Cuck Humiliation

[canadianwittol]

I've detailed these stories at length elsewhere, but in quick summary our bull for years would show up on holiday long weekends with outfits for me that seemed to be in theme with the holiday. I.e. he gave me a playboy bunny costume to wear on Easter weekend, and a women's dirndl (German Oktoberfest dress) to wear for Thanksgiving weekend (Canadian Thanksgiving is in October). And it all started with a "Mrs. Clause" outfit at Christmas, of course.

I've also spent many summer afternoons at our cabin outside on the deck in a bikini.

I've had many over the years, some of which I've enjoyed, others I have not.

Most for me has involved some form of feminization. I've worn a number of humiliating outfits at her bull's suggestion.

I started eating creampies in the last year and found that I actually loved this "humiliation", but it is nonetheless somewhat shameful to me when I stop and think about it Intellectually.

Would love to hear more about your humiliating outfits at her bull's suggestion - sounds like a lot of fun!!

[Fallenone38]

So how far do You go for Your Wife and Her Bull? Do You clean after? Do You clean both after? Do You suck Him hard for Her? Does He use You when Wife is Unavailable? OfCourse dressing Famine is required. Never mind the mind games.

[Barti]

So how far do You go for Your Wife and Her Bull? Do You clean after? Do You clean both after? Do You suck Him hard for Her? Does He use You when Wife is Unavailable? OfCourse dressing Famine is required. Never mind the mind games.

Not one Bull. She has 3 Bulls and lots of one night stands and parties.

But with some Bulls
- i clean her
- i clean him
- i suck him hard
And yes, she wants him to fuck me soon....

[canadianwittol]

If these questions are directed at me - yes, I do clean my wife after. I do not have any contact with him. He has indicated that he would love to use me himself, but that is a huge turn off to my wife thankfully for me so that has never transpired.

You are right, the cross-dressing is definitely a mind game at times. I learned the hard way to stop making an even bigger fool of myself in my bikini by banging on the door of the cabin begging to be let in as boats passed by in view of me and learned that it is much better to simply to exercise some modesty with a towel. Things like that. Definitely a mind fuck.

[Fallenone38]

If these questions are directed at me - yes, I do clean my wife after. I do not have any contact with him. He has indicated that he would love to use me himself, but that is a huge turn off to my wife thankfully for me so that has never transpired.

You are right, the cross-dressing is definitely a mind game at times. I learned the hard way to stop making an even bigger fool of myself in my bikini by banging on the door of the cabin begging to be let in as boats passed by in view of me and learned that it is much better to simply to exercise some modesty with a towel. Things like that. Definitely a mind fuck.

No it was not directed at You. But thanks for answering. Yes as Your post points out there are differences in these relationships. Now I have two couples where the wives want to see the cucks used. I believe its a deeper mind fuck on Thier part.

[canadianwittol]

In that case I hope you will pardon my intrusion into the conversation; it wasn't my intent to hijack the conversation.

If these questions are directed at me - yes, I do clean my wife after. I do not have any contact with him. He has indicated that he would love to use me himself, but that is a huge turn off to my wife thankfully for me so that has never transpired.

You are right, the cross-dressing is definitely a mind game at times. I learned the hard way to stop making an even bigger fool of myself in my bikini by banging on the door of the cabin begging to be let in as boats passed by in view of me and learned that it is much better to simply to exercise some modesty with a towel. Things like that. Definitely a mind fuck.

No it was not directed at You. But thanks for answering. Yes as Your post points out there are differences in these relationships. Now I have two couples where the wives want to see the cucks used. I believe its a deeper mind fuck on Thier part.

[Fallenone38]

I am a cuck because i met this supernatural girl, who i admire and adore and it makes me feel just PERFECT serving her and offering EVERYTHING to her....

You offer Her everything. I take it She uses You and Your body. Does she peg You? Of course You clean Her. Does She give You to Her Bull?

[coastalkid]

For anyone here. Does your humiliation have to escalate over time because you become have become accustomed to the previous humiliations? Just as an example, say you are required to wear panties all the time and it is extremely humiliating to begin with but over time it becomes accepted and eventually, no big deal. Please excuse my naivete, but in order to get that initial thrill back, do things that you become conditioned to accept need to be "stepped up" to keep pace?

What does happen when you reach acceptance and is it still the same thrill for the wife/gf if the husband has no will power to resist the shame associated with humiliation? It's a sincere question from someone that's curious and just wants to understand? I firmly believe everybody should enjoy their sex lives the way they want to. I'm not judging anyone.

[Barti]

I am a cuck because i met this supernatural girl, who i admire and adore and it makes me feel just PERFECT serving her and offering EVERYTHING to her....

You offer Her everything. I take it She uses You and Your body. Does she peg You? Of course You clean Her. Does She give You to Her Bull?

Yes she pegs me. I cum in my cage.
I clean her! Absolutely!
Next step is that a bull will fuck me, yes.
(One of her bulls)

[Fallenone38]

What does happen when you reach acceptance and is it still the same thrill for the wife/gf if the husband has no will power to resist the shame associated with humiliation? It's a sincere question from someone that's curious and just wants to understand? I firmly believe everybody should enjoy their sex lives the way they want to. I'm not judging anyone.

When couples first start out. Most start out slow. Most Bull will take this, But then start to escalate. May start out with the cuck just watching. Maybe just allowed to listen. But now They are chasing the high. He may be told to handle the Bulls cock . Insert it into the Wife. He maybe put in chastity. Horniness I a great motivator. Now He is pushed into cleaning. (some don't realy have to have to be pushed) Both pussy and cock.
Now I have had cucks burn their underwear. Made to wear panties or thongs all the time. One a cage is put on Him He will told to do other things.

[bradisalpha]

What does happen when you reach acceptance and is it still the same thrill for the wife/gf if the husband has no will power to resist the shame associated with humiliation? It's a sincere question from someone that's curious and just wants to understand? I firmly believe everybody should enjoy their sex lives the way they want to. I'm not judging anyone.

When couples first start out. Most start out slow. Most Bull will take this, But then start to escalate. May start out with the cuck just watching. Maybe just allowed to listen. But now They are chasing the high. He may be told to handle the Bulls cock . Insert it into the Wife. He maybe put in chastity. Horniness I a great motivator. Now He is pushed into cleaning. (some don't realy have to have to be pushed) Both pussy and cock.
Now I have had cucks burn their underwear. Made to wear panties or thongs all the time. One a cage is put on Him He will told to do other things.

Fallenone,

Our styles are very similar. Starting slow gives me the opportunity to know them both. Escalating slowly but steadily takes them down a path of both ultimately submitting… her becoming immersed in sexual excitement while at the same time increasing humiliation on the cuckold. They both feed off one another. Limits slowly disappear as they are lead down this path. Some think this is over dominating, but in reality I am only instigating and giving them the opportunity and guidance to continually step a little further into their own exciting pleasures !!

It is VERY exciting for me to watch as a couple grows into the lifestyle that they could not have imagined before we met. It has been my life !!!!

Just sayin….

Brad

[surry]

I do not do female clothes. I love answering the phone if it is him. He calls me boy and ask for his property. He instructs me how to get her ready for him. My wife loves him doing this. She has me call him to get permission to touch his property.

[tn_cpl_4bull]

We do not currently have a Bull (unfortunately), but our vacation Bull (lives at Myrtle Beach) has a very assertive personality, with a powerful cock to match. He isn't shy about taking control in the bedroom, having me caged, and ordering me to my knees to watch as he passionately makes out with my wife and feels up her big breasts. He instructs me to suck his big cock in front of her, to include licking all over his balls, to get them nice and tight for her enjoyment. Even though I am 100% straight, I GREATLY enjoy the sexual humiliation of performing this act in front of her. He will then begin fucking her, frequently pulling his cock out, telling me to lick her married pussy juices off his hard cock, before reinserting it back inside her. Of course when he fills her with his cum, I am ordered to lick them both clean. As all this is happening, they are both telling me what a superior lover he is and how inadequate and undeserving I am.

[Fallenone38]

Our styles are very similar. Starting slow gives me the opportunity to know them both. Escalating slowly but steadily takes them down a path of both ultimately submitting… her becoming immersed in sexual excitement while at the same time increasing humiliation on the cuckold. They both feed off one another. Limits slowly disappear as they are lead down this path. Some think this is over dominating, but in reality I am only instigating and giving them the opportunity and guidance to continually step a little further into their own exciting pleasures !!

It is VERY exciting for me to watch as a couple grows into the lifestyle that they could not have imagined before we met. It has been my life !!!!

Just sayin….

Brad
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Brad I couldn't agree more. Most couples set out with a what they feel is a hard set of Limits. What I call Chasing The High. Those limits will be broken down. When at first We talk I can get a feel for just how open, and yes how submissive They are. These are the couples that hold a certain amount of attraction for Me. ( not all couples are submissive). Not

[Fallenone38]

Our styles are very similar. Starting slow gives me the opportunity to know them both. Escalating slowly but steadily takes them down a path of both ultimately submitting… her becoming immersed in sexual excitement while at the same time increasing humiliation on the cuckold. They both feed off one another. Limits slowly disappear as they are lead down this path. Some think this is over dominating, but in reality I am only instigating and giving them the opportunity and guidance to continually step a little further into their own exciting pleasures !!

It is VERY exciting for me to watch as a couple grows into the lifestyle that they could not have imagined before we met. It has been my life !!!!

Just sayin….

Brad
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Brad I couldn't agree more. Most couples set out with a what they feel is a hard set of Limits. What I call Chasing The High. Those limits will be broken down. When at first We talk I can get a feel for just how open, and yes how submissive They are. These are the couples that hold a certain amount of attraction for Me. ( not all couples are submissive). The are many ways to practice Cuckolding.

[Tryagain]

I would like to experience true humiliation like the bull ordering me to do things. My wife is just too nice and loving to me so that I cannot get her to humiliate me. And the few times she said "you can't fuck me like this" . I know she saying that because i want it and therefore it loses its excitement.

And all the guys we have been with seem to be nice guys who would not like inflicting humiliation on me. True humiliation for me must involve people who are into it themselves.

[Cgb29]

A lot of it for us has been organic, not forced. Humiliation isn't a huge kink for us, but it is bound to happen on some level when your wife sleeps with or dates other guys.

Some of it has involved being exposed. She's outed our situation to a friend and to her mom. But the humiliation tends to wane after a while once it's just normal for them to know. I'll still get a tinge of it when she and her mom openly discuss things in front of me.

She's had a couple guys into the dominant position they have over me so I've been willing to go with the flow in those situations, but never into anything that got crazy or made us uncomfortable.

She's not comfortable being mean to anyone, especially me. I've overheard her make comments comparing me to guys when she's with them and I'm out of the room. One time I came home when she was with a guy and they didn't hear me. I could overhear their conversation and I heard her tell him about a time I came fast and ruined the moment. So little stuff like that can present a bit of a thrill. But if it was forced, it would feel off.

[coastalkid]

I would like to experience true humiliation like the bull ordering me to do things. My wife is just too nice and loving to me so that I cannot get her to humiliate me. And the few times she said "you can't fuck me like this" . I know she saying that because i want it and therefore it loses its excitement.

And all the guys we have been with seem to be nice guys who would not like inflicting humiliation on me. True humiliation for me must involve people who are into it themselves.

Some people don't enjoy being mean or meanness in general. They most likely see it as an unwanted and unflattering perception of their character. Someone like your wife would probably feel humiliated herself if she thought her friends and people who know her thought she was "mean". She sounds like she can do the hotwife thing but humiliating you doesn't turn her on and takes her out of her comfort zone. I can see how your dynamic can be frustrating.

[Fallenone38]

I would like to experience true humiliation like the bull ordering me to do things. My wife is just too nice and loving to me so that I cannot get her to humiliate me. And the few times she said "you can't fuck me like this" . I know she saying that because i want it and therefore it loses its excitement.

And all the guys we have been with seem to be nice guys who would not like inflicting humiliation on me. True humiliation for me must involve people who are into it themselves.

My question to You is. What kind of things do You see Yourself being made to do? Do You see Yourself being made hairless from Your neck down? Do You think You could take care of My needs when Your Wife can't. Sucking Me, dressed in panties and nylons? Golden Showers?

[Tryagain]

I am too "modest" to admit these things :-)

[surry]

Our best friend - Jim, became her lover. The first time We all were naked, Jim told us he was going to take my manhood from me. My wife would never see me as a man again. I was bent over; he was behind me, grabbed my hair. forced me to look at my wife. My wife was naked and we were face to face. She told him to take ruin me. We made eye contact the whole time Jim spit on my asshole and he forced fucked me. My wife and I were kissing and she loved it. This was something her and Jim talked about.

[Barti]

"Evolving humiliation"

Yesterday a Bull could not come over. So instead she took soms time for Milking me. I had to sit on my knees, and she did a prostate massage very mechanical, just to milk me. After every time i came (in my cage), she took a short break and restarted. She milked me 5 times. I was painfull and mechanical.

After that I had to lick her an orgasm. While I was doing that she said she had changed her mind. "You cannot fuck me anymore this year". I asked, while i kept licking, what she meant. Because she promised me that I could fuck her on 9 august (than it will be a year since I fucked her) with a condom. Bare I can only fuck her for breeding. "Yes, no more fucking. Not in a condom, not bare offcourse also".
I started crying, and than she said: "Oh, I am looking forward to the moment you will never ever fuck me again!" and she orgasmed while saying that.

This evening we go to a club (I guess +20 guys wil fuck her)
Tomorow I leave 3 days for work. She said at least 3 Bulls will come over to have sex, and it wil not be quick dates. It will be long making love. And she will not tell me, will not send me pics.... She will tell me the details when I come back on sunday....

I feel this is still evolving. I feel zo much pain, so much lust. I Love her so much....

[elina]

I would like to experience true humiliation like the bull ordering me to do things. My wife is just too nice and loving to me so that I cannot get her to humiliate me. And the few times she said "you can't fuck me like this" . I know she saying that because i want it and therefore it loses its excitement.

And all the guys we have been with seem to be nice guys who would not like inflicting humiliation on me. True humiliation for me must involve people who are into it themselves.

Dear Tryagain,

Are you ever allowed to be present when Your Wife is enjoying Herself with Her big cock lover?
If you are, I would suggest you can encourage both your Wife and Her Lover to humiliate you by acting very submissive around them. Welcome Her lover threating him with the utmost respect, thank him for providing your Wife with the sexual service She needs and you realize you are incapable of providing Her with.

Ask him if you can fetch him a drink or anything,
If you are feeling bold, ask him if you can please be allowed to remove his shoes, if he accepts, get on your knees and untie his shoes and take them off, ask him if there is anything else you can do...

Any wish uttered by your Wife, follow it immediately with a smile and a "Thank you maam".

What would happen if you did things like this?

Sincerely
elina

[NSEW1]

A bull who understands the cuckold psychology well will thrive in this lifestyle. He will understand that his dominating actions serve as a gift, a way for the cuck to experience, his inner needs, not as a disrespectful or hurtful action.

For example, the bull may invite the cuck to sit down on the floor while he sits next to the wife on the sofa. He will demonstrate Alpha confidence and explaining the new rules, he may ask the cuck to confirm his understandings as the wife watches her husband gradually submit to the higher authority. For example, he may explain, “You are no longer allowed to look at, touch, or verbally express sexual signals with your wife. If she perceives that you are, or if I sense that you are ogling her, you will be punished. Is that understood?”

“Yes,” he replies.

“ yes what?”

“Yes Master.”

“That’s better.” Then he turns to the wife. “ are you OK with that rule honey?”

Wife replies, “Yes, I agree with that rule. In addition, I don’t want him to enter our bedroom because there’s too many of my clothes, perfumes, accessories, and memories that would trigger his arousal. That should be our private space.”

Bull: “ you heard that, cuck?”

Husband: “ yes Master, yes, wife. I will not enter the master bedroom.”

Etc..

[Barti]

The above post is an example. Not common. In lots of hotwife/cuckold relations the bull is not allowed to do that. Only the wife decides this! Plus.... lots of hotwifes want their cuck to be arroused all the time.