It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[w770]

I’m so sorry to read of your difficulties. Things happen and get said in the heat of the moment. But all you can do is learn and move on. It sounds like Lana is being hard on herself when she shouldn’t. You’re both learning what you like about this hobby. You were spot on by telling her your forgiveness was never an issue. She’s your wife and soulmate who also happens to enjoy being your cuckoldress. All you want for her is to be happy and safe.

Thanks. I pretty much said the same things to her repeatedly, but she's had a hard time forgiving herself, so when someone is in that frame of mind, there's only so much one can say or do until that person let's you in and truly hears you.

Why is she hiding things from you?
Is she not comfortable sharing those details?
Is that just who she is, that she needs this as “private”?
Does she not want to hurt/humiliate/shame you with these details?

I think that she feels ashamed that she wasn't able to be as clearheaded as she tends to be and the consequence of that in the worst case scenario would be contracting an STD, so her level of irresponsibility was really at the heart of what lead her to hiding the truth. She's said that in the worst case scenario where she were to get an STD from Adam and had it passed to me, she would have never forgiven herself.

Well she lied to you before about Shaun and she'll lie to you again. As far as the pics and videos, as many as you've said you'd received there is no way she didn't know! I think you figured this out early on. It happens to all of us, when we don't want to face reality. IMHO.

Well I might agree with you, however, Adam hasn't sent and videos of him fucking her where she's facing the camera or where she'd otherwise see that he was recording. If he had those sorts of videos, I feel that he would have sent those to me already.

Wow, really hot series of events! What a jerk Adam is being. He should just be lucky to have had such a great experience with her.

Hate to ask, but do you think she was honest about not taking Sebastion without a condom even for a few seconds?

I think you meant Adam and not Sebastian, as I was present the one time her and Sebastian fucked. So assuming you meant Adam, I feel as if I know all of the details now as she's had the opportunity to fully divulge the truth at this point so it wouldn't make sense that she would still be holding onto a lie that she had ever used condoms with Adam. She's confessed that they fucked more times bare than with condoms and that once she felt his bare cock for the first time inside of her, she knew there was no way she could go back.

Random thought. Before we entered the lifestyle, I would tell Kendall half truths or lie to her if I thought it would hurt her feelings or get her mad at me. After we entered the lifestyle, I decided to be 100% truthful. Initially it was tough changing my habits but I made a decision to do it. Now I learned that being truthful is appreciated by Kendall, easier on my conscience and brings us closer together.

Maybe Lana has to make a decision for herself to want to change.

Mr. Swan

She's gotten around to that in the sense that she is admitting that her actions were absolutely not worth the hell she's been going through in the last few days.

This lying could just be her slutty alter ego coming out and she isn’t forthcoming as she may want to feel slutty by doing things like that in and not being forthcoming. Also, some people are habitual liars but doesn’t necessarily make them bad people. She may have just got into the cheating wife role a bit too much.

Hope things get back on track!

Thanks. I'm confident things are going to get back on track soon. We're just currently still in the moment, so to speak, and Adam continues to send me videos and screenshots, even without input on my end. So with each new recording he sends me, my heart races a bit in dread as I'm scared it might uncover something else that I didn't realize before.

I absolutely hate guys like that. They suck all the fun out of things just to feed their ridiculous ego.. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that shit ugh

Thanks. Yeah I think we've been spoiled with Shawn in the sense that he knew how to push boundaries without fully being a bad person, whereas Adam doesn't seem to get that.

On the Adam front, my only thought is to blank him, ignore him, block him. Videoing without permission is unacceptable, and Lana may learn to be a little more wary and cautious. Sorry to hear what has happened. I fear any attempt to appease or persuade or teach him better manners could lead to worse - distribution on a wider scale.

On a lighter note, I wonder how Shawn may react when he returns to discover that his pussy has been loaned out to others. (if he does find out). His feelings ran deep, as did Lana's, and re-engagement with Shawn on an emotional level, dominating Lana's body and soul, will be the ultimate ride for you as you both submit to him again.

Yeah, if Adam has had any lasting impression on me, it'll be the fact that I'm in a constant state of apprehension now that I'll randomly come across a video online of Lana and him fucking. I'm trying to compartmentalize these feelings as I can't let it have a huge impact on my mental health, but I feel like it's at least going to be in the back of my mind for a while.

It doesn’t do either of you any good to dwell on the past. It happened and can’t be changed. The bottom line is at the moment it was her choice to go without condoms. In a way it was similar to some of the games you played with Shawn. Probably the biggest take away going forward is to ask future hook-ups to leave their phones someplace inaccessible during play so the only phone near the bed is hers.

That's a good idea about a no phones rule except hers. I should mention it.

Update: So Lana is clean thank goodness. It was really hard seeing her so broken and she said she felt like the worst person in the world going into the clinic as a married woman. She felt at if everyone knew what her story was and it almost caused her an anxiety attack.

Like I had mentioned earlier, Adam continues to send me videos of him and Lana. Always from the same two angles though - where he's at the end of the bed getting head so that the phone is behind her and also when he's fucking her from behind. I've since stopped trying to engage in a real conversation with him too as it didn't seem to be going anywhere, but it doesn't seem to have much impact, as it only seems to promt him to say things like "oh ignoring me now? What, are you scared I'm going to pound your wife again? Lol." He'll also send me videos of him jerking off telling me "about to go to watch videos of your wife being a whore on my cock."

This has predictively affected our plans for the weekend with Sebastian, who we told that something came up and we wouldn't be able to have him with him at least until next weekend. He seems to be understanding so that's good. The plan is to just spend the day together with the dogs and for me to try and help Lana get to the point where she's forgiving herself. On my end, I think I'm done being negatively impacted with Adam as Lana's opened up about the whole truth (I think) at this point, so I think I'm ready to adjust my perspective of the whole thing and allow myself to just be turned on by it. I mean, I have no other choice really, as he seems to enjoy the constant mocking. My thinking is that if I allow myself to be turned on by it, Lana will pick up on that and it'll allow her to forgive herself.

That's the hope at least.

[w770]

Sounds like some good times and bad recently.... congratulations and commiserations respectively!

Otherwise, the Seb situation sounded really hot; loved how he was encouraging the bi interaction...I imagine that soothing encouragement can potentially play into the cuckold mentality more than the in your face stuff.

I was curious of youe wife's reaction during and afterwards?? Sure she was desperate to get that cock, did she encourage that behaviour afterwards??

Yeah I really enjoyed Sebastian's way about everything. He never once seemed judgmental and I sense that he was aware of this lifestyle, evidenced by his comfort in the things we were doing and how he somehow knew that me stroking him and guiding him into Lana would be as arousing as it turned out to be.

As far as your question, yes, when Lana saw how I was enjoying stroking Sebastian's thick cock, she was literally begging for me to put it in her. I'm glad she didn't find it off-putting, but rather the opposite. It was overall a really great experience and I was hoping to get more involved in it this weekend but maybe next weekend if it works out.

[michael8401]

It sounds like Sebastian is the guy for you guys to explore a lot more and I think you’ll really enjoy being right there more when he cums in her and you can enjoy that first hand, and mouth

[jasmineb87]

I think you’re at the point now that there’s no reason not to block Adam. He’s going to create a new profile and start again, but give it a few times and he will get bored of it.

I don’t think he’s going to post the videos, he’s just enjoying trying to wind you up. Block and move on I say

[Open2it]

Update: So Lana is clean thank goodness. It was really hard seeing her so broken and she said she felt like the worst person in the world going into the clinic as a married woman. She felt at if everyone knew what her story was and it almost caused her an anxiety attack.

This has predictively affected our plans for the weekend with Sebastian, who we told that something came up and we wouldn't be able to have him with him at least until next weekend. He seems to be understanding so that's good. The plan is to just spend the day together with the dogs and for me to try and help Lana get to the point where she's forgiving herself. On my end, I think I'm done being negatively impacted with Adam as Lana's opened up about the whole truth (I think) at this point, so I think I'm ready to adjust my perspective of the whole thing and allow myself to just be turned on by it. I mean, I have no other choice really, as he seems to enjoy the constant mocking. My thinking is that if I allow myself to be turned on by it, Lana will pick up on that and it'll allow her to forgive herself.

That's the hope at least.

That’s great news that there’s no STD’s to worry about. There really is nothing shameful about being tested - married or otherwise.

It’s too bad about how it adversely affected your plans with Sebastian for the weekend. He sounds like a perfect, nonjudgmental playmate to spend time with. It is a long weekend, perhaps you can meet up with him for drinks. It might help Lana normalize her feelings and put the other events firmly in the past.

Mindset is the key to unlocking sexuality. That's why communication and a nonjudgmental approach is so important to a successful cuckold/hotwife marriage. Allowing yourself to be excited about a situation will be picked up by Lana. Remember how she reacted to you stroking and guiding Sebastian into her? She was excited by your excitement. It’s a positive feedback loop that transcends what others may think. Have fun.

[mundyman]

Adam got off on fucking your slutty little wife who seemed into him and his big cock.
He is now getting off on egging you on and getting you to respond to his posts. The longer you ignore him, the less he gets off. He will soon find a new target and begin the same thing with them. Stay diligent and protect yourself and don’t even open his posts.
He will go away.

[parmaham55]

Yes, just ignore him, don't even open anymore. He can probably see that you're opening them. I'd say, just don't engage.

Better to focus on your bigger problem. Lana has form with hiding the truth, despite all your efforts. It was never fully cleared up when she actually started up with Shawn and whether it matched her version of events. Now this with Adam, yet though you are continually reassuring her, there's something deep in her about hiding events, especially how fast things occur. It's like she loves being a slut but can't admit that to you, or herself even. This seems risky, as maybe she'll continue to find new men, and enjoy that more than the cuckolding part, leaving you somewhat a bit behind each time. Just my thoughts.

[ResponsibullCummings]

I find it hard to believe that she could be blowing a guy or getting fucked from behind and not realize he is reached for his phone and then using it to film her. Seeing that she willingly sent him pictures and videos, she probably told him using camera was fine as long as he didn't film her face. I would be surprised if this isn't another thing she is lying about. I would assume if he had any with her face, he would have already sent them to you.

I am sure I am not the only one that would love to see pictures of Lana. Is there any chance she would give you permission to post some without her face in the hotties section?

[elina]

Dear W770

I think you are doing the right thing here.

I think you love your Wife, you seem to recognize that you encouraged Her so should not just blame Her.
I think you understand that She got carried away; we all make mistakes and She obviously enjoyed the sex with Adam a lot.

Now She has regrets, is showing remorse, She needs someone to support Her and you are doing that in a non-pushy way.
I think this is the best path for you and Lana to fully reconsile, and the best way for Her to feel loved and supported and confident that She can always rely on you to be there for Her, and that in the future; the best approach is to allways tell the truth sooner rather than later.

In my opinion, some of the most recent posts here are focusing to much on what Lana did wrong, but I don't think that is the best path if you really love this fantastic Lady and wants to stay with Her, and wants Her to continue enjoying Her extramarital affairs and cucking you.

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

[rascalnvixen]

W770, you said, "That's a good idea about a no phones rule except hers. I should mention it."

I think that is a good idea as well, but if you are concerned about vids of her showing her face or other identifying marks, you might want to control the situations in the future a bit more carefully. You might want to keep play time to your place or a neutral place. That way no hidden cams could be placed in a bedroom. Hidden cams can be easily placed in alarm clocks, smoke detectors, air fresheners, books on a shelf and who knows what else. If she goes to a hotel, be sure she is the first to get there and try not to let the man be alone in the room before the fun. You guys do what is right for y'all, this is just a thought that we have had a discussion about in the past.

Have fun!!!!!

Rascal

[Mrwarmwife]

W770--forgot that part that the first time with Sebastion you were present. Not that you owe me an answer, but appreciate the clarity. Sorry for the negative vibe if it introduced any doubt.

Your story is amazing and grateful you share so much detail!

[TheHammer]

W770, you said, "That's a good idea about a no phones rule except hers. I should mention it."

I think that is a good idea as well, but if you are concerned about vids of her showing her face or other identifying marks, you might want to control the situations in the future a bit more carefully. You might want to keep play time to your place or a neutral place. That way no hidden cams could be placed in a bedroom. Hidden cams can be easily placed in alarm clocks, smoke detectors, air fresheners, books on a shelf and who knows what else. If she goes to a hotel, be sure she is the first to get there and try not to let the man be alone in the room before the fun. You guys do what is right for y'all, this is just a thought that we have had a discussion about in the past.

Have fun!!!!!

Rascal

Well said about controlling the situation. If W can control the environment then Lana is free to be completely slutty and it’s a win/win all around.

[Whenwillshe]

Why can't these guys recognize that they are enjoying a period of ultimate eroticism and roll with it instead of fucking up the opportunity of a lifetime?

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Why can't these guys recognize that they are enjoying a period of ultimate eroticism and roll with it instead of fucking up the opportunity of a lifetime?

Ego. It won't let them enjoy a situation for what it is, they need to be top dog and "win" every encounter with other people.

Adams ego wouldn't even let him enjoy a no strings attached BJ and filling a beautiful hotwife with cum, he needed plan how to "win" the eventual ending of the affair and was never planning to go quietly into the night. Flexing his affair with Lana onto w770 was probably more exciting and stimulating for his ego than the actual sex, he was getting his rocks of on ruining their marriage. Not the sex itself.

[SixInchDick]

Damn, I’m sorry you guys have to deal with that shit. That loser should be happy he got the absolute privilege of touching your way in these ways. I’m glad he didn’t hurt your angel and I’m hoping things don’t escalate. He may just be all talk & no action when it comes to exposing you.

I know Lana was very embarrassed about the clinic, but in a way it’s kind of hot that she was there as a married woman. It’s naughty. Maybe one day she’ll feel that way when the trauma of the situation dies down.

[mastiff]

I am very sorry for you both.

[Whenwillshe]

Why can't these guys recognize that they are enjoying a period of ultimate eroticism and roll with it instead of fucking up the opportunity of a lifetime?

Ego. It won't let them enjoy a situation for what it is, they need to be top dog and "win" every encounter with other people.

Adams ego wouldn't even let him enjoy a no strings attached BJ and filling a beautiful hotwife with cum, he needed plan how to "win" the eventual ending of the affair and was never planning to go quietly into the night. Flexing his affair with Lana onto w770 was probably more exciting and stimulating for his ego than the actual sex, he was getting his rocks of on ruining their marriage. Not the sex itself.

He is probably surprised at the outcome too and a little bruised that she can walk away.
I would tell him that he was just a tool for the enjoyment of Lana and W and point out that he killed the golden goose.

[afagehi7]

Why can't these guys recognize that they are enjoying a period of ultimate eroticism and roll with it instead of fucking up the opportunity of a lifetime?

Ego. It won't let them enjoy a situation for what it is, they need to be top dog and "win" every encounter with other people.

Adams ego wouldn't even let him enjoy a no strings attached BJ and filling a beautiful hotwife with cum, he needed plan how to "win" the eventual ending of the affair and was never planning to go quietly into the night. Flexing his affair with Lana onto w770 was probably more exciting and stimulating for his ego than the actual sex, he was getting his rocks of on ruining their marriage. Not the sex itself.

He is probably surprised at the outcome too and a little bruised that she can walk away.
I would tell him that he was just a tool for the enjoyment of Lana and W and point out that he killed the golden goose.

Perhaps she's attracted to these cocky ego have to win alpha males. She wouldn't be the first female to like that type.

[w770]

I typically like to do direct replies to everyone kind enough to offer their input and advice but we're a bit short on time this morning as we're planning to head out to the beach in a few minutes so I'll keep it short for now.

Update: Lana and I are back on the same page and she's allowed herself forgiveness and I told her that there's sense in her feeling any more shame or beating herself up anymore. We've made love several times since we've been back, and normally, she would be teasing me and telling me how good other men have fucked her, but in the last few days, she refused to dirty talk about anything Adam related. I guess it was just too painful for her. But last night and this morning were different in that I told her how we can change the subject of Adam into a positive thing instead of pretending nothing ever happened with him. So upon opening up, she started telling me all about how incredible he was in bed, how gorgeous she thought he was, how she loved the feeling of his massive bare cock cumming inside of her pussy. She said he would tell her to get him hard again with her mouth after he fucked her, and the taste of her pussy on his cock would turn her on so much that she would play with her pussy while blowing him. She also admitted that there was a bit of naughtiness behind taking him bare without telling me that turned her on. "Oh yeah? You liked how Adam cucked me?" I asked as we made love. "Yeah baby. He fucked your wife with his bare cock. He came inside your wife and you had no idea." I didn't last ten seconds after that.

Even though I haven't been engaging in conversation with him, Adam continues to message me. Today, I woke up to a picture of his phone. "Check out my new home screen. Lol." He has since changed his lock screen on his phone to a screenshot from one of the recordings Lana sent him of her sitting in front of a mirror, naked, touching her pussy.

Humiliating but arousing, if I'm being honest.

[David52]

I'm surprised Adam has not been texting Lana also?

[Open2it]

Enjoy your day at the beach!

Sounds like you were successful by flipping the script and focusing on the erotic. It also sounds like she really enjoyed the naughtiness of her private moments with Adam cumming in her as well as lightly teasing you about them at a later date. From the sounds of your pillow talk you were both ready for cuckolding. I’m sure next weekend will be a lot of fun not to mention how hot she’ll be for Shawn when he finally shows up.

[mundyman]

Lana has an incredibly naughty mind and is totally getting off on the lifestyle but seems to have a hard time sharing it.
The way she eventually jumps into full cuckoldress mode and revels you with stories of her better, sexier, well endowed lovers shows this.
But she needs to be in the moment to let the floodgates open. Many people are like this, but I wonder why she is reluctant to share her thoughts like these.
Is worried it will be too much for you?

[user322]

Hi w770 and hi everyone
I followed your story and I find it really great!
Maybe you can talk to adam about fucking your wife again. Now that your wife has confessed everything to you, everything is clear, so there is no longer a problem. And according to your description of adam, he seems to be a new shawn ...... on the other hand he seems less respectful and understanding in real life, so you will have to be careful not to be tricked by him .... but at the same time it could add adrenaline to the situation .....

(Sorry if my English has flaws, I use "google translate")

[Swedecpl30]

The condom rule is important, but I think expectations should be tempered down a bit. The vast majority that has done this enough will one time or another screw up in the heat of the moment. If there is to much pressure to follow the rules it just makes it hard to admit mistakes.

Not excusing her behavior, but it should be kept in mind that it can be a real pain for some women when the man tries to control this to much, don’t top from the bottom as they say.

[w770]

Enjoy your day at the beach!

Sounds like you were successful by flipping the script and focusing on the erotic. It also sounds like she really enjoyed the naughtiness of her private moments with Adam cumming in her as well as lightly teasing you about them at a later date. From the sounds of your pillow talk you were both ready for cuckolding. I’m sure next weekend will be a lot of fun not to mention how hot she’ll be for Shawn when he finally shows up.

Absolutely. She teased me all day at the beach today about it and I told her to stop only because I wanted to go in the water, and I wouldn't be able to if I was completely hard.

Lana has an incredibly naughty mind and is totally getting off on the lifestyle but seems to have a hard time sharing it.
The way she eventually jumps into full cuckoldress mode and revels you with stories of her better, sexier, well endowed lovers shows this.
But she needs to be in the moment to let the floodgates open. Many people are like this, but I wonder why she is reluctant to share her thoughts like these.
Is worried it will be too much for you?

I think her decision to keep certain things from me this time with Adam mostly dealt with her recklessness and how she was ashamed in the potential risk that it posed to her, myself, and any possible permanent repercussions that a viral STD would have had. Her irresponsibility in this way was really something that she wasn't proud of but fortunately, everyone is clean and we can move forward.

Hi w770 and hi everyone
I followed your story and I find it really great!
Maybe you can talk to adam about fucking your wife again. Now that your wife has confessed everything to you, everything is clear, so there is no longer a problem. And according to your description of adam, he seems to be a new shawn ...... on the other hand he seems less respectful and understanding in real life, so you will have to be careful not to be tricked by him .... but at the same time it could add adrenaline to the situation .....

(Sorry if my English has flaws, I use "google translate")

Funny that you should mention possibly opening up the door towards future encounters with Adam, as we spoke a lot of this at the beach today. I'll expand more on this in my update.

The condom rule is important, but I think expectations should be tempered down a bit. The vast majority that has done this enough will one time or another screw up in the heat of the moment. If there is to much pressure to follow the rules it just makes it hard to admit mistakes.

Not excusing her behavior, but it should be kept in mind that it can be a real pain for some women when the man tries to control this to much, don’t top from the bottom as they say.

I get what you're saying. But I feel as if my position on the use of condoms stemmed more out of safety for her health rather than an inherent need to control the situation. But ultimately, I suppose it doesn't really matter as there were no consequences pertaining to STD's with Adam, and we dodged that bullet.

Update: As I alluded to above, Lana and I spoke on the possibility of more encounters with Adam. I asked her about his sexual performance/prowess and how it compares to Shawn and Sebastian. She said that Adam is much more like Shawn, in that he is very aggressive, fucks her very rough, pulls her hair, and the superior size of his cock makes the orgasms she gets from him much more intense and, as she describes, "full bodied" rather than purely clitoral, like I give her when I use the toy on her. She then described Sebastian as basically a passionate lover that she thoroughly enjoyed sharing the experience with me.

Anyway, I am giving her my full blessing to "cheat" on me much like we had arranged with Shawn. Although, it won't carry the same "spur of the moment" possibilities as Shawn lived down a flight of stairs from us, whereas Adam is at least a 45 minute train ride or a 30 minute Uber ride away, so the sense of spontaneity isn't as present. The arrangement is that she has to eventually tell me of every encounter with Adam, but it can be as far out as a few months before she "confesses." Anyway, once we came to this understanding, she ceremoniously unblocked his number and his social media pages, and started texting him under the guise of being a cheating wife that misses the excitement he gave her. I'm going to take a slightly different approach this time and not ask her to update me constantly with where things stand with Adam, like she did with Shawn. She's been on her phone quite a bit the entire rest of the afternoon, so I can only guess that it's with him. Not coincidentally, Adam has since stopped messaging me.