I would not say that I'm submissive. I'm generally not interested in any of the activities my wife has with her lovers. This is her world and I let her do what she wants, as long as she is happy and I don't have anything to do with.
But there were some events during our stony way to where we are right now that could be called being submissive. Although I would say I did it to make her happy and to help her.
The first that came into my mind was with her former boss. This old bastard she had an affair with. She was pregnant at that time and I was concerned about her safety and she was so into him that she asked me to drive her to him. What I did. I drove my pregnant wife to another man for the only reason that he can have his way with her.
Is this submissive or is this idiotic or is it just love for my wife?
The second one was her affair with a idiot i went to school with. He was a rich kid and belonged to another group in our school who we hated. With we, I mean my group of friends. We were the cool one, they were the rich idiots. My wife didn't know anything about this not so important part of my past and started an affair with him. A very toxic affair. He was kind of dominant and led her into maybe too submissiveness. It didn't take to much time and he knew that she was my wife and got a special kink out of it. Having the beautiful wife of his enemy from school. And playing with her like he wanted to. He turned her very submissive. I guess in his world I was submissive letting him do that to her.
The details couuld all be read in the link below.