Girlfriends first date

[DeAd so7]

Me too. It appears that they are both into it about the same, which is a good thing.

That’s great news for you!

Do you think Alex and James will do anything new (for them) or push out the boundaries of their sexual relationship in any way?

Is there anything you would want them to do? Would there be anything you would want them to do if it was guaranteed there were no negative consequences? (E.g., surreptitious public sex, if you could be absolutely certain that they would not be caught.)

Are there any particular fantasy scenarios you’d like to experience through them? E.g., driving while they fuck in the back seat, or being a third wheel on a date with them, or what have you?

Now, I know you seemed to have misdirected this question to the wrong person originally, but. To finally have your question answered. To be frankly honest, and I'll expand on this in my update I'll give to this here in a second, James has been formally inviting my girlfriend to spend the night at his during their next meet. Instead of it being impromptu like last time, but. Me and Alex have been talking about it, which we're planning on talking about it more tonight, to see if it's a good idea or not. She's not uncomfortable about it, and neither am I. That's not the problem of course, it's just that it might happen their date tomorrow, Sunday, and the next day thereafter on Monday. My girlfriend has work, haha. So, we're trying to see if it'll work out or not. Now, to answer your next question. Yes, and that would be them having an actual date day just them two one day an entire day is what I would want to see. No public sex or anything of course, me and my girlfriend are quite the worry warts when it comes to safety, so, I can't forsee that happening of course. But, off the top of my head, I would want to see them do that with the certainty of no consequences of course e.g. friends finding them or what not. Finally, as for my particular fantasy scenario between them would be to plan a vacation date for just them. Other than that of course, I hope I answered all your questions, and if you happen to have anymore don't hesitate to shoot!

[DeAd so7]

Hello there everyone, so, just to let ya'll know. Tomorrow my girlfriend and James are finally going to have another date of theirs. With that in mind, there's a few things I need to talk about first, before explaining the details. Firstly, James and Alex have been texting each other A LOT these past couple of days, and with that has come up an invitation from James. In which he has invited Alex to once again come over. But, to actually come over and spend the night with him formally this time. And after some talking, we both feel comfortable with this, especially since how well the last sleep over of theirs went, albeit. We're still not sure, and are trying to figure out if it's a good idea after all to, due to the fact my girlfriend has work the next day after their little "sleep over" so, we're trying to work out that little mess.

On top of that, we've all 3 talked about me finally meeting James, and I will be finally meeting him up for dinner with my girlfriend perhaps next weekend, maybe the next one after. We're still trying to figure things out. Finally, yeah. Their dinner date and sleep over will happen tomorrow. So, I'll keep ya'll informed then. And if anybody has any questions for me, shoot! And I'll talk to ya'll later.

[scarfolamew]

Thanks as always for keeping us updated on your exciting adventure. Last time Alex and James spent the night, you mentioned he set up a guest bedroom for her to stay in. Do you think she'll sleep in his bed with him this time around? Imagining them waking up together in each other's arms like a real romantic couple in his bed, or on your fantasy vacation together... is it a notion you find more exciting, or anxiety-inducing, or both?

[DeAd so7]

Thanks as always for keeping us updated on your exciting adventure. Last time Alex and James spent the night, you mentioned he set up a guest bedroom for her to stay in. Do you think she'll sleep in his bed with him this time around? Imagining them waking up together in each other's arms like a real romantic couple in his bed, or on your fantasy vacation together... is it a notion you find more exciting, or anxiety-inducing, or both?

Np, again, I feel like it's been therapeutic and helps with the angst that comes from this. After all, even though I'm apart of this life style now. I don't particularly want to just feel out of control with angst, you know? Haha. Now, to answer your question. Personally, I would LOVE to hear them do that, and I do find it both anxiety inducing and exciting. But, there's been a change of plans of course I'll inform you all of here in just a bit, nevertheless. I know I didn't completely answer your questions now, as I'd need to update the thread first, but again. Thank you for your questions, and if you have anymore, shoot! And I'll be back.

[DeAd so7]

Hello there everyone, so, after some talking between me and my girlfriend earlier tonight, she has decided to not accept James's proposal to spend the night with him as well tomorrow, for a few reasons, first being that she has work in the morning on Monday. And second being that she does not want to be late for work of course, since his house is across town from her work and everything. So, for now. It's just another dinner date leading up to a hang out at his place before she comes home. James apparently would already be asleep by the time we talked about this and figured it out. So, of course as for now, that is what has happened. Until then of course, if anybody has any advice or any questions for me, shoot! And I'll talk to ya'll later.

[joel68]

So she’s going over there for dinner or out for dinner? But either way, she’s going to his place. And he’s gonna fuck her.

Then she’s coming home to sleep and get up for work on Monday.

If she stayed all night, then she would likely get fucked in the morning and not make work. Is that what you want to avoid?

[DeAd so7]

So she’s going over there for dinner or out for dinner? But either way, she’s going to his place. And he’s gonna fuck her.

Then she’s coming home to sleep and get up for work on Monday.

If she stayed all night, then she would likely get fucked in the morning and not make work. Is that what you want to avoid?

To be frankly honest, yeah. We both kind of don't want her to be irresponsible of course. And, the only thing that she could do then to avoid work, would be to call in pretending to be sick. But, since she won't of course have any doctors note, she'd get a mark put against her. So, we'd like to avoid that of course. But other than that, to be frank. I would LOVE to have her spend the night with him again, as the last time she did that, it seems we both had fun. But, life is life. Granted, I've thought of coming over there and picking her up. I've thought of making that suggestion, but again, I wouldn't want her to be too tired, and plus. Again, sure, I know where James lives. But, I haven't met him yet. So, Idk if that would be considered wholly appropriate.

[sandy691196]

So she’s going over there for dinner or out for dinner? But either way, she’s going to his place. And he’s gonna fuck her.

Then she’s coming home to sleep and get up for work on Monday.

If she stayed all night, then she would likely get fucked in the morning and not make work. Is that what you want to avoid?

To be frankly honest, yeah. We both kind of don't want her to be irresponsible of course. And, the only thing that she could do then to avoid work, would be to call in pretending to be sick. But, since she won't of course have any doctors note, she'd get a mark put against her. So, we'd like to avoid that of course. But other than that, to be frank. I would LOVE to have her spend the night with him again, as the last time she did that, it seems we both had fun. But, life is life. Granted, I've thought of coming over there and picking her up. I've thought of making that suggestion, but again, I wouldn't want her to be too tired, and plus. Again, sure, I know where James lives. But, I haven't met him yet. So, Idk if that would be considered wholly appropriate.

A person can have a terrible headache in the morning..confining her to bed..A doctor will certainly be sympathetic to that? She can take that line and maybe go after lunch if her boss permits.
1/2 day leave?

[joel68]

I hope she gives you some “Fuck updates” while she’s there.

Would you like that?

[DeAd so7]

So she’s going over there for dinner or out for dinner? But either way, she’s going to his place. And he’s gonna fuck her.

Then she’s coming home to sleep and get up for work on Monday.

If she stayed all night, then she would likely get fucked in the morning and not make work. Is that what you want to avoid?

To be frankly honest, yeah. We both kind of don't want her to be irresponsible of course. And, the only thing that she could do then to avoid work, would be to call in pretending to be sick. But, since she won't of course have any doctors note, she'd get a mark put against her. So, we'd like to avoid that of course. But other than that, to be frank. I would LOVE to have her spend the night with him again, as the last time she did that, it seems we both had fun. But, life is life. Granted, I've thought of coming over there and picking her up. I've thought of making that suggestion, but again, I wouldn't want her to be too tired, and plus. Again, sure, I know where James lives. But, I haven't met him yet. So, Idk if that would be considered wholly appropriate.

A person can have a terrible headache in the morning..confining her to bed..A doctor will certainly be sympathetic to that? She can take that line and maybe go after lunch if her boss permits.
1/2 day leave?

Hmmm, idk if that would work. And it'd be wholly irresponsible of her to do so. But, I might bring that up then in the morning with her, we'll see.

[DeAd so7]

I hope she gives you some “Fuck updates” while she’s there.

Would you like that?

ABSOLUTELY. We've already talked about her possibly doing that again, which I'm pretty damn sure she will, seeing as how she was teasing me a lot about it a couple days after everything went down.

[Long Lurker 34]

Hello there everyone, so, after some talking between me and my girlfriend earlier tonight, she has decided to not accept James's proposal to spend the night with him as well tomorrow, for a few reasons, first being that she has work in the morning on Monday. And second being that she does not want to be late for work of course, since his house is across town from her work and everything. So, for now. It's just another dinner date leading up to a hang out at his place before she comes home. James apparently would already be asleep by the time we talked about this and figured it out. So, of course as for now, that is what has happened. Until then of course, if anybody has any advice or any questions for me, shoot! And I'll talk to ya'll later.

DAS7 - Seems like maybe this should get flipped around so she heads to James's place on Friday after work, with an overnight bag. With enough so she could come home on Sunday morning.

[Magellanic29]

Great story love this one! I know its a little late but congrats! Super jealous of you. Glad to see she had such a good time. Hope there will be many more to come of those. Just curious would she be open to doing anal with him at all or bareback? Did she have any orgasms?

[DeAd so7]

Great story love this one! I know its a little late but congrats! Super jealous of you. Glad to see she had such a good time. Hope there will be many more to come of those. Just curious would she be open to doing anal with him at all or bareback? Did she have any orgasms?

Thank you for the congrats! To answer your questions. We want to be safe, and even though she is on birth control. I would definitely say no, she would not agree to go bareback knowing her, as for anal though. I'm not entirely too sure, and the reason I say that is that I'm not an anal guy myself, so perhaps? But to be on the safe side, I would probably say no knowing my girlfriend. Haha, finally. To answer your last question. Yes, if I can recall, I believe she did. Albeit I am a bit sleepless right now, so, do forgive my memories haziness right now, haha. But, if I can recall. She did orgasm, albeit she didn't say it herself. It was something I inferred when she relayed back to me everything that happened between her and him during their date last weekend. As my girlfriend described a lot of the time more of what he was doing to her, and gushing about it alot. Again, sorry for my memories haziness, but I had a hard time sleeping last night, haha. Anyways, if you happen to have anymore questions. Shoot!

[DeAd so7]

Hello there everyone! So, to update everyone. For starters, this'll be a bit long, but. We decided this morning that instead of her spending the night at James, as that would not seem to work out. We decided that maybe my girlfriend could ask James if she could come over a bit earlier instead, and have a day for themselves. And so, that is what has happened. After my girlfriend and I got up and got ready, she talked to James. And James accepted, so, for a couple hours now, roughly around 11. My girlfriend went over to his, and we've been communicating somewhat since then.

So, sorry for the late update of course. But, with her leaving earlier, and how shitty my nights sleep was last night. I've been trying to nap for the past couple of hours. But, it seems my body doesn't want to. Haha, anyways, if anybody has any questions for me. Shoot! And my apologies ahead of time if I disappear for a bit at times today as I try to update the thread.

[parmaham55]

This is really good news and congratulations DeAd. If you want to distract yourself by answering some questions, then please do. Here they are...otherwise, no worries, take rest when you can because you'll have your hands (and tongue) full on her return.
- What did she wear?
- Did you help her get ready? How was that?
- does she like to wear lingerie, stockings, heels, etc? If not this time, perhaps you could help her buy some for the future?
- Is she shaved smooth? Did you help with that? Could you next time?
- Do you expect her to come back with a pussy full of his cum for you to finger, enjoy, even lick? Would you like that? If so, could you tell her for next time?
- Could you dare to phone James tomorrow and thank him for looking after her desires? If not a phone call, perhaps a message from you to him?
- could you surprise her with a hotel booking for him and her to enjoy in the future?
- could you go and get some flowers and a thank-you card for her, to have ready for when she returns? To show how much you support her.

Just some questions to distract you! No worries if there's no time!

[BallSpanking]

So is James moving up in classification from Friend to BoyFriend?

[DeAd so7]

This is really good news and congratulations DeAd. If you want to distract yourself by answering some questions, then please do. Here they are...otherwise, no worries, take rest when you can because you'll have your hands (and tongue) full on her return.
- What did she wear?
- Did you help her get ready? How was that?
- does she like to wear lingerie, stockings, heels, etc? If not this time, perhaps you could help her buy some for the future?
- Is she shaved smooth? Did you help with that? Could you next time?
- Do you expect her to come back with a pussy full of his cum for you to finger, enjoy, even lick? Would you like that? If so, could you tell her for next time?
- Could you dare to phone James tomorrow and thank him for looking after her desires? If not a phone call, perhaps a message from you to him?
- could you surprise her with a hotel booking for him and her to enjoy in the future?
- could you go and get some flowers and a thank-you card for her, to have ready for when she returns? To show how much you support her.

Just some questions to distract you! No worries if there's no time!

For her she wore a black shirt with the back cut out. As well as blue jeans. And some black sandals she has, so, once again. A rather casual outfit. As for if I helped her, no, not too much again, except for her asking me if she looked good or not. And yeah, she loves to wear lingerie, just nothing too tight fitting, but, she loves to look and feel sexy of course. As for shaved, atm, yes she is. Albeit I did not help with that of course. As for if she would be full of James's cum, from a fantasy perspective, I would LOVE that. But, we would like to be safe. So no, that will not be happening. I gave her more condoms to use this time too of course unlike last time. As for daring to call or text James to give him my thanks. Atm, I won't lie that is a hot idea, but, albeit I wouldn't want to weird him out with my own fantasies, with that in mind of course. We're meeting next weekend all of us for dinner. And as for surprising them with a hotel trip, I dont think that would be right for me to do, albeit again from a fantasy perspective I do find it quite hot. And as for the flowers, that is actually quite a cute and fun idea, I might do that indeed, haha. Sorry for taking a bit to respond to your questions, I've also been trying to keep myself distracted by playing games and doing chores and stuff. Still, nevertheless. I hope I answered all your questions you asked, and if you happen to have anymore. Shoot!

[DeAd so7]

So is James moving up in classification from Friend to BoyFriend?

Haha, as much as I would like that. I think more of a fwb situation instead, albeit she did message me a bit ago saying that James invited her to help him cook dinner later, so. It definitely seems like it!

[DeAd so7]

So, James is apparently treating my girlfriend like a "queen" apparently, nothing too crazy has happened yet. But, my girlfriend is just telling me how they've been cuddling on his couch watching stuff and pecking on each other every now and again, haha. But yeah, apparently James has been real flirty with her.

[joel68]

So he hasn’t fucked her yet? That will happen.

Please let us know when you hear that she got fucked!

[CuckBar]

So, James is apparently treating my girlfriend like a "queen" apparently, nothing too crazy has happened yet. But, my girlfriend is just telling me how they've been cuddling on his couch watching stuff and pecking on each other every now and again, haha. But yeah, apparently James has been real flirty with her.

I think this would be worse for me to hear than just being told they're fucking like rabbits!
It's real boyfriend, girlfriend stuff! The angst must be incredible!

[DeAd so7]

So he hasn’t fucked her yet? That will happen.

Please let us know when you hear that she got fucked!

Haha, of course. Dont worry, I will.

[DeAd so7]

So, James is apparently treating my girlfriend like a "queen" apparently, nothing too crazy has happened yet. But, my girlfriend is just telling me how they've been cuddling on his couch watching stuff and pecking on each other every now and again, haha. But yeah, apparently James has been real flirty with her.

I think this would be worse for me to hear than just being told they're fucking like rabbits!
It's real boyfriend, girlfriend stuff! The angst must be incredible!

Haha, yeah. Paired this with my sleepiness and my angst. My arms are feeling like noodles right now.

[DeAd so7]

So, they're apparently cooking together now. With James showing her an easy and simple meal he was taught to make apparently, I know this is rather mundane stuff. But, I thought I'd update you all and get this off my chest as to what's going on now.