My Wife and her Ex Husband

[Chrislydi]

Chris, I'm starting to get the feeling that you and I are twins, who got separated at birth! LOL!

Certainly we seem to have much the same opinions about pitfalls and dangers, and are almost always in broad agreement. If you do post warning messages you always run the risk of them being interpreted by some to mistakenly take it as meaning you think that's the only outcome possible.

'' the course of events in his marriage allow only for one conclusion, and that is his wife separating from him, despite his comments to the contrary""

Of course that's nonsense, it's a warning and something that hopefully won't happen

Chris

[germancuck-1]

If you do post warning messages you always run the risk of them being interpreted by some to mistakenly take it as meaning you think that's the only outcome possible.

"He's a husband in legal terms only for me...."
"...the cuckoldress his wife is hugely at fault too."

I stand by my statements.

[Chrislydi]

You're taking statements out of context, the current continuing situation with living and sleeping full time with her ex while he the husband is full time in the guest bedroom is as if "He's a husband in legal terms only for me...."

I later qualified the other by saying no one's at fault if he wishes it to continue and have said in the past more than once he wishes that

Chris

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

Chris, I'm starting to get the feeling that you and I are twins, who got separated at birth! LOL!

Certainly we seem to have much the same opinions about pitfalls and dangers, and are almost always in broad agreement. If you do post warning messages you always run the risk of them being interpreted by some to mistakenly take it as meaning you think that's the only outcome possible.

'' the course of events in his marriage allow only for one conclusion, and that is his wife separating from him, despite his comments to the contrary""

Of course that's nonsense, it's a warning and something that hopefully won't happen

Chris

Exactly. We are spectators here; and we are hoping it all works out the way the three of them want. But at the risk of repeating myself, I'm troubled by how (and how long) this has evolved. But I'm still hopeful that everyone gets what they want and need out of this.

[Shogun2049]

Well, it's almost been a month since SoFLCuck last posted. How about we all stop arguing back and forth on assumptions and wait and see if/when he posts again with an update on how things are going or what issues there may or may not be going on between the interested parties? If he never posts again, then great, we can all go back to arguing what we think has happened, but let's give him a little time to post and see where things are first.

[desertsub]

Well, it's almost been a month since SoFLCuck last posted. How about we all stop arguing back and forth on assumptions and wait and see if/when he posts again with an update on how things are going or what issues there may or may not be going on between the interested parties? If he never posts again, then great, we can all go back to arguing what we think has happened, but let's give him a little time to post and see where things are first.

I totally agree!

[Chrislydi]

Well, it's almost been a month since SoFLCuck last posted. ? If he never posts again, then great, we can all go back to arguing what we think has happened, but let's give him a little time to post and see where things are first.

He won't post if he never logs in and it's been over a month since he did that without necessarily posting on this thread It's therefore highly likely he didn't read any of the posts since, so pretending they've deterred him is probably well wide of the mark. Even the more recent spate of posting never began until quite a few weeks getting onto a month of complete silence.

The posts were not nasty and never intended that way but far more out of genuine concern for what might have happened and what had always struck as a likely scenario, I'd love to be proved wrong. However It's highly unlikely the recent-ish posts have ever even been seen whatever the case, and waiting many more months or even another year or two before coming back to this thread is never ever going to happen, it'll be neglected and wither on the vine like most dead threads.

As time goes on and when it's well after a month of no posting at all, threads far more normally are forgotten completely forever they don't get revisited so we can all think what happened. I think most will accept threads become effectively dead unless bumped up.

Chris

[co-husband]

After my wife and I got married she confessed to me that while she and I were dating, (and already engaged) that her ex husband came over to her house twice and they had sex with each other.

She said they stopped after she and I got married but I can remember circumstances where she probably did meet him a few times that first year.
At first...when I was younger it really bothered me to think of her ex fucking her when she was MY wife. But years later it turned me on to know that he had cum inside her probably on the same day I had sex with her.

The other part of the intensity was that she was 22 years old at the time..and risked getting pregnant by her ex husband.
Sometimes I still look at our older son and wonder. I know he was conceived around that time.

[4herpleasure89]

Well, it's almost been a month since SoFLCuck last posted. How about we all stop arguing back and forth on assumptions and wait and see if/when he posts again with an update on how things are going or what issues there may or may not be going on between the interested parties? If he never posts again, then great, we can all go back to arguing what we think has happened, but let's give him a little time to post and see where things are first.

I totally agree!

If he never posts again is an indefinite time period. I have chatted off site and he stopped around the same time. In these situations with the extreme nature of their dynamic I think the speculation is entirely reasonable. Hope for the best but will not be surprised if things didn’t work out.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

Well, it's almost been a month since SoFLCuck last posted. How about we all stop arguing back and forth on assumptions and wait and see if/when he posts again with an update on how things are going or what issues there may or may not be going on between the interested parties? If he never posts again, then great, we can all go back to arguing what we think has happened, but let's give him a little time to post and see where things are first.

I totally agree!

If he never posts again is an indefinite time period. I have chatted off site and he stopped around the same time. In these situations with the extreme nature of their dynamic I think the speculation is entirely reasonable. Hope for the best but will not be surprised if things didn’t work out.

4herpleasure,

I think you are reading my mind. Again, the thing that I find disturbing is that (when you go back to the start of this thread) the ex-husband was only supposed to stay with them for SIX MONTHS. It's now been two-plus YEARS. But then again....maybe all three are settled into a certain type of dynamic that works for all three. And maybe it will keep working for all three until one of them drops. Maybe the ex-husband found work again, and they are finding that three can live as cheaply as two. Or, maybe the Wife and the Ex will eventually tire of the husband and give him his walking papers. Obviously, we won't know until we hear from him again.

[Chrislydi]

There have been other threads were the cheerleaders have been quite keen on stopping any discussions on whether things have gone awry, the doubters were cleared off, the cheerleaders got their wish and cheered the OP on to his sad if all too predictable fate.

Sadly the ones who were so succesfully chased off were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient. Although tbf it was always looking far too likely that their reading was correct to be given any particular powers of foresight on the occasion. It's perhaps the externally antagonistic cheerleaders who sometimes should be looking at themselves with a bit more self reflection.

Speculation it is and we can still hope it's not turned out that way, but can't bllndly ignore very likely scenarios as if they just weren't possible or probable or too inconvenient to contemplate.

Chris.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

There have been other threads were the cheerleaders have been quite keen on stopping any discussions on whether things have gone awry, the doubters were cleared off, the cheerleaders got their wish and cheered the OP on to his sad if all too predictable fate.

Sadly the ones who were so succesfully chased off were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient. Although tbf it was always looking far too likely that their reading was correct to be given any particular powers of foresight on the occasion. It's perhaps the externally antagonistic cheerleaders who sometimes should be looking at themselves with a bit more self reflection.

Speculation it is and we can still hope it's not turned out that way, but can't bllndly ignore very likely scenarios as if they just weren't possible or probable or too inconvenient to contemplate.

Chris.

Chris, more and more I'm thinking that we were twins, who were separated at birth....LOL LOL LOL. Granted, it was only supposed to be for six months when it started. But it's entirely possible that this has evolved in a way that maybe does in fact suit all three of them, albeit in a fashion that they did not envision when they started on this journey. We won't know until we hear from the OP again.

[Chrislydi]

Agree entirely as that was exactly the way it was progressing when things suddenly went silent for a month, not just no posting on this thread but not logging on or posting at all. Granted you can ghost a site without logging in but this was a pattern of behaviour highly unusual as he hadn't done it before.

I'm not absolutely without hope of a happier result as real life does get in the way all the time, and this could easily be the reason here or perhaps her ex has banned him from using the computer or any electronic devices? Even so unless he's been very ill over a prolonged period a quick short post to say nothing to report was always the more likely scenario on past history. Nothing is proven it's all speculation and there is still hope of a better outcome even if it always looked as if it were dancing on the edge of a precipice to me.

Chris

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

Agree entirely as that was exactly the way it was progressing when things suddenly went silent for a month, not just no posting on this thread but not logging on or posting at all. Granted you can ghost a site without logging in but this was a pattern of behaviour highly unusual as he hadn't done it before.

I'm not absolutely without hope of a happier result as real life does get in the way all the time, and this could easily be the reason here or perhaps her ex has banned him from using the computer or any electronic devices? Even so unless he's been very ill over a prolonged period a quick short post to say nothing to report was always the more likely scenario on past history. Nothing is proven it's all speculation and there is still hope of a better outcome even if it always looked as if it were dancing on the edge of a precipice to me.

Chris

Once again, I agree with everything you are saying.

[germancuck-1]

The churchladies are back less than 2 weeks after Shogun´s excellent advice, adressing allegations no one ever made, calling dissenters cheerleaders, and themselves prescient. Their repulsive, unctuos self-adulation is the worst possible continuation of SoFLCuck´s thread.

[4herpleasure89]

The churchladies are back less than 2 weeks after Shogun´s excellent advice, adressing allegations no one ever made, calling dissenters cheerleaders, and themselves prescient. Their repulsive, unctuos self-adulation is the worst possible continuation of SoFLCuck´s thread.

Read the risking everything thread and report back. Nobody is prescient, it isn’t necessary. Common sense and a little life experience is all that is necessary.

[Chrislydi]

"were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient."

Using the word prescient in this context is to underline exactly the opposite, in that it didn't take too much forsight not that it actually was prescient. I understand the translation difficulties but that's using a touch of irony more than anything else.

There's nothing unctuous or self-adulatory in expressing concerns this hasn't ended well, in fact I was far more supportive while he was posting even if not unquestioningly so. I repeatedly pointed out he was happy with how it had progressed.

Chris

[germancuck-1]

"were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient."

Using the word prescient in this context is to underline exactly the opposite, in that it didn't take too much forsight not that it actually was prescient. I understand the translation difficulties but that's using a touch of irony more than anything else.

There's nothing unctuous or self-adulatory in expressing concerns this hasn't ended well, in fact I was far more supportive while he was posting even if not unquestioningly so. I repeatedly pointed out he was happy with how it had progressed.

Chris

You confuse conceit with concern, but I understand your comprehension difficulties. It was SoFLCuck who pointed out he was happy with where he is. You pointed out according to your prescience he could not possibly be happy, and that his wife was hugely at fault.

[germancuck-1]

The churchladies are back less than 2 weeks after Shogun´s excellent advice, adressing allegations no one ever made, calling dissenters cheerleaders, and themselves prescient. Their repulsive, unctuos self-adulation is the worst possible continuation of SoFLCuck´s thread.

Read the risking everything thread and report back. Nobody is prescient, it isn’t necessary. Common sense and a little life experience is all that is necessary.

Read my comment again and report back.

[Chrislydi]

"were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient."

Using the word prescient in this context is to underline exactly the opposite, in that it didn't take too much forsight not that it actually was prescient. I understand the translation difficulties but that's using a touch of irony more than anything else.

There's nothing unctuous or self-adulatory in expressing concerns this hasn't ended well, in fact I was far more supportive while he was posting even if not unquestioningly so. I repeatedly pointed out he was happy with how it had progressed.

Chris

You confuse conceit with concern, but I understand your comprehension difficulties. It was SoFLCuck who pointed out he was happy with where he is. You pointed out according to your prescience he could not possibly be happy, and that his wife was hugely at fault.

I repeat prescience was clearly used with irony, if you fail to comprehend that then I'm afraid there's little I can do to help you.

As I quote one of my recent posts while SoFLCuck
was still posting to prove the opposite

It's hopefully all you wanted so good luck to you.

Just a reminder from page one of the thread tells all and this really does suit SF.

We enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

And now SF restates....

it works well for us. I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

It is what is wanted so let's hope it's enjoyable for everyone

I used his words from far earlier to reemphasize that at the time that is what he wanted and is happy with.

[germancuck-1]

"were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient."

Using the word prescient in this context is to underline exactly the opposite, in that it didn't take too much forsight not that it actually was prescient. I understand the translation difficulties but that's using a touch of irony more than anything else.

There's nothing unctuous or self-adulatory in expressing concerns this hasn't ended well, in fact I was far more supportive while he was posting even if not unquestioningly so. I repeatedly pointed out he was happy with how it had progressed.

Chris

You confuse conceit with concern, but I understand your comprehension difficulties. It was SoFLCuck who pointed out he was happy with where he is. You pointed out according to your prescience he could not possibly be happy, and that his wife was hugely at fault.

I repeat prescience was clearly used with irony, if you fail to comprehend that then I'm afraid there's little I can do to help you.

As I quote one of my recent posts while SoFLCuck
was still posting to prove the opposite

It's hopefully all you wanted so good luck to you.

Just a reminder from page one of the thread tells all and this really does suit SF.

We enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

And now SF restates....

it works well for us. I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

It is what is wanted so let's hope it's enjoyable for everyone

I used his words from far earlier to reemphasize that at the time that is what he wanted and is happy with.

Why this need to relativize and rationalize? Is your prescience failing you?

[Chrislydi]

"were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient."

Using the word prescient in this context is to underline exactly the opposite, in that it didn't take too much forsight not that it actually was prescient. I understand the translation difficulties but that's using a touch of irony more than anything else.

There's nothing unctuous or self-adulatory in expressing concerns this hasn't ended well, in fact I was far more supportive while he was posting even if not unquestioningly so. I repeatedly pointed out he was happy with how it had progressed.

Chris

You confuse conceit with concern, but I understand your comprehension difficulties. It was SoFLCuck who pointed out he was happy with where he is. You pointed out according to your prescience he could not possibly be happy, and that his wife was hugely at fault.

I repeat prescience was clearly used with irony, if you fail to comprehend that then I'm afraid there's little I can do to help you.

As I quote one of my recent posts while SoFLCuck
was still posting to prove the opposite

It's hopefully all you wanted so good luck to you.

Just a reminder from page one of the thread tells all and this really does suit SF.

We enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

And now SF restates....

it works well for us. I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

It is what is wanted so let's hope it's enjoyable for everyone

I used his words from far earlier to reemphasize that at the time that is what he wanted and is happy with.

Why this need to relativize and rationalize? Is your prescience failing you?

I knew you might need an explanation

The irony of it was it hardly needed prescience to forsee this outcome therefore implying the lack of that quality would prove no hindrance.

[germancuck-1]

I knew you might need an explanation

The irony of it was it hardly needed prescience yo forsee this outcome therefore implying the lack of that quality would prove no hindrance.

Which outcome? That SoFLCuck is in a happy place? No prescience necessary, he said so himself repeatedly, remember?

THIS is prescience used in irony. See the difference?

[Chrislydi]

I knew you might need an explanation

The irony of it was it hardly needed prescience yo forsee this outcome therefore implying the lack of that quality would prove no hindrance.

Which outcome? That SoFLCuck is in a happy place? No prescience necessary, he said so himself repeatedly, remember?

You are now even confusing two threads and using quotes referring to another thread in relation to this one.

THIS is prescience used in irony. See the difference?

The word 'prescience' was used after the post of mine you referenced (that SoFLCuck is in a happy place) and was referring to the warnings given in another thread entirely, it was never in reference to this thread's outcome.

There have been other threads were the cheerleaders have been quite keen on stopping any discussions on whether things have gone awry, the doubters were cleared off, the cheerleaders got their wish and cheered the OP on to his sad if all too predictable fate.

Sadly the ones who were so succesfully chased off were proved rather disappointingly and predictably all too prescient. Although tbf it was always looking far too likely that their reading was correct to be given any particular powers of foresight on the occasion. It's perhaps the externally antagonistic cheerleaders who sometimes should be looking at themselves with a bit more self reflection.

Speculation it is and we can still hope it's not turned out that way, but can't bllndly ignore very likely scenarios as if they just weren't possible or probable or too inconvenient to contemplate.

Chris.

It refers to people plural the group of whom were harassed, chased off and ostracised in that particular other thread

I even have an explanation about such powers of prescience hardly being needed which emphasised the useage

[germancuck-1]

The word 'prescience' was used ..... never in reference to this thread's outcome.

.....

.... using quotes referring to another thread in relation to this one.

You´re badgering this thread with predictions of an outcome referencing to another thread that does not apply to this thread in the first place? Color me amazed!