Young married guy here

[Watchinu69]

So many people have turned this into a choose your own adventure tale.

100%. I wish some posters would just STFU.

🫵

[Georgematthias]

If Lauren does reveal this to her trusted sister, it would be a good thing for Lauren whether she reveals Adam's name or not. Just as Danny has OHW to seek advice and unload, Lauren may need a place to do the same - in addition to Danny. They've done pretty well to this point and I'm for their continued success. They seem to be able to sort through this pretty well.

We should feel privileged Danny is including us as spectators. I do. I like the guy.

[trecital]

So many people have turned this into a choose your own adventure tale.

That's because Danny doesn't give a minute by minute account of what he, Lauren and Adam are up to. It's only to be expected, that when we haven't heard from him for, say, five minutes, that people will start to fill the gaping void left by his absence, and start speculating about his motives, his thoughts, the colour of his underwear, what he had for breakfast. Ad infinitum.

Page 63 and all's that's happened is that Lauren has had sex with Adam a few times. I've read more content in one single post from some members stories in other threads.

[sandy691196]

If Lauren does reveal this to her trusted sister, it would be a good thing for Lauren whether she reveals Adam's name or not. Just as Danny has OHW to seek advice and unload, Lauren may need a place to do the same - in addition to Danny. They've done pretty well to this point and I'm for their continued success. They seem to be able to sort through this pretty well.

We should feel privileged Danny is including us as spectators. I do. I like the guy.

Lauren had said at the beginning when in the planning stage- that she doesn't want family and friends to know. So the 3rd can't be from the known circle. That's when they chose the App route.

Then in phase2, she dumped that restriction and decided to screw Adam who is family and a stay at home lover!

But Danny had made it very clear when step dad & co were here last time that he doesn't want any spill over onto the family radar.

Lauren confiding in sister and BFF, makes this thing kinda public. Lauren usually ain't the impulsive type. But this recent stripper shindig and what followed, is playing at the back of her mind. She hasn't had a heart to heart with Danny on this.

Last time when she was in a brooding phase with Danny excluded, was after the dating fiasco.. That's when she had done something uncharacteristic after a week's brooding. She had reestablished contact with a 42 yr old high school teacher and started a virtual affair..

This time she is on a girls trip where sex, guys and raunchy talk is de rigueur after wine and laughs. There may be talk about flirting outside relationships.. about male strippers in so and so's Bachelorette party.. male masseur... so and so hitting on so and so.

I guess it all depends on Lauren's mood and what actually is going on in her heart. Disgust and self loathing? Reviewing Danny's character and role in her life? Or acceptance and a -fuck it let's continue - attitude. Interesting possibilities.

[wannabecUKold]

So many people have turned this into a choose your own adventure tale.

100%. I wish some posters would just STFU.

There are 1,554 posts on this thread. Danny has posted 239 posts almost all of them on this thread. So there are five or six responses to every post by him. Dan’s posts alone would take up a dozen or so pages. But without any responses, I doubt that Danny would be posting.

This thread is a human drama, involving young people in their sexual relationship. Readers obviously want to comment. Often the responses are just a “wow“ plus a comment on some dramatic aspect of what has happened. Many responses are thoughtful, bringing a lot of mature experience and wisdom. Some encourage Danny and quite a few caution him. Inevitably some responses are a bit iffy, wank material, and Danny has complained about one poster. But overall, I think the responses give Danny a lot of food for thought.

Tell us to STFU? No. If you don’t want the comments, read Danny’s posts via his username page.

[Georgematthias]

If Lauren does reveal this to her trusted sister, it would be a good thing for Lauren whether she reveals Adam's name or not. Just as Danny has OHW to seek advice and unload, Lauren may need a place to do the same - in addition to Danny. They've done pretty well to this point and I'm for their continued success. They seem to be able to sort through this pretty well.

We should feel privileged Danny is including us as spectators. I do. I like the guy.

Lauren had said at the beginning when in the planning stage- that she doesn't want family and friends to know. So the 3rd can't be from the known circle. That's when they chose the App route.

Then in phase2, she dumped that restriction and decided to screw Adam who is family and a stay at home lover!

But Danny had made it very clear when step dad & co were here last time that he doesn't want any spill over onto the family radar.

Lauren confiding in sister and BFF, makes this thing kinda public. Lauren usually ain't the impulsive type. But this recent stripper shindig and what followed, is playing at the back of her mind. She hasn't had a heart to heart with Danny on this.

Last time when she was in a brooding phase with Danny excluded, was after the dating fiasco.. That's when she had done something uncharacteristic after a week's brooding. She had reestablished contact with a 42 yr old high school teacher and started a virtual affair..

This time she is on a girls trip where sex, guys and raunchy talk is de rigueur after wine and laughs. There may be talk about flirting outside relationships.. about male strippers in so and so's Bachelorette party.. male masseur... so and so hitting on so and so.

I guess it all depends on Lauren's mood and what actually is going on in her heart. Disgust and self loathing? Reviewing Danny's character and role in her life? Or acceptance and a -fuck it let's continue - attitude. Interesting possibilities.

Yes. Nice recount of their thought process evolution. There are a few other items that could be added as well.

As expected, their thinking has evolved as they felt their way through the maze of decisions.

Lauren is a very bright lady with more wisdom than one might suspect for someone her age. She's usually not impulsive, reactive yes, but not impulsive. She thinks about things ahead of time and then adjusts if needed. But, she might just need to talk to someone she trusts. She'll have to weigh whether it puts either or both of them in jeopardy.

We'll see.

[Luigical1931]

If you want something to stay a secret, don’t tell anybody.

The problem with telling somebody you trust, is that they then have somebody they trust not to tell anybody, then that person has somebody they trust. Before you know it, everybody knows.

The only person you can really trust is telling somebody who has something to lose if they tell anybody (not the best example, but she can tell Danny everything, because he’s got a lot to lose if people find out).

Tell your sister, she then tells her partner, he then tells his best friend…

[trecital]

The problem with telling somebody you trust, is that they then have somebody they trust not to tell anybody, then that person has somebody they trust. Before you know it, everybody knows.

Tell your sister, she then tells her partner, he then tells his best friend…

I think you may be onto something. I couldn't see the point of including the plot element of Lauren suddenly deciding to go off to NYC for a few days.
Now it makes sense. She confides in her sister, who confides in someone else, and before you know it someone is asking Adam if he is fucking Lauren. Adam then realises that Danny knows. One evening when Adam's enormous cock has just given Lauren her twentieth orgasm, Adam goes to his bedroom door, opens it and sees Danny in his pyjamas, his little stiff dick sticking out. He realises that Danny was listening in and masturbating. Danny gets frog marched into Adam's bedroom. Then gets forced to clean up Adam's multiple cream pies.
At which point this thread will really explode.

[trecital]

Tell us to STFU? No. If you don’t want the comments, read Danny’s posts via his username page.

Except you can't normally do that, as invariably you'll get a message saying.... "Sorry but you cannot use search at this time. The server has high load. Please try again later."

[Luigical1931]

The problem with telling somebody you trust, is that they then have somebody they trust not to tell anybody, then that person has somebody they trust. Before you know it, everybody knows.

Tell your sister, she then tells her partner, he then tells his best friend…

I think you may be onto something. I couldn't see the point of including the plot element of Lauren suddenly deciding to go off to NYC for a few days.
Now it makes sense. She confides in her sister, who confides in someone else, and before you know it someone is asking Adam if he is fucking Lauren. Adam then realises that Danny knows. One evening when Adam's enormous cock has just given Lauren her twentieth orgasm, Adam goes to his bedroom door, opens it and sees Danny in his pyjamas, his little stiff dick sticking out. He realises that Danny was listening in and masturbating. Danny gets frog marched into Adam's bedroom. Then gets forced to clean up Adam's multiple cream pies.
At which point this thread will really explode.

I’m not sure that’s where I was going with it haha.

I was more just commenting on the fact that you’ve got to be careful who you say something to, if you want it to be kept a secret.

I think I’ve mentioned a few times that I don’t think they should tell Adam what they’re doing. Ride it out for a bit, enjoy it, then end it and find somebody who can rock her world even more. Adam can be a side part reserved for special occasions once he’s moved out. Family gets together for thanksgiving, Adam spends the night and they fuck etc.

I don’t see how opening up about this dynamic to anybody can bring anything good personally, I actually think it would potentially end their relationship, as the pressures of other people knowing will be too much.

[sandy691196]

If you want something to stay a secret, don’t tell anybody.

The problem with telling somebody you trust, is that they then have somebody they trust not to tell anybody, then that person has somebody they trust. Before you know it, everybody knows.

The only person you can really trust is telling somebody who has something to lose if they tell anybody (not the best example, but she can tell Danny everything, because he’s got a lot to lose if people find out).

Tell your sister, she then tells her partner, he then tells his best friend…

Absolutely.
The only caveat is that Danny too is a directly involved and interested party in this. His opinions will reflect his personal stake. + Lauren has to maintain a certain image with Danny and she has to "make sense" and be fair and.. blah blah.

That pressure may just motivate her to unload to a 3rd party with no direct interest or stake. And whose opinion won't be "colored".. + the issue of another "woman's opinion" (we know that Lauren has her toes into gender politics a bit). But then again another woman's opinion is not necessarily always favoring the woman (Lauren here)..

It all depends on how much this thing has rattled her nerves and whether she (as usual) blames Danny in someway for this caper..

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

So many people have turned this into a choose your own adventure tale.

100%. I wish some posters would just STFU.

There are 1,554 posts on this thread. Danny has posted 239 posts almost all of them on this thread. So there are five or six responses to every post by him. Dan’s posts alone would take up a dozen or so pages. But without any responses, I doubt that Danny would be posting.

This thread is a human drama, involving young people in their sexual relationship. Readers obviously want to comment. Often the responses are just a “wow“ plus a comment on some dramatic aspect of what has happened. Many responses are thoughtful, bringing a lot of mature experience and wisdom. Some encourage Danny and quite a few caution him. Inevitably some responses are a bit iffy, wank material, and Danny has complained about one poster. But overall, I think the responses give Danny a lot of food for thought.

Tell us to STFU? No. If you don’t want the comments, read Danny’s posts via his username page.

Touche'. Most comments are ok. But some are just over the top.

[trecital]

...whether she (as usual) blames Danny in someway for this caper..

Surely RunDannyRun is solely responsible for this 'caper', as you so aptly describe it?

[joel68]

Lauren told him that they would discuss the situation with Adam after the holidays. She is off on a girls trip with her sisters and not scheduled to return to their house until New Year's Eve. Whether Dan and Lauren talk about Adam at all at that particular time remains to be seen.

I believe they have overnight house guests for New Year's. So it is very possible that she will elect to not speak to him until they have left, whenever that is. Maybe even late next week. And it's also possible that she may elect to stop her late night visits to Adam and end fucking him. I am sure Dan will return here to report what was said between them on this topic when he knows what her thoughts were.

Until then, all of this is just speculation as to what may happen between them. I would guess it will not be reported by Dan until Thursday of next week. Possibly sooner depending upon when their guests have left. So I assume we all just have to be patient.

[sandy691196]

Everyone is responsible.
Everyone has / had the ability to respond (responsibility) differently in this triad. If they/she/he responded differently then the outcome would have been different..

[trecital]

Everyone is responsible.
Everyone has / had the ability to respond (responsibility) differently in this triad. If they/she/he responded differently then the outcome would have been different..

So, what you are saying is, if things had happened differently then things would have turned out differently?

[trecital]

So I assume we all just have to be patient.

I think you are right. Let's all be patient.

[sandy691196]

Everyone is responsible.
Everyone has / had the ability to respond (responsibility) differently in this triad. If they/she/he responded differently then the outcome would have been different..

So, what you are saying is, if things had happened differently then things would have turned out differently?

Ya

[The Owl]

My gut tells me that Lauren's lust will prevail over the rules and logic in her mind. She will sleep with Adam again, in the service of erotic pleasure. The itch deep inside her and between her legs will continue to build. She will seek the salve that only Adam has so that she can scratch the itch. She's young and will discover soon enough that she no longer needs to pretend to be the cheating wife when seducing other men. She will find the pleasure of release with other men and Danny will discover the pleasure of being comfortable in his own skin, where he can be the cuckold he has always fantasized about being. Lauren will become increasingly dominant with Danny and he will increasingly savor being Lauren's submissive cuckold. She'll do more reading on the internet and learn more of the options available to her in her role as a hotwife. There are a lot of nuances that will evolve over time. Lauren has already said it... Danny and she are married for life, no matter what. Lauren has found a way to accomodate Danny's desire for her to have sex with another man. Once she can get past the role of "cheating wife", she will discover territory she has not yet begun to explore.

[Watchinu69]

Everyone is responsible.
Everyone has / had the ability to respond (responsibility) differently in this triad. If they/she/he responded differently then the outcome would have been different..

So, what you are saying is, if things had happened differently then things would have turned out differently?

classic !!! Love it
"We are going nowhere fast "
Moe Howard

[vicouple]

I think a few people here are not understanding the modern definition of consent, as it relates to sex. A woman can, at any time, withdraw consent. If you do not stop at that point, you are committing a sexual assault.

In Australian classrooms, boys and girls are taught that consent must be sought and must be obtained before sexual activity takes place. They are also taught how that doesn’t need to remove spontaneity nor ruin fun. You cannot assume that because someone previously consented, that that consent continues.

With luck and over time, we will all learn this and then us men will also realise that there by the grace of god, we are not convicted sex predators, because women have been being sexually assaulted for Millenia and just had to accept it.

Simply, don’t put your dick in a sleeping woman, unless she had previously said, “hey, I really would like you to fuck me when you wake up”

I am sorry to say that this is pure, unalloyed BS.. Lauren DID NOT withdraw consent at any stage, at any time, on any day. When she woke up with his dick in her pussy, she could have "withdrawn consent" right away or after collecting her wits. Instead she CHOSE to keep getting royally fucked, moaning all the time, audible to Danny in the next room (as described by Danny here - the 3rd round) and then coming multiple times over the next half an hour!
If this is "rape" it just shows how deeply nonsensical, unscientific and non functional this "modern definitions" have made normal human society. As per the science of communication- 93% of all feelings and emotions are communicated nonverbally. Verbose and verbal communication is effective and relevant to data, information, facts, business transactions and the weather!

This is just gaslighting the male partner ex post facto. Sex is not a business transaction or even a sports item. Its a deeply passionate and emotional thing. The lure of the unknown and breaking new ground, doing new things feed this passion. Many women have described the awesome excitement inherent in waking up the partner's dick in her pussy! Or tapping her lips! People who don't know these things- know nothing about sex! I have met plenty of girls who, while describing past "missed opportunities", said - "I so wish he had come and kissed me (or held me or hugged me or initiated stuff proactively without making her say yes explicitly. Often a woman doesnt wanna ruin it by making it verbose!

Just because in "Australian class rooms" (and all over woke lands), they preach that "it doesn't take away from spontaneity" doesn't mean that it doesn't kill spontaneity by making sex a game of Russian Roulette.

And malicious BS like saying "men have been predators all through history and have raped their women down the ages and we are lucky as a gender not to have been prosecuted since they didnt complain" is what has destroyed the noble concept of liberalism. These Trojan Horses infiltrated the Liberal camp and made it implode. When the rabid RW disparagingly call Liberals "cuck boys".. we must realise that these sickos in the Liberal camp have made all of us look like sacrificial, dumb, self destructing lab animals in the minefields of social engineering! Recently a Canadian lady politician (wont name her) said on social media, in response to this kinda nonsense - "if my husband has to take affirmative consent when he kisses me, I would much rather he didnt kiss me"!

I am sorry for this rant. But this gender apartheid nonsense on a sex positive site, can't be allowed to ride..

The U.S. Department of Justice defines rape as “the penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.”3 The federal government uses this legal definition to collect information from local police about rape. The legal definition of rape may be slightly different in your community.

Giving your consent means giving a clear “yes” to any type of sexual activity, though the laws about consent vary from state to state. It is also rape when penetration takes place when you are drunk, high, drugged, passed out, or asleep and cannot give consent. People under the age of 18 (in most states) cannot give consent to sexual activity with an adult.

Enough said. What was done is against the law. Each situation is different but sticking your dick in someone without asking because once you heard about a women who liked it that way is not an excuse that is likely to stand up in court.

[Jujube]

Right, Enough said!

[Watchinu69]

I think a few people here are not understanding the modern definition of consent, as it relates to sex. A woman can, at any time, withdraw consent. If you do not stop at that point, you are committing a sexual assault.

In Australian classrooms, boys and girls are taught that consent must be sought and must be obtained before sexual activity takes place. They are also taught how that doesn’t need to remove spontaneity nor ruin fun. You cannot assume that because someone previously consented, that that consent continues.

With luck and over time, we will all learn this and then us men will also realise that there by the grace of god, we are not convicted sex predators, because women have been being sexually assaulted for Millenia and just had to accept it.

Simply, don’t put your dick in a sleeping woman, unless she had previously said, “hey, I really would like you to fuck me when you wake up”

I am sorry to say that this is pure, unalloyed BS.. Lauren DID NOT withdraw consent at any stage, at any time, on any day. When she woke up with his dick in her pussy, she could have "withdrawn consent" right away or after collecting her wits. Instead she CHOSE to keep getting royally fucked, moaning all the time, audible to Danny in the next room (as described by Danny here - the 3rd round) and then coming multiple times over the next half an hour!
If this is "rape" it just shows how deeply nonsensical, unscientific and non functional this "modern definitions" have made normal human society. As per the science of communication- 93% of all feelings and emotions are communicated nonverbally. Verbose and verbal communication is effective and relevant to data, information, facts, business transactions and the weather!

This is just gaslighting the male partner ex post facto. Sex is not a business transaction or even a sports item. Its a deeply passionate and emotional thing. The lure of the unknown and breaking new ground, doing new things feed this passion. Many women have described the awesome excitement inherent in waking up the partner's dick in her pussy! Or tapping her lips! People who don't know these things- know nothing about sex! I have met plenty of girls who, while describing past "missed opportunities", said - "I so wish he had come and kissed me (or held me or hugged me or initiated stuff proactively without making her say yes explicitly. Often a woman doesnt wanna ruin it by making it verbose!

Just because in "Australian class rooms" (and all over woke lands), they preach that "it doesn't take away from spontaneity" doesn't mean that it doesn't kill spontaneity by making sex a game of Russian Roulette.

And malicious BS like saying "men have been predators all through history and have raped their women down the ages and we are lucky as a gender not to have been prosecuted since they didnt complain" is what has destroyed the noble concept of liberalism. These Trojan Horses infiltrated the Liberal camp and made it implode. When the rabid RW disparagingly call Liberals "cuck boys".. we must realise that these sickos in the Liberal camp have made all of us look like sacrificial, dumb, self destructing lab animals in the minefields of social engineering! Recently a Canadian lady politician (wont name her) said on social media, in response to this kinda nonsense - "if my husband has to take affirmative consent when he kisses me, I would much rather he didnt kiss me"!

I am sorry for this rant. But this gender apartheid nonsense on a sex positive site, can't be allowed to ride..

The U.S. Department of Justice defines rape as “the penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.”3 The federal government uses this legal definition to collect information from local police about rape. The legal definition of rape may be slightly different in your community.

Giving your consent means giving a clear “yes” to any type of sexual activity, though the laws about consent vary from state to state. It is also rape when penetration takes place when you are drunk, high, drugged, passed out, or asleep and cannot give consent. People under the age of 18 (in most states) cannot give consent to sexual activity with an adult.

Enough said. What was done is against the law. Each situation is different but sticking your dick in someone without asking because once you heard about a women who liked it that way is not an excuse that is likely to stand up in court.

Get over it - they are in bed together many times- in & outta sleep having sex multiple times , stop hatin - let it go dude

[trecital]

Regards the whole "was it rape or wasn't it" debate, I'm not going to take sides.
All that I will say is that it appeared to me that the OP introduced this incident into the story thinking, maybe even knowing, that it would spice it up. Then, when it kicked off a distracting debate/argument, he tried to row it back, trying to make it a non issue.
It's funny, isn't it, how people's comments can sometimes seem to influence the direction of a story.

[Freemans892]

My take is that Lauren will cutoff Adam when she gets back from NYC.