You know you're a cuck when...

[All4Jenna]

This whole thread (I didn't read every single post) seems quite extreme to me! Yes, you'd know your a cuck when some quite extreme thing happens but, uh, you probably knew it long before that! :-)

I like thinking about this idea but from the mild initial point of view...

You know you're a cuck when you and your very vanilla wife are in some normal vanilla party and you see someone flirting with her and she's flirting back... and you suddenly realize you like it.

Or, you know you're a cuck - instead of just a swinger - when you're in a threesome and suddenly realize she's more vocal and cumming more with him than you're used to ever seeing with your normal hometime sex... and you suddenly realize you like it.

Or, you know you're a cuck when she realizes it... she's with you in bed after fucking someone else and shyly lets slip how good he was... and you immediately cum prematurely.

Bingo on all three counts!

[ucaneffher]

You know you’re a cuck when you wished your girlfriend or wife had a dedicated Instagram account strictly with pictures of her on her dates looking super sexy and taken by all the men she goes on dates with.

Love to see images of her in nice restaurants
At the table in some microscopic dress holding her cocktail and smiling, images of her in various nice hotel rooms in very revealing outfits, images of her sitting in different high end cars with her cleavage about to explode out of her ultra low cut tops and dresses, image after image of her on random beds I’ve never seen before wearing lingerie and not hotel room beds either, images of her on private jets, images of her on boat and yatch decks looking like a sexy little gold digger, images of her at vacation destinations - all of this on Instagram, every single picture taken by men who are not me and had her all for themselves. An Instagram account that I can go look at and know each and every picture of my woman was before or after she gave herself to another man. Having no control and no prior knowledge of what she posts. You get to see the pictures at the same time that the world gets to see them. The only difference is that you know she was with another man while the world thinks she’s with her partner.

[ucaneffher]

A. You know you’re a cuck when your girlfriend has trained you to let her identify as “single”, trained you to watch her be single, and has carried herself as a single and available woman ever since.

B. Started out as being single only if you weren’t with her but slowly started training you that if she got approached while with you but say you ran to the rest room or weren’t next to her, she would still identify as single if men approached.

I got to experience A and was getting tastes of B when we broke up.

[Kirsty]

... your HW buys you a 1-piece swimsuit because you admitted feeling insecure in the bikini she had you wear on the beach, in close proximity to young male students playing beach volleyball.

[Kirsty]

... your visiting mother-in-law reminds you to hand wash her "delicates" when your HW gets you started on doing the laundry

[Kirsty]

... your wife's girlfriend asks if a chastity cage is uncomfortable, or whether you've gotten used to it

[Kirsty]

... your mother in law says to your wife (her daughter), "he's not a real man". And your HW responds, "he's an excellent housewife"!

[ucaneffher]

You’re a cuckold when your girlfriend goes to her older sisters home for her to do her hair and make up and let her borrow one of her little black dresses because she’s going on a date with her now official boyfriend and you are there watching the two of them talking about her going out. You are there until the very end where you get to watch your girlfriend leave because her boyfriend is outside. You then stay with her sister and her boyfriend where they proceed to make comments like “how do you feel just watching her leave the house with her hair, make up, and a little dress like that to be with another man” and the only thing you can say as a cuckold is “I trust her” knowing damn well another man will be rearranging her internal organs in about 2 hours. Sigh... I miss those days of hanging out with the sister in law drinking while the gf was getting pounded.

[ucaneffher]

You’re a cuckold when your wish is to one day reach that point where you sit back and look at your wife’s beauty and can only accept that in all the years together, she has given herself to enough men to fill up a couple of Boeing 747s and be proud of it.

When you crave to see your wife not have one ounce of innocence left inside of her. everything she wears, everything she does, every action just naturally seems so sexual and it’s all because of all men she has been with and everything she has learned by being hundreds/thousands of men. Because of the frequency and amount of sex your wife has gotten as a Hotwife for years.

[isinlarsa]

You’re a cuckold when your wish is to one day reach that point where you sit back and look at your wife’s beauty and can only accept that in all the years together, she has given herself to enough men to fill up a couple of Boeing 747s and be proud of it.

When you crave to see your wife not have one ounce of innocence in her. everything she wears, everything she does, every action just naturally seems so sexual and it’s all because of men she has been with. Because of the frequency and amount of sex your wife has gotten as a Hotwife for years.

Men who don't have hotwive can't conceive of the pride and thrill of having a wife that other men lust after.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

You know you are a cuckold (although, at this point, I'm a wannabe) when you see a beautiful woman at the post office, or at the grocery store, and instead of thinking about smashing her, you think about what it would be like to clean her up after she comes home from a date.

[ucaneffher]

You know you are a cuckold (although, at this point, I'm a wannabe) when you see a beautiful woman at the post office, or at the grocery store, and instead of thinking about smashing her, you think about what it would be like to clean her up after she comes home from a date.

We think very alike! For me it’s not do much that exact thought but it’s just imagining someone fucking her indtesd of fucking her myself!

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

You know you are a cuckold (although, at this point, I'm a wannabe) when you see a beautiful woman at the post office, or at the grocery store, and instead of thinking about smashing her, you think about what it would be like to clean her up after she comes home from a date.

We think very alike! For me it’s not do much that exact thought but it’s just imagining someone fucking her indtesd of fucking her myself!

YUP.

[ucaneffher]

I know I’m a cuckold because I’m wishing my girlfriend (who is not in the lifestyle or knows I want it) would just one day be waiting for me at home on the couch with a man I’ve never seen before and tell me to sit down because we need to talk.

The conversation is clear and transparent and the three of us are there, she doesn’t even save it for just her and I. She introduces me to him formally and tells me that is her new boyfriend. Tells me they are going to be dating and they will be very sexually active. The point of this is so I am aware. I want to be turned into her cuck after the fact. I want her to lay out the rules right then and there with hi
Present.

Would love to see her tell me that from that moment forward she will go out a minimum of 3-4 days a week with him and will start spending the night at least 1-2 nights a week to start. Want to hear her tell me he will be visiting her frequently and often times things will lead to sex so expect to see her in lingerie and or finding them having sex when I come home and start getting used to him over and consider becoming friends because I will be seeing him a lot. I want to hear her tell me that I will not get to be intimate with her at least 1 day before she goes to him so I need to start getting used to our new arrangement. I want her to tell me that on nights where they are going to drink, she wants me to be her ride.

Again, as a cuckold, this is how I wish I could get back into the lifestyle again with my gf after nearly a decade of not being a cuck.

[ucaneffher]

You know you’re a cuck when you spend all your time thinking of “what ifs” and what you would say to friends or family if you ever ended living out the lifestyle the way you have been eroticizing about.

Constantly figuring out how “hide” being your wife’s second option, how to hide that she has a main boyfriend, that she loves with him, how to hide her having a family with him instead of you, figuring out the holidays... do you just bring your wife with her and her mans children to your family gatherings? How do you deal with having a double a life of having a wife but her having a full separate life with another man?

As a cuck you ask yourself if you really wanna take things as far as being alone just so you can satisfy your kink of watching your wife have a life with another man and give up your normal life

[Mad Dog65]

You know you’re a cuck when you spend all your time thinking of “what ifs” and what you would say to friends or family if you ever ended living out the lifestyle the way you have been eroticizing about.

Constantly figuring out how “hide” being your wife’s second option, how to hide that she has a main boyfriend, that she loves with him, how to hide her having a family with him instead of you, figuring out the holidays... do you just bring your wife with her and her mans children to your family gatherings? How do you deal with having a double a life of having a wife but her having a full separate life with another man?

As a cuck you ask yourself if you really wanna take things as far as being alone just so you can satisfy your kink of watching your wife have a life with another man and give up your normal life

This really resonates with someone like me who is a wannabe. Thank you for sharing!

[ucaneffher]

You know you’re a cuck when you spend all your time thinking of “what ifs” and what you would say to friends or family if you ever ended living out the lifestyle the way you have been eroticizing about.

Constantly figuring out how “hide” being your wife’s second option, how to hide that she has a main boyfriend, that she loves with him, how to hide her having a family with him instead of you, figuring out the holidays... do you just bring your wife with her and her mans children to your family gatherings? How do you deal with having a double a life of having a wife but her having a full separate life with another man?

As a cuck you ask yourself if you really wanna take things as far as being alone just so you can satisfy your kink of watching your wife have a life with another man and give up your normal life

This really resonates with someone like me who is a wannabe. Thank you for sharing!

Are you actually looking to have your wife fully replace you completely for someone else though? Or are you referring to this in the sense of her just sleeping with someone else?

In my case I want to see her go all the way as long as she keeps me around and devotes at least 10% of herself /time to me while she is with her full time partner.

[Mad Dog65]

I think it is the fear that if we did get into this lifestyle that this is where I would end up. Kind of like rolling the dice because you dont know. But to answer your question, no, I would want our relationship to be the priority 75% /25%. Knowing it could happen is strangely exciting!

[texans_at_play]

On your wedding night, after dinner, your Bride invites the Best man to come up to the room with her and you and when you get there she tells you to get on your knees and suck him hard while she changes, and when she returns she lays on your bed and says
"OK.. he is hard anough, now guide his big cock into your brides pussy" and you stand and watch as he takes your new bride and you watch her orgasm like she never does with you. After a bit she turns over, tells you to get under her and lick as he starts fucking her doggie until she squirts and he cums in her and she sits up on your face and tells you not to miss a single drop of his cum.... and you don't get to have your bride until the next day...

[Mr JnJ Doe]

You know you're a cuck when you send this to her boyfriend,

For many cuckold couples, there comes a tipping point where with wife belongs sexually and emotionally more to her boyfriend than she does to her husband. Thank you for making my wife so happy, and she really liked the gift you gave her today. It's a good visual reminder that she is your woman.

[mf2hd82]

You know you're a cuck when you send this to her boyfriend,

For many cuckold couples, there comes a tipping point where with wife belongs sexually and emotionally more to her boyfriend than she does to her husband. Thank you for making my wife so happy, and she really liked the gift you gave her today. It's a good visual reminder that she is your woman.

Nice! What was the gift?

[Mr JnJ Doe]

It was a charm bracelet

[ucaneffher]

You know you’re a cuck when you personally reach out to another man asking him if he would like to have your girlfriend for himself full time....

In the late mid2000s after hearing my gf talk nonstop about her new favorite lover who lived 3 hours away in a different state but knew that she would love to have him in her 24/7. I called him and had a 2 hour long conversation about him and my gf living together. He and I discussed everything from her moving there, them dating, him being okay with taking over and me visiting monthly, and much more.

Explaining to him how she can’t stop talking about him and how he feels about taking her for himself and letting me come visit once a month. He and I talked the logistics and how they could become official if she was up for it. He was up for the idea and she was definitely up for moving out of state with her favorite fuck buddy. Unfortunately her grandmother got sick and things never happened but it would’ve been so hot as a cuckold to have to drive 3 hours each way just to visit my Girlfriend once a month to her and her lovers home where he consumed my gf nearly everyday while I only saw her once a month.

[Kirsty]

You're caught staring at a pretty model in a magazine, wearing a gorgeous matching bra and pantie, and your HW says, "men want to do her, and you want to be her".

... and she knows it's true, and so do you.

[ucaneffher]

You're caught staring at a pretty model in a magazine, wearing a gorgeous matching bra and pantie, and your HW says, "men want to do her, and you want to be her".

... and she knows it's true, and so do you.

Almost sounds like both you and the wife would prefer that both you and her were just a pair of girlfriends going out looking for men?