Do any of you wonder why you are in to this?

[4incheslong]

I took my GF's virginity in HS. I broke up with her for a weekend and she hooked up with an ex and let him finger her and she played with his dick in his car. I was strangely turned on. She told me his was really big but nothing else happened. I was turned on thinking of her lust and his big dick.

I had another GF in college that I was deeply in love with. She broke up with me and I would see her car overnight at her new BF's apartment. I learned a lot about eroticizing jealousy.

My next GF cheated with an old BF and then openly cucked me. My friends all knew. I was embarrassed but it was intense and I would cum almost instantly with sloppy seconds.

By this point I knew I liked sluts. Married one and have been cheated on multiple times and have learned to eroticize that.

I get the biological reasons but seems to me its adjusting to what happens and beating off too much. lol

[Dutch cuckold]

I have been cheated on when i was younger and at first it made me behave jealous towards the women I was with, until I realized how turned on i was every time i got jealous, and I learned to embrace being "cheated" on.

By now I'm so incredibly thankful for this kink I have and what this does to my emotions en my sexual energy that I'm afraid of loosing it. What an empty void it would be if i would not longer be turned on by my wife sleeping with other men and the rollercoaster of emotions that creates for me.

So I try not to figure out what causes this and don't read into the psychology behind all this because I'm afraid it might break the spell for me.

[Johor]

Because I am bi and want to share a men with my wife.

[luvwives999]

I met my wife when she was 19. Married her when she was 21. Prior to getting married I said to her, we are going to be married a very long time, you are certainly desirable to other men, and I am not naive and know I will not be the last man you'll be with. Just be honest with me, don't do it behind my back. When we had our first MMF, it was like I was seeing her naked for the first time through his eyes, hard to really explain it. She went to a party out of town, with people she was chatting with in an AOL chat room. She ended up fucking a guy for the entire weekend. As she was getting to leave , she took a shower. he walked in, bent her over, and pounded her. She said there was so much lust. I too felt that lust as she was telling me, and I had to have her, even though by then we'd probably fucked thousands of times. Imagining seeing her naked for the first time, and the lust others would have for her, which I get to experience are the reasons I totally embrace being cucked.

[Cuck4Life]

I was in my mid teens in the late 60s. My best friend and I became buddies with a guy that ran a local convenience store. He would sell us some girly magazines and we would go sit in the woods and look at the pictures for hours. One time we got a magazine called Gallery that had a girl next-door section with pictures of women sent in by their husbands or boyfriends. I always got turned on by the pictures that were submitted by the husband’s. A short time later, I found a few Penthouse Variations magazines that had short stories on different topics. I quickly found out that stories about Wife watching was a huge turn on for me. I began to seek out this type of stories from other magazines, and this became the focus of my kink. Again, my turn on was with stories of husbands watching their wives, not boyfriends watching their girlfriends.

I became attracted to a girl within our circle of friends that was very easy and had been with most of the boys in our group. We eventually married and she continued screwing these guys openly while I said and did nothing to stop it. There is no doubt in my mind that I begin having these thoughts going back to my early teens.

[options311]

This by far is the best thread I have read in this great site. I have been wondering for a long time why I am drawn to this lifestyle as a wannabe cuckold. After reading through some of the detailed comments on their personal experiences, I found many similarities and found comfort in knowing that my past relationships triggered inner desires and molded many of my fantasies over time. I identified with some of fellow cucks in their insights and reactions to certain stimuli. I am going to follow this thread and gain my affirmation that I have been wired for this lifestyle. Thank you all !!

[ferrisandrews]

I think being wired for it is probably the perfect way to say it. It's certainly not something I picked but it's something I've always been into, even before it had any names or labels attached to it.

I gave it a ton of thought in my younger days but I think I'm past the point of wondering why at this point. Now I just go with it and have stopped questioning why.

[Desiplayer]

As the title states, one thing my mind constantly thinks about is why am I into being cucked? I guess that is the same question for any kink/fetish, but as someone with a somewhat analytical mind, I struggle with it just being who I am. I am a guy who was raised in a good family, with (still) married parents. Siblings, no drama, no trauma, no struggles with sexuality to report. Never been cheated on, felt less of an man etc. I feel like a normal guy with no explanation. I used to watch more porn in my twenties (35 now), and wonder if porn could explain it, but these days I barely watch porn and my desires for the lifestyle have never been higher. However, I should say I am a wannabe and my wife and I are exploring more, but roleplay is as far as we have gotten. My wife and I are firsts and only for each other, so maybe that plays a role too. Any ideas? Anyone like me?

This is a great post, not sure how I missed it ..,
When we started this felt weird and through the years it evolved in different ways ….I had gone through self reflection and at times it’s was confusing and felt bad as well…now I’m very proud who I am as husband to the wife that I help fulfill her needs and wife that brought out the bi/gay in me that I never know I deeply had in myself …now I enjoy amazing intimate hardcore sex with both men and women …..now more men then women because I’m helping service wife lovers and I’m addicted to cocks …

For sometime now I feel soo proud that I can enjoy sex freely the way i want it and helping meet my wife needs as well….
I shared post today …pride proud and mental health …

[newcucktoo]

I still remember seeing my girlfriend making out with another guy at a party when I was a teen. They were in one of the bedrooms and he was on top of her. They had clothes on but he had pulled her top down to kiss and suck her tits but she had never let me do that. I remember standing there watching. I was so upset and yet so turned on. Later that night she would only let me hold her hand. She said she was worn out. She noticed I was hard and said that I was cute.

[options311]

I agree with Newcucktoo that nothing causes us Cucks to freeze helplessly in place than seeing our woman making out with another guy, right in front of us. Gets us upset, jealous and yet so stimulated and aroused that we can't seem to move away from anger or forward to confront them. We just stand there and watch it happen with a hard-on, oozing precum and making a pathetic mess of it in our briefs or panties. Suck a thrilling experience that I will always remember

[CucktoOlderGf]

My situation is a little different. I was cheated on by an ex with a fat guy I hated. The humiliation I felt after when she dumped me for him and finding out that all the girls in our group knew she had been cheating destroyed me. Knowing all the girls in that group knew I had a smaller dick and that he had fucked a few of them before that too. Slowly, I kept thinking about him her and the contrast between her right body and his fat body. Then before I knew it, I wanted him to fuck every girl I've been with since

[mfmfantasy50]

My situation is a little different. I was cheated on by an ex with a fat guy I hated. The humiliation I felt after when she dumped me for him and finding out that all the girls in our group knew she had been cheating destroyed me. Knowing all the girls in that group knew I had a smaller dick and that he had fucked a few of them before that too. Slowly, I kept thinking about him her and the contrast between her right body and his fat body. Then before I knew it, I wanted him to fuck every girl I've been with since

I read some place recently that a man's loss of a girlfriend or a wife to infidelity is at first like a loss due to death, causing grieving along with deeply felt heart break, which finally morphs into feelings of intense anger, jealousy and ultimately, humiliation. All these emotions lead to a realization of the Cuckold that their girlfriend or wife has made him a Cuckold in society, which is somehow eroticized in the mind of the Cuckold; causing him to actually find an extremely satisfying sexual release. The sexual release is so enjoyable that the Cuckold quickly becomes addicted to and then craves the outcome of the eroticized infidelity. Cuckolds who are addicted to this sexual release then consciously or unconsciously begin to manipulate all relationships with women they encounter in order to achieve the infidelity they know will lead to the eroticized sexual enjoyment they now so much crave.

[CucktoOlderGf]

My situation is a little different. I was cheated on by an ex with a fat guy I hated. The humiliation I felt after when she dumped me for him and finding out that all the girls in our group knew she had been cheating destroyed me. Knowing all the girls in that group knew I had a smaller dick and that he had fucked a few of them before that too. Slowly, I kept thinking about him her and the contrast between her right body and his fat body. Then before I knew it, I wanted him to fuck every girl I've been with since

I read some place recently that a man's loss of a girlfriend or a wife to infidelity is at first like a loss due to death, causing grieving along with deeply felt heart break, which finally morphs into feelings of intense anger, jealousy and ultimately, humiliation. All these emotions lead to a realization of the Cuckold that their girlfriend or wife has made him a Cuckold in society, which is somehow eroticized in the mind of the Cuckold; causing him to actually find an extremely satisfying sexual release. The sexual release is so enjoyable that the Cuckold quickly becomes addicted to and then craves the outcome of the eroticized infidelity. Cuckolds who are addicted to this sexual release then consciously or unconsciously begin to manipulate all relationships with women they encounter in order to achieve the infidelity they know will lead to the eroticized sexual enjoyment they now so much crave.

Oh god, that seems to describe me to a T

[options311]

Oh my !! Yes your experience is far more intense. Loosing one's significant other, girlfriend, or wife and feeling the hurt and jealousy and loss. Then over time, coming to terms with the fact that you desire it to continue and in some cases, take some actions that cause the SO to seek such sexual satisfaction from other lovers to promote more of the same. Far more humiliating, exhilarating and exciting..

[options311]

Oh my !! Yes your experience is far more intense. Loosing one's significant other, girlfriend, or wife and feeling the hurt and jealousy and loss. Then over time, coming to terms with the fact that you desire it to continue and in some cases, take some actions that cause the SO to seek such sexual satisfaction from other lovers to promote more of the same. Far more humiliating, exhilarating and exciting..