Celebrate your PF milestones here and congratulate them meeting their goals too ❤️

[parklife]

So, this is not at all like what you all have accomplished but it IS a personal milestone so figured I’d share..

I get off on tease and denial and often ask my wife to help me there…. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve only gained about 5lbs but my body has definitely changed. I was an athlete and built like one but turned 50 this year and for the last few years, the muscle has turned softer and I’ve got more of a ‘dad’ bod for lack of a better word.

It all started when my wife made a commment that she’s not attracted to ‘dad’ bods. It was my call to action and she agreed to keep me denied until I hit a weight goal. I haven’t been totally pussy free as she’s getting whatever oral sex she wants and I’ve used her large dildo to simulate sex but I haven’t had PIV or an orgasm of any type for two months as of this week.

I’m happy to say that I’ve hit my first goal (loss of 11 lbs) and am on my way to my secondary goal (just an additional 5lbs as I’ve shifted focus from weight loss to regaining muscle). Last week, she expressed frustration that her focus on helping me has stalled her own progress. So.. despite reaching my first goal, which should have afforded me the ability to have an orgasm, it’s turned into one team, one dream. So, no orgasms for me until we both have hit a milestone. (Denial doesn’t work for her… she finds no motivation in it. So, she’ll get whatever satisfaction she wants.)

Again, not exactly in the spirit of many on this thread, but, it kind of fits on a technicality.. I have been PF at least my penis has for 60 days and not sure how much longer it will go.

[Caribwaters]

I have never been caged and my wife would never go for that. Instead she uses her control from denial. She knows how much more attentive I am towards her and compliant to her wishes. No more "discussions", she now can makes most, if not all the final decisions. So when she says, "No" it is no. She will tease me to keep me interested, but doesn't allow me penetration, with rare excerptions. With her permission, my release is to kneel in front of her and masturbate. She enjoy watching me and doesn't hesitate to tell me how I am a really mediocre lover, compared to 2 of her long time lovers and some other men she enjoyed. After becoming involved with these 2 guys she no longer received any real satisfaction when I would fuck her. Her reluctance is not over vaginal dryness, as most older woman are at her age, or by my size, but it is my technique and early release that turns her off. It is my inability to now give her any real satisfaction thru our intercourse. She still does appreciate and enjoy my oral attention to her pussy and expects that attention frequently.

My wife used to never said no when I was looking for intercourse, but then she discovered the difference levels of satisfaction with other men. My denial began about 25+ years ago and over time my "dry periods" got extended, but in recent years it has reach to where it is now a rare experience for me to cum inside off her. Oral to my completion ended very shortly after we were married, so that is off our menu.

[Happy Hypnoguy]

4304 days and counting.

[sub_hubby_larry]

Since April of this year. It happened unplanned and organically as she got a new FWB who has become more than just FWB. Since then the most I've had is her laying next to me topless while I masturbate. She loves sex with him and no longer craves it with me so it has been a natural thing. It's weird to think that I may never be in her again, at least as long as he's around. I could see her getting desperate if they end things and she doesn't find a new friend quickly, but that's looking very unlikely at the moment.