My wife's first date with another man, and it's her ex!

[mundyman]

oh my god, oh my god, ok... so many thoughts running through my head... so many feelings... i've only just composed myself enough to write this update...

She did it! she spent the night with him!

the wedding was yesterday. She left at around 1, to meet him for lunch, beforehand. The wedding is about an hour and a half away, and was scheduled to start at 5. This would give them a couple hours to catch up before going to the wedding.

I actually tried to convince her not to wear a bra, but she thought that would be too inappropriate around his family... and, i mean, she was right...

I told her to text me updates if and when she can, but it's not the end of the world if she doesn't, as long as I get all the details eventually.

She texted me after the ceremony, again from the reception, and one more time after she'd had a few drinks at the reception. General updates with no indication of whether she was going back to him place or coming home. At that point, I didn't think she even knew yet...

Of course I could not get to sleep! I had read on this forum that jerking off, in this situation, was not advised, cause afterward I might feel different, and start regretting things, so i didn't... I tried to distract myself with movies and videos games, but I could not focus... at about 1am, when I had not heard anything from her, I assumed it was because she was at his place.

Last time I saw the clock before finally passing out was 3:14am... I woke up around 9 and she still was not home... during the night I thought about posting about it on here, but I wasn't sure what was going on. Didn't have enough info, so I refrained. When I woke up alone I thought about texting her, but decided I wanted to play it cool... Actually, I'm glad I didn't...

About a half hour before I began writing this post, she called me!! I spoke to her on the phone!!

She was still in bed... with him... He was there with her while she talked to me... She told me about the night... I heard him in the background... She told him my responses...

They had sex last night! ...and again this morning! ...and were both still naked, in his bed, while talking to me! ...and she is going to spend the rest of the day with him, and come home tonight!

She said it was really nice to see him again, and she enjoyed catching up with him. It was nice seeing his sister and family. The wedding was beautiful, and she had a lot of fun... She said that when she met him for lunch she had pretty much decided she was going to spend the night with him, but didn't want to commit yet so she could change her mind... She said that during the reception she decided she was going to go ahead and do it, so she had a few too many drinks... so she wasn't sober enough to make the hour and a half drive home, and rode with Nathan back to his place... leaving her car at the reception hall... so they have to go back and get it, today.

Nathan thanked me for letting him borrow her, and made sure I was okay with her spending the day with him. He also, very directly, thanked me for letting her sleep with him, and made sure I was okay with it... He even said he wanted to sleep with her one more time, today, before she leaves, and was I alright with that? ...I heard him say this to her, and I told her to tell him I was okay with it! of course! have fun! you've already had sex with her twice, might as well go for a third time!

So It's all above board! Everything is out in the open! no one is trying to do anything behind anyone's back. I'm so grateful I didn't text her! I'm so grateful she called, and did so with him there still, so I can talk to him (even if through her).

Now that I know what's going on! and what went on! my brain is exploding!! I know they are going to have sex again today, at some point! I know I'll see her late, tonight, and thats when I'll get all the details...

I don't even know how to feel! This is the craziest thing we have ever done! I'm still processing... I know theres a bit of nervous anxiety... But I trust her. Our relationship is pretty strong, so I'm not worried about losing her to him... I'm just sharing her with him... and... at least, at the moment (I still haven't jerked off yet), all I really feel is horny haha

When the anxious feelings start, I just tell myself that I encouraged this, I wanted this, I approved this. If I had said no she would not be there, it would not have happened... So here we are! ...might as well enjoy it, because she certainly seems to be enjoying it!

I know, because her and I have talked about it before, their breakup was amicable because after 2 years of dating they both realized they did not love each other. they liked each other fine, but they were "out of sync" as a couple and decided, together, that they were better as friends... and that sex was really the only part of their relationship that worked... They both wanted more than just that though, so they mutually decided to end it, on good terms.

..so here they are, after all these years, again indulging in the only thing about their relationship that worked...


For anyone who is curious, the wedding is an hour and a half away from our apartment, and about 45 minutes away from Nathan's place. I don't know how far Nathan's place is from our place, and I don't know anything else about Nathan's place...

Lisa and I are gonna have to talk through a lot of this, I don't know if this was a one-time thing, or if she's gonna wanna see him again... but, at least at this moment, I think I would want her to... so these are things we'll have to work out!

anyway! ...thanks for all the responses everyone! ...for this newbie getting cucked for the first time! WOO, what a ride!

I'll post more when I know more!

Wow!!!!! What an update!
Please, please, please share every detail from the debrief as you two get back together after her weekend with her ex.
A couple of questions:
Did she mention how she enjoyed the familiarity of having sex with him?
Did they vibe together in bed right away? Finding those old rhythms, did they remember the favorite things the other one did for each other? in other words did they still ‘fit’ together?
Did she enjoy it? Being in his arms again? Feeling his body against hers? His smell?
Did she enjoy the familiarity of having feelings of his hard cock entering her body???
Is he bigger than you?
Does she enjoy sex with him more?
Did he do her favorite thing in bed, which you don’t do, can’t do, or didn’t know to do? That hung that was only between them???

Good luck the next couple of weeks as her mind and emotions are overwhelmed with NRE type thoughts and the adrenaline rush of being with him.

Thank you for sharing your story!!! I can’t wait to hear more of your story.

[Maddie_Hippychick]

No Barti, you didn’t just shut up. You made a comment. Not the same thing.

I can only speak for myself. But, I think I’m pretty good at sussing out the fiction on this site. It’s insulting that someone else thinks I need their help to do that. I don’t.

[sconesy73]

As predicted
It unfolds like all these other stories.... a newbie with a typical storie....

But hey.... it is forbidden to say the truth here about these writers/writings... so i shut up.

Isn't everyone's story pretty similar? I read people's stories about their experiences and I can think "yeah, I've done that " and "yep, similar thing happened to me" etc. Doesn't mean they're bullshit.
My view on the Internet- if you don't like something, nobody else cares. There's a "back" button on every browser- it's brilliant - try it.
Personally, I'm thoroughly enjoying this thread and i hope it continues

[venus-can99]

As predicted
It unfolds like all these other stories.... a newbie with a typical storie....

But hey.... it is forbidden to say the truth here about these writers/writings... so i shut up.

Every newbie likely has a similar experience, so someone experiencing cuckolding for the first time would likely have a "typical experience". If you feel that this is too boring for your experienced brain you can always look elsewhere

[knight4princess]

Yes, please: If you don't like a thread, just ignore it. I'm hoping BadCandy will continue to keep us updated.

[scarfolamew]

As predicted
It unfolds like all these other stories.... a newbie with a typical storie....

But hey.... it is forbidden to say the truth here about these writers/writings... so i shut up.

ban this troll ffs

[Barti]

As predicted
It unfolds like all these other stories.... a newbie with a typical storie....

But hey.... it is forbidden to say the truth here about these writers/writings... so i shut up.

ban this troll ffs

Yes please!
So this cuck and his hotwife can join real conversations instead of this "we all know but we don't say it"...

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Well Barti...you can self deport yourself. Then you can come back anytime you want. If you're banned, you're done.

[Rogueuser1]

Remember that rather than feeding trolls you can simply report their posts, the mods don't have time to read every post on every thread.
note: no need to report this post - I already did.

[rogerbaulk]

My wife told me she fantasizes about her ex every day. She says in her fantasy she cums within five seconds of him entering her. She says she's going to fuck him one day. They had a near miss once. She says she wants to 69 him. She wants his cum on her skin, her face, her mouth, and in her mouth. She wants to sit with him while he watches Japanese porn and ask him what he likes.

[BadCandy]

I am confused... did I do something wrong?

[Ranger55]

Nope, not you. Worry not.

[elina]

I am confused... did I do something wrong?

I understand your confusion,
because I do not think you have done anything wrong.

However, on all forums like this, somebody else misunderstands, or thinks you have done something wrong.

If you don't inderstand why, it is probably their fault, not yours.

Please just disregard all of that and please continue posting for the benefits of yourself, your wife and the rest of us here who just wants to follow your story and see if we can learn something from it and hopefully make useful comments for your benefit.

Sincerely
elina
(Submissive male)

[venus-can99]

I am confused... did I do something wrong?

As elina and others said absolutely not. Hope we hear more from you after Lisa came home - how both of you are feeling in the cold light of day, any discussions with Nathan, does she plan to see him again, etc.

[mundyman]

I am confused... did I do something wrong?

Absolutely not. There is always someone on this board pissing on someone else’s parade.m
Ignore them and continue your story please……

[sconesy73]

I am confused... did I do something wrong?

No - it was a self appointed member of the Internet Police going off at a tangent..

Your thread is brilliant- keep it going

[Rogueuser1]

I am confused... did I do something wrong?

No! Just ignore that troll and keep posting, the rest of us can't wait to hear about it.

[playwifeplease]

Please continue BadCandy, your post is electrifying and I'm desperate to hear any updates.
Is your wife planning to meet her ex again? I hope so?
I've had a similar fantasy myself and have told my wife about it, but, sadly, she isn't interested in seeing her ex again. Or so she says!

[NOVO7779]

Love this story, my wife met her ex several times too, was very hot, although he didn’t know I knew, but admit this scenario is very hot !

[Ready2StartAgain]

They might be an ex but if the sex was out of this world, she still thinks of him. That makes the thought hot for sure!

[BadCandy]

Than k you, everyone, for the support! I have to admit it was a little off putting to be met with such pushback, after reading other people's posts on this forum and finally having something of my own to share. I'm not even sure what the issue was, but it did kinda feel like I wasn't welcome on here. It means a lot to have so many people being so supportive, while I'm sharing such intimate events. thank you!

I don't have time at this particular moment to get more into the details, I'll post them soon as I have some spare time! ...but she told me all about their night together, while we had some of the best sex we've ever had... and then again the next day! It's like spending the night with him dialed both of our sex drives up to 11! (little inside joke to reveal my age)

I've also noticed it seems to have boosted her confidence, too. Theres just something about her that seems more, i dunno, self assured? Not that she was in a funk or anything prior to this, but her overall mood just seems lighter, if that makes sense.

as far as whether she is going to see him again or not, nothing has officially been decided, but we have been talking about it and we're leaning toward yes. We don't want to rush in to anything, there is so much to consider, and so much to process. We don't want to make this decision with just our horny minds... but we have talked about how their relationship really only ever worked in the bedroom. The sex was always good, but they never had actual feelings for each other, which is what ultimately led to the break up... So we've been talking about, what if she starts seeing him as just a fuck buddy, on the side? No romantic attachment, thats what she has me for, but just the sex... again, this is just talk as of now. We have not decided exactly what the next step is.

Thank you to everyone who is listening and following along with my journey into cuckolding! ...soon as I have a bit more time on my hands I'll post the details from their night together! ...if everyone is interested in that?

[sconesy73]

Than k you, everyone, for the support! I have to admit it was a little off putting to be met with such pushback, after reading other people's posts on this forum and finally having something of my own to share. I'm not even sure what the issue was, but it did kinda feel like I wasn't welcome on here. It means a lot to have so many people being so supportive, while I'm sharing such intimate events. thank you!

I don't have time at this particular moment to get more into the details, I'll post them soon as I have some spare time! ...but she told me all about their night together, while we had some of the best sex we've ever had... and then again the next day! It's like spending the night with him dialed both of our sex drives up to 11! (little inside joke to reveal my age)

I've also noticed it seems to have boosted her confidence, too. Theres just something about her that seems more, i dunno, self assured? Not that she was in a funk or anything prior to this, but her overall mood just seems lighter, if that makes sense.

as far as whether she is going to see him again or not, nothing has officially been decided, but we have been talking about it and we're leaning toward yes. We don't want to rush in to anything, there is so much to consider, and so much to process. We don't want to make this decision with just our horny minds... but we have talked about how their relationship really only ever worked in the bedroom. The sex was always good, but they never had actual feelings for each other, which is what ultimately led to the break up... So we've been talking about, what if she starts seeing him as just a fuck buddy, on the side? No romantic attachment, thats what she has me for, but just the sex... again, this is just talk as of now. We have not decided exactly what the next step is.

Thank you to everyone who is listening and following along with my journey into cuckolding! ...soon as I have a bit more time on my hands I'll post the details from their night together! ...if everyone is interested in that?

Definitely interested! I love the details - and your thread is excellent

I know exactly what you mean about her having a different mood- more confident.. Part of me thinks it's because they feel desired- maybe even a subconscious feeling- being wanted by 2 men maybe? I dunno- but I do know what you mean- I've seen it in S many times!

And yep, I got the "up to 11" reference

[venus-can99]

Thanks for taking the time to post a quick update BC. Looks forward to more details when you get the time.

[elina]

Than k you, everyone, for the support! I have to admit it was a little off putting to be met with such pushback, after reading other people's posts on this forum and finally having something of my own to share. I'm not even sure what the issue was, but it did kinda feel like I wasn't welcome on here. It means a lot to have so many people being so supportive, while I'm sharing such intimate events. thank you!

You are very welcome.
Thannk you for asking for clarification and then coming back to post more.

I don't have time at this particular moment to get more into the details, I'll post them soon as I have some spare time! ...but she told me all about their night together, while we had some of the best sex we've ever had... and then again the next day! It's like spending the night with him dialed both of our sex drives up to 11! (little inside joke to reveal my age)

I've also noticed it seems to have boosted her confidence, too. Theres just something about her that seems more, i dunno, self assured? Not that she was in a funk or anything prior to this, but her overall mood just seems lighter, if that makes sense.

It seems to me that both of you truly enjoy this.
Isn't it wonderful to see your beloved Wife more confident,more self assured?

Maybe you should tell Her that you love seeing Her this way and hope that She deserves to be allowed to have Her EX as a Friend with Benfits who will help Her build on these traits in Her?

Sincerely
elina

[milehinbi]

Just back from a bit of camping to find this thread got very busy while I was gone. Great update and congratulations to all the players. Very hot and can't wait to hear more in-depth details.

Funny thought occurred to me while reading through all the posts. Wonder what might the new newlywed couple (Nathan's sis and her groom) think as they are off enjoying honeymoon sex if they heard the tale of Nathan bedding his ex girlfriend with her newlywed husband's consent after their wedding reception. (Her car left in the lot after might be just enough for a bit of gossip and innuendo.) Perhaps allowing a tiny little seed of cuckoldry to spread from one relationship to the next. Hehe, who knows, maybe we'll read their "newbie story" here one day.

Congrats again! Can't wait to hear more.