Absolutely not is no longer her response....

[kelfer]

For years (decades) I've made it known that I wanted to be cucked. I've told her that she has total sexual freedom if she ever wants to fuck someone. She has always maintained it's of no interest to her and sarcastically dismissed my assurances of sexual freedom with "I know I do".

About a month ago I threw out the idea of listening to a podcast episode about a cuckolding couple and I was shocked when she said "sure". We wound up listening to two episodes: one was a cuckold interview and the other was a cuckoldress interview. Both were newbies and the slant was 'how did the wife wind up going from absolutely not to fucking other men?

I asked my wife what she found most interesting about the episodes, what she likes about the idea of cuckolding and what made her nervous. Here were her answers:

Liked:
I liked how they showed the progression of going from 'never' to the point of actually doing it
I liked how the wife was in control and felt sexy
I liked how the husband seemed to be really happy even when he was talking about the times he actually watched

Excites her:
If we ever did it, it means that she'd managed to progress from 'never' to actually doing it and that it would please me
It would mean that she'd dealt with all the mental hangups that originally prevented her from doing it
The actual pleasure from the act itself is exciting to think about

Nervous about:
Getting too crazy/excited in the moment and doing something she'd regret
Things getting too out of control (I didn't fully understand her concern here)
People finding out about it

I shared with her my thoughts under the same headings, mentioned that I loved hearing about the women being in total control on the podcasts, loved the idea of her cumming hard on another mans cock, and the thought of cleaning up after; told her my fears are that I pressure her too much on this journey, that she winds up doing it just to try to please me, and the possibility that I don't actually like it if/when it ever happens.

Long post, but I had to share. I honestly thought the idea was dead in the water. I'd love to know why she's agreeing to listen to podcasts and discuss the idea but I'm treading VERY softly - I've managed to fuck it up many times in the past by pressuring so taking it very easy now. Wondering if any cucks on here have similar progression stories and would love to hear suggested next steps....

[milehinbi]

Congrats. You are past the first couple of sign posts on the highway, telling her about your desire and getting her to dip a toe in the water. Good luck.

[walter2000uk]

Once a previously reluctant wife tries cuckolding and finds she had wonderfully better orgasms with another man,
then she will probably take to it like a duck to water.
My wife , Lily, was a naive faithful wife for the first 15 years of our marriage,
but when another man persuaded her to let him fuck her she was hooked on sex with other men from then onwards.

We sent Lily's photographs by email to many readers who requested the photographs
and hopefully they did read all her sexual adventures,
and it would be a help us if they leave comment on our stories
so as to bring our thread back to to life at the Page 1 of Cuckold Forum,
so that more will read and comment about Lily too
Also we hope they will tell us any comments they would like to make
about Lily being a Hotwife, a slut, and sometimes a prostitute even!
Sincerely, wimp hubby walter and Hotwife Lily xxxx

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My Wife Lily, From Naïve Wife to Whore and Then Hotwife, with cuckold hubby Walter.

kelfer , do please get in touch if you would like our help and experiences in having your wife become a Hotwife for you!

walter2000uk@yahoo.co.uk

[milf9902]

First off, congrats on moving the ball closer to the goal. The best part was that you asked her open ended questions that she had to give more in depth answers to. This forced her to actually think about it vs. just a snap judgement. It sounds like you two are on your way. To address her concerns/anxieties, first ask her to explain further her concerns about things getting too out of control. You need to fully understand her anxieties to properly address them. A solid set of agreed upon rules will usually help most women alleviate most of their concerns. For instance, worrying about others finding out is probably the #1 concern most women have. This is easily addressed by agreeing to only strangers, or only on vacation, etc. Things getting out of control of her getting too excited in the moment could be addressed by agreeing that you will be present and certain boundaries be set up such as no kissing. Good luck on getting her to agree!

[ohtobecucked]

Congrats - big first step! I agree with the others, when it finally happens and she hopefully finds the right guy that she can really enjoy herself with and can be a genuine partner to her, she’ll realise how happy it has made her and things will fall into place much easier.

Vacations with her boyfriend (or you going away for a few days to leave them to it) will help these types of situations to develop.

Enjoy and good luck!

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

The seed has been planted. Just water and it will grow.

[Trevose]

Congratulations. I wish you well on your journey.

[wannabecUKold]

Congrats on a great start. Now to work out how to take it forward. Work up some plans and then chat with her.

[njcouple]

Keep us posted on progress you and your wife make