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[JeffBingham]

I agree it Is likely to weigh heavy on him it is exiting but that part will pass

Or it could fester into resentment because of feeling so left out. Either way, I agree wholeheartedly that he MUST communicate what he needs out of all this. Many wives fail to realize that even though this lifestyle turns us on like nothing else, we still need reassurances and support just like they do.

[Wifesharing]

I meant the excitement will pass

I think he has done well and he needs to not put her off but he also has needs as well to think about

This thread has built so long now that it is real I hope this works out alright

[FNQLivin]

I share the above concerns. But also one more. Dylan must be single. He is similar age. Obviously attractive to Mrs Breaker. And she seems unwilling to share too much. She’s already calling him her boyfriend. That means dates. Meals. Time out together. The torment must be exciting and scary, but I also see real danger.

[Bayless]

Guys! Ease up a little on Mrs. Breaker! It’s only been two days! What do you expect ? This probably is one of the two or three most emotional experiences she has had in her life. She is trying to fit all of her reactions and emotions into who she is with a prospective boyfriend, wife of a husband, family, friends, workplace, possibly church etc. Give her some time. Breaker sounds like the adult in the room rather than those that are forecasting doom and gloom if she doesn’t give a blow by blow description of what occurred. Breaker and Mrs. B have the investment in this lifestyle, give them a break, especially the Mrs. She is the one doing the heavy lifting. Best Wishes to you both.

[Wifesharing]

No one is coming down on her. I understand her position as well we are expressing our concern I don’t believe anyone is saying she is not also in a place of r theme emotions as well and was very clear that she would not be okay telling to much . I just worry that he accepted that. It now it’s real it will sting more not knowing

I think they will be fine just communicating more is best

[newaussiecuck]

I don't see any additional danger due to her not disclosing much about the events. That was what was expected and agreed upon prior to the event. The only obligation for disclosure that she had was to confirm to Breaker if she had sex. She did have sex and she has disclosed that and lived up to her side of the bargain. Case closed, she's done everything expected of her that was agreed upon.

After the event Mrs Breaker has made effort to reconnect emotionally with Breaker, a nice evening hanging out, nice romantic bottle of wine etc etc. I see no problem at all, in fact it sounds like everything went great, everyone got out of it what they were hoping, and their relationship is still on solid ground.

It's likely WAY more exciting for Breaker if he doesn't know the details. In his mind Dylan has probably fucked her 1000 times in 100 different ways with all the scenarios he's likely to have come up with in his head. In reality, Dylan's likely only fucked her 3 times, maybe in 3 different ways.

[realcucklife]

Hi breaker,
I’m guessing there is also a bit more going on that what your able to share here.
Your statement about after all the planning now I’m a cuck what now? It’s important that your able to communicate, your tongue tied and she has to get used to being able to have these conversations with you, I know what your going through.
I think you need to explain a lot of any sex is mental, this is even more important with cuckolding, she is getting satisfaction of her needs, you enjoy things because of her enjoyment, you need to hear she is having fun, you need to hear the naughty stuff she is up to. It’s not pestering it’s sharing the adventure together.

You need this to be part of the adventure otherwise it will cause problems, as a cuck you have been baiting throwing in the line she needed a boyfriend to better meet her needs, when she has recently made reference to it you have got a bit defensive,you would have loved it if she made that statement a month ago, but as your not in the game, your not in the sub space so it feels like it comes from a different place and it doesn’t come across as hot.
Got to .......must!!! Find a way to have the conversations
I used tumblr to broach things, let things simmer or sink in, or to be able to say things that felt hard before face to face, your text is good idea, ask her questions in text, another fun thing we did was a list of questions she read and answered as I was under the covers eating her, not actually seeing me while she was answering helped, and being stimulated while answering also helped let down some inhibitions, and I swear she creamed and came hard from telling the story.

Celebrate the adventures ask for the panties, ask to wank over them, I have a trophy drawer with just her creamed panties, it then when she started bare back I have those, it’s the an excuse to buy her new ones. If we don’t play a lock up gain while she is away for the night it’s funnyo hear her say you can wank over my panties while I’m gonna be up to mischief.

[BallSpanking]

I think you will have plenty of opportunities to do household chores, as you have been, and now she has a BF, she will be seeing him either sporadically, or frequently. My guess, judging from HW experiences, is there may be an intense frequent period initially, where the NRE drives her libido with him. Then there is often a plateau, where the HW and her lover hit their stride, and get comfortable seeing one another whenever they like.

The only concern I would have, is that, given your wife's preference for privacy (or at least telling you a bare minimum), you may not even know when they hook-up, unless she tells you so. I guess what I am saying is that you may want to let her know that your pleasure in this, is knowing she is well pleasured. Therefore, the more you know of her pleasure, the more she pleases you. Perhaps you can suggest that when they do meet, she should have the time she needs, even if it's overnighters...

[newaussiecuck]

Is the agreement that she lets you know each and every time she has sex, or was it just to let you know the first time? I'm hoping it's at least letting you know each time she has sex.

I'm also hoping you were able to find out more about Tuesday night, but I know you're trying your best and the agreement was for her to share only what she was comfortable with.

[FNQLivin]

I hope I am not misunderstood. I am extremely jealous of this. I feel that we’ve all been on a journey with Breaker and his wife. I feel stupidly invested in this. However, from early days and when she indicated it might be possible, I don’t think that Breaker wanted it so that he got no information or needed to fight for it. I think he wanted something more than this but didn’t require a Hotwife experience with photos and threesome either.

I see risk in that he is obviously attractive, single, has good sex skills and attends the same gym and possibly even some shared friends or acquaintances. It would be easy to suddenly be left out of stuff, even unintentionally and then, as we know, things get a life of their own. She doesn’t have and didn’t want a FB. She wanted and got a BF.

As I said, massively jealous. This would be my dream scenario were it me, but perhaps with a little more involvement.

[wocka-wocka]

I think, so far, he is a part of the adventure. Yes, for sure, this scenario in particular is risky because she has a pattern of not sharing and some unexplained incidents. Breaker has posted incidents before where events/conversations with Mrs. Breaker just didn't add up. I think it is safe to say the "visits to the gym" were for more than just talking, but, less than her first time cuckolding Breaker.

Beyond that, I think we all wish the Breakers the best. It's already super-charged their marriage.

[Breaker445]

Thanks all for the replies and advice. I didn't intend for my previous post to sound negative in anyway, this has all still been really exciting. I guess with the boyfriend wording, that's what she called him, but I think by the way she talked about things it's more of a FWB. But she has told me she will tell me each time they hang out, it's just it may not be a set date and time like it was this past week, so that I have days in advance to prepare. Yes when I first introduced this I thought it would be incredible to hear every single detail no matter how small, but I've come to learn real quick that I don't need the full blown details, I just needed to know it happened. I do like the ideas realcuck suggested, and maybe down the road we can try those out, or maybe simply down the road she gets more comfortable with sharing things and she does tell me more.

The last few evenings together have been a lot of fun and she has been way more comfortable in flaunting her dominance over me in a playful manner.

[seydonar]

Playful dominance sounds fun!
Tuesday was off the hook, the suspense was awesome

[BallSpanking]

Maybe she will have an overnighter workout...

[TheHammer]

What are you fantasies for the Mrs in the future (you watching, Threesome with you, threesome without you, BBC, Trip to Hedonism, one night stand with a random, etc)?

Of those, any that you think are a real possibility that you will be talking to her about down the road?

[Breaker445]

Sorry for the lack of updates, really nothing to post about. We talked a little more last night about things, she told me she had a really good time on Tuesday, but admitted the last few days since has sort of been a fog to her, I will have to say it has for me too. The talk wasn't about details of the night, but more about the time and the feelings felt. The reality has started to set in, but she told me she had a really good time. She did say as of now there are no future plans between them, but again sort of gave me the caution that 'it could just happen'. That door between them is open now. But she reiterated that she would let me know each time and I told her I was all good for that as long as she let me know.

[FNQLivin]

Thanks for the update. I really love your story and journey.

[Breaker445]

Thanks for the update. I really love your story and journey.

Thank you, it has been a wild ride that is for sure. I've thought of making a new thread to talk about things from here on.

[4v273]

Sorry for the lack of updates, really nothing to post about. We talked a little more last night about things, she told me she had a really good time on Tuesday, but admitted the last few days since has sort of been a fog to her, I will have to say it has for me too. The talk wasn't about details of the night, but more about the time and the feelings felt. The reality has started to set in, but she told me she had a really good time. She did say as of now there are no future plans between them, but again sort of gave me the caution that 'it could just happen'. That door between them is open now. But she reiterated that she would let me know each time and I told her I was all good for that as long as she let me know.

This is great. Not rushing, taking the time to sort out emotions and reconnect.

To protect your marriage it needs to work for both of you.

You are getting suggestions for what others either fantasize about, or works for them. More important is what is best for the breakers.





Re-another thread......often it is advised to continue in just one thread. Keeps it all together and easy to find, and this one will not fall off the board and be lost.

[Bayless]

Good Afternoon Breaker, Just read your most recent post and am interested in your thought about starting a new thread. I have some experience from a few years ago regarding the cuckold theme, but I wasn’t nearly as thoughtful and as well planned as you have been. In an open forum such as this one with many different participants you have raised the bar regarding writing skills, use of appropriate language, and reflection and thought processes for both yourself and Mrs. B. I think it was a great example of the difficulty that this process represents, with many speed bumps along the way, but you contained your enthusiasm and kept your focus on the great benefits of making it happen. That is not an easy task.

So back to your thinking regarding a new thread! What you have accomplished to this point as I said is raising the bar. A new thread with your skills and judgement would be really interesting and would address phase two, how to transition into the sharing lifestyle. You are so proficient at reporting your own thoughts and reflections and also your insight into Mrs. B reactions, facial expressions , moods, and thinking. That is valuable information. As we all know, one size does not fit all, in regard to approaching sharing, but your approach represents realistic issues that are faced along the way that would be of great interest to many couples.

I probably am being overly stuffy regarding the term “sharing.” I just see it as much more descriptive of the process than Cuckold which to me at least carries way to much baggage in a negative way. Again, thank you for your writing gift that you have shared with us. It was great. Good luck and best wishes to you and your wonderful Mrs. on your journey.

[DavidnDaria]

What people don't understand about a new thread is this: If this thread goes inactive in favor of a new thread, it will simply scroll off the system (there is no archival system other than the story sub-forum). All the experience and time you've put into writing this story will be lost forever. It's your story, but consider keeping it one thread. That way, people can see it all, from start to finish.

[newaussiecuck]

Hi Breaker, can you elaborate further on how she's been more dominant lately, like you mentioned in your recent post? Also, can you elaborate more on what she and you said about your feelings from the event?

If you do make a new thread the I vote this gets turned into a sticky so that is not lost and everyone can benefit from the 2 year journey to get to this point.

[wocka-wocka]

This is great. Not rushing, taking the time to sort out emotions and reconnect.

To protect your marriage it needs to work for both of you.

More important is what is best for the breakers.

Excellent advice. Just keep the communication about her and your feelings about each other open, honest, and loving right now. It should be obvious that doesn't mean ask her about her date.

I am opposed to a new thread.

[joel68]

Yeah, just keep going with this one. If someone new come on here, then they can read what happened from the start.

[viking53]

Thanks for the update. I really love your story and journey.

Thank you, it has been a wild ride that is for sure. I've thought of making a new thread to talk about things from here on.

Your journey has been fascinating and you have been very generous in sharing all the details and particularly your feelings as things slowly developed. I think this thread is one of the most valuable for someone thinking of embarking on the journey to really understand the time and patience needed and the pitfalls that can occur on the journey. If you do decide to start on a new thread, which I can understand because you are dealing with completely new feelings, I suggest you ask the moderators to move this thread to the Library so that it doesn't disappear and then add a link to it in your signature.