It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[PANTIES]

Question, how was use if the buttplug introduced to your wife by Adam. Did she say no or did she agree to its use right away?

Pauline

[shawnm]

W, whatever happens this week, please detail us about the past week detailed updates. Mind is currently speculating 100s of scenarios as how the 3some would have played between them and would love a closure

[Fred_Garvin]

W770 had mentioned an "unrelated but serious" issue. I assume that is eating up his time and attention.

I hope he and Lana are OK. Sometimes real life intrudes on our perversions, and it's important to understand and maintain the priorities in life.

Hope to hear from him soon, but I understand if it's not practical.

[w770]

Hey everyone, sorry for the radio silence.

Fred_Garvin was correct in that the unrelated issue has taken up all of our attention this week. For anyone interested - Lana's cousin just had a child last week and the kid is not well. It looks like it's a pretty serious heart condition and is completely unexpected. The issue has really affected Lana and she is thinking of starting a family sooner rather than later because at her age (39) , there are elevated risks, and as she says "if we have a kid and it's not completely healthy due to me waiting so long, I'll never forgive myself."

So we're considering calling banana rama on everything now instead of after this weekend like originally planned. We fully anticipate Adam to react poorly but we're prepared.

Sorry for the non-salacious update, but real life has a way of throwing you curve balls sometimes.

Although it looks like the end of our journey in this lifestyle, I'll still be around reading the other threads and answering questions if anyone had any.

I saw that there was a question of whether I would be open to a Q&A. Although I'm not against it, I just don't think there's much interest in things that I'm assuming most of you already know. And besides, I've only come to an understanding of this lifestyle primarily because of the posts here. But if there is interest, I would gladly reciprocate.

Dinner soon. Lana is cooking, and afterwards, I think we might walk the beach with the dogs. Adam has been texting her, but she's just replied that she can't talk because of family stuff. Surprisingly, he's been respectful of this boundary so far.

I hope you all are well. It's not the grand finale I was hoping for, but I'm glad to have gotten such great feedback, warnings, encouragement, and criticism over the last 6 months.

[leander99]

Sounds like life has thrown you a bananarama

[w770]

Sounds like life has thrown you a bananarama

It really has.

[proudhusb217]

It's true that she'll regret it if she waits too long to have a child because she didn't want to pause the lifestyle.

Best of luck to you both! Maybe down the line you can get up to something again. Many couples do.

[william70]

Is Lana's cousin 39 or Lana 39? I would really like a Q&A. Especially if Lana could be a part of it.

[Oneillfranko]

You can always come back to the LS post kids if you are so inclined. Recognizing the body clock seems smart. Good luck whatever you choose

[edgedndenied]

Lana took a break after Shawn and came back stronger then ever. She may take a break now to get pregnant but once she is pregnant she may want to start again. Her addiction to bad boy big cock hunks is not likely to go away

[parmaham55]

Best of luck W and Lana. You two always make the right decisions. If you have time and interest, I'm sure we'd love more details of last weekend, but also we'd love to keep hearing from you and your progress.

[rascalnvixen]

Lana's needs and aspirations for a family are very important to her mental health and her future self confidence. I believe you two are taking the right path, at this time. There is always a chance her hotwifing needs will continue as the kids are growing. There is the possibility you two could resume the lifestyle in a different situation. The two of you could take an adults only vaca to one of the Caribbean placation clubs where she can easily resume her desires with someone there. Or a trip to Vegas for similar interests where it should not be a problem for you watching if you want. If all of this is not a good answer for her, you and she can just wait until the kids grow up and move out and she can find another FB(s) to resume the fun she likes so much. I'm not saying this is what you should do, just making a suggestion of how her play time might resume, IF she wanted to continue on a less frequent basis. Good luck!!!!

Rascal

[sandy691196]

Hey everyone, sorry for the radio silence.

Fred_Garvin was correct in that the unrelated issue has taken up all of our attention this week. For anyone interested - Lana's cousin just had a child last week and the kid is not well. It looks like it's a pretty serious heart condition and is completely unexpected. The issue has really affected Lana and she is thinking of starting a family sooner rather than later because at her age (39) , there are elevated risks, and as she says "if we have a kid and it's not completely healthy due to me waiting so long, I'll never forgive myself."

So we're considering calling banana rama on everything now instead of after this weekend like originally planned. We fully anticipate Adam to react poorly but we're prepared.

Sorry for the non-salacious update, but real life has a way of throwing you curve balls sometimes.

Although it looks like the end of our journey in this lifestyle, I'll still be around reading the other threads and answering questions if anyone had any.

I saw that there was a question of whether I would be open to a Q&A. Although I'm not against it, I just don't think there's much interest in things that I'm assuming most of you already know. And besides, I've only come to an understanding of this lifestyle primarily because of the posts here. But if there is interest, I would gladly reciprocate.

Dinner soon. Lana is cooking, and afterwards, I think we might walk the beach with the dogs. Adam has been texting her, but she's just replied that she can't talk because of family stuff. Surprisingly, he's been respectful of this boundary so far.

I hope you all are well. It's not the grand finale I was hoping for, but I'm glad to have gotten such great feedback, warnings, encouragement, and criticism over the last 6 months.

I have followed this thread closely. Have never posted here though. I feel this circumstantial glitch may have kinda saved the relationship too. I am not equating relationship to marriage per se.
Lana was committed to this marriage. But as her "man", W was progressively getting less and less important through her intense HW episodes.

The other man (better man as per her instinctive responses) was overwhelming her primary man-woman relationship with W. Again, I am not equating marriage with a man- woman relationship.

After she gets back from maternity, in her early 40s, once she is secure in motherhood...we will see then.

Au revoir

[briggs]

If you're gonna let her get anal this weekend, at least make sure she eats tacos tonight.

I am curious why tacos?

[SixInchDick]

If you're gonna let her get anal this weekend, at least make sure she eats tacos tonight.

I am curious why tacos?

I’m guessing it’s related to her having indigestion & possibly making it an unpleasant experience for Adam

[slenderfish]

The issue has really affected Lana and she is thinking of starting a family sooner rather than later because at her age (39) , there are elevated risks, and as she says "if we have a kid and it's not completely healthy due to me waiting so long, I'll never forgive myself."

So we're considering calling banana rama on everything now instead of after this weekend like originally planned. We fully anticipate Adam to react poorly but we're prepared.

Time is not your friend as a woman age 39. Though difference of a few days will not make or break it.

The fact that Lana is sexually active and her body is really in the groove, is a good sign for conception. Though they say it takes time for any pill-based contraception in the system to work its way out. SW and I have personal experience. We tell all our friends that age 39 is on the late side to get serious about children.

Not going to hijack this thread so I will update my thread about this subject, and SW, over the upcoming weekend.

As I said above, a few days will not make a great difference; however, if she's not "into it" because of desire to get started in earnest on children, then she's not into it.

[Open2it]

The issue has really affected Lana and she is thinking of starting a family sooner rather than later because at her age (39) , there are elevated risks, and as she says "if we have a kid and it's not completely healthy due to me waiting so long, I'll never forgive myself."

So we're considering calling banana rama on everything now instead of after this weekend like originally planned. We fully anticipate Adam to react poorly but we're prepared.

Time is not your friend as a woman age 39. Though difference of a few days will not make or break it.

The fact that Lana is sexually active and her body is really in the groove, is a good sign for conception. Though they say it takes time for any pill-based contraception in the system to work its way out. SW and I have personal experience. We tell all our friends that age 39 is on the late side to get serious about children.

Not going to hijack this thread so I will update my thread about this subject, and SW, over the upcoming weekend.

As I said above, a few days will not make a great difference; however, if she's not "into it" because of desire to get started in earnest on children, then she's not into it.

I agree with SF in that a few days either way should not not make a difference. However, if Lana is stressed it’s best to heed that and focus on your priorities as a couple. The bright side is that you both have many experiences to reminisce and fantasize about to keep you in the mood for numerous attempts of making a baby together. Something tells me that after the last six months of cuckolding, Lana won’t be so quick to say no in the future.

[user322]

Good luck to you, thank you for sharing your adventure with us, and don't hesitate to come back if there's anything new!

[SixInchDick]

I have heard the same thing about how it’s harder to conceive at that age. But like others have said, Lana is still so physically active and sexually active, so that’s a good sign!

[GuruTravelMonkey]

There is a choice that allows you to have your cake and eat it too—and Lana. Start a family—and keep playing the game with a clear set of agreements. So long as the rules are clear. A. She should use protection during fertile time B. If she goes without, it should be at the least fertile time. C. Anyone she plays with agrees that when she has your child, it’s your child—end of story. D. Should things get interesting, questions of paternity, genetically speaking, wouldn’t change a damn thing between you — you’re hers all the way. She’s gotta have a talk with her current boyfriend(s) and if they aren’t on board with that, then they’re out.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

There is a choice that allows you to have your cake and eat it too—and Lana. Start a family—and keep playing the game with a clear set of agreements. So long as the rules are clear. A. She should use protection during fertile time B. If she goes without, it should be at the least fertile time. C. Anyone she plays with agrees that when she has your child, it’s your child—end of story. D. Should things get interesting, questions of paternity, genetically speaking, wouldn’t change a damn thing between you — you’re hers all the way. She’s gotta have a talk with her current boyfriend(s) and if they aren’t on board with that, then they’re out.

Thats probably the worst idea I've read in this thread. They want to have kids together

[GuruTravelMonkey]

To each their own. What works for you doesn’t for me. Shy of harming others, I try not to judge.

[GuruTravelMonkey]

And what we want evolves—goodness does it.

[JeffBingham]

There is a choice that allows you to have your cake and eat it too—and Lana. Start a family—and keep playing the game with a clear set of agreements. So long as the rules are clear. A. She should use protection during fertile time B. If she goes without, it should be at the least fertile time. C. Anyone she plays with agrees that when she has your child, it’s your child—end of story. D. Should things get interesting, questions of paternity, genetically speaking, wouldn’t change a damn thing between you — you’re hers all the way. She’s gotta have a talk with her current boyfriend(s) and if they aren’t on board with that, then they’re out.

Thats probably the worst idea I've read in this thread. They want to have kids together

Plus, the law and family courts don’t give a shit about any “agreement” you may have in place. The biological father will have visitation and custody rights if he so desires, no matter what you might have agreed to, even if it’s a signed contract.

[Gulfcpl]

There is a choice that allows you to have your cake and eat it too—and Lana. Start a family—and keep playing the game with a clear set of agreements. So long as the rules are clear. A. She should use protection during fertile time B. If she goes without, it should be at the least fertile time. C. Anyone she plays with agrees that when she has your child, it’s your child—end of story. D. Should things get interesting, questions of paternity, genetically speaking, wouldn’t change a damn thing between you — you’re hers all the way. She’s gotta have a talk with her current boyfriend(s) and if they aren’t on board with that, then they’re out.

Thats probably the worst idea I've read in this thread. They want to have kids together

Plus, the law and family courts don’t give a shit about any “agreement” you may have in place. The biological father will have visitation and custody rights if he so desires, no matter what you might have agreed to, even if it’s a signed contract.

It’s always easy to give advice when it doesn’t affect the giver. This thread runs rampant with it.