Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!

[leander99]

Wow, lots of exciting developments

[M von C]

So interesting. The desire to be erased and replaced.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum M von c.

[Carlbiinchicago]

This is really neat. Really need to take my time and read the whole thread

[ohtobecucked]

Hi all, sorry for the enormous gap between updates... hard to get too involved with hospital visits!

My wife is still with her 'boyfriend' from work, although the one big development is that he told her that he has feelings for her and wanted her to start staying with him more days a week. My wife seems to be up for it, no question there but I don't know if she maybe feels a sense of guilt if she were to stay over for, say, a week.

For my part,I'm just along for the ride! I've told them to discuss all this themselves and then we'll see what happens after.

Must admit, the idea is a HUGE turn on!

If you told me a year ago that my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time - I’d have been on cloud 9

[Long Lurker 34]

Hi all, sorry for the enormous gap between updates... hard to get too involved with hospital visits!

My wife is still with her 'boyfriend' from work, although the one big development is that he told her that he has feelings for her and wanted her to start staying with him more days a week. My wife seems to be up for it, no question there but I don't know if she maybe feels a sense of guilt if she were to stay over for, say, a week.

For my part,I'm just along for the ride! I've told them to discuss all this themselves and then we'll see what happens after.

Must admit, the idea is a HUGE turn on!

If you told me a year ago that my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time - I’d have been on cloud 9

OTBC - my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time
- It will be interesting to see if she starts to change her makeup, clothing, hair and other things in ways that are more to her BF's liking.

[ohtobecucked]

Hi all, sorry for the enormous gap between updates... hard to get too involved with hospital visits!

My wife is still with her 'boyfriend' from work, although the one big development is that he told her that he has feelings for her and wanted her to start staying with him more days a week. My wife seems to be up for it, no question there but I don't know if she maybe feels a sense of guilt if she were to stay over for, say, a week.

For my part,I'm just along for the ride! I've told them to discuss all this themselves and then we'll see what happens after.

Must admit, the idea is a HUGE turn on!

If you told me a year ago that my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time - I’d have been on cloud 9

OTBC - my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time
- It will be interesting to see if she starts to change her makeup, clothing, hair and other things in ways that are more to her BF's liking.

I’d not even thought of this, my god, I hope it happens.

Do you think she’ll eventually leaves you once he really changes her for his own tastes?? It’s something I’ve always thought about but never thought I’d get close… but now…

[Long Lurker 34]

Hi all, sorry for the enormous gap between updates... hard to get too involved with hospital visits!

My wife is still with her 'boyfriend' from work, although the one big development is that he told her that he has feelings for her and wanted her to start staying with him more days a week. My wife seems to be up for it, no question there but I don't know if she maybe feels a sense of guilt if she were to stay over for, say, a week.

For my part,I'm just along for the ride! I've told them to discuss all this themselves and then we'll see what happens after.

Must admit, the idea is a HUGE turn on!

If you told me a year ago that my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time - I’d have been on cloud 9

OTBC - my wife has a boyfriend and they’re planning on basically living together, even if it is part-time
- It will be interesting to see if she starts to change her makeup, clothing, hair and other things in ways that are more to her BF's liking.

I’d not even thought of this, my god, I hope it happens.

Do you think she’ll eventually leaves you once he really changes her for his own tastes??

OTBC
- You might notice a few subtle changes and you can always compliment her on and ask if he (BF) likes them and encourage her to embrace his suggestions.
- As for leaving, that's tough. If you and her are really solid and she 'gets' that the extramarital is a fun thing, then no. And this stage it might be all NRE and fizzle out or just calm down after awhile once the 'shine' has worn off.
- Do they date publicly?

[ohtobecucked]

Yeah, sorry I got a bit overhyped before!! I don’t want her to leave me, we’ve been married and together for a LONG time now (don’t tell her I said it like that, please ) and it took long enough (11 years as it says in the title) just to get here now.

But as the ultimate cuck idea / action? It’s such a turn on!

They work together so being ‘sociable’ and doing lunch (etc) gives them more scope to spend days together without it being a total nightmare if they got spotted.

I’ve no idea what they have or haven’t done in the time it has been going on. Obvs I know details of the sex and stuff like that, but the day to day??? Not so much.

Just a very interesting development from my point and one I didn’t expect so soon as well.

[ohtobecucked]

Had a chance to sit and discuss this a bit more while we're by ourselves. My wife has worked away often enough that 'hiding' things here won't be an issue, but we do think that it's something that will need time to not just seem weird to those around us (who for now at least it, we don't wish to share it with). Both of us are happy to try and increase the time she can spend there but not 'fix' it to an amount - and hopefully this will increase at times when we've not got others to think about.

My wife genuinely seems happy in how quickly she has settled with her BF. I'm happy for her. I knew this was worth pursuing and there's nothing to stop the living / sleeping arrangements evolving over time, which I think we are both happy with.

Let's see how things go...