long-term pussy free doable?

[ucaneffher]

an update:

we read all the responses. we have decided to give pussy-free dynamic a shot for six months and then discuss pros and cons. she will restrict my releases for hygiene needs (our bull wants that too!) and greatly limit my access to see her pussy as she feels exclusive to our current bull. No concrete figures, but I will undoubtedly see her pussy less frequently.

we have also decided to use a vibrator till I experience an orgasm with my cage on .. we want to normalize such orgasms.

I hope our plans work!

Damn. 6 months is a long time if that is going to be your first time ever getting cut off. I was dying without pussy the first time she cut me off for 4 months granted that I didn't know how long I was going to be pussy free. She just cut me off and played it by ear. Even though she had unofficially been training me for a year or so now that I think about it. She wouldn't let me have her days before she knew she was going to see other men and she would suddenly be to sore for me to reclaim. Once the soreness was gone, she was off to see another man and along the way I found myself going without pussy for 2-3 weeks at a time. I should have seen it coming that she was preparing me to cut me off. Even with the preparation I was struggling without getting any so I hope that you can make it 6 months.

Are you sure that it's okay with seeing her pussy less? Personally from a cuckold point of view, for me it's way sexier to see what I'm no longer able to have. It's a much bigger tease when I can see the pussy that another man or men are now claiming and I can't even put the tip of my dick in.

Good luck and keep us posted!

[AZPainter]

Definitely doable! At 84 years of age now, the last 24 years have been pussy free. partly medical for the last 9-10 years, but no problem with getting erections before that.

[Yourfirstbull]

I've been with a few wives that made their cuck pussy-free. I think it works in particular if the denial is part of his kink.

[Ready2StartAgain]

I've been with a few wives that made their cuck pussy-free. I think it works in particular if the denial is part of his kink.

This is spot on. But I think most of us evolve to that, it's not just built in.

[Yourfirstbull]

I've been with a few wives that made their cuck pussy-free. I think it works in particular if the denial is part of his kink.

This is spot on. But I think most of us evolve to that, it's not just built in.

Agreed—I've also noticed that cucks in chastity it builds to this quickly. Wives have told me their hubbies get much more compliant, much softer (emotionally, sexually), and thus it's easier for her to mentally deny him, too. I've noticed that as well, the...compliance...of cucks pre-cage vs. in them.

[ucaneffher]

I've been with a few wives that made their cuck pussy-free. I think it works in particular if the denial is part of his kink.

I agree with this. I wasn't particularly into it nor was I ever vocal about it in the sense that I was trying to convince her to deny me like some guys here who "hope" their lady starts denying them.

While I never wanted to go the denial route, I admit that in the very beginning when she first started sleeping around, I found it a little hot when she would tell me on Wednesday "babe we can't have sex starting tomorrow" and when I would I ask her why her response was that she had a date on Friday and want to be fresh and tight for him.

Finding it hot, I never objected. I think she liked the control too. As time passed she increased the days in between our sex and her dates so she started with 1 day no sex before dates, then 2 days , the 3 day and eventually she wanted a whole week untouched so her dates got her as tight, fresh, and horny as she could possibly be.

Seeing that I never objected to any of those, she must have realized that I wasn't opposed to it and that's when I got slapped with those insane pussy sanctions. I felt like a Russian oligarch without my yatch. All of a sudden I'm going 4 months without pussy and then another 8 months without the tip even getting a feel for the inside yet there were two other guys finishing inside of it two, sometimes 3 times a day every single day..

So yes you are dead on with your statement. I wasn't asking, begging, or wanting it but deep down I think I had the predisposition to become a cuck (i wasn't one at the time). She was able to read me and decided to make me pussy free and she was right. For 8 entire months of being PF I saw my gf leave with her boyfriend every single day and come home full of him, dried-cum panties every day became normal unless she went commando and not a single one of those stained panties was because of me. Looking back, I wouldn't have it any other way.

[Bnc63]

I was the one to bring up pussy denial….my wife was on board. When I asked her if she could go months without me inside her, she said she could go much longer than that like indefinitely. And so it began…. It drives me insane knowing her wonderful tight silky smooth womanhood is off limits to me. She’s a natural born tease so daily she would flash her kitty at me to make me insane with lust for her.

After about 8 months of being pf I asked her about bjs and she said she could and wanted to forgo giving me that pleasure! I gladly accepted the masochistic torture of no longer feeling her lips on my manhood. Hjs quickly followed and there have even been time where we no longer kiss for a certain amount of time. I’ve found the no kissing to be a bridge too far although she could probably make no kissing work for her as well.

This all feeds into me being a masochist. There is heightened angst involved with the possibility that she might find someone to replace me. She says she is looking for the “complete package”. She also wants my replacement to be found in an organic way so who knows if that will ever happen.

I know a lot of people will say you two are just roommates and there is some truth to that but I truly believe we both love each other. Our lives are tied together deeply since we’ve been together 33yrs and have 2 grown children. We still hold each other like lovers we just don’t take the next step from holding and sometimes kissing to making love.

[Ghalilaeus]

Hello,yes it can work.
I have been pussy free for years now.
I dont clean up as i am not allowed to be near any pussy ever.
I am locked 24/7 and my wife has said i will never touch a pussy again.
I have not been allowed to cum for the same time now.

Your relationship is perfect!

[Loserpaul]

I have been pussy free for years. I am not allowed to touch Dottie's pussy, even to clean up, only her bulls are allowed to have her pussy. I am not allowed to touch any pussy at all. However, I jerk off regularly and I've found my orgasms are more powerful because of the denial, humiliation and frustration. I can still watch, even if I can't touch. The only truly sexual contact I experience nowadays is when I suck a bull's cock. But it works for me. I am happy as a denied pussy free cuck.

[upright]

I have been pussyfree for well over 15 years. My wife lost interest in me sexually but overall we have a good marriage and we care for each other. I miss the intimacy but as I was a poor lover I am sure does not miss sex with me. I have encouraged her to take a lover but I am sure she has not. So yes it can work for some couples.

[Ready2StartAgain]

I have been pussyfree for well over 15 years. My wife lost interest in me sexually but overall we have a good marriage and we care for each other. I miss the intimacy but as I was a poor lover I am sure does not miss sex with me. I have encouraged her to take a lover but I am sure she has not. So yes it can work for some couples.

With good communication, anything is possible.

[caged_cuck12]

It is of course doable. we will be celebrating our first pussy-free anniversary in 4 weeks from now. I and my partner had a talk a couple of weeks back - we dont intend to change the arrangement anytime soon.

[stubbyhubby]

I have been pussy-free since April 3, 1993. That was the day my wife started fucking my best friend. She told me beforehand that if I wanted her to fuck him then I had to agree that I was giving up my "husband rights" to sex as part of our marriage. I agreed to it. We were headed for divorce anyway and I figured sex between us was done either way. At the time I had no idea how much I would love that other men fucked my wife all of the time and I was cut off.

[coastalkid]

I have been pussyfree for well over 15 years. My wife lost interest in me sexually but overall we have a good marriage and we care for each other. I miss the intimacy but as I was a poor lover I am sure does not miss sex with me. I have encouraged her to take a lover but I am sure she has not. So yes it can work for some couples.

This has to have been an unbearable burden for you. I do believe that you are far from alone in terms of circumstance(s) though. I would think it's hard not to dwell on what could have been or what you both missed out on. That seems like piling on to an already disappointing sex life. It's odd that there are men that intensely crave being pussy free and other men that have become pussy free, that want it, would love to have it, but can't have due to some set of innumerable reasons.

I'm glad I don't have this kink. I completely understand that this THE deal for some guys. They are getting exactly what thrills them. No disappointments. I always wonder where it eventually leads to, becoming roommates? Fifteen years of going without naturally change the whole nature of a relationship. I would guess the last thing you specifically would want is to be pussy free.

[Swe_male]

an update:

we read all the responses. we have decided to give pussy-free dynamic a shot for six months and then discuss pros and cons. she will restrict my releases for hygiene needs (our bull wants that too!) and greatly limit my access to see her pussy as she feels exclusive to our current bull. No concrete figures, but I will undoubtedly see her pussy less frequently.

we have also decided to use a vibrator till I experience an orgasm with my cage on .. we want to normalize such orgasms.

I hope our plans work!

Time for an update!

[upright]

I have been pussyfree for well over 15 years. My wife lost interest in me sexually but overall we have a good marriage and we care for each other. I miss the intimacy but as I was a poor lover I am sure does not miss sex with me. I have encouraged her to take a lover but I am sure she has not. So yes it can work for some couples.

This has to have been an unbearable burden for you. I do believe that you are far from alone in terms of circumstance(s) though. I would think it's hard not to dwell on what could have been or what you both missed out on. That seems like piling on to an already disappointing sex life. It's odd that there are men that intensely crave being pussy free and other men that have become pussy free, that want it, would love to have it, but can't have due to some set of innumerable reasons.

I'm glad I don't have this kink. I completely understand that this THE deal for some guys. They are getting exactly what thrills them. No disappointments. I always wonder where it eventually leads to, becoming roommates? Fifteen years of going without naturally change the whole nature of a relationship. I would guess the last thing you specifically would want is to be pussy free.

Yes over the years it has been difficult. I feel it has lead me to explore many different kinks, cuckolding being just one of them. I often wonder if my sucking was because of being pussyfree? This has been my only outlet to sexually please another person.
I agree in there being a long term effect within the relationship as I have become more submissive to her.
Thanks for your reply.

[vmb69]

3 years as of october, you can do it

[wannabecUKold]

The critical point about being pussy free is that for it to be more than a standard sex free household the denial has to be active so that she taunts you that you are denied and cages you so controls the usage of your cock. And she tells her friends so you are humiliated by her. This keeps the denial hot and alive. Your frustration is erotic not despairing. She must play games keeping her pussy away from you and ideally available to another man in your presence and with your knowledge.

[SubSnuggler]

I've only gotten pussy 3 times this year. In my Wife's household we call it 'Japanese husband' or 'cuck-zoned', meaning not quite pussy free but you only get it when She's feeling benevolent about your service.

*'cuck-zone' being a word play on 'friend-zoned'

[masculinecuck]

I've been cut off for 5 years now, last time she was riding my cock and hopped off and said your pencil dick doens't feel good and she gave me a BJ.
I got 5 bj's last year, her pussy is strictly reserved for BIG cock unfortunately that does not include me.
I get her off with my tongue and clean her cum filled pussy is all....

[Sparkcuck81]

We are slowly moving in that direction. Since introducing chastity, Mrs Sparkcuck has really taken to keeping me caged almost full time. She does like the occasional PIV but eating her out satisfies her nicely. I am hoping being pussy free will eventually lead to actually cuckolding. Only time will tell.

[coastalkid]

I've been with a few wives that made their cuck pussy-free. I think it works in particular if the denial is part of his kink.

I've been pussy free a lot in my marriage. It hasn't been from any kink driven reasons. It has been because my wife WAS clinically sexually dysfunctional. I say "was" because we sought out professional help. I say "we" because it affected my mental state as well. I had to seek out counseling to address my depression and anger. Those days were absolutely miserable! I had (and sometimes still struggle with) resentment for feeling robbed of a sex life that I wanted more than anything. In NO way was being pussy free EVER a kink to me. It was a Hell that I wouldn't wish on anyone!

There was no teasing from my wife, no glimpses of what "I could have", no games, just nothing. There were no mean spirited behaviors or comments. In every other way except sex we were fine. I literally lost many years patiently supporting and hoping that my wife would come around one way or another. I do accept ownership of stubbornly having faith in my wife. I know she loves me. I know she wants me to be happy. We simply had a problem that took a long while to sort out.

This "organic/natural" form of being pussy free is unrewarding. I was left scarred by it. There was nothing kinky about it. Even though things are much, much better now it's hard to forget those days. In lot of ways I came to equate being denied as cheating, I was cheated out of many, many opportunities to enjoy a full and fun sex life.

This is only my opinion, I won't feel hurt being told I'm wrong or way off. I'm really here to learn about myself and what others do. I believe that guys that are into being pussy free can "afford" it. They've had enough sex for themselves (or don't really need it) to afford to play a game. A game that is about having mental/emotional stimulation as the conduit for deriving physical sexual stimulation (in whatever form that manifests itself). They dig the angst and anguish, the shame and humiliation, they even dig it when has become a predictable, repeated and common routine, it's their kink.

If it's not your kink (like me), it definitely won't work if just your wife is into it. I get there are perfectly paired couples that enjoy this lifestyle and this kink . I get that there are couples just living in the moment and having fun. All I know is that I didn't have resentment when we first started facing our problems, I did by the time it nearly took us down. I'm glad I didn't give up on my wife. My resentment reminds me of the cost it came at. My time of being "pussy free" hurt me in ways I didn't like.

[D+D]

hello everyone.

I have been a cuck to my fiancée for a little over 2 years, and we have started practicing chastity for a year now. All this while, I was allowed to have sex with her occasionally. However, a few days back, she suggested the idea of no vaginal sex for me whatsoever moving forward and asked whether I'd be open to give it a shot. I would love to explore it, but I aint sure of potential consequences - positive or negative - of a long-term pussy free relationship. She also wants to create a dynamic where I get rare cage releases and wouldnt clean her up or see pussy as often as I do now.

I would appreciate an advice from those who have been practicing it.
cheers!

If you are a truly committed cuckold, you will do EXACTLY what she wants. No more, no less. No matter if you want it or not. If she wants you groveling at her feet she knows she must totally control your entire sexual being.

[tsmith6974]

I do accept ownership of stubbornly having faith in my wife. I know she loves me. I know she wants me to be happy. We simply had a problem that took a long while to sort out.

It's a good thing to want to protect your marriage. I'm still a wanna be (and probably will always be) but it hurts me when I see other's marriages turn into a train wreck. No kink is worth losing the one you love and who loves you back. There is a current thread that looks like to me could turn into a train wreck if the cuck isn't very careful...Not good...

TOM

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

It took a while for me to realize this (we were long distance during our entire relationship; which did encompass a couple of years of Mr. Covid), but eventually I came to the conclusion that I was going to be pussy-free, not because of any particular kink on the part of my fiancée, but because she decided that once she got the ring on her finger, she was finished with intimacy. OR…..maybe she was no longer attracted to me; I simply don’t know; she never really explained it; but when I told her that one of the major reasons that I was ending the relationship was because of the complete lack of physical intimacy and affect affection (beyond a peck on the lips), she did not, in any way, indicate that she was going to change that part of herself in order to keep me. (and it was not part of any particular kink on her part; she simply decided that was not going to be part of our relationship going forward). Yes, I did love her;! But I told her that I was not gonna spend the rest of my years, remembering what I had had in previous relationships and resenting her for not providing that to me. We stay in (infrequent) touch; and I don’t believe she’s found anyone else. There is no one-size-fits-all……. People simply have to do what is best for themselves and their relationships according to their own standards and what makes them happy.