How sexual was your girlfriend/wife before cuckolding?

[bradisalpha]

My wife was sexual liked to have sex. However she was very vanila in the sex she liked to have misionary and really noting else like to give hand jobs but not blow jobs. Liked to keep things clean mostly condoms as to not get the stuff everywhere.

You can imagine my shock when we start this and I saw a side of her unleashed I didn't know existed. She seems to really love sucking cock to completion and positions and even anal wow. I think for her it s block because I am her husband or something, we never really discussed it much I enjoy knowing she has that side and seeing it but I am perfectly happy with the sex we have between us as well. I believe fully if I push for that stuff i would get it but I figure I don't want to push her into anything.

It is common that a wife will go much further and become “unleashed” with a boyfriend while at the same time be much more reserved with her husband. As a BF, I have pushed many limits with a hot wife while she feels she has standards to maintain of being a respectable wife with her husband. I have often heard in conversation “oh, I could never do that” when referring to him. She seems to compartmentalize what she feels she should do as a wife compared to what she will do outside the constraints of her marriage.

Having a BF allows her the freedom of “letting herself go”without consequences of guilt or responsibility of her actions. She will let her BF take her down a path of extreme sexual experiences and adventures… a fascination of “being naughty with a bad boy” while they are together.

She will even dress differently in public with her BF .. extreme cleavage, short skirts, no panties, 4” heels, cling to him as his trophy.. when in her normal everyday life she will say “I could never do that” !! That transformation is as exciting to me as her BF as it is for her.. to see that perfect little wife become a sexual woman with no boundaries. But yet, when we are not together she goes back to being the perfect little wife !! This transformation is also very exciting to her cuckold and will result in him begging to see it, and be part of it, as often as possible.

Just sayin…..

Brad

[fredfred2]

Can't really argue with that.

[Wifesharing]

My wife was sexual liked to have sex. However she was very vanila in the sex she liked to have misionary and really noting else like to give hand jobs but not blow jobs. Liked to keep things clean mostly condoms as to not get the stuff everywhere.

You can imagine my shock when we start this and I saw a side of her unleashed I didn't know existed. She seems to really love sucking cock to completion and positions and even anal wow. I think for her it s block because I am her husband or something, we never really discussed it much I enjoy knowing she has that side and seeing it but I am perfectly happy with the sex we have between us as well. I believe fully if I push for that stuff i would get it but I figure I don't want to push her into anything.

It is common that a wife will go much further and become “unleashed” with a boyfriend while at the same time be much more reserved with her husband. As a BF, I have pushed many limits with a hot wife while she feels she has standards to maintain of being a respectable wife with her husband. I have often heard in conversation “oh, I could never do that” when referring to him. She seems to compartmentalize what she feels she should do as a wife compared to what she will do outside the constraints of her marriage.

Having a BF allows her the freedom of “letting herself go”without consequences of guilt or responsibility of her actions. She will let her BF take her down a path of extreme sexual experiences and adventures… a fascination of “being naughty with a bad boy” while they are together.

She will even dress differently in public with her BF .. extreme cleavage, short skirts, no panties, 4” heels, cling to him as his trophy.. when in her normal everyday life she will say “I could never do that” !! That transformation is as exciting to me as her BF as it is for her.. to see that perfect little wife become a sexual woman with no boundaries. But yet, when we are not together she goes back to being the perfect little wife !! This transformation is also very exciting to her cuckold and will result in him begging to see it, and be part of it, as often as possible.

Just sayin…..

Brad

I agree with this and it really makes sense to me. Like I said if I pushed things I could get all of that I have no doubt by why would I do that to my wife. Her feelings and desire to be one person with me and let loose with others is valid because it is her feelings. As her husband I want her to have both. As her Husband I know if I said I wanted the otehr side of her she would give it to me.

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife was sexual liked to have sex. However she was very vanila in the sex she liked to have misionary and really noting else like to give hand jobs but not blow jobs. Liked to keep things clean mostly condoms as to not get the stuff everywhere.

You can imagine my shock when we start this and I saw a side of her unleashed I didn't know existed. She seems to really love sucking cock to completion and positions and even anal wow. I think for her it s block because I am her husband or something, we never really discussed it much I enjoy knowing she has that side and seeing it but I am perfectly happy with the sex we have between us as well. I believe fully if I push for that stuff i would get it but I figure I don't want to push her into anything.

It is common that a wife will go much further and become “unleashed” with a boyfriend while at the same time be much more reserved with her husband. As a BF, I have pushed many limits with a hot wife while she feels she has standards to maintain of being a respectable wife with her husband. I have often heard in conversation “oh, I could never do that” when referring to him. She seems to compartmentalize what she feels she should do as a wife compared to what she will do outside the constraints of her marriage.

Having a BF allows her the freedom of “letting herself go”without consequences of guilt or responsibility of her actions. She will let her BF take her down a path of extreme sexual experiences and adventures… a fascination of “being naughty with a bad boy” while they are together.

She will even dress differently in public with her BF .. extreme cleavage, short skirts, no panties, 4” heels, cling to him as his trophy.. when in her normal everyday life she will say “I could never do that” !! That transformation is as exciting to me as her BF as it is for her.. to see that perfect little wife become a sexual woman with no boundaries. But yet, when we are not together she goes back to being the perfect little wife !! This transformation is also very exciting to her cuckold and will result in him begging to see it, and be part of it, as often as possible.

Just sayin…..

Brad

BP - Which I have to say is pretty hot.
- I look at it much like an actor taking on a role that is outside the norm for which they are known, pushing their limits. In this case it can, for a woman who becomes a HW, if they do any self reflection, give them a different perspective on how they view themselves.

[SRKnight]

I met my HW when she was 37 and she had never been married. She told me of being the “other woman” with 8 different married men over the years.

I knew she wouldn’t have a hard time with HW lifestyle once we got married.

[Hotwife2020]

My wife had a series of boyfriends but had a ridiculous amount of sex with them. Was an easy leap to being a hotwife

[snoogaloo82]

My sweetie was very shy about it all. Anything sexual was pretty much frowned upon unless you were married, but thankfully she's come around.

[gruenberg]

My beautiful wife always had a very sexual charisma but it is hard for me to say, she was very promiscuous. What is the norm? Is there a norm?

We met at the university and she had a boyfriend at that time. I was single and came from a bad relationship and was compensating with a lot of girls at that time. One-night-stands and such things.
My wife had of course sex with different boys before we met and was experimenting with different things.
For example my wife had a FFM-threesome with a girlfriend and this girlfriend´s boyfriend before we met. I later got to know that guy and he rubbed it under my nose that the had slept with my girlfriend in a threesome. Years later my wife had even a short affair with him while we were married.
My wife´s family spend their holidays at nude ressorts and for my wife it is normal to be nude around daily life, for example. My wife worked as a model for a painter being at the university. It was a student job and she liked being naked. She is an exhibitionist. This painter was a professor at our university. She is very self confident (what isn`t difficult with her body) and has no problem showing of. He paid good and my wife liked him and it was easy made money for her as a broke student.

[Mgcouplemn]

Laurie was very promiscuous when I met her, that is how I met her. The night after we met we were at the same party and she was fucked there, Later in the week we went out and I told her that I wanted a girl that wanted and would be in a completely open and honest relationship. we had a great time sharing things with each other and she was a great fuck. for a couple of months we would tell each other about our sex with others. after that we started dating steady, but still had sex with others, we started swinging while we dated, I loved watching guys fucking her and told her often.

[Cuck4Life]

My wife never turned me down but did not show any interest or excitement when we had sex. She happened to meet an old college boyfriend on a business trip and he was able to take care of her sexually in ways with his girthy cock she had never experienced with me.
Once she realized i was the problem it changed her attitude completely. That happened 30 years ago and she has had 2 long term relationships and many one offs.

[Cuck4Life]

My wife never turned me down but did not show any interest or excitement when we had sex. She happened to meet an old college boyfriend on a business trip and he was able to take care of her sexually in ways with his girthy cock she had never experienced with me.
Once she realized i was the problem it changed her attitude completely. That happened 30 years ago and she has had 2 long term relationships and many one offs.

[Cuck4Life]

My wife never turned me down but did not show any interest or excitement when we had sex. She happened to meet an old college boyfriend on a business trip and he was able to take care of her sexually in ways with his girthy cock she had never experienced with me.
Once she realized i was the problem it changed her attitude completely. That happened 30 years ago and she has had 2 long term relationships and many one offs.

[athlete915]

We are now a poly/cuckold couple and happier for it

When done right, the lifestyle can really improve what were otherwise happy marriages. Your wife wouldn't have married you if you didn't have lots of wonderful, non-sexual traits. At the same time, her sexual frustration is completely understandable and if left unaddressed, could have really hurt your marriage. The lifestyle gives couples like you the chance to focus on the best aspects of their marriages while addressing shortcomings and frustrations. Well done.

[athlete915]

Well done. What a supportive and caring thing to do. The best husbands (and cuckolds) are cheerleaders for their wives and actively remind them of all their wonderful traits.

[Laveenguy]

By the time I married my wife at age 30 (she 29). Deb had slept by her count with 176 guys. At least half of those were during the 9 year courtship we had. It was the principle reason our courtship went 9 years. I had a difficult time with the idea that she fucked most of my friends/acquaintances, bosses, coworkers, professors and even my cousin. My eventual acceptance was that everyone knew I was a cuckold, I still loved this woman and I could live with the reality that virtually any man I knew had had his dick in her and I would never be enough for her. Now, 39 years later she is still bringing loads of cum home to me and I love her more than ever!

[isinlarsa]

With both my first wife and my girlfriend, sex has started going down in frequency after a number of years together. When she started getting it from other men, too; our sex life went way up.

[trecital]

My eventual acceptance was that everyone knew I was a cuckold, I still loved this woman and I could live with the reality that virtually any man I knew had had his dick in her and I would never be enough for her. Now, 39 years later she is still bringing loads of cum home to me and I love her more than ever!

176 guys (presumably all different) over about 10 or 12 years or so, is quite some total. That's a new guy every 4 weeks, give or take. Well done that woman!

You say that you "would never be enough for her". But, think if she tried living with a man that wanted her to stay faithful. That guy wouldn't have been enough for her. Whereas you've been perfect for her, by the sound of it! Congrats.

[Laveenguy]

My eventual acceptance was that everyone knew I was a cuckold, I still loved this woman and I could live with the reality that virtually any man I knew had had his dick in her and I would never be enough for her. Now, 39 years later she is still bringing loads of cum home to me and I love her more than ever!

176 guys (presumably all different) over about 10 or 12 years or so, is quite some total. That's a new guy every 4 weeks, give or take. Well done that woman!

You say that you "would never be enough for her". But, think if she tried living with a man that wanted her to stay faithful. That guy wouldn't have been enough for her. Whereas you've been perfect for her, by the sound of it! Congrats.

She became sexually active at 13. We married when she was 29, so over 16 years. But yeah, there were a lot of guys hanging around. It wasn't always easy, but I think you can say that about any relationship. But it withstood the test of time. Thanks for your good wishes.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

My wife was very surprised to find out that I fantasized about my friends fucking her while I watched.

We stumbled into it by accident. Some out-of-town friends stayed with us. After going to bed, our friends fucked VERY loudly. We got incredibly turned on listening to my buddy fuck his (attractive) wife’s brains out. Returned the favor by giving them something to listen to. Then, a few minutes after we had all cum, my buddy and I happened to meet up (both of us stark naked, btw) on the way to the hallway bathroom for that excellent post-coitus piss that we men seem to enjoy. Small talk for a moment, and then we agreed to take our girls to the living room for a side-by-side round two on the couch. Sooooo fucking hot watching him fuck his wife while he watched me fuck mine. The obvious move would be for us to swap wives, but we didn’t for whatever reason. (We were too chicken shit!)

As a result, the fantasies about what *could* have happened took off. I started having “cuck feelings.” I told her that I was desperate to watch one of our friends fuck her…..that I didn’t even think about fucking a woman, and that all I wanted was to watch her cum on a friend’s cock and to watch him cum inside her. The thought was, and still is, intoxicating. (To this day, even though I’ve witnessed it hundreds of times, I STILL get a little bit dizzy watching her boyfriend pull his dripping cock from her very satisfied pussy.) She was surprised that I wanted it to be more than a fantasy. She was somewhat reluctant to “feed the fantasy.”

Over time, though, she became more comfortable with it. It became our “default sex fantasy.” At some point, it crossed over into ideation—“How can we make this shared fantasy come true?”

From there, it was just a short skip to finding the right man, giving him a proposition, and seeing how he’d react.

Fortunately for all, he was down for it, but he wanted to take his time. He was never a bull and felt awkward that some other guy might be staring at his junk. My wife made the first move, of course, and they had a torrid affair for several months without me. (She was fucking THRILLED at how fun our sex life was becoming. She realized that she was the center of BOTH of our sexual universes. Incredibly empowering for a young woman who didn’t realize how much power she has. She was on cloud nine, and our marriage was booming!)

Finally, they felt comfortable enough to let me into the room.

Nothing can describe the ecstasy I felt for that first time, watching him make her cum, then watching him mount her and cum in her…cum on her…cum down her throat. I didn’t even utter a sound and jerked all over myself watching him cum in her. It was something special.

From there, it was just a matter of repeating until it felt completely normal.

She has loved our adventure into cucking me. She LOVES a little side-cock, now, knowing that I am still committed to her. She gets to play. We have gotten to the point where I am cleaning her up after he has made a fresh deposit. Having me do that for her while they make out and engage in pillow talk just a couple of feet above my bobbing forehead has given her a kind of confidence that is beyond compare. She is a POWERFUL woman, now! Far more apt to “put me in my place” than she ever was before our encounter with our friends that night on the couch. It’s been beautiful to observe over all these years.

Cucking me has really changed HER personality. Much more confident than she ever would have been. She now knows the power she wields, and she has recently picked up boyfriend #2. She’s having a good time cucking me with both of them. (They are unaware of each other.)

Overall, the cuck lifestyle has been a boon for our marriage. It has taught us that, while important, sex is not what binds us as a couple. We are more than just sex.

[Laveenguy]

“Overall, the cuck lifestyle has been a boon for our marriage. It has taught us that, while important, sex is not what binds us as a couple. We are more than just sex. “

Well said sir! I couldn’t agree more.