My year long pussy free commitment (on going)

[inivisibletwin]

I just wanted to report that Jen and I have spent the whole day at home alone, together, so far... with her actually completely naked, to test my resolve, and managed to go the whole day avoiding looking!

I didn't look once! not a glance!

Chris got home about 20 minutes ago, they are on the couch together right now, I excused myself to come write this... and probly jerk off, lol

im both turned on and proud of myself for not looking!

[Johng1953]

If you want it to be even more challenging, you could ask Jen or Chris to upload pictures into your thread in the Hotties section.

hmm, that would make it more challenging, in deed. I could ask them... though they havent wanted to be involved on this forum in the past... we'll see... they may just end up letting me post some of the pics i already have...

but yeah, if they posted a new pic of her pussy in that thread, that would mean I could no longer look at that thread!

I hope they do. Then we'd all be able to see what you can't. Maybe Jen might be turned on enough by that to do it from what you've said?

[MartasBoy]

I just wanted to report ..... with her actually completely naked, to test my resolve, ...

Chris got home about 20 minutes ago, they are on the couch together right now, I excused myself to come write this... and probly jerk off, lol

im both turned on and proud of myself for not looking!

My wife had a guy who requested exclusivity. She thought it was fun and granted is request. He didn't want me seeing her naked. When he was due to come over, she would wear a sexy nightgown, like a baby doll nightgown with matching panties that I knew were only for him, and only for him to touch, and only for him to remove. It was incredibly torturously teasing for me, to see how she was wrapped up like a present, to be presented to him, and that only he got to unwrap.

I liked the incredible feeling of denial. You know, usually a woman is only ever seen naked by her husband. In our case, she was only seen naked by him, and I, her husband was kept from seeing her.

If they were in the living room playing, I was required to announce myself before I entered, so he could cover her up, because he didn't want me seeing his woman naked.

You could get one of those folding screen dividers to put in the middle of the living room. It could obscure your view from across the room, affording them privacy on the couch. You would be able to hear her sounds of pleasure, as he touches her, but you would be unable to see exactly what's going on.

[inivisibletwin]

If you want it to be even more challenging, you could ask Jen or Chris to upload pictures into your thread in the Hotties section.

hmm, that would make it more challenging, in deed. I could ask them... though they havent wanted to be involved on this forum in the past... we'll see... they may just end up letting me post some of the pics i already have...

but yeah, if they posted a new pic of her pussy in that thread, that would mean I could no longer look at that thread!

I hope they do. Then we'd all be able to see what you can't. Maybe Jen might be turned on enough by that to do it from what you've said?

I'll let you guys know what they say. Jen does get turned on by showing off her body, but she's never wanted to be involved in this website, in the past. I think she feels like this site is kinda just a "me" thing...

[inivisibletwin]

I just wanted to report ..... with her actually completely naked, to test my resolve, ...

Chris got home about 20 minutes ago, they are on the couch together right now, I excused myself to come write this... and probly jerk off, lol

im both turned on and proud of myself for not looking!

You could get one of those folding screen dividers to put in the middle of the living room. It could obscure your view from across the room, affording them privacy on the couch. You would be able to hear her sounds of pleasure, as he touches her, but you would be unable to see exactly what's going on.

oh, thats hot as fuck!! i LOVE that idea!

[inivisibletwin]

apparently Chris and Jen are planning one more test of my resolve, tonight!

Chris' old roommates (back story in the link in my signature) will be here in a couple hours, and Jen's gonna hang out naked for them all night. It'll be me, Chris, and Chris' two old roommates, and her!

she just told me she's gonna be naked all night, and will be watching to see if i look!

Now, these two guys have had sex with her before, but every time we all get together like this then end up all having sex with her again, so I'd say it's more than likely that Chris, and his two old roommates will all end up having sex with Jen, tonight...

all while I am committing myself to not even looking at her pussy!

hopefully my will holds out!

will post again after about how it goes!

[coastalkid]

Is Chris in on the every 10th guy celebration thing? I tried looking back in your thread (ok I didn't try that hard, I looked some). Can you remind me what happens with every tenth guy? She's 8 away from 80. How often does she find new guys? Another thing about the numbers part, how motivated is Jen about that? Does she seem as motivated as when she was on #11? Does Chris support the numbers game as much now as he did at the start? Lastly, what sex have you had (I know it's not PIV) since your anniversary?

[inivisibletwin]

Is Chris in on the every 10th guy celebration thing? I tried looking back in your thread (ok I didn't try that hard, I looked some). Can you remind me what happens with every tenth guy? She's 8 away from 80. How often does she find new guys? Another thing about the numbers part, how motivated is Jen about that? Does she seem as motivated as when she was on #11? Does Chris support the numbers game as much now as he did at the start? Lastly, what sex have you had (I know it's not PIV) since your anniversary?

the 10th guy celebration dates are one of the few times that it's just me and Jen. We go out together, just her and I, and have a nice romantic date, and it's the most romantic, and the closest I feel to her. On par with our anniversary date. the difference being, on the 10th guy celebration dates, her pussy is still off limits to me. so we have a romantic date, thats charged and enhanced by the fact that she has slept with ten more guys, but it doesnt lead to her and I having sex... it used to, before chris started my denial, but since Chris, it only leads to the limited amount of sexy time we can have.

they 10 celebration dates are kind've just a way for her and I to keep things lively, and celebrate our relationship, and celebrate her body count. I really enjoy them because they are happening BECAUSE she fucked ten more guys!

as far as how often she finds new guys, it used to be a lot more often, but since the pandemic it seems to have slowed down. I think it's just a natural side effect of basically spending almost 2 years on lock down... real world shit tends to get in the way. but thats one of the things we talked about when she decided to have the new years resolution to reach 80 before the end of the year. because she used to be more active. She misses it, and wants to pick it back up.

yeah, when she was at 11, she was very motivated! it was a new and exciting thing in her live. I do think, though, that if it had not been for the pandemic she probly would not have slowed down... but then again, also, chris is living with us as a direct result of the pandemic, and having chris around has been a lot of fun! she might not be getting new dick as often, but with chris around she's getting non-me dick regularly, way more often than before.

the numbers game is one of the things chris kinda just accepts and leaves for us. I know he likes showing her off. He says he's a candualist, meaning he gets turned on by other guys seeing her naked (which is perfect cause she's an exhibitionist). so he enjoys that part of it, and goes along with the rest. but when they started dating we explained to him that she wasnt gonna stop seeing other guys, and the numbers game would continue, and he would have to accept that or it wouldnt work for him to date her. and he accepted it, and goes along with it. But he also doesnt actively get involved in it either.

yes he will devise scenarios where other guys get to see her naked, and often those scenarios will eventually lead to her fucking the other guy, but he doesnt keep track of that, he leaves that for me to do... basically he neither supports it or doesn't, he just goes along with it and lets it be what it is. i think he knows that if he objected to it that would lead to her ending it with him.

as far as what sex I've had with her since the anniversary, it was only a week ago, so it hasnt been that long, and sexual activity with me is at the bottom of her priority list, but I am allowed all the tits, hands and mouth I want. the night she spent in my bed fully naked, that I mentioned above, we made out, I got tits, and a blowjob. when she give me a blow job she takes her time. it lasted a couple hours before I came in her mouth. She says of all the blowjobs she gives, she actually really enjoys giving them to me... because I am me...

I may not get full on sexy time with her all that often, but I do kiss / make out with her, and feel her tits, all the time. daily. cause they are always out. it just doesnt always lead to anything, some times a kiss and a fondle is just a kiss and a fondle... thats why, though, the short time i spent being denied her tits, last year, was so tough!

[LongTermHubby]

I became long-term pussy free about six months after I became a cuckold.

[inivisibletwin]

the adventure continues! my wife said she has been impressed with my commitment to not looking, even when im allowed to. she said its actually been a turn on her for her! so much so that she gathered the three of us (her, me, and chris) to talk about it...

I have officially promised and committed, to both jen and chris, to not look at or try to touch jen's pussy at all, except for the one day a year, on our anniversary.

jen said she really was really turned on by the idea of being naked with me, her husband, but have me not looking at her pussy. So Chris decided to go ahead and change the rules...

jen is an exhibitionist, she likes to be naked when ever she can be. this means, at home, she is basically always naked. but since I am denied her pussy, the rule was she had to wear at least panties if her and I were alone together, so I wouldnt be allowed to see her pussy... If chris, or any other guy was present she could take the panties off... and in that circumstance I would be allowed to look... look only... but that was just as a matter of convience, so the other guy could look...

well, that rule has changed! since I have committed to not looking, even when I'm allowed to, and I am enforcing this on myself, she no longer has to wear panties when alone with me... but I am NEVER allowed to look...

...except for once a year on our anniversary, which is her request...

so, for the past couple weeks jen has just been naked all the time, at home, even when alone with me, and I have just been ACTIVELY avoiding looking!

she has been actively watching me avoid looking!

and the more I avoid looking, the more I am enjoying not looking! ...and the more I dont look the more she seems to enjoy me not looking!

...to be clear, i catch glimpses of it in my peripheral vision, while maintaining eye contact... or when looking at things I AM allowed to look at, like her tits... but I NEVER look right at her pussy... so I never see it clearly...

It's getting easier and easier, actually! my eyes arent even drawn to it any more. I'm not even tempted to look... her tits, yes, but not her pussy...

partially, i think, because somehow, it just feels right to not look!

I go all day actively not looking at it, while she is right next to me, naked, and I find myself just hoping that when chris gets home he fucks her so good she passes out!

I honestly hope chris enjoys, and worships her pussy! ...while I dont even look at it!

[ucaneffher]

While I wouldn't want to commit to not seeing or not touching her beautiful pussy, I can tell you with certainty that I absolutely envy you and would love for my girlfriend to have a boyfriend, make him the primary man, move him in, move me to a spare bedroom, and make me the once-a-year guy while he has unlimited daily access.

My girlfriend once asked me if I would be okay with her having a boyfriend and I answered yes. She asked if I would like to be friends with her boyfriend, again answered yes. Lastly she asked if I would ever be okay with her boyfriend moving in with us and embarrassingly answered yes. She responded with a little chuckle and a "come here!" To give me a hug to soften my blushing and embarrassment.

We aren't in the lifestyle but her questions give me a lot of hope. Especially because she heard my stance and it has sort of planted the seed in her head. I hope that one day I will get to experience my GF sharing a bedroom with another man on a semi permanent basis while she only sleeps in my bedroom a few times per month and only fucks me once a year while her boyfriend is leaving his load in her on a regular basis.

You're a lucky cuckold!

[Long Lurker 34]

While I wouldn't want to commit to not seeing or not touching her beautiful pussy, I can tell you with certainty that I absolutely envy you and would love for my girlfriend to have a boyfriend, make him the primary man, move him in, move me to a spare bedroom, and make me the once-a-year guy while he has unlimited daily access.

My girlfriend once asked me if I would be okay with her having a boyfriend and I answered yes. She asked if I would like to be friends with her boyfriend, again answered yes. Lastly she asked if I would ever be okay with her boyfriend moving in with us and embarrassingly answered yes. She responded with a little chuckle and a "come here!" To give me a hug to soften my blushing and embarrassment.

We aren't in the lifestyle but her questions give me a lot of hope. Especially because she heard my stance and it has sort of planted the seed in her head. I hope that one day I will get to experience my GF sharing a bedroom with another man on a semi permanent basis while she only sleeps in my bedroom a few times per month and only fucks me once a year while her boyfriend is leaving his load in her on a regular basis.

You're a lucky cuckold!

UC
- Was this anytime recent? Just trying to keep up to date.

[ucaneffher]

While I wouldn't want to commit to not seeing or not touching her beautiful pussy, I can tell you with certainty that I absolutely envy you and would love for my girlfriend to have a boyfriend, make him the primary man, move him in, move me to a spare bedroom, and make me the once-a-year guy while he has unlimited daily access.

My girlfriend once asked me if I would be okay with her having a boyfriend and I answered yes. She asked if I would like to be friends with her boyfriend, again answered yes. Lastly she asked if I would ever be okay with her boyfriend moving in with us and embarrassingly answered yes. She responded with a little chuckle and a "come here!" To give me a hug to soften my blushing and embarrassment.

We aren't in the lifestyle but her questions give me a lot of hope. Especially because she heard my stance and it has sort of planted the seed in her head. I hope that one day I will get to experience my GF sharing a bedroom with another man on a semi permanent basis while she only sleeps in my bedroom a few times per month and only fucks me once a year while her boyfriend is leaving his load in her on a regular basis.

You're a lucky cuckold!

UC
- Was this anytime recent? Just trying to keep up to date.

I think this may have been around Spring/Summer 2023. Wish that I had some positive and recent updates but I am keeping positive and patient.

[Long Lurker 34]

While I wouldn't want to commit to not seeing or not touching her beautiful pussy, I can tell you with certainty that I absolutely envy you and would love for my girlfriend to have a boyfriend, make him the primary man, move him in, move me to a spare bedroom, and make me the once-a-year guy while he has unlimited daily access.

My girlfriend once asked me if I would be okay with her having a boyfriend and I answered yes. She asked if I would like to be friends with her boyfriend, again answered yes. Lastly she asked if I would ever be okay with her boyfriend moving in with us and embarrassingly answered yes. She responded with a little chuckle and a "come here!" To give me a hug to soften my blushing and embarrassment.

We aren't in the lifestyle but her questions give me a lot of hope. Especially because she heard my stance and it has sort of planted the seed in her head. I hope that one day I will get to experience my GF sharing a bedroom with another man on a semi permanent basis while she only sleeps in my bedroom a few times per month and only fucks me once a year while her boyfriend is leaving his load in her on a regular basis.

You're a lucky cuckold!

UC
- Was this anytime recent? Just trying to keep up to date.

I think this may have been around Spring/Summer 2023. Wish that I had some positive and recent updates but I am keeping positive and patient.

UC
- Well you know Valentine's is around the corner. You always go "Hey do you remember ..........(the above incident) I found that really hot......."

[inivisibletwin]

just a quick little update here

jen has stopped wearing panties around me, even when we are alone, and I have found myself not even wanting to look! it's getting easier and easier, since I openly committed to not looking!

I have to admit the thought of actually looking is starting to feel inappropriate.

last night she slept in my bed fully naked, as she climbed into bed she sat on the bed, facing me and started talking, I maintained eye contact... while she was talking she paused, opened her legs and said I could look if I want, she wont tell chris... as she did that I instinctively looked away without even thinking about it! it was a knee jerk reaction!

[inivisibletwin]

i posted more in depth about this in the thread linked in my signature, but for all intents and purposes my pussy denial is pretty much over... the quick version is, she fucked a guy at a party and i was allowed to watch, and both her and her boyfriend enjoyed letting me watch (he's a candualist, he likes when other guys see his girlfriend naked... even her husband)... there was also an incident where she fucked a married guy who took off right after, but she was still horny and no one else was around, so chris let me please her orally... i worshiped her pussy like i used to do, and she loved it! so chris decided to more-or-less end my denial. i am now allowed to look, and im allowed to touch but only with my hands and mouth... im not allowed to touch her pussy with my dick except for once a year on our anniversary, and that is the extent of my denial, now...

as much as i am enjoying access to her pussy... as much as i LOVE her pussy... it's odd, but i do kinda miss being denied...

so,. even though i am allowed to look, i still find myself looking away, some times... imposing my own denial...

[surry]

This is a good post about being denied your wife's pussy. It is funny how at first the husband likes doing it for a little bit of time. I told my wife as I was fucking her in the beginning to make me pull out in a stern voice. Remind me this is his pussy and not mine. She will tell him I was in his property. This progressed to me being denied her pussy for about ten years now. Last month she wanted me to fuck her. I kept getting soft. Later on, she was telling our bull about it in front of me on the cell phone. This got me excited. The mind is a powerful sex tool.

[scarlettscuck]

as much as i am enjoying access to her pussy... as much as i LOVE her pussy... it's odd, but i do kinda miss being denied...

so,. even though i am allowed to look, i still find myself looking away, some times... imposing my own denial...

Hi IT… just checking in to see what’s new? Miss your awesome posts of cuck denial and angst. Curious how things have progressed. Hope you and hottie and Chris are all good!

[germancuck-1]

Hello IT, you haven´t updated your threads in quite a while now. Hope you and Jen are doing well!

[Long Lurker 34]

Hello IT, you haven´t updated your threads in quite a while now. Hope you and Jen are doing well!

IT
- I too had been wondering about you lately.
- GC1 your post prodded me to respond too.

[Teensy1]

Congratulations! I’d been completely pussyfree for a decade. Finally my wife decided that I didn’t deserve to be tormented any longer. So she graciously allows me cleanup privileges after watching her lovers empty themselves into her. I must confess it’s far more satisfying than plain cunnilingus. Her freshly-ravished cunt still is steaming and sensitive and her lovers’ cream is dripping and delicious, especially when belongs to my friends.

[Tamilcuck]

Congratulations. I have not been in my wife's pussy for more than 10 years as well. I am allowed to clean her puasy after bull is done. As a cuckold I think it is only right that the bull with the bigger penis is the only one allowed in her.

[venus-can99]

Hello IT - hope things are progressing well in your commitment. Would love to hear more when you have time

[MartasBoy]

If I were chris, and had the opportunity to own some other man's wife, I would want to see how far I could go with it and make her completely mine. I would tell the husband that he is to destroy any old photos, because if he and Jen are moving more toward making her all his, it would be inappropriate for another man to have pictures of his woman's vagina.

It could also be carried to another level that you no longer get your anniversary access. To make it special for Jen and commemorate your anniversary, they could celebrate her anniversary together. Maybe you could be allowed to watch them have anniversary love making, and a special anniversary treat for you might be your one opportunity a year to clean her up.

If I was trying to take ownership of another man's wife, if any intercourse ever was allowed, I would want him to have to wear a condom so I would know that he wouldn't be coming inside of his wife, who now belong to me.

I might Institute rules like the husband can only shake her hand hello and goodbye but no kissing. Or maybe limit kissing to the cheek only, like kiss between a brother and sister. So you could be banned from her lips as well as her vagina.

I like when my wife takes me shopping for sexy outfits and nightgowns that she will wear only for her boyfriend. When she has picked out the things she wants, she will call me over and will tell the clerk, "Let me call my husband over, he'll be paying for these." Sometimes the store clerk will complement our purchases, and my wife will use the opportunity to say, "Yes, my boyfriend is coming in town this weekend and I think he's going to like these."

Have you done other things to show your deference to Chris as her new man of the house? Have they taken over the master bedroom letting you move to the guest bedroom?

[NWUK]

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