It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[airhorn]

Btw did she ever have anal sex with you? Might be only some time before a guy like superman will ask for that. Especially since that might be the only way how he could get his massive dick fully into her.

She's never had anal before ever. I don't think she really wants to either. But there I go again, making presumptions. And we know how that goes.

It's not uncommon that 'the other guy' is the first... especially if he is pushing her buttons as well and as thoroughly as this guy seems to be.

For that matter, you might want to start thinking about it. Not saying that she'll do it, but you know that he revels in the idea that he's reaching places you can't, and I can understand that when he learns that there's some place you've never been there's a pretty good chance he'll want you to know that he has.

She's already got you cleaning his come from her pussy. Imagine how it'll feel when she gets home from a visit to his place and warns that you might not want to clean up this time...

[Aureus]

Btw did she ever have anal sex with you? Might be only some time before a guy like superman will ask for that. Especially since that might be the only way how he could get his massive dick fully into her.

She's never had anal before ever. I don't think she really wants to either. But there I go again, making presumptions. And we know how that goes.

It's not uncommon that 'the other guy' is the first... especially if he is pushing her buttons as well and as thoroughly as this guy seems to be.

Exactly. A fuckboy like he is might start with a cheeky thumb while doing her doggy when she is dickdrunk. And before you know it he will be in balls deep.

[FNQLivin]

You’ve blown past every other limit you had, I think she’ll spend the night and soon also take her anal cherry.

[Wifesharing]

Yeah she might agre go option 2 if you stay strong but she will hope you choose three she will appreciate you more

As for anal if he finds out you have never got it he is going to push for it and I doubt she is going to deny him that. Has she ever had anal

[w770]

Yeah she might agre go option 2 if you stay strong but she will hope you choose three she will appreciate you more

As for anal if he finds out you have never got it he is going to push for it and I doubt she is going to deny him that. Has she ever had anal

She's never had anal and always been against it.

I think I want her to say option 1 whereas I think she wants me to say option 3. So option 2 might be the compromise

[Wifesharing]

That is a fair compromise and know it is hard knowing your wife wants number 3 and knowing she wants that is gonna be hard to stop at 2 for you because you want her to get what she wants

However it works out is great you two communicate so well

Yeah if he finds out he will be her first over you yeah it’s gonna happen at some point she is no longer really in a place to tell him no

[w770]

That is a fair compromise and know it is hard knowing your wife wants number 3 and knowing she wants that is gonna be hard to stop at 2 for you because you want her to get what she wants

However it works out is great you two communicate so well

Yeah if he finds out he will be her first over you yeah it’s gonna happen at some point she is no longer really in a place to tell him no

I've also mentioned to her that if she decides to "cheat" on me at any point and goes to his bed in the middle of the night while I'm sleeping only to tell me about it several days later, just please don't stay overnight.

You're very right about it being hard admitting to myself that she wants Option 3. But I don't want her to resent me by telling her Option 1. So Option 2 might be likely. I told her that if she goes over there tonight, don't let it be more than an hour. She understands this clearly that this is a bit of a hard boundary for me at the moment.

[william70]

I don't know what Lana's and Lovers Mondays look like. But if their open, she'll go to her lover tonite and overstep the 1hr. She'll then get up in the middle of the night and go to him again.

[Wifesharing]

I think you setting boundaries is good but giving her the okay to cheat kind of makes it a bit vague

Just don’t get upset if she try’s to get you to agree to more or if a hour goes to 2 it is hard to watch the clock.

So far from what you are telling us it seem she is still your wife and a big part of what is making her so excited is how much it revs you up. I can garuntee you that her physical reaction to him would be less if not for your role in this.

[william70]

I think you setting boundaries is good but giving her the okay to cheat kind of makes it a bit vague

Just don’t get upset if she try’s to get you to agree to more or if a hour goes to 2 it is hard to watch the clock.

So far from what you are telling us it seem she is still your wife and a big part of what is making her so excited is how much it revs you up. I can garuntee you that her physical reaction to him would be less if not for your role in this.

I'm not arguing but just wondering how you came to this conclusion?

[w770]

I think you setting boundaries is good but giving her the okay to cheat kind of makes it a bit vague

Just don’t get upset if she try’s to get you to agree to more or if a hour goes to 2 it is hard to watch the clock.

So far from what you are telling us it seem she is still your wife and a big part of what is making her so excited is how much it revs you up. I can garuntee you that her physical reaction to him would be less if not for your role in this.

The "cheating" thing basically means that she doesn't have to send me a 3 emoji text, and I think it'll be hot hearing about it days or even weeks later. But I understand how things can be vague with some uncertainty. I think it's the product of being 24 out from last night and everything that came with that. I just didn't anticipate his staring and it's really rattled me as it definitely drove home the notion of him dominating me as his cuck.

[hiki]

Letting the wine decide might not be the best way to go, probably a good idea to not overindulge. Sounds like option 2 is the most likely so far...but what if she is again too sore afterwards for a proper reclaiming? It looks like you are sliding towards more and more denial, which is scary but likely just turn you on more...

[Wifesharing]

I think you setting boundaries is good but giving her the okay to cheat kind of makes it a bit vague

Just don’t get upset if she try’s to get you to agree to more or if a hour goes to 2 it is hard to watch the clock.

So far from what you are telling us it seem she is still your wife and a big part of what is making her so excited is how much it revs you up. I can garuntee you that her physical reaction to him would be less if not for your role in this.

I'm not arguing but just wondering how you came to this conclusion?

I guess garuntee is a bit strong. From my personal experiences and talking to many others over the years a hotwife that is truely in love with her husband it seems that the fact she is turning in and getting two men off makes the sec better. I am in no way saying Superman is not good or e en better but a part of how much it turns her on is that it is turning 770 on so much. The account we are getting it is clear she likes having 770 there to see it very much. I doubt that she would enjoy Shawn as much with out this also being something that gets 770 off so much.

So yeah no a for sure thing but this is what I am seeing.

Yeah I don’t think you are arguing we all have opinions

[leander99]

There is one problem to being a genuine cuckold: I've noted that I have a tendency to always crave the next step. First her having sex with another man, then her having sex without me present, then without me knowing, then without protection. Then I started fantasising about my wife forcing me to give him a bj, then about being forced to eat a creampie. Onwards and onwards I go.

She has slowly indulged most of my fantasies.

But it doesn't really end. I think in a way I am like a drug addict; always chasing the next kick or the nect 'high'.

Unfortunately it does run out. At some point I've done it all. Or I've done everything my wife was willing to do with me.

At the end of it, what's left? Is it enough?

As for w770 he's done in three weeks what has taken me a decade. I don't know where it end for w770, but there will be an end to the road somewhere. After that there are no more new highs. Will it be enough ?

[Jjhw311ohw]

I’m only on page 5 and this is by far my favorite thread since I joined a few years ago. This gives me so much hope since my wife is similarly in the “it’ll never happen” camp but has lately gotten flirtier and teases me playfully about it.

ww770 - THANK YOU for sharing this experience! I’ll post more thoughts after I completely catch up on your story.

[mundyman]

[/quote]
But I don't want her to resent me by telling her Option 1. So Option 2 might be likely. I told her that if she goes over there tonight, don't let it be more than an hour. She understands this clearly that this is a bit of a hard boundary for me at the moment.
[/quote]

You don’t want your wife to resent you?!?!?!?!?
She just told you she would stop at any moment, if you ever asked her to stop she would at that moment.
This might be the time to test that commitment from her and finish the night as just you two.
She said you were the most giving man ever and that nothing would come between you two.
Might be time to test that.
Reclaim, reconnect, and review tonight and tomorrow. Shawn can have her another day.
Just my reaction to your post.
Good luck!!!

[w770]

I’m only on page 5 and this is by far my favorite thread since I joined a few years ago. This gives me so much hope since my wife is similarly in the “it’ll never happen” camp but has lately gotten flirtier and teases me playfully about it.

ww770 - THANK YOU for sharing this experience! I’ll post more thoughts after I completely catch up on your story.

Thank YOU guys for the advice and encouragement. It's been a hugely important cornerstone of the last 3 weeks that without it, I would've had several panic attacks at the very least and my marriage would be in going in a bad way at the very worst.

There is one problem to being a genuine cuckold: I've noted that I have a tendency to always crave the next step. First her having sex with another man, then her having sex without me present, then without me knowing, then without protection. Then I started fantasising about my wife forcing me to give him a bj, then about being forced to eat a creampie. Onwards and onwards I go.

She has slowly indulged most of my fantasies.

But it doesn't really end. I think in a way I am like a drug addict; always chasing the next kick or the nect 'high'.

Unfortunately it does run out. At some point I've done it all. Or I've done everything my wife was willing to do with me.

At the end of it, what's left? Is it enough?

As for w770 he's done in three weeks what has taken me a decade. I don't know where it end for w770, but there will be an end to the road somewhere. After that there are no more new highs. Will it be enough ?

I thought this over and I think this makes the most sense as to why the boundaries have been pushed and extended every step of the way, compounded by the fact that it's a short lived experience with a natural end date, it gives us the liberty to go at the speed that we're going.

But I don't want her to resent me by telling her Option 1. So Option 2 might be likely. I told her that if she goes over there tonight, don't let it be more than an hour. She understands this clearly that this is a bit of a hard boundary for me at the moment.
[/quote]

You don’t want your wife to resent you?!?!?!?!?
She just told you she would stop at any moment, if you ever asked her to stop she would at that moment.
This might be the time to test that commitment from her and finish the night as just you two.
She said you were the most giving man ever and that nothing would come between you two.
Might be time to test that.
Reclaim, reconnect, and review tonight and tomorrow. Shawn can have her another day.
Just my reaction to your post.
Good luck!!!
[/quote]

Well the wine has spoken, and it's going to just be us tonight. She reassured me that I'm hers and she's mine and we both agreed that the sex between us has been mind-blowing lately which is the reason we started down this path in the first place. "He will never have my heart, I promise you that." Finished up dinner, we're going to watch the new White Lotus season and then take it to the bedroom.

[hubudig2]

Well the wine has spoken, and it's going to just be us tonight. She reassured me that I'm hers and she's mine and we both agreed that the sex between us has been mind-blowing lately which is the reason we started down this path in the first place. "He will never have my heart, I promise you that." Finished up dinner, we're going to watch the new White Lotus season and then take it to the bedroom.

I'm so happy for you both to hear all of that

[Wifesharing]

I am glad option 1 was chosen your wife loves you and can still go against the desires of the flesh for you that is great.

I think this is very clear and no matter what option chosen it still would be clear to me

Is she gonna workout with him in the morning

[w770]

Well the wine has spoken, and it's going to just be us tonight. She reassured me that I'm hers and she's mine and we both agreed that the sex between us has been mind-blowing lately which is the reason we started down this path in the first place. "He will never have my heart, I promise you that." Finished up dinner, we're going to watch the new White Lotus season and then take it to the bedroom.

I'm so happy for you both to hear all of that

Not gonna lie, I was surprised. But genuinely very happy.

I am glad option 1 was chosen your wife loves you and can still go against the desires of the flesh for you that is great.

I think this is very clear and no matter what option chosen it still would be clear to me

Is she gonna workout with him in the morning

They haven't planned on it yet but if I had to guess, yes.

[proudhusb217]

I'm glad you two are still doing so well with this! She'll probably have an overnight with him before he leaves, but you're right that tonight wasn't the proper time.

Have a wonderful night together.

[eater]

I'm the one that told her about how I came all over myself looking at his cock. When I told her, she remarked that he really knows what he's doing in terms of the dominance thing.

how did you feel when you told her? anything else you can share about her reaction? I found his taking the time to stand before you so insulantly very hot.

Could he have been playing into your desire to be humiliated? a gift for you? this idea goes against the common opinion of him as an asshole.

did you, even for a second, think of touching him? thanking him?

[w770]

I'm the one that told her about how I came all over myself looking at his cock. When I told her, she remarked that he really knows what he's doing in terms of the dominance thing.

how did you feel when you told her? anything else you can share about her reaction? I found his taking the time to stand before you so insulantly very hot.

Could he have been playing into your desire to be humiliated? a gift for you? this idea goes against the common opinion of him as an asshole.

did you, even for a second, think of touching him? thanking him?

Like most things last night, I was apprehensive as I was embarrassed and humiliated at what just happened, but Lana was really understanding and made sure to not make me feel ashamed in any way. She was impressed at how Shawn really embraced the domination aspect of things though.

There could be a lot of different interpretations as to what he was doing as he stood before me, but how I took it was that he was trying to intimate me by showing me the evidence of what he just did to my wife and how her milky white juices were dripping off of his cock.

I never thought about touching it. I'm not sure I ever will.

I'm glad you two are still doing so well with this! She'll probably have an overnight with him before he leaves, but you're right that tonight wasn't the proper time.

Have a wonderful night together.

Thank you! It's been a great night so far! We just finished up a round of love making. Taking a break and seeing if we can go another round soon.

[johnstevens555]

Thank you! It's been a great night so far! We just finished up a round of love making. Taking a break and seeing if we can go another round soon.

Nice, Dude!

[hiki]

Well the wine has spoken, and it's going to just be us tonight. She reassured me that I'm hers and she's mine and we both agreed that the sex between us has been mind-blowing lately which is the reason we started down this path in the first place. "He will never have my heart, I promise you that." Finished up dinner, we're going to watch the new White Lotus season and then take it to the bedroom.

That was some very sensible wine, congratulations! Sounds like the much needed proper reclaiming/reconnecting is going well!