Wife wants me to suck cock for the first time

[CaliLondon]

I think we get too caught up on labels. Sex should be about fun. Is it fun on occasion sucking my wife's longterm boyfriend, yes. While I wouldn't say it gets me that excited doing it, it does get me excited seeing their reactions. Do I feel like occasionally sucking his cock makes me gay, bi, a cuckold, or a thousand other labels, not at all. It's just me having some fun with my wife and the other guy. If it bothers you doing it, makes you feel uncomfortable, doesn't seem fun, then don't do it.

[surry]

My wife had a gay coworker who told her he found my attractive and ask her if he could have sex with me. My wife laughed but thought it over. She wanted to see two men together. I said no. She kept asking and I agreed but said no kissing. He came over and my wife and I kissed and she got naked then got me naked. So told me to make her proud. He sucked me and my wife whispered in my ear how hot it was. She said look at his dick. It is hard for you. You should thank him but sucking him off. We both sucked each other off and I fucked my wife as he watched. After that we were a threesome.

[PlayfulGuy]

I think we get too caught up on labels. Sex should be about fun. Is it fun on occasion sucking my wife's longterm boyfriend, yes. While I wouldn't say it gets me that excited doing it, it does get me excited seeing their reactions. Do I feel like occasionally sucking his cock makes me gay, bi, a cuckold, or a thousand other labels, not at all. It's just me having some fun with my wife and the other guy. If it bothers you doing it, makes you feel uncomfortable, doesn't seem fun, then don't do it.

Totally agree with this. It's about having fun and what feels right primarily to yourself, secondary to the spouse and lastly to the 3rd one involved.

[bradisalpha]

A little background. We're more of a stag vixen kind of relationship. Not into humiliation or anything like that. Lately, she's wanted to see me suck cock. Not in a me being submissive way. She thinks it would be hot to watch. I guess I can understand it. The first time I saw her go down on a woman was amazing. She has a few guys she sees. Oddly, most of the guys she has seen have been pretty homophobic. Even when we were swingers, no crossing of the swords. She has discussed it with one of the guys she sees and he said he'd be ok with it.

So ..... what to expect? What was your first time like? Did you enjoy it? Did she enjoy it? Did you go over the plan ahead of time or, did you just let things happen? My wife isn't a good resource because she really enjoys it. LOL

After several years of swinging and hotwifing that began when we were dating, my wife wanted to see me suck cock. I resisted, strongly resisted for several months. She eventually cut me off until I agreed to try it.

The first time it wasn't enjoyable. I did it under duress for the next 10 or so times. It didn't matter it wasn't enjoyable to me. When I took a cock in my mouth, she got hotter than hell. Every time it happened she would masturbate like crazy until the guy came in my mouth at which time she would grab my head and kiss me deeply getting as much of the cum into her mouth as she could.

After that she would fuck the hell out of the guy. Seeing me gobble a cock seemed to just jack up her arousal level 1000%. She came like crazy with the guy she was fucking, she came like crazy when I got sloppy seconds. While I still didn't like the act itself, I really liked being able to get her so hot.

One night, after I'd been sucking for a few months this guy had fucked her first. After a rest period, she asked me to suck him. I got on my knees and pulled his cock to my face. For the first time, I became aware of her cunt scent on his cock. It's a smell I love. For the first time I wasn't slightly repulsed by what was about to happen.

Rather than feeling unhappy about it, after seeing him fuck her to orgasm, there was this feeling of gratitude towards the cock for making her feel so good. Suddenly, it was very enjoyable. I was doing my best to give the cock pleasure as it had given my wife pleasure. About the time that feeling hit, I also realized I was hard, really hard.

As soon as he came my wife was all over me kissing me and giggling and stroking my cock. She kept saying over and over, "I knew it! I fucking knew it! She kept kissing me and rolled me onto my back and slid her hot cunt onto my hard cock. She fucked me hard and I came fast. As soon as I shot, she was back to him kissing and fucking him.

She was in a sexual frenzy. She fucked him twice more and then me again. Sloppy seconds was really sloppy. God it was good. After Kevin left, and we calmed down she couldn't stop telling me how hot it was and how good it was for her.

So I went from not liking it to loving it. It became a regular part of our sex lives. We sucked a lot of cocks together.

I won't tell you you'll like it. It took me quite a while to like it. In my experience, husbands who start to suck because their wives asked them to get to love it. Some like it from the first time, for some of us it takes a while but we get there.

As Brad said in his post, it can become addictive. Personally, I would recommend you try it but that's ultimately your choice.

Additionally, she eventually wanted to see me get fucked. By that time...we were a long way down the rabbit hole. I was actually looking forward to getting fucked. She had pegged me for several weeks before the real deal. I like pegging but I now LOVE getting fucked. Not every husband who sucks cock will fuck but many of us do. I'm also pantied and caged and proudly so.

My advice is go for it.

Cdncuck posted an excellent chain of events that took him to ultimately enjoy sucking a cock. Once your dickie gets hard while you are sucking a cock, you have reached the point of no return… a hard dickie does not lie. At that point, whether you are a stag, cuckold, sissy, or feminized, it doesn’t matter… you are now a cocksucker !!

Some reach that point quickly while others take a longer time to follow that path. I would imagine you have read the end results many times in this forum and have said “I’ll never do that”, but as you can see, mostly it is only a matter of time.

The only way out is if you turn away from the path, but I can tell you from experience that if your wife and her BF are both excitingly encouraging you to suck his cock, your chances of turning away will be very slim. I’m sure others can tell you the same.

Other factors that play a role in a cuckold remaining on the path is the sudden interest of discussing a BF’s cock with his wife and comparing different cocks with others… you become very attentive of cocks, watching your wife’s reaction as a cock slides into her pussy and the joy she gets sucking and fucking other’s cocks. Through compersion, a cuckold will want to touch and feel a cock, wonder what it tastes like, how it feels in his mouth, and want to feel the same excitement his wife feels giving pleasure to her BF. These feelings can become very strong and also wears down your resistance to ultimately suck his cock. You will also hear some say that once he sucks a cock he will want to be fucked the same as his wife to reach the heights of orgasm that she reaches. Your mind plays a big role in compersion !!

It is VERY exciting watching a cuckold proceed down that path….

Brad

[rascalnvixen]

So, Brad. You offer some interesting comments in this and other threads. You speak a lot about how a cuck wants to feel a cock in his mouth and how he arrives at that decision to do it. Are you speaking from your own personal experience of sucking cock in the past, but now no longer do that as a bull. Now you take pleasure in coaxing a woman's husband to suck your cock in front of her. Tell us about your experience in all of this.

Rascal

[AZPainter]

A little background. We're more of a stag vixen kind of relationship. Not into humiliation or anything like that. Lately, she's wanted to see me suck cock. Not in a me being submissive way. She thinks it would be hot to watch. I guess I can understand it. The first time I saw her go down on a woman was amazing. She has a few guys she sees. Oddly, most of the guys she has seen have been pretty homophobic. Even when we were swingers, no crossing of the swords. She has discussed it with one of the guys she sees and he said he'd be ok with it.

So ..... what to expect? What was your first time like? Did you enjoy it? Did she enjoy it? Did you go over the plan ahead of time or, did you just let things happen? My wife isn't a good resource because she really enjoys it. LOL

After several years of swinging and hotwifing that began when we were dating, my wife wanted to see me suck cock. I resisted, strongly resisted for several months. She eventually cut me off until I agreed to try it.

The first time it wasn't enjoyable. I did it under duress for the next 10 or so times. It didn't matter it wasn't enjoyable to me. When I took a cock in my mouth, she got hotter than hell. Every time it happened she would masturbate like crazy until the guy came in my mouth at which time she would grab my head and kiss me deeply getting as much of the cum into her mouth as she could.

After that she would fuck the hell out of the guy. Seeing me gobble a cock seemed to just jack up her arousal level 1000%. She came like crazy with the guy she was fucking, she came like crazy when I got sloppy seconds. While I still didn't like the act itself, I really liked being able to get her so hot.

One night, after I'd been sucking for a few months this guy had fucked her first. After a rest period, she asked me to suck him. I got on my knees and pulled his cock to my face. For the first time, I became aware of her cunt scent on his cock. It's a smell I love. For the first time I wasn't slightly repulsed by what was about to happen.

Rather than feeling unhappy about it, after seeing him fuck her to orgasm, there was this feeling of gratitude towards the cock for making her feel so good. Suddenly, it was very enjoyable. I was doing my best to give the cock pleasure as it had given my wife pleasure. About the time that feeling hit, I also realized I was hard, really hard.

As soon as he came my wife was all over me kissing me and giggling and stroking my cock. She kept saying over and over, "I knew it! I fucking knew it! She kept kissing me and rolled me onto my back and slid her hot cunt onto my hard cock. She fucked me hard and I came fast. As soon as I shot, she was back to him kissing and fucking him.

She was in a sexual frenzy. She fucked him twice more and then me again. Sloppy seconds was really sloppy. God it was good. After Kevin left, and we calmed down she couldn't stop telling me how hot it was and how good it was for her.

So I went from not liking it to loving it. It became a regular part of our sex lives. We sucked a lot of cocks together.

I won't tell you you'll like it. It took me quite a while to like it. In my experience, husbands who start to suck because their wives asked them to get to love it. Some like it from the first time, for some of us it takes a while but we get there.

As Brad said in his post, it can become addictive. Personally, I would recommend you try it but that's ultimately your choice.

Additionally, she eventually wanted to see me get fucked. By that time...we were a long way down the rabbit hole. I was actually looking forward to getting fucked. She had pegged me for several weeks before the real deal. I like pegging but I now LOVE getting fucked. Not every husband who sucks cock will fuck but many of us do. I'm also pantied and caged and proudly so.

My advice is go for it.

Cdncuck posted an excellent chain of events that took him to ultimately enjoy sucking a cock. Once your dickie gets hard while you are sucking a cock, you have reached the point of no return… a hard dickie does not lie. At that point, whether you are a stag, cuckold, sissy, or feminized, it doesn’t matter… you are now a cocksucker !!

Some reach that point quickly while others take a longer time to follow that path. I would imagine you have read the end results many times in this forum and have said “I’ll never do that”, but as you can see, mostly it is only a matter of time.

The only way out is if you turn away from the path, but I can tell you from experience that if your wife and her BF are both excitingly encouraging you to suck his cock, your chances of turning away will be very slim. I’m sure others can tell you the same.

Other factors that play a role in a cuckold remaining on the path is the sudden interest of discussing a BF’s cock with his wife and comparing different cocks with others… you become very attentive of cocks, watching your wife’s reaction as a cock slides into her pussy and the joy she gets sucking and fucking other’s cocks. Through compersion, a cuckold will want to touch and feel a cock, wonder what it tastes like, how it feels in his mouth, and want to feel the same excitement his wife feels giving pleasure to her BF. These feelings can become very strong and also wears down your resistance to ultimately suck his cock. You will also hear some say that once he sucks a cock he will want to be fucked the same as his wife to reach the heights of orgasm that she reaches. Your mind plays a big role in compersion !!

It is VERY exciting watching a cuckold proceed down that path….

Brad

As a very experienced cocksucker and former cuck for a little over 12 years I can testify everything Brad has said is so very true. I experienced all the same thoughts and emotions when I became a cuck. Now in my 80's I am thankful I accepted it and love giving this pleasure to others. Health issues and the meds along with age have rendered me impotent, but the desire remains and is strong as ever.

[bradisalpha]

AZ,

Good for you !! Enjoy as long as you can….

Brad

[bradisalpha]

So, Brad. You offer some interesting comments in this and other threads. You speak a lot about how a cuck wants to feel a cock in his mouth and how he arrives at that decision to do it. Are you speaking from your own personal experience of sucking cock in the past, but now no longer do that as a bull. Now you take pleasure in coaxing a woman's husband to suck your cock in front of her. Tell us about your experience in all of this.

Rascal

rascal,

No.. I have not experienced that path myself !! I was never a cuckold and I have never sucked a cock !! I was an Alpha through school and convinced many girls to cheat on their boyfriends with me. It became a challenge I enjoyed seducing them into sex. I called it “sex without responsibility” and became very good at it !!!

As I was finishing school, I was lured in and seduced by a couple… a very sexy wife that wanted me to fuck her in front of her husband with his approval. I didn’t understand it and was kind of blown away by it, but could not turn it down. As I was playing with her, the husband began fondling my cock. I stopped and didn’t know what to do but she said relax and just go with it.. it is ok.. it is what he enjoys !! Before long he was sucking my cock.. better than any of the girls my age did.. and I came in his mouth. My emotions were all I over the place but my cock was still hard and I wanted to fuck her.. so I did !! After he cleaned us both. They invited me back the next weekend to play again but it took me all week to finally accept and agree to meet them again. This “affair” went on for quite some time and I learned a lot about cuckolding from them and the secret hidden desires people have hidden inside them. I also began learning how to bring these desires to the surface and became quite good at seducing couples into the hot wife/cuckold lifestyle…,although there really wasn’t a name for it back then.

I watched the path a cuckold takes very closely as I experienced couples in the lifestyle, and once I understood it, watched it play out time after time.

I am only sharing my experiences when I comment in the forum. This is the only forum I participate in and offer comments when I feel I can be helpful or productive. I enjoy talking with the members in the forum, as well as private messaging if they feel they want to talk privately. Some do not want to expose their deepest desires to the forum but appreciate being able to talk to someone freely and confidential.

I do not meet or play with any couples in the forum.. I am kept quite busy with my own couples.. lol !!

I have written a lot of details and experiences in my thread “Brad.. from the beginning”.. link below if you are interested.

I hope I addressed your concerns…

Brad

[israelcuck]

the first time I sucked one, was with a dominant couple. my wife went to change her clothes to something sexy. while she was in the other room, the man ordered me to suck his cock while he sat on the couch. when my returned she saw me on my knees with a cock in my wife. she was shocked, because she didn't expect it. I think she was a little disgust and also turned

[rascalnvixen]

So, Brad. You offer some interesting comments in this and other threads. You speak a lot about how a cuck wants to feel a cock in his mouth and how he arrives at that decision to do it. Are you speaking from your own personal experience of sucking cock in the past, but now no longer do that as a bull. Now you take pleasure in coaxing a woman's husband to suck your cock in front of her. Tell us about your experience in all of this.

Rascal

rascal,

No.. I have not experienced that path myself !! I was never a cuckold and I have never sucked a cock !! I was an Alpha through school and convinced many girls to cheat on their boyfriends with me. It became a challenge I enjoyed seducing them into sex. I called it “sex without responsibility” and became very good at it !!!

As I was finishing school, I was lured in and seduced by a couple… a very sexy wife that wanted me to fuck her in front of her husband with his approval. I didn’t understand it and was kind of blown away by it, but could not turn it down. As I was playing with her, the husband began fondling my cock. I stopped and didn’t know what to do but she said relax and just go with it.. it is ok.. it is what he enjoys !! Before long he was sucking my cock.. better than any of the girls my age did.. and I came in his mouth. My emotions were all I over the place but my cock was still hard and I wanted to fuck her.. so I did !! After he cleaned us both. They invited me back the next weekend to play again but it took me all week to finally accept and agree to meet them again. This “affair” went on for quite some time and I learned a lot about cuckolding from them and the secret hidden desires people have hidden inside them. I also began learning how to bring these desires to the surface and became quite good at seducing couples into the hot wife/cuckold lifestyle…,although there really wasn’t a name for it back then.

I watched the path a cuckold takes very closely as I experienced couples in the lifestyle, and once I understood it, watched it play out time after time.

I am only sharing my experiences when I comment in the forum. This is the only forum I participate in and offer comments when I feel I can be helpful or productive. I enjoy talking with the members in the forum, as well as private messaging if they feel they want to talk privately. Some do not want to expose their deepest desires to the forum but appreciate being able to talk to someone freely and confidential.

I do not meet or play with any couples in the forum.. I am kept quite busy with my own couples.. lol !!

I have written a lot of details and experiences in my thread “Brad.. from the beginning”.. link below if you are interested.

I hope I addressed your concerns…

Brad

Brad, Thanks for the detailed response!! I really didn't know where you were coming from in your comments. It seems you have a wealth of experience on your own part and probably learned much from the hubbies and hotwives you have been with. I've had a couple of similar experiences with couples, but not as much as you, and I've not been that aware of the psychology the hubbies had. I guess I was too busy thinking about their wives!!! But I was younger then and probably too focused on the women. Thanks again for the response!!!

Rascal

[bradisalpha]

rascal,

Thank you. Yes, it took a while for me to realize what a big part of a wife’s arousal is a reaction to her husband submitting to me. The more I pushed it, the hotter she would become.. and the more it added to my pleasure. So little by little I studied the reactions and became more dominant pushing the cuckolds buttons and finding that cleaning us and sucking my cock excited both of them tremendously.

I have easily led them to feminization and sissification once I learned how the process worked. Some have wanted to be fucked as a normal progression.. I have a friend who is a bisexual Alpha that would include in our play to satisfy the cuckold’s cravings. He does not touch or play with the wife.. she is mine !!! But he certainly enjoys taking the cuckold to orgasm.. and his wife and I enjoy watching.

I guess that about wraps up who I am !!

Brad

[kellycuckoldsmark]

The first time for me was when we moved from a swapping couple to a cuckold couple. I was allowed to watch back then and increasingly Kelly moved me from in a chair stroking to no touch to caged to panties under pants to just panties.

One of the guys she was seeing talked to her about her liking her husband in panties and how she should tell me to suck his cock.

So one day I was watching when she calls me to the bed and he lays back and she says suck him. I was intrigued and wanted to please both of them so I went for it

As someone else wrote it is a very interesting sensation and knowing what feels good to me I tried to do the same for him. He gave compliments and then held my head as he shot his load. That was more of a shock. The volume and speed and not gagging or spilling it all over him. That def took practice!

I would do it again if asked but am not in the room anymore

[bowlerlb]

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I am not sure what logistics you are working out, but once his cock is in your mouth the logistics will go out the window !!! I have watched apprehensive cuckold’s first time putting my cock in his mouth and as his wife is giving him encouragement it stopped being mechanical. I could see and feel him begin to relax as his mouth began to massage my cock.. more and more in a sexual manner.. then trying to take more of my cock into his mouth as if he is testing his capabilities. Your wife will be offering encouragement and praise as you are entering new territory. It seems the in and out motion is normal after watching his wife suck a cock and trying to replicate what she does. It does become emotional and if you relax and go with your emotions, you will find it is normal to want give his cock pleasure.. as well as pleasing your wife and her desires. As all of this seems to just “happen” you will be looking forward to feeling his cock tense up and give you his cum.

I have seen the sense of satisfaction in a cuckold after that first time is over and he realizes the please he has given his wife and her boyfriend. It seems overwhelming and you might need a little while afterwards to sort it out.. and understand what just happened. There is so much more to sucking a cock than “just sucking a cock” !!! You will have discovered a sex act you never realized was there !! You will have an immediate realization of why your wife loves sucking a cock !! Ultimately, you will be proud of your accomplishment. But.. watch out.. it can become addicting !!

Just sayin…..

Brad
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Totally agree Brad. I have had a few wives get their hubby to suck my cock and they all finish up enjoying it and have become addicted to it. Wives have all loved watching and commenting. Makes them so horny.

[wpbsucker]

I love sucking cock. Especially "straight" guys. Like the alpha types.

[Desiplayer]

A little background. We're more of a stag vixen kind of relationship. Not into humiliation or anything like that. Lately, she's wanted to see me suck cock. Not in a me being submissive way. She thinks it would be hot to watch. I guess I can understand it. The first time I saw her go down on a woman was amazing. She has a few guys she sees. Oddly, most of the guys she has seen have been pretty homophobic. Even when we were swingers, no crossing of the swords. She has discussed it with one of the guys she sees and he said he'd be ok with it.

So ..... what to expect? What was your first time like? Did you enjoy it? Did she enjoy it? Did you go over the plan ahead of time or, did you just let things happen? My wife isn't a good resource because she really enjoys it. LOL

Don’t make it complicated, jus go for if ..you will not regret it at all. Once you had your first experience you will want more and it will be addictive as well.
Also don’t be hard on yourself sucking another man if you will become bi or gay ….let the progression happen naturally. Don’t complicate putting labels if you’re into too much cock that you will become bi/gay …

Small advice ..tip..I went through huge mental stress that I became fully bi and had mm hardcore sex and that I wanted more then what I was getting with wife lovers to points ..i was needing support…wife got me to realize she wants me like this and accepts who I am…
Don’t let label complicate itself …enjoy any sex how you want it. Long as it’s safe and you’re communicating with your wife.

[Desiplayer]

My wife had a gay coworker who told her he found my attractive and ask her if he could have sex with me. My wife laughed but thought it over. She wanted to see two men together. I said no. She kept asking and I agreed but said no kissing. He came over and my wife and I kissed and she got naked then got me naked. So told me to make her proud. He sucked me and my wife whispered in my ear how hot it was. She said look at his dick. It is hard for you. You should thank him but sucking him off. We both sucked each other off and I fucked my wife as he watched. After that we were a threesome.

Wow nice …I can totally connect on this..we have wife’s that truly understand us ..lol

I also had experience where wife hooked me up with fully gay hunk friend of hers who was going through personal issues coming out …never looked gay or feminine but as wife was close with him he shared his desires and not being able find partner …wife asked him told his she had temp solution…..my hubby loves cock …you guys will make a great mm ….he said no, by the face reaction he wanted

Long story short ,’wife hooked us up ….man you wouldn’t think he is gay…he was dam sexy built black hunk ..when we hooked up …he took me from cock sucking to fucking me and slowly he transformed me into enjoy full mm sex …,he was one of hunks that was influential how i evolved becoming cock suckers to fully having mm hardcore sex..he also to truly enjoy intimate mm…I also taught me how to kiss in mm hookup…

We became lovers ….we had frequent hook ups and now he moved for work,…but when he comes in town ..,it’s absolute wild mm time.. we even tried few mmm of experience with some of guys I brought forward..,,he loved it …

I’m also thankful to my wife for making this happen

[Dream Weaver]

Did you do it?

I haven't yet. It may be next weekend. We have to work out logistics.

Gotta rent a U-Haul and find out how much per pound per load and then operate a forklift to hold up his big balls.