Things Your Wife Does For Others, But Not For You

[Sharemywife1968]

when she was active,,often she woukd stay at an Airbnb or hotel,,when ever a lover stayed with her,they of course want morning sex,,that's something I have never had as she never liked it,,with me anyway,

[coastalkid]

There are a few acts that my wife and her bull share exclusively.

He’s much larger than me, so they can fuck in many more positions than I can offer to her.

Regarding blow jobs, she will suck his cock more in one night than i get the entire year. Last time they were together he came in her mouth, something i haven’t done in over 25 years with her.

On the flip side, only I eat her pussy when we’re all together. I love it. It’s nice to have something that is still just ours. It also allows me to participate, even though i’m acting mostly as a servant for them.

The big difference is her attitude towards sex when she’s with him. We joke that she has an alternate personality. A slutty Ms. Hyde to her everyday Dr. Jekyll. He brings it out of her with a vengeance.

Also, she fucks him ENTHUSIASTICALLY.

She’s vocal in a way that’s completely counter to anything I’d ever seen with her. At first, I thought it was a performance. Complementing his “monster cock” because she knew it turned me on. Now i can see it gets her off too.

I can only respond with my own impression. I don't know you and your life well enough to judge you or your wife, nor would I even want to. So, anything I say or ask is nothing more than my honest impression or question.

It sounds like you have found your place and are comfortable with it. In my world if you are happy then that's all that matters.

The thing that really gets to me is the feeling of being inadequate. It feels like a permanent thing. Acknowledging in theory that there will always be bigger and better is irrefutable. Confirming it by example is altogether different. Witnessing a performance you know you can't replicate requires some serious self assessment.

Of course it would be natural for a husband/bf to ask himself, "Why would she even want sex with me anymore?" Sometimes I wonder if this is as much about killing a man's self esteem and confidence as it is about sex at all. Like there is an associated kink that fits with the couple for it to work. It just makes me think about how the husband's life has changed. How at one time he had different ideas and desires and now it's all changed. If things went bust and divorce comes would he carry that feeling of inadequacy the rest of his life?

The big thrill everyone gets is when the wife escalates things continually until he breaks or submits without resistance. It just doesn't sound like a sustainable thing AND have a happy, fulfilling and satisfied sex life unless you are uniquely paired with someone. If you are that unique pair then you ARE getting just what you want. There's no disappointment in that. This is just my opinion, but I believe a smart wife would recognize this and do something to protect her husband to some degree. I find it uncharacteristic for a wife that, truly does and says she loves her husband with all her heart and soul, to not have some compassion and understanding of her husband. There's a weight that comes with being inadequate.

How long have you been at this? Do you envision what the future looks like for you? Most importantly, how does your wife treat you when you (or she) isn't having sex? Is this something that lives in your head every second of every day?