She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

For cuckoldresses and the men who serve them.

Is it your responsibility to make your wife cum from oral and later masturbate?

It's only about making her cum. I feel deprived because of that.
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It's only about making her cum. I'm proud I can get her off and I jerk off later.
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She wants to make sure I cum, too.
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She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by BCiym » Tue Jul 01, 2025 11:36 am

Maybe this is typical of a lot of cuckold marriages, but for many years my wife and I have had an unspoken understanding that when we have sex I go down on her until she cums and then take care of myself VERY quietly after she falls asleep or when I'm by myself the next day. A real treat for me is when she wants to tell me some details of her sex life while I masturbate. :P When we used to fuck all I thought about was not cumming too soon -- which I always did. Neither of us liked that. Do any other cuckolds have this kind of sex life with their wives?

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by Mgcouplemn » Thu Jul 10, 2025 5:20 pm

Yes, being honest I would rather masturbate after I see her orgasm. My preference is to watch her having sex with someone else while I masturbate or getting sloppy seconds when they are done in her, mostly I masturbate and love doing it.
Husband enjoys masturbating, wife enjoys giving him a good show to masturbate to, whether it's watching the wife having sex with other men or just playing with the many toys in the playroom.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by sconesy73 » Thu Jul 10, 2025 11:09 pm

BCiym wrote:
Tue Jul 01, 2025 11:36 am
Maybe this is typical of a lot of cuckold marriages, but for many years my wife and I have had an unspoken understanding that when we have sex I go down on her until she cums and then take care of myself VERY quietly after she falls asleep or when I'm by myself the next day. A real treat for me is when she wants to tell me some details of her sex life while I masturbate. :P When we used to fuck all I thought about was not cumming too soon -- which I always did. Neither of us liked that. Do any other cuckolds have this kind of sex life with their wives?
Pretty much describes my sex life!
If I'm allowed to eat her pussy, she'll want me to keep going until she's cum - sometimes twice if she holds my head in place.
After that she'll either lay on her back and talk about her latest date or some of her past experiences, or she'll lay on her side and spread her ass cheeks so I can lick her ass and masturbate..

The bold bit really strikes a chord.. I can't fuck her anymore, I can't ejaculate - but in a weird way, the sex life between myself and S is more satisfying because if I'm eating her out, all I'm thinking about is her pleasure. If I'm masturbating, all I'm thinking about is my pleasure. She gets to fuck other men- but now there's no expectations of me.
Partner of S. Here's our story 😊

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by surry » Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:19 am

YES! This is our marriage, too. Sometimes she tells me to explain to her why "Boy's do not get pussy." or explain "Why I like to fuck my hand."
Her needs and wants ALWAYS come before mine. I haven't been inside her for years. It started out not allowing me for a week, then two weeks to one month. Then three months. Then she told me I will only get to fuck her 12 times a year. I agreed to this and was excited. She had me fuck her 12 times in two weeks. After that, I had to wait a year. By that time, her Bull took over us. He claimed her for himself.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by BCiym » Fri Jul 11, 2025 3:46 am

Mgcouplemn wrote:
Thu Jul 10, 2025 5:20 pm
Yes, being honest I would rather masturbate after I see her orgasm. My preference is to watch her having sex with someone else while I masturbate or getting sloppy seconds when they are done in her, mostly I masturbate and love doing it.
I think it was Woody Allen who once said that masturbation is having sex with someone he truly loves.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by MartasBoy » Fri Jul 11, 2025 7:03 am

My wife keeps me in chastity. I am treated to time out of my chastity device once every week or two, based on how well I perform at serving her.

After I have brought her to orgasm, she gives me kisses, and then rolls over to go to sleep. She lets me spoon her from behind, and gently push my chastity cage up against her butt, which gets me turned on and usually causes me to have some dribbling, kind of like a ruined orgasm.
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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by Swe_male » Fri Jul 11, 2025 7:50 am

She cums almost every time we have sex and always before me. The last few years she also thinks it's ok that only she is getting an orgasm. For a few years ago she would feel bad if I didn't cum, but nowadays she can cum whiteout thinking of me. Yesterday she told me after she orgasmed that "before I couldn't feel real satisfied if I knew that you didn't cum, but now I feel safe that your prio is me to orgasm and that's good enough.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by NC-hotwife-hubby » Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:22 pm

For us Brenda has a live in bf so my sex with Brenda is limited to her pegging me while caged. No oral or intercourse with her.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by olive2a » Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:44 pm

BCiym wrote:
Tue Jul 01, 2025 11:36 am
Maybe this is typical of a lot of cuckold marriages, but for many years my wife and I have had an unspoken understanding that when we have sex I go down on her until she cums and then take care of myself VERY quietly after she falls asleep or when I'm by myself the next day. A real treat for me is when she wants to tell me some details of her sex life while I masturbate. :P When we used to fuck all I thought about was not cumming too soon -- which I always did. Neither of us liked that. Do any other cuckolds have this kind of sex life with their wives?
Hi,
I'm not in the same situation as you.
My partner has never cheated on me yet, but I like to lick her until she comes.
Then I usually rub myself on her leg.
A week ago, I used the 7-inch dildo to penetrate her while sucking her clitoris.
She ended up telling me that tonight she wanted that because she really needed to be fucked and stretched, more than with my small cock.
I got a really hard-on!

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by olive2a » Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:54 pm

MartasBoy wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 7:03 am
My wife keeps me in chastity. I am treated to time out of my chastity device once every week or two, based on how well I perform at serving her.

After I have brought her to orgasm, she gives me kisses, and then rolls over to go to sleep. She lets me spoon her from behind, and gently push my chastity cage up against her butt, which gets me turned on and usually causes me to have some dribbling, kind of like a ruined orgasm.
Wow, that's really hot. That's a beautiful sexual denial you deserve.
It's so nice to press myself against your wife's buttocks while she sleeps.
I'm not in chastity, but she lets me penetrate her and stay inside her while she sleeps. From time to time, I move a little and do a few back-and-forth movements.
Sometimes I manage to come inside her while she sleeps.
It's so exciting.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by MartasBoy » Fri Jul 11, 2025 6:36 pm

olive2a wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:54 pm
MartasBoy wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 7:03 am
My wife keeps me in chastity. I am treated to time out of my chastity device once every week or two, based on how well I perform at serving her.

After I have brought her to orgasm, she gives me kisses, and then rolls over to go to sleep. She lets me spoon her from behind, and gently push my chastity cage up against her butt, which gets me turned on and usually causes me to have some dribbling, kind of like a ruined orgasm.
Wow, that's really hot. That's a beautiful sexual denial you deserve.
It's so nice to press myself against your wife's buttocks while she sleeps.
I'm not in chastity, but she lets me penetrate her and stay inside her while she sleeps. From time to time, I move a little and do a few back-and-forth movements.
Sometimes I manage to come inside her while she sleeps.
It's so exciting.
Wow! That would be so heavenly to be able to have my penis inside of my wife. I I have never been able to stay inside for a while, so that would be incredible.
Sometimes, after she has been well satisfied and drifts off to sleep, I get really hard listening to her breathing deeply, in a deep and satisfied sleep. I will tug on my chastity device and get an erection that strains at my chastity cage. Often I will come just a little bit. It is never a full orgasm that I am able to have, while locked in my device. It is more like a ruined orgasm, but it is very exciting.

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by olive2a » Fri Jul 11, 2025 10:48 pm

MartasBoy wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 6:36 pm
olive2a wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:54 pm
MartasBoy wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 7:03 am
My wife keeps me in chastity. I am treated to time out of my chastity device once every week or two, based on how well I perform at serving her.

After I have brought her to orgasm, she gives me kisses, and then rolls over to go to sleep. She lets me spoon her from behind, and gently push my chastity cage up against her butt, which gets me turned on and usually causes me to have some dribbling, kind of like a ruined orgasm.
Wow, that's really hot. That's a beautiful sexual denial you deserve.
It's so nice to press myself against your wife's buttocks while she sleeps.
I'm not in chastity, but she lets me penetrate her and stay inside her while she sleeps. From time to time, I move a little and do a few back-and-forth movements.
Sometimes I manage to come inside her while she sleeps.
It's so exciting.
Wow! That would be so heavenly to be able to have my penis inside of my wife. I I have never been able to stay inside for a while, so that would be incredible.
Sometimes, after she has been well satisfied and drifts off to sleep, I get really hard listening to her breathing deeply, in a deep and satisfied sleep. I will tug on my chastity device and get an erection that strains at my chastity cage. Often I will come just a little bit. It is never a full orgasm that I am able to have, while locked in my device. It is more like a ruined orgasm, but it is very exciting.
I understand you well.
You're right not to try to have one. If your wife wants it, she'll free you from your cage so you can jerk off. I imagine you'll probably come quickly, and then, back in your cage.
Enjoy it, you're the lucky cuckold; you're the one cuddling her and sleeping next to her, with your toy cock safe

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Re: She cums and I take care of myself later. Same with you?

Unread post by Ghalilaeus » Sat Jul 12, 2025 12:14 pm

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:
Fri Jul 11, 2025 1:22 pm
For us Brenda has a live in bf so my sex with Brenda is limited to her pegging me while caged. No oral or intercourse with her.
This is Perfection.
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