It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[w770]

w770

Adam knows both your legal names?

He does not. There's a way to structure cease and desist letters so that privacy is still intact but still push forward the essence of the letter. It's only after official legal proceedings begin that he could become aware of our legal names. Not preferred but hopefully the warning letter has some effect.

Update: He just messaged me "you know she begged me to cum in her, right? Remember that next Father's Day."

Lana has suggested she call him and tell him that I've known the whole time, but I feel like it'll just further antagonize him and the best course of action is to just let it be for now and let any communication go through the legal process.

Thoughts from the community?

[Tryn]

If I was in your shoes, I’d be deleting FB accounts and hope he hasn’t book marked your friends. I’d also not make new accounts for a couple weeks in hopes he gets bored of looking for you. I’d also inform him of online stalking penalties, along with defamation penalties. Remind him that you have the financial means to follow through with the lawsuits and the only reason you would pursue charges is because he chose not to just quietly walk away. You could also tell him that if he indeed got her pregnant (you know he didn’t, but he doesn’t know it) that he’ll be financially liable for 50% of the costs and that Lana has expensive tastes. Let him know his wages will be garnished and if needed.

Just a few ideas. Shit position he’s put you two in!

[w770]

If you actually just block him, and stop responding, what can he do?

Does he know where you live? Can he do harm via social media?

If no, I'd let him choke on it in silence. He is feeding on the attention you are giving him, even if it os negative attention. That's scary, but starve him and he will move his gaze somewhere else.

I fear legal action may instead feed the beast instead. But if he may cause harm then it may be the only way forward

He doesn't know where we live so that's good. I was trying silence, but he kept going and going, so that's when I figured that I'd send him warning. In effect, a cease and desist has no real legal impact, but hopefully it causes him to think things over.

If I was in your shoes, I’d be deleting FB accounts and hope he hasn’t book marked your friends. I’d also not make new accounts for a couple weeks in hopes he gets bored of looking for you. I’d also inform him of online stalking penalties, along with defamation penalties. Remind him that you have the financial means to follow through with the lawsuits and the only reason you would pursue charges is because he chose not to just quietly walk away. You could also tell him that if he indeed got her pregnant (you know he didn’t, but he doesn’t know it) that he’ll be financially liable for 50% of the costs and that Lana has expensive tastes. Let him know his wages will be garnished and if needed.

Just a few ideas. Shit position he’s put you two in!

That's what we're thinking. We're probably deleting our Facebook pages tonight just as a precaution. All of your other suggestions are really good too.

[leander99]

Honestly, I think you need to stop responding to him. Pretend he does not even exist. There are 8 billion people on the planet. This guy is not worth spending your energy on.

As long as he sees you are reading his messages, he will continue.

What an utter asshole.

Treat him exactly as you treat the other 8 billion people on the planet. You are already it talking to most of those, one more won't hurt.

He is worse than garbage imho, and I wouldnt even be arsed to know he exists. If he becomes a danger somehow, then fine, throw him a nuke. A big nuke. If not, let him rot in his own rotten miserable life. He isn't worth your time, not even a millisecond.

Heck, why are we even talking about vermin like that here?? Now he's wasting my time and energy too. Lol.


Spend your energy only on people who add value to your life. Ignore the once who try feeding on you without giving anything back.

O, whatever you do, do not let Lana talk to him. That's the worst idea and it is exactly what he wants.

[venus-can99]

I just came across this thread and w770 it is an understatement to say that it is captivating and addictive. You write very well and each one conveys your angst, jealousy, love, hope, lust and faith in Lana and your relationship. I am less than one-thord of the way thru - around the time of the Christmas party 2022 at Shawn's. Perhaps one day you and Lana may want to post some picture of the sexy hotwife that we have all imagined. If not, you have told us who she resembles closely.

I have subscribed for updates and hopefully complete this soon.

Venus

[leander99]

He know you are reading his messages, and he is emotionally feeding of it like a cockroach.

Of you want to send a cease and desist, fine. But stop feeding that rat.

(Sorry if I'm getting a little carried away. I wish you wisdom and strength w770. You are an awesome guy, you'll manage!)

[edgedndenied]

In a few minutes Adam could find out your legal names and where you live by using Google. If you think you could get off of Facebook to protect yourself he most likely has your fb friends list. He may be saving videos with faces showing if all else fails. He has tried to ruin your marriage before. You guys have led him on and given him more leverage to use against you. You both seem hesitant to tell him the whole truth which only extends his harassment

[FLR_fan]

It’s a pity, cuz Adam could have been the ultimate humiliating type of sex charged bull for you guys- if he had played his cards right. His actions reek of immaturity and insecurity unfortunately. Feels akin to a child throwing a tantrum till he gets his toy back. I am not even sure if a one-on-one talk with him will pacify him. If he was not this volatile, could have even played on this more -like you acknowledging that the revelations have been pretty damaging and Lana reaching out saying you guys have had the biggest fight. This feels more of final flail desperation outburst rather than an all consuming forest fire though.

[Coolcalm]

This guy is a cyber stalker and you both need to get a handle on this.
Maybe you and Lana need to meet him personally (if it doesn’t stop) and tell him together that this was you both doing this and you both were in on it the whole time. He was the actual cuck as you both played him.
But with an unstable man such as this you actually have to be careful. Best to deal with it legally.
In the Future you both need to be careful. No more of this game. Just have you both be involved in all aspects and never play alone (if you ever decide to do it again). You’re going to have a child and they don’t need to eventually see this somewhere online at some point. They don’t deserve this.

[lovethis]

He is also in a way kinda smart. He knows your weakness. His replies may be antagonistic but he also knows what makes you get off. You at one stage would enjoy and promote the scenes he is sending you. Hell I still found it arousing. But those days and that era were designed planned and implemented by you two and now he is playing you to get to her. Be strong patient and protective of your beautiful family. Keep Lana and your future child safe and throw the kitchen sink at him. He is finding rejection hard. Don't read his messages because he can see when you do. Just swipe him off the screen unread.

[lovethis]

Suggestion 2. Tell him, thanks I just enjoyed your last post. You got off on it. Tell him he gets to live through his saved data now while you get to enjoy something he never really experienced from her and that was her heart and true love for you. So tell him to keep it coming and that you intend to enjoy future posts. He may tire and move on.

Nah thats a terrible idea

Sorry

[jasmineb87]

Just completely stop responding. He's getting his kicks out of every response you send

[knight4princess]

Just completely stop responding. He's getting his kicks out of every response you send

Yes.

[parmaham55]

I’d say you should ignore him for a full weekend or more. He’s bombarding you with messages, but that’s it so far. Send him one final message saying ‘Thanks for everything, now please stop and I’m ignoring you from now on.’ Have Lana send the same message at the same moment.

Wait for a few days before taking any legal step. Stop reading his messages.

There’s plenty of scary ideas of what might escalate but that’d be a big step for him too. So far, he’s simply sending messages, that’s easy for him to do. Any bigger steps he takes, he knows will hurt Lana, and I doubt he wants to do that - he’s besotted and in love with her.

Her messages need to him need to the clearest. ‘Please stop, and stop bombarding my husband. It’s over now, Adam. Give me space to work on my marriage.’ Can Lana be that clear with him, or does Lana still have a small weakness for him? If she does, he’ll play on that. She needs to be totally transparent with him that it’s over, and you know everything.

[trecital]

Just completely stop responding. He's getting his kicks out of every response you send

I doubt that will happen. w770 could have done that right from the beginning. But he chose not to. Because he get's off on the humiliation. Moth to a flame.

Not criticising.....I'd do exactly the same.

[8toplaywith]

Send this immature idiot a Condolences card with a simple "Sorry For Your Loss" inscription.
I wouldn't write anything in it, but you should wait a few days if you choose to add anything to it and send it from a different zip code from yours.
Then cut him off entirely.
This shit needs to end.

[Gulfcpl]

w770

Adam knows both your legal names?

He does not. There's a way to structure cease and desist letters so that privacy is still intact but still push forward the essence of the letter. It's only after official legal proceedings begin that he could become aware of our legal names. Not preferred but hopefully the warning letter has some effect.

Update: He just messaged me "you know she begged me to cum in her, right? Remember that next Father's Day."

Lana has suggested she call him and tell him that I've known the whole time, but I feel like it'll just further antagonize him and the best course of action is to just let it be for now and let any communication go through the legal process.

Thoughts from the community?

The sad part here is that this has all been lies from the start with this predator. You and Lana chose this route. Some of us advised against it. Lying always bites you in the ass. These days truth is not the rule but the exception.

Now you want advice. Totally ignore him. Should he contact people on your FB list, you’ll just have to face the music. Keep responding and he’ll keep antagonizing you.

[Long Lurker 34]

Send this immature idiot a Condolences card with a simple "Sorry For Your Loss" inscription.
I wouldn't write anything in it, but you should wait a few days if you choose to add anything to it and send it from a different zip code from yours.
Then cut him off entirely.
This shit needs to end.

8PW - Good one, I like that!

[user322]

Hi,
I don't think you need to bother right now.
Adam is probably a jerk, but he's also very immature I think. You are very turned on by the cuckold fantasy, Adam must be very turned on by the domination/cheating fantasy, which is why he reacts by wanting to totally dominate you.

I think it's enough to explain to him that for you and Lana all this is a fantasy, that you are in fact aware of everything: it will break his belief that Lana is cheating on you, and therefore lessen his fantasy. Then tell him that he shouldn't take anything personally but that for now you're putting a break on the fantasy because you and Lana are at another stage in your lives.
You tell him that you didn't want him upset, that you can understand that he got attached to this whole fantasy and sex with lana, but that's how it's going at the moment.
Maybe then lana could talk to him too as she suggested, to explain things to him.

He tried to persuade you to fuck lana in front of you because he knows he can't fuck lana on his own anymore....so he kinda got you begging lana : he seems to be addicted to this fantasy with your wife He's like an addict, he needs his fix, and since he's immature, he freaks out
Given his immaturity, it seems to me that you have to talk to him like an adult towards a child, a child who is a bit stupid, but a child all the same.....

Good luck friend!

[FLR_fan]

I agree with user322. Does not seem unreasonable to have a meet in person with all 3 present to hash this out. The sooner the better rather than drag this all along.

[BoBatty]

I guarantee if they meet W770 will be writing "And as he was fucking Lana"...

[venus-can99]

Not quite. She's getting ready now. She took a shower, rubbed her flowery lotion on, straightened her hair, and picked out her sexy gray booty shorts to go with a tight black top over her pink bra and panties.

She'll probably be heading over there in 45 min to an hour is my best guess. Her call was pushed back so it's not a super early call tomorrow morning.

I am stull following along your incredible ride. Maybe this has been answered elsewhere or perhaps is a bit too personal... does Lana keep her pussy fully shaved or a landing strip? Do you help her "prepare" for her trysts - shaving her, applying lotion, selecting her lingerie and things to wear, etc.

I love your detailed descriptions that outline your emotions and near real-time updates...

Venus

[trecital]

Of course, it's entirely possible that Adam reads this forum. So he might know that w770 gets off on the cuck things. It would be like him eavesdropping on w770's thoughts and actions.

[Topnotch]

What if she fucked Evan? Without dickhead being present. She could tell him how he fucks her so much better than Adam ever has. She loves how his cock feels her up. That's the reason she took him on the couch that night while Adam was asleep. She just needed his cock more than anyone. So she would be cucking Adam in a sense. I bet he wouldn't like that. Probably tuck his tail and run off. I am definitely not saying this is the right thing to do. But if he is such a prick...it does kinda seem perfect. Just thinking out loud. Good luck w770

[shawnm]

Update: He just messaged me - "How's everything at home? Lol, pretty bad I'm guessing. Me and my boy spent the whole weekend slutting your sexy little wife out. Took her bare too. Lol. Oh and I almost forgot - I took her ass. LOL."

Still ignoring him for now.

Did you respond to his comment to him taking her ass as it was virgin ass. Also, you might have perhaps responded saying that her ass is off-limits for everyone and will always stay that way. Since he is the only one in the whole universe to do that, he will surely go deep into that. Not sure, if this conversation will happen now.

I think if you don't respond to him sternly, he will take and treat you as a cuck on your face. Is that what you want? It's one thing behind your back, but currently he is openly challenging and trying to destroy your manhood.