an open art studio where customers of both sexes often came to see or buy art work from me by appointment. So this was a safe place for this group of men. I am open to any comments or questions. I also hope this explains my theory. :-D

[All4Jenna]

AZPainter,

I think your contention that many, if not most men would receive a blow job from another man once ensured secrecy is fundamentally true. Thanks for sharing.

[ohtobecucked]

Couldn’t agree more. Not been in my wife’s pussy for 10 years but recently had a night out with a man that had me squirming for hours…

Dare I say it - I’d take cock over pussy at this poont

[Colliercuck]

My wife had an affair several years ago, lasted about a year.
She told me it only ended because he moved away.
When I found out, we argued and I was pissed, but excited….i slept in another room that night.
In the morning, she came in to apologize, I was so turned on, that I aggressively took off her nightgown and panties and fucked her hard (with my tiny dick)
When we were done, she said, “I believe you are very turned on by my relationship with Sabin”
Some months later, when we were about to have sex, she told me, “hurry up and get it over, sex with you does nothing for me”……..so I asked if sex with Sabin turned her on, she got pissed, said what did you say………so I explained that because sex with me didn’t turn her, I was curious if sex with him did.
She got up and said she was getting ready (we were supposed to be heading somewhere)
She told me the next day, “I want you to approach me, I will not start this conversation and I will not be approaching you, I want you to tell me your thoughts and fantasies, what you really want “
So I took her out to dinner (and I admit she is the better communicator) and I explained it all (even though I have told her that I want to be a, her cuckold and that she deserves another man several times multiplied by several times over 25 years)
So it all came out, I enjoy wearing her panties, because it makes me feel small and submissive to her, I enjoy denial….being denied by her, because it makes me feel inadequate, I love the thought of her with another man, better at satisfying her sexually (at all as I’ve never given her an orgasm) and with a big cock, and told her I even would love chastity.
She was not thrilled and said ,she isn’t into that and my kink is weird.
A couple days later, she told me, you love denial…..you love being denied………I said yes………good, you are being denied, you are not allowed my pussy anymore, I hope you enjoy that, because it’s not for you, I’m going to find a man and I’m going to look good for him, I’m going to work out and look fine, and your going to pay for it……..then she told me, and I don’t think I need to be sorry about my affair, there is nothing to feel guilty about, i only did what you have been asking for , for years.
That was 4 years ago, and she is hot, looks amazing, dresses sexy, we go out and she tells me others guys are hot or sexy, and reminds me that I wanted to be in denial and asked her to be with other men.
But she won’t tell me if she has, and she has demanded that I not play with myself……….and I have to admit sucking a nice cock is a BIG turn on

[dinoo]

As a BF, watching the evolution of a cuckold going from pussy to cock, I believe the basic excitement of the thoughts and fantasies of his wife being fucked and pleasured by a sexual powerful cock is the driving force behind his excitement.. imagining her in unrestrained, sexual and orgasmic activity with another man. However, the cuckold’s main concentration is not on the other man.. it is on his powerful cock and the way his cock pleasures his wife.

Whether a cuckold has any previous bisexual feelings, experiences or not, the powerful cock pleasuring his wife becomes the forefront of his attention. He begins feeling a respect for a powerful cock and feels urges growing inside him to share the same pleasure his wife is experiencing. He wants to touch it.. feel it.. taste it.. PLEASURE IT !!

I, personally, do not even think about him being bi or homo.. those thoughts don’t even enter my mind… I think of him as a cuckold sharing mutual feelings with his wife to respect and pleasure my cock, and share my cum as part of their sexual desires and cravings.

My greatest pleasure as a BF is to see a hot wife progress from the modest housewife to wild sexual abandon and a cuckold to evolve from pussy to sucking my cock. It is a very intense relationship.

Just from my experience….

Brad

I totally agree Brad. That is my experience as well. They come to accept the roll of pleasuring me by sucking my cock and do it as a normalized practice , even with other cuckold couples present.

Some notes on quotes:
"However, the cuckold's main concentration is not on the other man... it is on his powerful cock and the way his cock pleases his wife."
Yes. Once my wife was being fucked and screamed "Harder Aldo, as hard as you can". But the base was not that fucking. She liked this man Aldo, his humor, his attention, talking dirty to him, etc. etc. In general, my wife loved to have some chemistry with a lover.

"My greatest pleasure as a BF is to see a hot wife evolve from humble housewife to wild sexual abandon and a cuckold evolve from pussy to sucking my cock. It is a very intense relationship."
Like the transformation of my wife and myself. She evolved from a classy woman to a fully liberated woman. And she turned me into a bi-cuckold and liked to watch me sucking cocks. The result is a very intense, loving relationship between us.

"They come to accept the roll of pleasuring me by sucking my cock and do it as a normalized practice , even with other cuckold couples present."
Yes, it became a normalized practice. A VERY normalized practice.

"Even in the presence of other cuckolded couples."
My wife fantasized about situations where I was sucking the cocks of other cuckolds and a large crowd of bulls.
One of her favorite acts was to tongue kiss me with her mouth full of cum. Especially when people were watching. She did it often.
She: "It is very exciting to show the surrounding men how much I want one of them to cum in my mouth.
I consider it a victory when I feel the sperm squirting in my mouth.
When I kiss you with my tongue immediately afterwards, they not only know about our relationship, but also that it has become a very normal thing for us as a cuckold couple".

[1999]

I’ve never had sexual thoughts about a man, even when I was younger and working everything out. I love women, love my wife, have never been attracted to a man, and have never considered myself anything other than straight.

However.

My biggest fantasy is for my wife to fall in love with someone and for him to become a permanent part of her life. I want them to go on trips together and for his friends to know her as his regular girlfriend. This much my wife knows, even though the thought scares her a bit.

What she doesn’t know is that I also think about her boyfriend fucking me, too. The thought of her lover making me suck his cock in front of her is such a turn on. I find myself jerking off to bisexual cuckold porn now, watching bulls fucking husbands in front of their wives and wishing it was me. She often uses her toys on me now, and I managed to have an anal orgasm once. I’ve started lubing her dildos by taking them in my mouth, and I think about eating my own cream pies out of her whenever we fuck - I already lap up my own precum when I’m masturbating.

It’s a slippery slope at this point, and I’m a little worried…

[venus-can99]

When I saw the topic I thought this had something to do with transitioning from female to male
I need to read posts in detail

[mfmfantasy50]

I’ve never had sexual thoughts about a man, even when I was younger and working everything out. I love women, love my wife, have never been attracted to a man, and have never considered myself anything other than straight.

However.

It’s a slippery slope at this point, and I’m a little worried…

Sounds so familiar!!!

One thing leads to another and I keep being drawn deeper and deeper into the abyss!!!

Sorry for the drama…