Surrendering my wedding band

[Teensy1]

Thank you all! The surrender ceremony will take place on Saturday night. I will fill you in on the humiliating details.

[Bogdan]

If your wife says this is not a real marriage then it is time to leave and find better happiness, but that is just my opinion...

[Maddie_Hippychick]

For some reason, this thread has struck a nerve with me. I can’t stop thinking about it. So, my thoughts, for what it’s worth.

When you got married, made your vows, and exchanged rings, that was real-life. It was love. It was a two-way commitment between you and your wife. This was likely meant as a lifelong promise to care for each other, through thick and thin. Those rings mean something.

If you surrender your ring it should also mean something, something real, not just some kinky play. So, what does it really mean? It sounds to me that you’re making a commitment to your bull and wife, not just to accept their relationship as it is, but to become a bigger part of the relationship albeit in a different role. My question is, what commitment is the bull making to you? What commitment will your wife have to you? I think that if you agree to relinquish all of your marriage privileges, if you agree to be lead down a path of sissification and servitude, that you deserve a commitment from them to always care for you, to create a safe space for you, to not abandon you.

I am gender-fluid. I don’t think that embracing and presenting my feminine self is humiliating in any way. I try to be kind, warm, compassionate, vulnerable, smart, strong and funny, regardless of how I’m dressed. I’m a bit submissive by nature, but I don’t share that with every asshole that thinks they’re a Dom. That’s a gift that I only share with people that are worthy of it; confident, strong, accomplished, intelligent and kind people, NOT just a swinging dick.

If you’re going to give this gift to your bull and your wife, set boundaries. Make sure they are continuously worthy of this gift.

[Teensy1]

Many thanks, Maddie, for your wise and empathetic response. I am so submissive that I often forget that I have the right to expect a commitment if I am making one, especially one so profound. You have helped me greatly!

[BlazeH123]

My wife’s bull has taken my wedding band. He wears it on his finger, not around his neck. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. It’s a symbolic gesture that shows that my wife is his.

[elina]

My wife’s bull has taken my wedding band. He wears it on his finger, not around his neck. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. It’s a symbolic gesture that shows that my wife is his.

Dear BlazeH

Thank you for sharing your situtation.
It would be wonderful if yuo would consider starting your own thread in the cuckold section to describe your curent situation and how Your Wife started cuckolding you and how you got to the place you are now where Her bull is wearing your wedding band on his finger.

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

[surry]

Thank you, Elina, for your thoughtful suggestion. Much appreciated indeed. I spoke to the bull last night and expressed my reluctance about giving him my wedding band. He said that what he really wanted me to surrender is my manhood since he already has my bride. There will in fact be a formal ceremony next weekend with neighbors present. They already know I’m a cuck. Now they’ll see me caged with him wearing the key and collared. I will wear a necklace with his initials prominently displayed. I told him that was a fair compromise and thanked him.

I like your attitude. Cuck husbands, wives, and Bulls have to work out what works for them. If he were a short-time Bull, then no. But since he has been your Bull for a while, yes, you should follow what is demanded. You talking to the Bull and working out what he wants means you have accepted his power in your marriage. I like the idea of you wearing his initials is very good.
Years ago, I gave up my wedding band to our Bull. I sold it and gave him the money. We had a ceremony in our home, making him our Bull full-time. H e moved in. He passed 6 years ago, and we still miss him. Some Bulls, IF everyone agrees, want to take the husband's manhood away from the wife's mind. The Bull because the man of the home. The husband becomes their "BOY." My wife's first Bull would not fuck her until he fucked her husband (me). So I was ordered to lay across the arm of our couch with my head in my wife's lap as he took my ass with no oil. He dry fucked me. My wife whispered I was being a "Good Boy." So be happy, it is your wedding band.

[Teensy1]

I respect your decision to sell the ring. You were fortunate to have such a satisfying relationship for so long. I think that my surrendering myself so that my bride and I become a true Black-owned couple will be a wise decision. Thanks for your input.

[Teensy1]

An update on this weekend’s surrender ceremony. My hotwife will formally become my Mistress and her role will be to help her bull keep me submissive and meek. She also told me to expect to be sissified in front of the witnesses. Apparently there’ll be a dozen couples from the neighborhood. A couple of the hubbies already are cucks. My wife says that the bull hopes that the ceremony will plant the seed with the other wives that their hubbies could be candidates for horns, too.

[bradisalpha]

An update on this weekend’s surrender ceremony. My hotwife will formally become my Mistress and her role will be to help her bull keep me submissive and meek. She also told me to expect to be sissified in front of the witnesses. Apparently there’ll be a dozen couples from the neighborhood. A couple of the hubbies already are cucks. My wife says that the bull hopes that the ceremony will plant the seed with the other wives that their hubbies could be candidates for horns, too.

I believe the seed is already planted in the other wives. That would be common after knowledge of this lifestyle. However, actually seeing a cuckold husband caged and sissified while his wife happily swoons over her bull.. holding, caressing, flirting, building sexual arousal.. while the cuckold, at the same time, shows his approval and his arousal in his cuckold position, will be an example to follow. The other two hot wife/cuckold couples should show this example as well to uphold the validity of the lifestyle.

There will be private conversations and questions from the wives, as well as the husbands, afterwards and you will see some changes in your neighbors as time goes on. I have heard many comments from wives “I wish I could do that” and from husbands “I wish my wife would do that”, so I believe the thoughts, fantasies and desires are already within the person.. they just need an example to follow. You will be giving them the example this weekend !!

I to will be waiting to hear the details of the Celebration afterwards.

Brad

[Teensy1]

Many thanks, Brad, for your astute observations. I am a longtime admirer of your thoughtful commentaries, both in this and the sissy cuckold forum. As you say, I think the seed already has been planted among the neighbor couples; otherwise they wouldn’t be attending the ceremony. They all know that we have had a cuckold marriage for a good while now but have not yet seen the reality which is evolving. As the week has progressed my wife has been disclosing more details to me about the surrender ceremony. As humiliating as they sound to me, my mindset is one of docile acceptance and, I must admit, excitement, as shown by the stirring in my dicklette. I’d be interested in whatever observations/predictions you may care to offer before my life changes significantly.

[bradisalpha]

Many thanks, Brad, for your astute observations. I am a longtime admirer of your thoughtful commentaries, both in this and the sissy cuckold forum. As you say, I think the seed already has been planted among the neighbor couples; otherwise they wouldn’t be attending the ceremony. They all know that we have had a cuckold marriage for a good while now but have not yet seen the reality which is evolving. As the week has progressed my wife has been disclosing more details to me about the surrender ceremony. As humiliating as they sound to me, my mindset is one of docile acceptance and, I must admit, excitement, as shown by the stirring in my dicklette. I’d be interested in whatever observations/predictions you may care to offer before my life changes significantly.

Teensy1,

I am replying out of respect, although it is very difficult to offer predictions without many details leading up to your ceremony. As you know, I enjoy a caged cuckold in pink transparent panties, heels, and red lipstick. I imagine that will be too much all at once for your “curious” neighbors but it might be the ending result as the ceremony progresses.

There will be a couple of other cuckolds attending also and it will depend on their level of progression into submission and sissification that, again, might come out later in the event.

I would imagine your wife and her Bull will show the intensity of their sexual romance, closeness and excitement as a couple while you are on your best supportive submissive behavior. The curious wives will see the pleasure of having a Bull and the husbands will see the submissive position they will have to assume as their wives begin to play. That, in itself, will give them an example to begin their own private discussions afterwards. There will probably be questions in discussions throughout the event from the wives as well as the husbands that you, your wife, and her Bull should answer honestly and offer assistance afterwards if and when they want to talk more about the lifestyle.

I imagine there may be the main event with the chance of enticing the curious attendees into the lifestyle and then a “no holds barred” after party that you will celebrate with the other cuckold couple attendees. This might be the perfect opportunity for your introduction into sissification !!

I will be waiting to hear the details of the Celebration afterwards.

Brad

[Teensy1]

Many thanks, Brad. I think you’re right that the ceremony will stimulate conversations between the wives and hubbies about cuckoldry and sissification and provoke questions for us as well. My wife has told her female friends that being a hotwife has rejuvenated her beyond her imagination and recommends it heartily. She also told them how readily I accepted becoming a cuck. Watching the ceremony likely will nudge more of our neighbors in that direction.

[bradisalpha]

Many thanks, Brad. I think you’re right that the ceremony will stimulate conversations between the wives and hubbies about cuckoldry and sissification and provoke questions for us as well. My wife has told her female friends that being a hotwife has rejuvenated her beyond her imagination and recommends it heartily. She also told them how readily I accepted becoming a cuck. Watching the ceremony likely will nudge more of our neighbors in that direction.

The ceremony will be the opportunity to seduce a couple or more into the lifestyle. Seduction is very hot and with the ceremony you will have the time to seduce. If your wife has already primed the wives, then they will be attending to find out more, and there is no better way to show more than the real life example of your wife and her Bull being together as a sexually aroused, happy couple.

Let the seduction begin !!!

Brad

[Xmatty1]

Her bull told me that surrendering manhood was the first step in my sissification which he says will be part of the ceremony. Several other cucks, whose wives are friends of my wife, will be there to bear witness. I won’t be living with my wife and bull but I will be required to be present when he is penetrating her to reinforce his superiority and my inferiority and to help as directed. Up to now I have not been allowed to observe. My wife and I still are married because it suits us. But I never could satisfy her with my thimble so we agreed that she could be a hotwife.

So you live is a neighborhood full of cuckolds in their 80’s or 70’s? Can you explain this?

[Teensy1]

Not quite full of cuckolds but several. Our area has many retired couples. In my neighborhood there are men in their late 60s and 70s like me who have erectile dysfunction and cannot achieve or maintain erections or who have lost sexual interest in their wives. Like me, several of them agreed to give their wives options of fucking other men. The number seems to be growing as word gets around.

[wannabecUKold]

All those tennis coaches, gardeners and delivery boys having to run the gauntlet of the silver vixens.

[Teensy1]

Word does get around about frisky grannies, yes.

[Teensy1]

Word does get around about frisky grannies, yes.

[Teensy1]

My granny is particularly frisky, it took half a century but she has been indulging her inner cumslut with great relish to my delight, Too bad it’s not with me.

[Teensy1]

Well, my new name is Sissy Pinkie, conferred last night at the ceremony where I surrendered my manhood in front of a dozen neighborhood couples including two fellow cucks and their hotwives. The surprise was that I wasn’t surrendering to the Bull but to my bride, who is now my Mistress. Turns out that the ceremony was her idea and she convinced her Bull that he would benefit significantly from having me sissified. Her motive was to show everyone present that she is a full partner with the Bull and decides how her hubby will be involved. Until now I have been a stay-at-home cuck, masturbating while my bride enjoyed being pleasured by nine inches of BBC. My wife didn’t want me to see how kinky she could get another man or hear her orgasmic screams. But now that she has resurrected the horny teenager who was everyone’s backseat goddess she’s a confident septuagenarian who is proud that her younger Bull struggles to keep up with her. We always have had a female-led marriage with her making all decisions. She made it clear to the bull that our marriage is solid and that she only became a hotwife after I went permanently soft. She felt that if I was brought in that all would be better off. The ceremony was Mistress’s show throughout. With the audience in place she walked into the recreation room naked in high-heels with a leash hooked up to a pink collar with her initials engraved in big black letters. I was told to kiss her feet and bent at the waist so that I could kiss each of her ass cheeks. Then she shaved me smooth and locked me into a pink cage. I thought that she would hand the key to the Bull but instead she draped it over her heck. The message was clear — I own his useless inchworm. The sissification followed promptly. Pink lipstick, pink nails, pink panties. Then Mistress produced a pink strapon, lubed my poophole generously and pegged me vigorously. She orgasmed loudly and I came, too, a sad sissy dribble. When I glanced at the other couples I saw that the wives were grinning and hubbies were jerking. They’d heard about my hotwife but now could see her naked with her lovely legs, shapely bottom and enormous breasts swinging to and fro as she pounded me. When she was finished she told the Bull that it was his turn — not with her but with me. I dropped to my knees and fluffed him. Then my wife guided him into me and I received a second plowing with him emptying himself into my bowels. There was clapping and champagne and the birth of Sissy Pinkie was complete. That was followed by separate conversations among the wives and hubbies. I can fill you in subsequently if desired.

[scarlettscuck]

Crazy hot overall. Curious what the living arrangements will be? Your Mistress seems to be in complete control. How did you feel during the actual ceremony?

[Teensy1]

I actually felt relieved, I was concerned that if I formally surrounded to the bull that he would bully and humiliate me as long as he was involved with my wife, Surrendering to her seemed natural because we have been in a female-led marriage for decades and I am accustomed to following her lead without resistance.i will continue to live in our house but will be present whenever my bride has sex with her bull. I got the sense thst she will be spending fewer overnights with him because she wants to supervise my sissification and monitor my progress,