Cucks and SPH

[desertsub]

On two different nights she brought two different friends home from the bar with her to show them. I always got hard as soon as I heard her come in the house, so both times her friends got to see me tied naked and blindfolded with my little hard as a rock erection. They both agreed that I was small and talked about how lucky she was that I was okay with her fucking other guys.

What I find especially erotic about this experience is that you had an erection! There is something so hot envisioning you tied to your bed, blind-folded and your penis and nakedness exposed for all to see. There's something so erotic about just "putting it out there" and saying, "this is me, I'm small and it turns me on to show you!" The hotness is only made better by the fact these gals knew you let your wife get satisfaction with other men. That is a great example of the attractiveness of this kink. So much of it is mental!

It was extremely intense for me. The first time she did it I had no idea whatsoever that she would do that! I don't know if either of them saw, but my face had to have been beet red because it sure felt like it. Other than the high school locker room this was the first time I had experienced SPH, and my erection never went away. They sat on the bed and talked about my size and her cuckolding me and one or both played with my erection as they talked, I couldn't tell at any time which one of them was stroking me. Anytime I gave any indication that I might cum they would leave me alone for a minute or two to calm down. My wife finished me off after her friend left.

The second time it happened I was just as embarrassed because the friend she brought home lived two doors down from us! Again, my erection never went down. This friend, unlike the first one, was a bit freaked out. She said "I know you told us that you leave him like this but I didn't really believe you!" She was a lot more I guess you would say animated. She acknowledged that I was small and that she could see why my wife was fucking other guys. She didn't stay very long, she wasn't as comfortable with the situation as my wife's first friend was. After she left my wife masturbated me and told me "Just think, every time you see Rita from now on you will think about how she saw you tied up with your hard little dick sticking straight up!" At that point I had one of the most intense orgasms I had ever experienced.

Those scenarios have never been repeated, even though I've told my wife how hot they were for me. When she went into nursing the whole dynamic of my cuckolding changed. She stopped fucking guys in our town, preferring the discretion of playing out of town. She also started wanting me present to watch. I really miss those early days!

[SmallHubbyTexas]

When we started this, the first time I got to watch, I had to be wearing a cage. Right after we put the cage on, she told me I looked better with the cage on.

I told my wife it was ok to do sph but she was hesitant to do it in front of others.

That first summer, the 3 of us were at a nude beach, I had to go cageless. Another couple came up to talk with us and quickly figured out I was the husband but she was there with her boyfriend. The other lady asked my wife she had the boyfriend and my responded, “I love my husband but look at his cock. It is really only good for his hand.” As my wife said that and they all turned to look at me, I got hard. The other lady said.”I see what you mean.” And they all laughed. That evening as I was caged again and as the boyfriends cock was entering her, she said “you are so much bigger than my husband.” The next day she asked if I was ok, and I said just, it was humiliating but I liked it. Then she started doing sph often.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

On two different nights she brought two different friends home from the bar with her to show them. I always got hard as soon as I heard her come in the house, so both times her friends got to see me tied naked and blindfolded with my little hard as a rock erection. They both agreed that I was small and talked about how lucky she was that I was okay with her fucking other guys.

What I find especially erotic about this experience is that you had an erection! There is something so hot envisioning you tied to your bed, blind-folded and your penis and nakedness exposed for all to see. There's something so erotic about just "putting it out there" and saying, "this is me, I'm small and it turns me on to show you!" The hotness is only made better by the fact these gals knew you let your wife get satisfaction with other men. That is a great example of the attractiveness of this kink. So much of it is mental!

I just automatically get hard when my wife ties me up, there's no stopping it. There was one day that she left me tied up for a number of hours (not sure how many, maybe more than 3 but less than 8?) and that thing just would not go down.

[subguy80]

I just automatically get hard when my wife ties me up, there's no stopping it. There was one day that she left me tied up for a number of hours (not sure how many, maybe more than 3 but less than 8?) and that thing just would not go down.

I agree, there is something very erotic about being restrained and naked. Sarah and Aaron have done this with me a couple of different ways. Sometimes I'm tied to a chair and blind-folded in the bedroom where they are fucking. I hear the noises and their voices, but can't move or see. Then, when they're done, sometimes I'll hear them in the shower or leaving to go to the pool. I have no idea how long they'll leave me that way and it's so hot to just rely on what you can hear and smell.

Sometimes they'll choose to tie me to the bed in "my" room and I listen to them from a distance. That can also be hot. Erections for me aren't an issue because I'm always caged.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

I just automatically get hard when my wife ties me up, there's no stopping it. There was one day that she left me tied up for a number of hours (not sure how many, maybe more than 3 but less than 8?) and that thing just would not go down.

I agree, there is something very erotic about being restrained and naked...Erections for me aren't an issue because I'm always caged.

Most of the time, when she ties me up the cage is off because she wants to sit on my cock and make me cum in her pussy so that she can sit on my face and make me lick it out. She *really* likes doing that and my cock never fails to cooperate .

[desertsub]

I just automatically get hard when my wife ties me up, there's no stopping it. There was one day that she left me tied up for a number of hours (not sure how many, maybe more than 3 but less than 8?) and that thing just would not go down.

Back then I was a lot younger and my erection would stay for quite a while after she had left, but eventually it would go away. She was always gone for several hours, and a couple of times didn't get home until the sun was coming up! Even though my erection would go away, as soon as I heard anything that sounded like the front door I would instantly get hard. By the time she walked into the bedroom I would always be erect.

Now, I have to have stimulation to get an erection and I have to take a blue pill to be able to keep it for any length of time. If she were to tie me up now and expose me to one of her friends she would definitely use my inability to keep an erection as a way of SPH in front of her friend.

[cukgrl69]

I should say that we also get into the converse of this as well, i.e. Loose Pussy Humiliation. I guess we sort of are into both. I like say stuff to my wife about her pussy being too loose and stretched out. We talk both about how my cock is too small to satisfy her, and also about how her pussy is too stretched out to be usable by most men. I tell her she has the pussy of a used whore.

[CoupleFun555]

My wife has told several medical professionals that I am small as well as a few potential BFs. Once they see me naked, her BFs can just see it. I like being teased, but it’s almost impossible to humiliate me. I just know I have a lot of strengths. When she teases me that she needs something bigger inside of her, it’s a huge turn on, not just because I am small but because she is honestly acknowledging she really enjoys sex with big cock.

[droopy1]

Years back when I would occasionally have sex with a girl and try to put on a condom It never fit well.I'm so small that it would only be one third unrolled and very loose always slipping off.Also the bulk of the unrolled portion at the base of my cock would get my pubic hair rolled up in it and pull painfully.

[subguy80]

My wife, her lover and I have several cuckold-themed t-shirts that we have fun wearing in certain venues when we want to have fun with SPH. Trashy bars are one of the best places because we aren't as afraid of running into someone we know and because the crowd in them can be quite fun. For some reason, in Tampa, we have a lot of trashy bars, so we're in luck.

Last night, we went to one such bar. Aaron and I had matching t-shirts, except his had a picture of a large rooster (cock) and mine had a small rooster on it. My wife, Sarah, wore her t-shirt that said "Size matters." People seemed to notice Sarah's shirt first and then looked at Aaron and me and the lightbulb went off in their eyes. We rehearsed what our story would be before we went. When asked about my penis size, the answer would be 3 1/2 inches hard and 2 inches soft. Aaron didn't have to lie, he's a true 8 hard and 5 soft. It was an especially lively crowd and we had a lot of fun. A couple of women wanted to see "mine." I didn't want to drop my pants in front of an audience, so I went over to a dark corner and the two women followed. I was wearing my cage, so I really was tiny. When I showed them, they said, "Oh my God, you are small. Can I touch it?" Throughout the evening, they'd say to someone else, "Yeah, I saw it. It's really small." One guy came up to me and whispered that he respected me for being "out" because his dick was small, too, but he was too shy to admit it. You would be surprised what people say to strangers (us) after a couple of drinks!! Sometimes we wear the t-shirts and no one seems to notice. Then, other times, we get the reaction we got last night.

Cuckold, Bull and Hotwife t-shirts are a great gag gift that I highly recommend.

[trecital]

I was wearing my cage, so I really was tiny. When I showed them, they said, "Oh my God, you are small. Can I touch it?" Throughout the evening, they'd say to someone else, "Yeah, I saw it. It's really small."

Question is, what size is your cage? I'm presuming small enough that you couldn't get an erection, or even a semi.

[subguy80]

I was wearing my cage, so I really was tiny. When I showed them, they said, "Oh my God, you are small. Can I touch it?" Throughout the evening, they'd say to someone else, "Yeah, I saw it. It's really small."

Question is, what size is your cage? I'm presuming small enough that you couldn't get an erection, or even a semi.

I have a custom cage. It's a Jailbird from Mature Metal. The length is 2 1/2". My soft dick measures about 3, so we reduced the cage by 1/2 inch and I'm very happy with it. I don't get an erection or semi when I'm wearing it. For us, that's the goal. When I first got it, my dick would try and get erect at night and it would wake me up and be uncomfortable. After time, though, my dick got used to the confinement of the cage and I don't have that "problem" anymore.

[maxbud]

I know many cucks enjoy small penis humiliation, but I'm curious about how extensive it is. I personally have an average sized penis when I'm erect, but I'm often pretty tiny when I'm soft. I'm pretty sure the chastity cage that I've been wearing off and on for 5 years has contributed to that. For some reason, I find that I'm getting more and more turned on by SPH. My wife's lover and co-husband (we're poly) is very well endowed and he never misses an opportunity to tease/humiliate me about the size difference. With him, it's real. He gets a big ego boost. My wife, on the other hand, used say she felt silly playing along, but that has all recently changed. We're increasingly incorporating SPH into our sex play.

She surprised me recently by telling me she told a co-worker that my penis was too small to satisfy her and that she had to find a lover. This colleague, who has met me, was present when Aaron picked Sarah up at work and Sarah introduced him as her partner. I haven't seen this woman since then, but the idea of seeing her and knowing what she "knows" is a huge turn on to me. Do others have a similar kink? Any opinions on why some of us enjoy SPH?

I usually am not a killjoy.... but today I have the contrary view


I have never understood the big deal with Small penis Humiliation. Honestly, just my opinion, but emphasis on SPH sounds more often as contrived and play-acting , than serious. (and more typical of juvenile teenage talk, than a mature adult sex issue)

Firstly, Nobody has control over their genetics... A person can neither be given credit for a big penis, nor be criticized for a small penis. (its just as odd as criticizing a cuck for being naturally short or naturally bald... what's the big deal??

Secondly, the majority of women, are attracted/aroused by Character/personality, sexual technique, care and attention, ... RESPECT for the man ,.. etc.. even disabled people have women who are in love with them. And for most women, the body of a man, is not the main attractor.


Cuckolding is hottest, when its about the WHOLE PERSON of the Bull versus the WHOLE CUCK.
When the woman is obsessed with the bull, for a host of reasons, and he has worked his way deep into her subconscious.
If its just about a big dick... it kinda feels empty/superficial and expendable.

I would rather have a Hotwife worshipping the ground her Idol (bull) walks on, and giving her whole being to him,... than seeing him just as an impersonal human dildo to be dumped whenever she does not feel the itch.

[trecital]

"I have never understood the big deal with Small penis Humiliation."..... Saw what you did there!!!

[desertsub]

I usually am not a killjoy.... but today I have the contrary view


I have never understood the big deal with Small penis Humiliation. Honestly, just my opinion, but emphasis on SPH sounds more often as contrived and play-acting , than serious. (and more typical of juvenile teenage talk, than a mature adult sex issue)

Well here's the thing Maxbud, it's a cuckold thing and you yourself have said that you've never been a cuckold so yeah, you probably wouldn't understand it.

It's like Harley riders say, "If I had to explain it you probably wouldn't understand."

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Firstly, Nobody has control over their genetics... A person can neither be given credit for a big penis, nor be criticized for a small penis.

It's not about control over genetics, it's about eroticizing what one might consider a genetic deficiency over which they had no control. It's a psychological coping mechanism- taking something that makes you feel 'bad' about yourself, and turning it into a source of pleasure.

[Joveisbeta]

My dick is average length and somewhat thick. The length is nothing like the toys we use, so my wife likes to say that my dick is short. She also gets a kick out of how the head gets covered up by the skin on my shaft when my dick is limp. We call it turtle mode. We recently got a Evotion Bijou chastity cage and had it inscribed with "unworthy". My wife loves teasing me that I am unworthy to enter her pussy. We are nudists and several of our female friends have commented about how I am not well endowed and that I must not fill my wife up or satisfy her. Huge turn on for sure for both of us knowing that they know I'm small.

[desertsub]

Firstly, Nobody has control over their genetics... A person can neither be given credit for a big penis, nor be criticized for a small penis.

It's not about control over genetics, it's about eroticizing what one might consider a genetic deficiency over which they had no control. It's a psychological coping mechanism- taking something that makes you feel 'bad' about yourself, and turning it into a source of pleasure.

Exactly!

[cukgrl69]

Cuckolding is hottest, when its about the WHOLE PERSON of the Bull versus the WHOLE CUCK.
When the woman is obsessed with the bull, for a host of reasons, and he has worked his way deep into her subconscious.
If its just about a big dick... it kinda feels empty/superficial and expendable.

I would rather have a Hotwife worshipping the ground her Idol (bull) walks on, and giving her whole being to him,... than seeing him just as an impersonal human dildo to be dumped whenever she does not feel the itch.

I guess I'm the opposite. I do want my wife to see her partners as human dildos :p

I certainly don't want her falling in love with them. I like the idea of a woman needing more sexual fulfillment than any individual can provide. And also the idea of a woman who needs a huge cock to satisfy her. Luckily for me, my wife fits that bill :p

I like that my wife needs many men with large cocks to satisfy her sexually, but only needs me to satisfy her emotionally.

[trecital]

Firstly, Nobody has control over their genetics... A person can neither be given credit for a big penis, nor be criticized for a small penis.

It's not about control over genetics, it's about eroticizing what one might consider a genetic deficiency over which they had no control. It's a psychological coping mechanism- taking something that makes you feel 'bad' about yourself, and turning it into a source of pleasure.

Firstly, maxbud's comment is patently not true.....why can't someone be given credit for a big penis. And someone with a small one can definitely be criticised.

And I agree with you, Bent_n_Twisted.
But there is often a deeper psychological aspect here.....I'm average size (ok, slightly under average, but not by much), and still get excited by SPH, even though it's not really justified. And I think that's the case for many men.
I won't get involved in trying to explain why it pushes my buttons.....it's complex.
But, I do know that it's way more popular a topic than the % of small cocks that actually exist, would suggest.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

But there is often a deeper psychological aspect here.....I'm average size (ok, slightly under average, but not by much), and still get excited by SPH, even though it's not really justified. And I think that's the case for many men.
I won't get involved in trying to explain why it pushes my buttons.....it's complex.

Similar here, I'm on the better end of 'average' but nowhere near 'porn star size'...and I feel a bit of envy along with a bit of inadequacy when watching porn. I suspect that it may come from a general tendency (for all guys) to equate 'bigger' with 'better', big dick = good, little dick = bad. From school age we see the big football players getting the hot cheerleaders and we think that all the chicks want big, because we assume that their dicks match their physical size...of course, later in life we learn that being a big guy does not equate with having a big dick, but it's too late, the stereotype is already installed. One of our cop friends is a big, imposing dude, and my wife recently revealed that she fucked him...I also learned that "...he only has a little 4" dick."

And then, some of us later learn that not all women want those huge 'porn star' cocks. My wife has told me that I'm the biggest she's ever had, and that if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me near her. Of course, that doesn't override the long-held belief that all women really do want the biggest dicks they can get, and the thought that she would go nuts on a 'porn star' cock.

[LongTermHubby]

I once asked my wife if she had ever been with a man who was too large for her. She smiled and answered "not yet."

[vladdy]

When I was cucked we backed into SPH but she loved dealing it. This was with an ex of mine. I have a slightly above average cock with decent girth. But she turned out to be quite a size queen. She had never had big cock before the two of us were together, but we had a great, very open sex life and did a ton of experimenting. One thing we started doing was role playing with big dildos, and I never thought it would lead to anything. But eventually she met a guy online and cheated on me.

I caught her pretty quickly because she was a terrible liar, but that was not the end of them having sex. I asked her a lot of questions why she cheated and she told me that it was because he had such an enormous porn cock that she didn't think she'd ever get the oppurtunity. That's when it turned into cuckolding. We made up for the cheating but she asked if she could go 'one more time' and I consented. As we talked about her experiences at that point she told me that his cock was so big and it made her cum in ways she's never cum before. It was just an intensity since he filled her up in a way I never could. I don't know why but I was so turned on when she told me that compared to him I didn't stand a chance.

I also found out that day that two of her very close friends knew everything about her activities with her new lover. Including the why she was having sex with him, the bigger more satisfying cock. We had gone to a party with her friends and it was so awkward with them, knowing full well that they supported her and thought she deserved to sleep with a guy outside our relationship if I wasn't satisfying her enough. Interestingly enough, they also helped keep us together. They pointed out to my girl that if she just wanted to get laid she should just sleep with the other guy instead of breaking up our good relationship to be with a guy, when other than sex, she wasn't super interested in him. Later at night at the party we were alone for a little bit and one of the friends brought the topic up, saying it was awesome that we had worked things out. I played dumb a little but she assured me that she knew all the details and said it was awesome of me to let my girl get her needs taken care of by a more well endowed guy since I couldn't. That was so embarrassing, but I remember also trying to hide the fact that my cock was bulging in my pants. The other friend chimed in and wanted to know from me if I was going to support my girl in sleeping with her lover. I tried to defer and say that we haven't discussed that enough leaning to a no. And she pressed me asking why I didn't want my girl to be happy and satisfied. I argued that I wanted her to be, but I didn't want her to be with anyone else either. After a bunch of back and forth they all, one way or another called my cock small and unfulfilling and complimented the lovers big dick.

[subguy80]

But there is often a deeper psychological aspect here.....I'm average size (ok, slightly under average, but not by much), and still get excited by SPH, even though it's not really justified. And I think that's the case for many men.
I won't get involved in trying to explain why it pushes my buttons.....it's complex.

Similar here, I'm on the better end of 'average' but nowhere near 'porn star size'...and I feel a bit of envy along with a bit of inadequacy when watching porn. I suspect that it may come from a general tendency (for all guys) to equate 'bigger' with 'better', big dick = good, little dick = bad. From school age we see the big football players getting the hot cheerleaders and we think that all the chicks want big, because we assume that their dicks match their physical size...of course, later in life we learn that being a big guy does not equate with having a big dick, but it's too late, the stereotype is already installed. One of our cop friends is a big, imposing dude, and my wife recently revealed that she fucked him...I also learned that "...he only has a little 4" dick."

And then, some of us later learn that not all women want those huge 'porn star' cocks. My wife has told me that I'm the biggest she's ever had, and that if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me near her. Of course, that doesn't override the long-held belief that all women really do want the biggest dicks they can get, and the thought that she would go nuts on a 'porn star' cock.

I totally agree with everything said here, especially "there is often a deeper psychological aspect here." I think a lot of men assume two ideas that are not necessarily true: 1) my dick is small and 2) women prefer bigger cocks. But it doesn't really matter if these statements are true or not. We can still play with the "kink" idea and have lots of sexy fun, especially if we're caged and then we're tiny, in reality.

My wife always says she loves all cocks but she loves big cocks MORE. We have the "perfect storm" in our relationship in that she finally is getting comfortable teasing me with SPH and her lover, Aaron, who is porn star sized, enjoys it even more. So, I get it from both directions.

[MartasBoy]

My wife's boyfriend lives in a big city two hours away. My wife has become pretty good friends with his sister. I know she has told her that my penis is too small to satisfy her.

Sometimes I go into the city with her. She and I will spend some time together, and she will have a night or two with him. His sister insists that I stay at her house, to give my wife and her brother time together.

She will ask me to do things for her and will say, "I have some things you can do, to make yourself useful, while your wife is busy". I know that the message is clear: "You're of no use in satisfying your wife sexually, but at least you can mow my lawn".