Wife wants me to suck cock for the first time

[Desiplayer]

I always considered myself straight ….once wife converted me bi in experiencing mm and in our threesome….she was also turned on by seeing mm and knowing that I’m doing for her lovers ….that experiences slowly transformed and got me addicted to cocks …from there I started to experiment different things with her lovers and my own hooks up ….then I realized how im bi/gay ….wife loves it and now I can’t live without cock…

[ohtobecucked]

I can only tell you that having now gone that way myself, there’s no chance on Earth I’d give it up. I couldn’t imagine not sucking again now and getting plowed and filled is wonderful. If I had to give up cock to get pussy, I just couldn’t.

In summary: get sucking, you won’t regret it

[Dutchpride7]

A little background. We're more of a stag vixen kind of relationship. Not into humiliation or anything like that. Lately, she's wanted to see me suck cock. Not in a me being submissive way. She thinks it would be hot to watch. I guess I can understand it. The first time I saw her go down on a woman was amazing. She has a few guys she sees. Oddly, most of the guys she has seen have been pretty homophobic. Even when we were swingers, no crossing of the swords. She has discussed it with one of the guys she sees and he said he'd be ok with it.

So ..... what to expect? What was your first time like? Did you enjoy it? Did she enjoy it? Did you go over the plan ahead of time or, did you just let things happen? My wife isn't a good resource because she really enjoys it. LOL

Don’t make it complicated, jus go for if ..you will not regret it at all. Once you had your first experience you will want more and it will be addictive as well.
Also don’t be hard on yourself sucking another man if you will become bi or gay ….let the progression happen naturally. Don’t complicate putting labels if you’re into too much cock that you will become bi/gay …

Small advice ..tip..I went through huge mental stress that I became fully bi and had mm hardcore sex and that I wanted more then what I was getting with wife lovers to points ..i was needing support…wife got me to realize she wants me like this and accepts who I am…
Don’t let label complicate itself …enjoy any sex how you want it. Long as it’s safe and you’re communicating with your wife.

From.a bull perspective- I read what you wrote,jnteresting. Im going to mention & talk about a few things that I believe you can take from.
First of all Im straight and getting involved in this lifestyle has been a thrill & grreat joy. As far as hotelwifes,hubbies,Stag & Vixen,Cuck & wife. Now the biggest & most important thing to me whenever I was meeting a new couple was to make sure you are all on the same page. As far as that goes basically me fucking their wife,hubbie watching,and doing clean up! The reason why it is so very important to me to make sure that all 3 are getting there sexual desires & pleasures met in a most satisfying way..
Now if? There was ever a time when I met a couple and I went through the process and found out that the man didnt want to cross swords or do cleanup,then I myself would not even get involved with.
Its crucial for the relationships of the 3- myself,hubbie & wife to definately get their sexual desires and pleasures satisfied . That is thee ultimate & only way I get down with this lifestyle that I so appreciate.
The reason why is because it becomes a Win,Win,Win, for all involved. Not only that it is thee most enjoyed experience everytime when done in this manner & fashion. You just can feel it throughout the whole process until completion. How could iit not be?
So This is thee only way I know ;& arrange if need be. Once I get knowing a couple and hooking up regularly it just gets better and better. The friendship,unity,and bond is awesome.
Its impossible to enjoy sexual pleasures and desires if you cant do this or that which you like to do. Just have to really find and seek out those that are on tbe same page is you.
Just to feel comfortable,relaxed,and let your anibitions just flow naturally. You'll need to set the table 1st before you lavish in the meal. Might even wanna get some candles or music or both to enjoy the get together in thee most awesome,fullest & unique way!
I hope you can take somethings from this my friend. Thank- you!
( too put stipulations on this or that,well I find it very hard for all 3 to thoroughly enjoy in a righteous way when stipulations are figured in.)

[Dutchpride7]

From a bull perspective...
Well,Ive read a lot of the posts and very interesting. That is why I like this forum so much to get different perspectives on things. Some I agree with and some I dont. Tbe most important I feel & believe is what works for you.
I feel there are people that get involved and dont really understand & can be manipulated by others,which to me is not right and not tbe right way to go about iit.How could ANYONE take advantage or manipulate someone else is beyond me & not the way I would say to enjoy the lifestyle & would be totally contradicting.
Its like if you desire something and really want it,then by all means go after it conquer. But on the other hand if your not sure about iit and ask others or are told to do it! I feel you never really wanted it in the 1st place if it comes to that fruition.
I can definately say whAt works for me & a few big standards & its inevitable that by putting forth a Grand Slam guaranteed.
Ill just throw them out there
1) talk and find out what each person involved enjoys & likes ,& make sure that it works out for all 3 to get what they absolutely want met in their sexual desires & pleasure. If cannot be on the same page,,I myself would not go through with it. - That could be something like 1 likes cleanup thee other doesnt.
2) I always go about it when 1st meeting couples as more to build and want a friendship together,and definately in a respectful & honor to hubbie & his wife is crucial & key.
3) Must be patient upon 1st and inital meeting. I wont even get to that point during discussing and talking to them, theres something that I know wont allow us all 3 the benefit of enjoying our sexual pleasures & desires to thee absolute fullest.
And usually the 1st initial meetimg is a discussion between both or 1 of them. I mean its hard to get aroused sexually if there is no attraction there? Right C'mon.....
4) By ironing out everything makes a Win,Win ,Win situation.
I can guarantee by doing a few things beforehand makes the meeting sooooo much better. Just that your relaxed,comfortable,opens yourself to being able to let your nAtural innibitions go! And when the 3 of you are all on that same page and innibitions are in play and action just let it flow naturally because it will anyway & the 3 will be in for a most rewarding feeling. Its like being on cloud nine and the vibe is there & all good too!
Ive enjoyed and appreciated every exper ience Ive had.only because I have that certain way I go about it to make sure it is that way.
I think about being with a hotwife and hubbie that knowing already the get down turns me on bigtime. Hubbie wanting and appreciating me for pleasing and keeping his wife sexually happy and knowing when I orgasm & nut so fucking good that hubbiie gets to enjoy his cleanup and starts on me 1st just licking on my nuts and making good draining my nuts completely of all nut nectar and that feeling of licking on my balls after nutting & pulling out just is heavenly,my hot rod has wifies hot wett pussy juices all over that hubbie gets cleaned up so fucking good. When someone is doing something to me as far as cleanup and hes so very much loves and appreciates it just as much as I do! That is a pretty emotional and great bond to have with the hubbie,and the bond with hubbies wife being able to creampie her or just pump my hot nut nectar into her hot twat that feels so good her hot juices wrapped around my hard cock That is the ultimate in satisfaction for all 3. And when its all said and don⁹e just the vibe & feeling amongst the 3 of you,you just know & can feel it from.head to toe. That feelimg of walking on air & clouds. Eventually hubbbie and wife togerher after hubbies done cleaning me up to sarinate with his wife and the 2 of them to enjoy each other and the cleanup,Wow!
Just thinkin about all that ,Im leakin.
Alright then,I appreciate to share with ones I have a great friendship with .

[John Ryan]

I always considered myself straight ….once wife converted me bi in experiencing mm and in our threesome….she was also turned on by seeing mm and knowing that I’m doing for her lovers ….that experiences slowly transformed and got me addicted to cocks …from there I started to experiment different things with her lovers and my own hooks up ….then I realized how im bi/gay ….wife loves it and now I can’t live without cock…

You crossed the Rubicon. My ex did it to me. We met at UMASS. She was bisexual. We had many MFF during that time. Ultimately we added a bisexual male she knew well. One thing led to another. The beginning of a new path for us. She really got off on watching which was such a turn on. Much like me watching her muff diving on another woman's pussy.

[bighelmet]

I always considered myself straight ….once wife converted me bi in experiencing mm and in our threesome….she was also turned on by seeing mm and knowing that I’m doing for her lovers ….that experiences slowly transformed and got me addicted to cocks …from there I started to experiment different things with her lovers and my own hooks up ….then I realized how im bi/gay ….wife loves it and now I can’t live without cock…

You crossed the Rubicon. My ex did it to me. We met at UMASS. She was bisexual. We had many MFF during that time. Ultimately we added a bisexual male she knew well. One thing led to another. The beginning of a new path for us. She really got off on watching which was such a turn on. Much like me watching her muff diving on another woman's pussy.

that sounds pretty freaking hot to be honest...

[SensualDeviant]

I agree with brutay2. Never have and never will, even under duress. There is no non-submissive way for a man to suck a cock. I recommend that you don't surrender your man card just to give your wife a cheap thrill. If she can't live with that, then, perhaps she is not qualified to live with you.

A voice of reason in a sea of madness.

[wannabecUKold]

I am on a different page from tap and sensual deviant. I have sucked and been sucked from an early age, not as part of some heavy gay scene but just as fun sexual enjoyment. You don’t have to be into submission to do it and enjoy it. It’s fun to give sexual pleasure. It’s nice to know that he is getting aroused by what you’re doing. It’s great to feel his cock rising to ejaculate in your mouth.
It’s good to touch and have sex with another man without those hetero hangups that may hold you back. Sex is a joy. Your own half of the human race is going to enjoy it much the same way as you do.

[John Ryan]

I always considered myself straight ….once wife converted me bi in experiencing mm and in our threesome….she was also turned on by seeing mm and knowing that I’m doing for her lovers ….that experiences slowly transformed and got me addicted to cocks …from there I started to experiment different things with her lovers and my own hooks up ….then I realized how im bi/gay ….wife loves it and now I can’t live without cock…

You crossed the Rubicon. My ex did it to me. We met at UMASS. She was bisexual. We had many MFF during that time. Ultimately we added a bisexual male she knew well. One thing led to another. The beginning of a new path for us. She really got off on watching which was such a turn on. Much like me watching her muff diving on another woman's pussy.

that sounds pretty freaking hot to be honest..

It was. Try it if you haven't

[bradisalpha]

I agree with brutay2. Never have and never will, even under duress. There is no non-submissive way for a man to suck a cock. I recommend that you don't surrender your man card just to give your wife a cheap thrill. If she can't live with that, then, perhaps she is not qualified to live with you.

Tap,

I am not sure how hard and long you will be able to stick to that comment !! I believe you have not yet been in a situation where you have felt the strong feelings to participate in the excitement your wife and her boyfriend are experiencing. Once you are in that situation, a small suggestion can begin taking you down the path others have experienced in this thread. They weren’t under duress.. they were just so fucking turned on that sucking a cock was simply a way to join in the excitement !! I don’t believe that is something anyone can convince you of.. or even describe the intensity of being in that situation. It is something you will have to experience for yourself.

Although many will disagree with this, I agree with you that “there is no non-submissive way for a man to suck a cock”. But it is controversial how you are looking at it or understanding it in your mind. But then, I also agree that there is no non-submissive way to let another man fuck your wife while you watch them !! It is how, in my mind, that I distinguish between Alpha and submissive. There is nothing wrong with that.. simply my observation.

Many say they will never suck a cock.. and many say they are not submissive.. but read and re-read the posts in this thread and draw your own conclusions. There sure are a lot of happy cuckolds.. and I, for one, am a happy Alpha BF.

Just sayin…..

Brad

[annsman]

We won’t do anything that we are uncomfortable with no matter how much the other is turned on by the thought of it.
I love licking and sucking her boyfriend’s cum out of her, but wouldn’t suck him. Sucking it out of her is about us, but sucking him is me and him not me with her.