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[joel68]

She was gone close to five hours. If they are in the Pacific Zone, the dinner would be a little early for most people in their age bracket. Allow an hour max for drive time and maybe a half hour for cocktails, and maybe a half hour as Newaussie said for room service, that puts her in a hotel room with Dylan for close to three hours.

I can only imagine what he did to her with all that time. Wouldn't be surprised if he fucked her at least three times last Tuesday. And based upon the things she has let come out since, it may have been quite a fuck session.

So Breaker, how about you letting all of us know how you feel about all the posts since you last said anything here. That would be cool to hear from you, as always.

[Bayless]

Take your time Breaker. Don’t rush it. It’s your party, not ours.

[FNQLivin]

Take your time Breaker. Don’t rush it. It’s your party, not ours.

This!

[slickestchick]

Take your time Breaker. Don’t rush it. It’s your party, not ours.

LOL>...! But we so want an update

[Bayless]

It’s not about your wants. It’s all about the Breakers!

[newaussiecuck]

Well according to page 81/82 she was away 5 hours. If that ran from, say, 6pm, that means she texted at 9.30pm and returned home at 11pm.

Or shift those times back perhaps one hour to 7pm, 10.30pm and midnight.

Or, following newaussiecuck shift forward to 4pm start.

I think 6pm is the most likely. She arrives at say 6.30pm and leaves at 10.30pm. That ties in with her not staying overnight, not being out excessively late, ie she drinks till 7pm, eats till 8.30pm (it is a restaurant, after all), goes upstairs for round 1 till 9.30pm, then texts and then has another hour till 10.30pm. At that point she thinks she better get back - not too late.

In town all those times would work well an hour later - but things start early in small villages.

newaussiecuck suggests a 4pm start. That is quite early for drinking; and going up to a room at 6.30pm could mean only one obvious thing to the reception staff, and an 8.30pm finish is early - she could have had another hour without Breaker being upset.

Whatever. The important thing is that she got a damn good fucking from Dylan, Breaker is her beloved cuckold and she is going to do it all again, with Breaker's blessing.

Yep we all agree she got the fucking of her life!

I just re-read the description of when she returned home to see what prompted me to think they might be in the West coast timezone. She had time for the initial greet at the door, time to go get changed. Time to relax on the couch and watch a couple of TV shows before getting ready to go to bed. Does getting ready for bed include a shower too, with washing and drying her hair? If not then she slept with Dylan's cum still in and on her. Remember her panties were soaked in his cum.

Seems like a lot to fit in (probably a couple of hours for all that) with getting up early for work if she got home as late as 11pm. I'd think if it was 11pm when she returned home there wouldn't be time to relax on the couch and watch a couple of TV shows. That was what prompted me to think they're in a later time zone.

Purely speculation and I'm also trying to piece this together from over in Australia so not as familiar with the US timezones and what's likely on TV at that time of night. From where I am there's nothing worth putting the TV on for at that time of night. Mind you there's not much worth it in prime time these days either.

[Bayless]

We watch Crocodile Dundee!

[conflictedhubby]

I'm more inclined to believe Mrs. Breaker wouldn't be comfortable texting Breaker in front of Dylan, at least not yet. Considering the time she texted prior to arriving back home, Dylan probably went to take a shower in the hotel room, she whips out phone quickly to check on Breaker and then joined him in shower for one last go before leaving. At least...thats what I like to picture

[joel68]

Yeah, could be. Some stuff has come out about that night which has been mentioned and also speculated on as well. Maybe more will be revealed in time. I hope so.

Breaker will undoubtably be back on here when his schedule permits. Sometimes normal life gets in the way of posting here. I look forward to what he has to say about all the posts since he was last here.

We wait patiently.

[Breaker445]

Sorry guys just haven't had time to sit down and reply and unfortunately I don't have much to share this go around. Lots of replies and thoughts and I apologize I wont be able to dive into all of them and answer them all, but one thing is as it reminded me of their date night and it's within view as I type this is conflictedhubby's post about her texting on their date. I forgot, but his post reminded me of something she said when she got home that night. I brought up I had been waiting by my phone and was hoping for a text. She had this seductive smirk and told me, "I know, but I wasn't focused on my phone." I forgot about that little comment she made, but it was hot to hear.

I don't have much to share at this time, well I may, but unfortunately I don't have the time right now to share my thoughts, but will try to get to them later today.

[joel68]

Good you came back on here to check in. It appears that more and more details about Tuesday of last week seems to be slowly coming out.

Hopefully we will get more down the road.

Breaker, looking forward to later on today to any more info about your current situation and any insights as well. I hope you have time today to do so.

[60dCommon]

Hey, how'er you doing? Not sure it matters, but I'm in the camp that believes you two are doing fine. I've long admired how your wife has grown into her roles as cuckoldress and head of your household. I've admired you too for nearly always finding a balance between topping from the bottom and leaving Ms. B. without enough feedback to feel you're always with her.

Really curious to hear if your conversation has included more discussion of your growing Femdom/FLR, in addition to the cuck stuff that's obviously front and center right now. You've hinted that she's enjoying her dominance more ("you're going to...", etc.) - just curious to her more about how this is all playing out.

Of course, I'm also curious about her cucking activities too. I imagine she and Dylan have hooked up at least once since your last update - sounds like it could be happening at your place in the evenings. Raises the possibility/opportunity that you've been home when he's there? Does she banish you to a spare bedroom, or have you met?

Can't wait to hear!

[echoplex]

If I remember correctly, wasn't her date the second dick she's ever had? If so, I am surprised she is not craving more and wanting to hook up again immediately.

[FNQLivin]

There is a much projection in this thread. She made clear that she didn’t want this to dominate their relationship. She may or may not have met Dylan again, she could have spent a wonderful weekend with her husband. I suggest we wait for an update.

[newaussiecuck]

Hi Breaker, just wanted to check in with how you're doing. Hope everything is OK with you and Mrs Breaker.

You mentioned in your last post that you had a few more additional thoughts to share? I would love to hear them and any other updates you might have from the last few days.

Like FNQLivin, I hope you've had a great weekend. Either relaxing with the stunning Mrs Breaker, or having all of your cuck dreams fulfilled.

I just hope you're both doing well. Take care of yourself and Mrs Breaker.

[conflictedhubby]

my paranoid nature has me thinking all sorts of unpleasant scenarios as to the reason for Breaker not updating in 3 days...hope everything is ok Breaker!

[Bayless]

Hopefully, no news is good news.

[BallSpanking]

Consider that this is basically the first 15 days of Ms Breaker becoming a HW. There must be a ton of crap and adjustments to go through.
My guess is Breaker is being patient and supportive, and his wife is processing. If she sees Dylan again, we will likely hear about it.

[wocka-wocka]

There is a much projection in this thread. She made clear that she didn’t want this to dominate their relationship. She may or may not have met Dylan again, she could have spent a wonderful weekend with her husband. I suggest we wait for an update.

This. It's a huge shift in the relationship between the Mr. and Mrs. Mrs. is likely conflicted after getting it good. Lots for the both of them to work through, check out, check in, be sure they are connected.

Leave the Breakers alone.

[Breaker445]

Sorry, been a busy time lately and just haven't had time to post. Also, to be honest here, I have been a little reluctant to post the most recent updates because I am sure anyone who has been following this thread will roll their eyes and want to yell, "I told you so!" But, all those who gave the advice that communication was huge, were spot on. I read that great advice and I processed it and I thought about it, but I thought our communication was good enough, and maybe it was because most of the time I was thinking with a different head, and the possibility of this fantasy becoming a reality was just too exciting that you think it'll go as planned and just get there and figure the rest out later. Don't get me wrong, the fact she did it is still very exciting to me, but what has followed has left me confused. We have talked, I've posted about that, I figured, or thought that, she'd maybe open up more to me not about details of what happened but let me know more often when she was chatting with him or if they were meeting up, etc. But that hasn't been the case and oddly and for reasons I am still trying to figure out, it's been the complete opposite.

I am trying to find the time to bring up the lack of communication about all this. Part of me thinks wait until we have our bedroom time and see what she reveals in bedroom talk, maybe suggest a D/s session and see what she reveals as I am playing sub and she's in Dom mode. Part of me wonders, do I just wait until she brings it up? Oddly enough, even though yes, I would prefer for her to tell me even in the slightest way that she was hanging out with him, for some reason right now this situation works. Certainly seems to work for her.

Then this morning she brings up to me that in a couple weeks her and a girlfriend are planning on going to dinner and then dancing. She very clearly told me I was not invited and that the night was about her and not about me. She told me in a teasing way and in a way she was very excited about that night. I was very pleased to hear her say all this and I curiously asked what she planned on wearing. She rattled off her leather pants, her leather skirts, but didn't know about any tops, but also left the door open she may get an entirely new outfit. I tried to suggest the leather pants or skirts would be perfect and she thought about it like she was thinking those were perfect options too.

[FNQLivin]

Breaker, this is not good. Don’t wait. You two need to sit down now. There is a huge difference to her not telling you before and her straight out being evasive. This won’t end well unless you both communicate.

The hair, the gym visits and now a dancing night with her friends where you know he will be and where she’s effectively implying ‘you are not invited, but he will be’ and at the end of the night, if she comes home, she’s not even going to tell you about it?

The damp knickers. Was it his cum or her dampness you felt? I thought she using condoms with you both

[Breaker445]

Breaker, this is not good. Don’t wait. You two need to sit down now. There is a huge difference to her not telling you before and her straight out being evasive. This won’t end well unless you both communicate.

The hair, the gym visits and now a dancing night with her friends where you know he will be and where she’s effectively implying ‘you are not invited, but he will be’ and at the end of the night, if she comes home, she’s not even going to tell you about it?

The damp knickers. Was it his cum or her dampness you felt? I thought she using condoms with you both

I know we need to talk about it, but at the same time this still exciting. Her telling me about the upcoming club dancing and telling me about the outfits she plans to wear just really reignites the excitement of it all. I don't think she wont tell me about anything when she gets back from that dance night, or well I guess my hope is much like it was that Tuesday night that she will tell me something happened. What I don't get is she has told me once, so why not tell me more times? Or she has to eventually tell me about more times? We have been texting today and she let me know she is probably going to wear her leather pants, her black patent leather heels but she wants a top. So in a way she is making me involved with this night, which makes me hopeful she will be open about what happens. Maybe she's trying to sort through feelings and although is really enjoying this isn't comfortable or doesn't know how to fully express it to me? Maybe she finds the excitement in sneaking around? I did find it exciting how she told me she was going to a club and how she teased me that the night wasn't about me either. Which I knew what she meant by that and that was hot, that she was making it clear the night was about her and her having fun.

[FNQLivin]

I get where you are coming from but you know this isn’t good. She can cuckold you, she can tease you, but she has to talk to you. This is like having an affair where the other person suspects but never truly knows. I am not a cheerleader, nor am I a doom and gloom merchant. I do however worry in some threads that people’s kinks and fantasies blind them to what’s happening in front of them.

My whole concern with this man is it’s been done without you knowing anything about him. What his motivations are. Does he know that he’s just a toy? If he does, does he intend to keep it that way? More importantly, why is she lying to you? Because that’s what a hair appointment with no cut or straightening that takes 5hrs is.

You need to speak to her as soon as you can. Otherwise she will think this is how you want to play this exciting game. But perhaps it’s not a game to her? Perhaps she’s thinking there’s this nice sexy guy, good fun, attractive, sexy and my husband doesn’t mind. I don’t have to tell him about when we meet and if he suspects, then that’s all part of the fun! Then, as she falls in love with him, leaving you out of the communications will become easie and easier, to the point where she will resent telling you anything. And she’ll tell herself that is what you want and enjoy. And all the time, you’re convincing yourself that she’ll tell you this time. And if not this time, next time.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Breaker,

Thanks for the update.
I think your wife, as she already told you, finds it uncomfortable to talk to you about her dates with Dylan, because, well, you are her husband, and here she is fucking someone else! ( )
Give it time, you are probably right, she will become more comfortable sharing the events with you, and maybe, eventually speak to you the way she would to a girlfriend, which is, what you are likely shooting for.

You might let her know, as you go shopping with her, that you are eager to be of greater assistance when it comes to getting her ready. Perhaps you could offer to shave her baby-smooth, so she is nice and freash for Dylan. She might be shocked, but if you presented this as something naughty, she might go for it.

It is great that they are going dancing, and having fun. Remind her there is NO curfew, and that what you most want is for her to have a wonderful time, for as long as she wants.

[conflictedhubby]

I'm not a cuckold, and I frankly don't have the courage to introduce this lifestyle to my own wife, but I have to agree with FNQLivin. This does not sound good. You might have sub tendencies but this isn't submissive...the hiding it from you isn't intended to push your buttons, the only way that happens is if you know. Granted you're doing the same thing by hiding this forum and thread from her but you're doing it for advice to heighten and strengthen your relationship, her deceptions are not. They sound selfish. Shes either scared to share or doesn't want to because she gets off on hiding it.

Frankly I've been following your lead recently. Encouraging my wife to give me chores and I am enjoying the dynamic and I am making my own progress. My next suggestion is not projection, but hopefully taken more as advice from someone who works on his own communication and intimacy issues. Tell her you know, and you knew from day 1 what she was hiding in the hamper. You might be a sub, but you're not a doormat. Again bear in mind this advice comes from someone who's not even sure if he is a sub or not and a complete stranger to you, but does have your best interest at heart.