Wife becoming like a mother

[DominantWidower]

Hi everyone. Has your relationship evolved into a sort of mother/son relationship? Mother/daughter if the husband has been sissified. Maybe you lived through an experience that was a bit much for you at some point: like the first time you saw your wife with another man, or being humiliated by her bull (you or her), et cetera. And she consoled you after, like a mother would with a child.

[ucaneffher]

I find it that for me it was the other way around when I was active in the lifestyle. The girlfriend took more of a daughter role. I say this in the sense that she had boyfriends who would come pick her up and I found myself telling her to be careful, have fun, let me know if she wasn't going to make it back on time/spending the night.

Many times she'd come to me for relationship advice with other men. When she finally found a boyfriend that she really liked and fell in love with, it was a bittersweet feeling where I gave her my blessing to be with him, almost as a parent approving of their daughter's choice for a partner.

[DominantWidower]

I find it that for me it was the other way around when I was active in the lifestyle. The girlfriend took more of a daughter role. I say this in the sense that she had boyfriends who would come pick her up and I found myself telling her to be careful, have fun, let me know if she wasn't going to make it back on time/spending the night.

Many times she'd come to me for relationship advice with other men. When she finally found a boyfriend that she really liked and fell in love with, it was a bittersweet feeling where I gave her my blessing to be with him, almost as a parent approving of their daughter's choice for a partner.

Ok, interesting, thank you for sharing! It's sweet, really. I've seen comments about couples not really being a couple anymore, when the wife humiliates the husband for example (not your case, I know). There are all kinds of new relationships that form in this lifestyle, in my opinion. So whether it be the couple becoming more friends than lovers (but share everything), becoming a loving mother/son relationship: or in your case, father/daughter. All good

[Jujube]

I can see how wives can become more motherly with their cuckold husbands, soothing them when things get too much for them. Many times I’ve heard cucks that feel like “girlfriends” with their wives, sharing everything and conspiring in ways to deepen their cuckolding dynamics.

[DominantWidower]

I can see how wives can become more motherly with their cuckold husbands, soothing them when things get too much for them. Many times I’ve heard cucks that feel like “girlfriends” with their wives, sharing everything and conspiring in ways to deepen their cuckolding dynamics.

[parklife]

I fall on the spectrum of Hotwife to cuckold, so not entirely sure where I fit but u do know that my wife would have none of that… she doesn’t want to mother me in any way shape or form and it would be a complete turn off for her. She owns her sexuality and makes all decisions regarding who, what, where, when (including with me) but would hate needing to mother me or daughter me for that matter. We coexist as equal partners with the exception of our one sided open relationship.

That’s not to say she hasn’t reassured me or early on we didn’t have difficult times and lean on one another. I’ve consoled her during breakups with FWB relationships and she has reassured me after telling me that I’m lucky she met me before one of her FWB or it’s likely she would have married him first. But never have we veered into the space you’re describing.

[DominantWidower]

I fall on the spectrum of Hotwife to cuckold, so not entirely sure where I fit but u do know that my wife would have none of that… she doesn’t want to mother me in any way shape or form and it would be a complete turn off for her. She owns her sexuality and makes all decisions regarding who, what, where, when (including with me) but would hate needing to mother me or daughter me for that matter. We coexist as equal partners with the exception of our one sided open relationship.

That’s not to say she hasn’t reassured me or early on we didn’t have difficult times and lean on one another. I’ve consoled her during breakups with FWB relationships and she has reassured me after telling me that I’m lucky she met me before one of her FWB or it’s likely she would have married him first. But never have we veered into the space you’re describing.

Thank you for sharing.

[DominantWidower]

No one is really answering my question. I'm asking in an erotic way. I read here recently about a cuck who has his own little boy bedroom for example. I guess it's a lot to admit, I shouldn't have posted this topic.

[parklife]

No one is really answering my question. I'm asking in an erotic way. I read here recently about a cuck who has his own little boy bedroom for example. I guess it's a lot to admit, I shouldn't have posted this topic.

No, no, no… let your freak flag fly!! By all means, don’t take some responses as a deterrent. The fact you aren’t getting the responses you want (yet) should in no way discourage your posting. Give it some time…. I can think of a few members that could fit this mold but many are less active than they used to be.

All Replies are great because they show a topic is active and hopefully reaches people apt to respond more in ways you’re looking for.

[Jujube]

I think what you’re describing is a sissy cuckold relationship. I’ve read situations where the cuck gets so discombobulated witnessing his wife lost to an alpha male that they begin to cry. Their inadequacies plus his wife being taken just becomes too much for him. His wife knows just what to do.. comfort him and point out that this is the way it should be. A comforting but teasing handjob to completion goes a long way in cementing this in her little cucks mind. This strengthens the wife’s leadership in the relationship, and once her cuck surrenders to that, he will relax more and not need so much constant pampering, which can be annoying.

[DominantWidower]

No one is really answering my question. I'm asking in an erotic way. I read here recently about a cuck who has his own little boy bedroom for example. I guess it's a lot to admit, I shouldn't have posted this topic.

No, no, no… let your freak flag fly!! By all means, don’t take some responses as a deterrent. The fact you aren’t getting the responses you want (yet) should in no way discourage your posting. Give it some time…. I can think of a few members that could fit this mold but many are less active than they used to be.

All Replies are great because they show a topic is active and hopefully reaches people apt to respond more in ways you’re looking for.

Cool, thanks a lot!

[DominantWidower]

I think what you’re describing is a sissy cuckold relationship. I’ve read situations where the cuck gets so discombobulated witnessing his wife lost to an alpha male that they begin to cry. Their inadequacies plus his wife being taken just becomes too much for him. His wife knows just what to do.. comfort him and point out that this is the way it should be. A comforting but teasing handjob to completion goes a long way in cementing this in her little cucks mind. This strengthens the wife’s leadership in the relationship, and once her cuck surrenders to that, he will relax more and not need so much constant pampering, which can be annoying.

Thanks for your input. And yes, something very much like that: with every experience being different and interesting. Hope to read some stories.

[CTHotwifeHusband]

I think what you’re describing is a sissy cuckold relationship. I’ve read situations where the cuck gets so discombobulated witnessing his wife lost to an alpha male that they begin to cry. Their inadequacies plus his wife being taken just becomes too much for him. His wife knows just what to do.. comfort him and point out that this is the way it should be. A comforting but teasing handjob to completion goes a long way in cementing this in her little cucks mind. This strengthens the wife’s leadership in the relationship, and once her cuck surrenders to that, he will relax more and not need so much constant pampering, which can be annoying.

Very much my experience (as a sissy cuckold), including the crying (which came as a relief). My wife is more and more a "Dommy Mommy," although that is a dynamic we only explore (or rather in which she indulges me) when we are alone. As Jujube points out, it really helps when the (dominant) wife reminds her (sissy) cuck that this is the way it should be, and that it is better that way. Then all the sissy cuck has to do is agree and obey (assuming the requisite level of trust is already in place). It's comforting to be told.

[DominantWidower]

I think what you’re describing is a sissy cuckold relationship. I’ve read situations where the cuck gets so discombobulated witnessing his wife lost to an alpha male that they begin to cry. Their inadequacies plus his wife being taken just becomes too much for him. His wife knows just what to do.. comfort him and point out that this is the way it should be. A comforting but teasing handjob to completion goes a long way in cementing this in her little cucks mind. This strengthens the wife’s leadership in the relationship, and once her cuck surrenders to that, he will relax more and not need so much constant pampering, which can be annoying.

Very much my experience (as a sissy cuckold), including the crying (which came as a relief). My wife is more and more a "Dommy Mommy," although that is a dynamic we only explore (or rather in which she indulges me) when we are alone. As Jujube points out, it really helps when the (dominant) wife reminds her (sissy) cuck that this is the way it should be, and that it is better that way. Then all the sissy cuck has to do is agree and obey (assuming the requisite level of trust is already in place). It's comforting to be told.

Wow, thank you for this great insight in your relationship! It's quite erotic.

[Jujube]

I agree with CT, the cuck has to trust his wife in this important part of his sexuality. Once he recognizes and accepts that he is an inadequate sissy, she can treat him as such while she enjoys real sex with real men.She must impress that he can trust her as she and her lovers expose his more feminine side. The little humiliations are what he lives for while his wife treats him like her little boy. The possibilities are endless as he goes down his cucky rabbit hole.

[CTHotwifeHusband]

Yes (thanks Jujube--you clearly know a few things about sissy cucks!) ... if the sissy cuck can trust his / her dominant wife in this way, and if she enjoys emasculating him / her in this way, there are so many possibilities (ie erotic humiliations abounding). In my / our case, my wife's directions and reminders have really allowed me to accept / embrace my sexual inadequacy (under one heading) and to explore and expand the ways I can be of service to her and serve her (under another).

It's true: I love and live for the innumerable forms of humiliation. (As another cuckold has remarked in one thread or another here, the cuckold's "superpower" might be the ability to transform humiliation into pleasure and peace.)

[Marksmall5]

I find it that for me it was the other way around when I was active in the lifestyle. The girlfriend took more of a daughter role. I say this in the sense that she had boyfriends who would come pick her up and I found myself telling her to be careful, have fun, let me know if she wasn't going to make it back on time/spending the night.

Many times she'd come to me for relationship advice with other men. When she finally found a boyfriend that she really liked and fell in love with, it was a bittersweet feeling where I gave her my blessing to be with him, almost as a parent approving of their daughter's choice for a partner.

That is the feeling here and how it should be.

[ucaneffher]

I find it that for me it was the other way around when I was active in the lifestyle. The girlfriend took more of a daughter role. I say this in the sense that she had boyfriends who would come pick her up and I found myself telling her to be careful, have fun, let me know if she wasn't going to make it back on time/spending the night.

Many times she'd come to me for relationship advice with other men. When she finally found a boyfriend that she really liked and fell in love with, it was a bittersweet feeling where I gave her my blessing to be with him, almost as a parent approving of their daughter's choice for a partner.

That is the feeling here and how it should be.

Missed a few other details reasons that made it feel that way..

-I would Drop her off /pick her up from her dates which felt be like a parent dropping off/picking up their teenaged daughter who recently started dating.

-Many of her "supplies" and outfits I got for her so that she could be prepared for her dates. This meant that like a parent, I'd buy her cute sexy dresses, underwear/bras, the sexy high heels that she asked for, along with few other items. Nor to mention financing her hair and nails.

Imagine the chicks who have daughters. I know one day I'll probably open the door on a Friday evening for a young man to pick up my daughter for a date and not even 39 minutes later I'll find myself opening the door and it'll be my wife's boyfriend picking her up for a date. The difference is that the daughter will come home while the wife might spend the night with the boyfriend.

[ucaneffher]

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