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[athlete915]

Can you elaborate on what those boxes are?

Wife here. Here are my answers to what boxes are a must be checked:
1) Attraction IS number 1
-handsome
-sexy
-masculine
-physically fit
-I take care of my self and I expect the same
2) Intelligent
3) Commonalities
4) Professional
5) Respectful
6) Someone that makes me feel safe
7) A sense of humor
8) Discreet
9) BBC

Am I greedy?
The stars really did align for me...

My short version of this is that looks will get you in the door. Personality will let you stay. Sexual ability will get you in invited back.

[athlete915]

Can you elaborate on what those boxes are?

Wife here. Here are my answers to what boxes are a must be checked:
1) Attraction IS number 1
-handsome
-sexy
-masculine
-physically fit
-I take care of my self and I expect the same
2) Intelligent
3) Commonalities
4) Professional
5) Respectful
6) Someone that makes me feel safe
7) A sense of humor
8) Discreet
9) BBC

Am I greedy?
The stars really did align for me...

My short version of this is that looks will get you in the door. Personality will let you stay. Sexual ability will get you in invited back.

[funfortwo]

Can you elaborate on what those boxes are?

Wife here. Here are my answers to what boxes are a must be checked:
1) Attraction IS number 1
-handsome
-sexy
-masculine
-physically fit
-I take care of my self and I expect the same
2) Intelligent
3) Commonalities
4) Professional
5) Respectful
6) Someone that makes me feel safe
7) A sense of humor
8) Discreet
9) BBC

Am I greedy?
The stars really did align for me...

My short version of this is that looks will get you in the door. Personality will let you stay. Sexual ability will get you in invited back.

Athlete, I can only speak for myself, but I believe my wife would echo that sentiment! Great insight!

[funfortwo]

Well, I haven't posted here for a while as life just gets in the way. Nonetheless, L has still been seeing her BF J and recently had a date with him to celebrate his birthday, and make sure he leaves smiling. The actual date was arranged and L mentioned that it was his birthday earlier in the month. She asked me if she should do something different and have a surprise party for him in the room. She has been trying to "change it up" with him recently but time/life/work seems to get in the way and limits their dates to every 4-5 weeks. So off she went, planning and figuring out what she should do for him. She bought him a nice lululemon sweatshirt and planned a "picnic" in the room with wine, candles, music, chocolate cake (she said chocolate was her favorite) balloons and a lunch that she had me go out and buy before heading to the hotel. In addition, she spent the week doing her hair, lashes, teeth whitening, tanning and shaving herself bald. Everything was set up, well almost everything. About 4-5 days out, she walked into the closet and retrieved the chastity cage and instructed me to put it on. Once it was on, she commented "there you go little guy, all locked up." Once locked up, she proceeded to model various lingerie items while trying to decide which one she felt most comfortable in, and which one he would like the most. She decided on a lacy bodystocking with 4" thigh high patent leather boots since she wore it a while ago and commented he thought it was his favorite. She finished up with clothing to wear to the hotel that accentuated her exceptional cleavage to tempt him if the room wasn't ready upon arrival. During the week, she really upped her game with the teasing telling me that I wasn't allowed to touch her as she was saving herself for her BF.

I ended up driving her to the hotel and assisted her in the setup of the room (it was ready for early check in) and during that time L mentioned that it was weird, but exciting, that I was helping her set up for her date. I left the hotel and while driving home, she sent me a picture of her in her outfit while she awaited the arrival of J. When I returned, she answered the door, with that freshly fucked, yet satisfied look while holding a glass of wine. She wanted to talk about the date and tell me how it went before she unlocked me. She wanted to tell me about how she mentioned to him that this dynamic involved all three of us, and I allow it to happen. Additionally, she wanted him to know that I enjoy the aspect of her having a BF on the side that gives her amazing sex. J is somewhat vanilla and has never discussed much in that regard and listened intently. She inquired if he had any questions about the dynamic and we're an open book. He basically replied that "if I'm (me) good with it, and she's good with it, then I'm (J) good with it." Lisa and J aren't comfortable with me being present, but she provides me with enough details that I'm good with the arrangement.

After a brief discussion, J pushed her onto the couch and proceeded to go down on her. She said that he was doing an excellent job with his tongue and lips and inserted two fingers into her pussy which caused her to have an orgasm. It' exciting and interesting that she could never orgasm receiving oral pleasure in the past, but now she has great orgasms with him. Once she came down from her orgasm, she stripped off his pants and immediately began sucking his huge cock. He has told her in the past that his biggest fantasy is "deep throating" and she has been watching videos on how to do it (his dick is about 9" and she struggles with it). She proceeded to suck his cock; while attempting to deep throat him and he moved her into position on the couch and began to press his dick into her soaking wet pussy. Once inside, he moved her legs over her head and began slow strokes while kissing her deeply. L felt another orgasm coming and wrapped her legs around his waist while pulling his ass into her ensuring his cock was buried deep inside of her. He began thrusting into her faster and he began to come when she had another orgasm at the same time. L immediately pushed him on the couch, on his back, and climbed on top to get another orgasm in her favorite position. She rode him to her third orgasm and they collapsed on the couch. She retrieved a warm towel, cleaned him up and they had lunch together. Much was discussed over the next hour while they caught up on each other's lives. She somewhat pressed for an extended date, if not a sleepover, for her birthday in May but he is unable to commit due to work obligations. That said, she insisted that her birthday that she is going to get what she wants.

They soon realized that they were pressed for time and he sat on the couch and called her over. She stood up and told him, "I booked this suite and I intend on using every room in it!" She walked him into the bedroom and informed him that she brought her favorite toy, "the flower." Normally L cannot orgasm while in doggy style, but it's J's favorite position. She climbed on the bed, propped a pillow under her abdomen and grabbed her flower to use on her clit. J climbed on the bed and slid his big dick into her while thrusting slowly. She asked him if he could feel the flower on his dick and he stated that "I can on the underside." He sat up a bit on his knees and she inquired "what are you doing?" His response that he was enjoying the view of her ass while he proceeded to fuck her with quick thrusts. L started to feel the orgasm coming and did something she has NEVER done before. She told him to "fuck me with your Big Black Cock, and I love your Big Black Cock, and take my pussy, give me what I want." Well J didn't last much longer and came deep inside her wet pussy. L admitted later that she played her hand too fast and didn't get to orgasm, so she took matters into her own hands and climbed on top of him and rode him to her fourth orgasm. J went to shower while L teased him and washed his back. She joked that "I'm going to get my sleepover one way or the other" but he just told her "she's crazy." They had a goodbye kiss and he was on his way.

L called me and told me to head over so I can reclaim "what's mine." I arrived and she relayed the story to me while admitting that it's getting easier, or less weird, to tell me the sexual details of their date. She then told me to get on the bed and lie on my back. Once there, she sat on my face and told me to clean up her dirty pussy with my tongue. I was in heaven while she retrieved the key and unlocked me and began to deep throat my cock (it's easier to deep throat 6" vs 9" in her words). I was ready to climax and she said, I want to ride you to another orgasm, while telling me that she "loves my cock too, and really loves having two men cum inside of her in a few hours!" Well that did it for me, I came a TON with a huge orgasm. I told her IMO, this was the best date with the buildup, teasing, birthday etc. We went to dinner, came back to the room and put on music videos while dancing naked like young adults. She started to dance on my lap and I ended up getting hard again (almost NEVER happens). She pulled out a massage gun and began rubbing it on my dick and asking me if I was turned on because "I have a BF with a huge cock that I love to fuck?" She also told me her favorite details of her date and I knew I was going to cum soon. She stopped the massage gun, climbed on me and rode me to her 5th orgasm of the day. I rolled her over and began to thrust into her with abandon while she told me to fuck her stretched out pussy, and to take your pussy back from her BF. I came soon thereafter while L succumbed to her 6th orgasm.

Such a great night and amazing journey we've been on. I wouldn't say everything is "picture perfect" as L would like a bit more of a connection with J and be able to do something outside of a hotel bedroom (or lobby bar) for an extended period of time. She doesn't want a "romantic" connection but does need a "connection" with him that's similar to a good FWB type arrangement. She enjoys being in public (hasn't happened much) with him, as people tend to wonder what their relationship is with the PDAs etc. I never thought this would be happening in excess of 2 years, but here we are. Lots of upside, and minimal downside for us....just enjoying the journey.

[hornedhubby]

That's great, funfortwo. Outstanding telling of a perfect hotwife, stud and cuck hook up.

Delighted to know you are having such fun.

Best wishes and thanks for sharing.

[elina]

Thank you for sharing FunforTwo

It really is a pity that your Wonderful Wife is not able to meet more frequently with Her Boyfriend.
She really does deserve that.

Also very glad to see that She is getting more comfortable with threathing you like a proper cuck expected to do Her bidding.

Sincerely
elina

[funfortwo]

Thank you for sharing FunforTwo

It really is a pity that your Wonderful Wife is not able to meet more frequently with Her Boyfriend.
She really does deserve that.

Also very glad to see that She is getting more comfortable with threathing you like a proper cuck expected to do Her bidding.

Sincerely
elina

Hi Elina,
Thanks for your reply. When we started in the LS, emotionally it was difficult for me as I constantly worried about her/him catching feelings. As we progressed, I'm not really concerned because we communicate so well and understand that a "connection" is essential for her to have fun (and great sex). I also feel confident in our relationship after we've built a life together, still love each other deeply and we consider ourselves each other's best friend. Logistically, and somewhat financially, it's difficult to manage our work schedules, family obligations and hotel reservations. Additionally, J has a long-term GF (sexless according to him) that he works his schedule around. About a year ago, we were empty nesters (temporarily anyway) and we offered J the opportunity to come to our house to play, but he declined stating that it was uncomfortable for him. I've asked L if she wanted to use a LS site to find another bull, but she advised that although J has a lot of obligations, she enjoys his company, thinks he's hot and doesn't want to meet anyone else "right now." Optimally, J would be a bit more engaging with both of us. She has had a couple of conversations with J and told him she enjoys the mental buildup prior to a date. She truly loves engaging in sexting with him and she told him that when he does provide a mental image of his thoughts about her, "she fucks him better." I guess her mental stimulation, prior to a date, is just as important as my teasing which provides the angst we both seek. I will admit, this last date, J stepped up his game and really engaged with the sexting which led to her sending him some pictures to provide a visual aspect to the mental side. His efforts, and L's efforts with me (and him), eventually led to our best date yet.

Optimally, I would love it if he engaged more with both of us thereby providing a better mental build up while L taps into my cuckold side. I think that would establish a level wherein she engages with both of us, he engages with both of us and I engage with mostly L, but somewhat with him. Also, it would be great if we had the ability to meet more frequently without any of the other life obligations. A few months ago, J told L, that he was going to be in the area and asked her if she could meet for coffee or maybe a drink and appetizers. She told me he was in the vicinity for about an hour and told me she wanted to meet him for a short time. She also admitted that she would "probably" finding a remote parking lot and would blow him and swallow his "chocolate cream." . Totally HOT BTW, but unfortunately, he couldn't coordinate with his busy schedule, but her eagerness was very obvious. So, in that regard, I think that if they could meet more frequently, we all would enjoy that aspect. But for now, we enjoy what we have and work toward improvements such as frequency, sexting and a bit of the cuck dynamic.

[boobman987]

Great updates Funfortwo. From the last update it seems as if J is thinking about making more time for L. If the diaries coincide then you’re in for some great times, even if you are caged. The release is getting more arousing for L and you.
Fingers crossed that things continue to progress!