Young married guy here

[venus-can99]

This is one of the most interesting threads (and active one as well). I love the way Danny takes the time to write about his journey in near real-time. Lets all give some breathing space to Danny and Lauren (and Adam) to complete their obligations in IRL, esp as the year end approaches. They all seem to be responsible adults, taking their time to arrive at the destination.

[Tap]

RDR: Dosing yourself with sleeping pills or any other drug in order to facilitate your wife having sex with someone else, is, in my opinion opinion, one of the worst ideas that I have run across in a long time. Get real with yourself, man, and stop trying to manipulate your wife's sexuality. Why does it have to happen right now? She is eventually going to do what she wants to do. Let it happen her way, so, that she can't blame you for it later. Also, I recommend you give her the very best sex that you can, as often as you can, so that marriage to you is more attractive than leaving you for somebody else.

Sorry to say, but, I believe that your young marriage in at risk of breaking up.

[Guhunkadorn]

Mr. 'Tap' just stated what I've been thinking.....read his post about 10X and take it to heart.

Good luck, my friend.

[RunDannyRun]

Hello,

As mentioned before, I am trying to spend less time on this site as it is affecting my work. Nevertheless, I am going to give you a quick update.

Adam joined us for dinner and after dinner, I had to do some work. Lauren was busy shopping gifts for her family. Adam was in the living room watching TV. At around 09:30 pm, I decided to go into our room. I got ready for bed and told Lauren that I am taking some pills to sleep. She winked at me. We cuddled a bit and I dozed off. I do not like taking these pills a lot due to their addictive nature. But I have been having some work deadlines and I don’t want to miss them and I would have taken them anyway as I do before some big deadlines.

I woke up this morning at around at 6:30 am and Lauren was sleeping next to me. I got up and did my morning routine and by the time I went back into the bedroom, she was awake. She wished me good morning and I crept back into the bed and hugged her.

Me: How was yesterday?
L: It was okay.
Me: Just okay?
L: We didn’t do anything.
Me: Why not?
L: He kind of freaked out (at this point of time, I asked her to explain).
L: I actually fell asleep along with you yesterday night but I woke up at around 01:00 am. I went downstairs and went into his room. He was lightly snoring. I tapped on his shoulder to wake him up but took me sometime as he was deep in his sleep, just like last time. He woke up surprised and asked me what I was doing. I don’t think he actually heard anything I said. He pulled me to the bed and said “Come on baby, let’s sleep for sometime” and he started sleeping again while spooning me. I was wide awake and confused but decided to go to sleep. I think around 02:30 am I woke up to him kissing my neck and his hand in my shorts massaging my pussy. He kept licking his hand and rubbing my pussy again. He realized that I was awake and whispered to me, “You are so fucking sexy!”. I turned around and we started making out. He kept pulling me into his body. After some time, he stripped me naked and kissed my boobs and later started licking my pussy. I am not sure what he does differently than you but I come very soon after he starts licking me. Maybe it’s the beard. He asked me not to moan and kept shushing me. After some fifteen minutes he came up and started dry humping me. He was still wearing his boxers. I tried to pull them down and he got the hint and stripped them off. We started kissing again and I stopped a bit later to whisper in his ear… “I have the lube”. He looked at me very surprised and pointed up towards our room. I told him that you are taking sleeping pills. He nodded sideways and said, “No. I don’t want to risk it.” I felt a bit disappointed and I think he noticed it too. “Baby, I am gonna make you feel so good. Let us fuck some other time when Danny is not home”. He then went down on me again. I actually wanted to return the favor but I was a bit pissed off at him and decided to be selfish. After cumming a couple of more times, I slept off at around 03:30 am. I was woken up at 05:30 am by him trying to stop an alarm. “You should go back to Danny!”, he told me. He kissed me before I left for our room.

I felt very horny after her recollection and decided to go down on her again. I could clearly tell that she came a lot a few hours ago. I tried my best to get her to come fast but I think it took almost 15 minutes for her to first cum from my mouth.

Adam was already gone by the time I went downstairs. He will also come home late tonight as he is meeting up with Ezra and spending some time with him.

[RunDannyRun]

it may be your writing style or otherwise, but you appear to be aloof and somewhat unaffected by your situation. this can’t be, of course, as the reason that you are here, sharing, is because of the erotic kink that has taken hold of you as it has so many of us. are you experiencing the fabled “cuck angst”? how does that feel to you? what is Lauren expressing about her adventure? do you feel that she may be holding back from you, for fear of upsetting you?

I decided not to talk a lot about my feeling here. I don't like the way some people talk about my wife, like she is some sex crazed slut in DMs and sometimes here. I am discussing them with Lauren. She constantly asks me how am I doing and if I am okay with what's happening. maybe I am not like other cucks here. I am happy with how things are going between them. I felt more jealous when she went on a date with that guy from bumble or texting her high school teacher but with Adam, I am somehow not very jealous.

[joel68]

So I would guess the game plan has changed and you will just need to be out of the house a bit more going forward, now that you know that Adam is not comfortable fucking Lauren while you are there. Even if you are dead to the world, in the back of his mind is the possibility that you could catch them together. That possibility, even though it was remote, probably made him hesitate. Uninterrupted sex is what he appears to want with Lauren.

Maybe you should make a point to leave and give a definite time of your return when they are both home. Or as some have suggested, tell them how long you will be gone and that you will call when you are ready to return to see if she wants you to pick up anything from the store food-wise. Just a thought.

But if Lauren took the lube to Adam's room, she is more than ready for it. Just a matter of time and it will happen. I believe being patient at this time will be the play. But you will need to decide how you want to do it yourself.

Good luck with everything going forward.

[wannabecUKold]

Thank you Danny.
Great description. Lauren is very open with telling you all that happened.
She clearly enjoyed getting him naked and having his erect cock pressing against her pussy. He must have enjoyed having her naked young body lying in bed alongside him. Such a present for him.
Seeing how ready they both are to fuck, you know you will make space for them soon. As soon as you can arrange it. Not least because it is a tad humiliating for a girl to offer to be fucked and to be refused, for whatever reason.
You don’t need us to tell you to make sure you cherish Lauren at this time. She needs to be sure that you are hers. She is a wonderful wife.

PS just seen your post. I entirely agree. Lauren is not a slut. We saw her reaction to some of Adam’s sleazier posts. She
is a lovely young woman finding out her true experiences, with you lovingly alongside. It is very beautiful.

[AZguy425]

I don't think I'd be terribly surprised it took you a little while to make Lauren cum after she'd cum a few times from oral already. You still made her cum pretty quickly for already having gotten off to that.

Don't forget the mental aspect of this. I don't know that you're actually looking for some of the aspects of cuckoldry, such as humiliation or some of those things. I think mentally you get excited by her having sex with someone else and not the other aspects.

For her part, your wife seems erotic and sexy, but not in some slutty way. She's more of a traditional woman exploring her sexuality in a semi unusual way that benefits you both. That being said, the mental part of her orgasming faster orally with him is likely to all those other factors... the illusion of cheating, the taboo nature of the relationship, etc. Mentally some of the excitement is to "doing something you shouldn't be doing" sex. This benefits both you and Lauren.

Don't let everyone else define what it is for you. Enjoy the mental and physical journey and make it Lauren's and your own.

[sandy691196]

it may be your writing style or otherwise, but you appear to be aloof and somewhat unaffected by your situation. this can’t be, of course, as the reason that you are here, sharing, is because of the erotic kink that has taken hold of you as it has so many of us. are you experiencing the fabled “cuck angst”? how does that feel to you? what is Lauren expressing about her adventure? do you feel that she may be holding back from you, for fear of upsetting you?

I decided not to talk a lot about my feeling here. I don't like the way some people talk about my wife, like she is some sex crazed slut in DMs and sometimes here. I am discussing them with Lauren. She constantly asks me how am I doing and if I am okay with what's happening. maybe I am not like other cucks here. I am happy with how things are going between them. I felt more jealous when she went on a date with that guy from bumble or texting her high school teacher but with Adam, I am somehow not very jealous.

Most people here respect you 2 as people and your relationship. Some will be flippant, mostly folks who have not been into it and are having a view from the gallery, of something unreal.

Lauren took good care to choose a guy with whom such a relationship can be had with the least chance of hard feelings. She explained the reasons and logic to you.

I don't think you are a "cuck". You are just a guy who gets off on your woman's sex adventures with other men, in a controlled environment, without dunking your own relationship.

It's a good thing that Adam is being cautious and respectful of your presence. It helps keep things on the rails.

It's been a while you have stayed away from home for a decent amount of time- at least 6 odd hrs? In the day, if not overnight. And you need to advertise that absence from before. So that Adam is reassured.

You have so much work online. A coffee shop or a mall's sitting areas? Between lunch and dinner?

[Midnight Joker]

Hello,

As mentioned before, I am trying to spend less time on this site as it is affecting my work. Nevertheless, I am going to give you a quick update.

Adam joined us for dinner and after dinner, I had to do some work. Lauren was busy shopping gifts for her family. Adam was in the living room watching TV. At around 09:30 pm, I decided to go into our room. I got ready for bed and told Lauren that I am taking some pills to sleep. She winked at me. We cuddled a bit and I dozed off. I do not like taking these pills a lot due to their addictive nature. But I have been having some work deadlines and I don’t want to miss them and I would have taken them anyway as I do before some big deadlines.

I woke up this morning at around at 6:30 am and Lauren was sleeping next to me. I got up and did my morning routine and by the time I went back into the bedroom, she was awake. She wished me good morning and I crept back into the bed and hugged her.

Me: How was yesterday?
L: It was okay.
Me: Just okay?
L: We didn’t do anything.
Me: Why not?
L: He kind of freaked out (at this point of time, I asked her to explain).
L: I actually fell asleep along with you yesterday night but I woke up at around 01:00 am. I went downstairs and went into his room. He was lightly snoring. I tapped on his shoulder to wake him up but took me sometime as he was deep in his sleep, just like last time. He woke up surprised and asked me what I was doing. I don’t think he actually heard anything I said. He pulled me to the bed and said “Come on baby, let’s sleep for sometime” and he started sleeping again while spooning me. I was wide awake and confused but decided to go to sleep. I think around 02:30 am I woke up to him kissing my neck and his hand in my shorts massaging my pussy. He kept licking his hand and rubbing my pussy again. He realized that I was awake and whispered to me, “You are so fucking sexy!”. I turned around and we started making out. He kept pulling me into his body. After some time, he stripped me naked and kissed my boobs and later started licking my pussy. I am not sure what he does differently than you but I come very soon after he starts licking me. Maybe it’s the beard. He asked me not to moan and kept shushing me. After some fifteen minutes he came up and started dry humping me. He was still wearing his boxers. I tried to pull them down and he got the hint and stripped them off. We started kissing again and I stopped a bit later to whisper in his ear… “I have the lube”. He looked at me very surprised and pointed up towards our room. I told him that you are taking sleeping pills. He nodded sideways and said, “No. I don’t want to risk it.” I felt a bit disappointed and I think he noticed it too. “Baby, I am gonna make you feel so good. Let us fuck some other time when Danny is not home”. He then went down on me again. I actually wanted to return the favor but I was a bit pissed off at him and decided to be selfish. After cumming a couple of more times, I slept off at around 03:30 am. I was woken up at 05:30 am by him trying to stop an alarm. “You should go back to Danny!”, he told me. He kissed me before I left for our room.

I felt very horny after her recollection and decided to go down on her again. I could clearly tell that she came a lot a few hours ago. I tried my best to get her to come fast but I think it took almost 15 minutes for her to first cum from my mouth.

Adam was already gone by the time I went downstairs. He will also come home late tonight as he is meeting up with Ezra and spending some time with him.

Great update and thank you for sharing. Yes, this site is addictive but I love that. We love the updates, but don't burn yourself out trying to keep up.

I'm surprised that Adam could control himself. I bet he had jerked off prior to her visit so the drive wasn't there. Little heads that are riled up don't think about consequences. At least you got some good sleep, a good update and some reclaiming time with your wife. All wins.

Maybe another overnight this weekend with your friend is in order!

[surry]

Thanks for replying (and warning me). To give some additional details, I am 26 years old and Lauren is 23. We recently bought a new house and it has been a nice journey for us so far. Lauren and I have lot of common interests. We are both long distance runners and board game addicts. We regularly run half marathons (at least 4 races a year). We also have a small friend group that meets up regularly and plays board games.

I mentioned that there is a change in our living situation. My "brother" Adam is going to be homeless soon. He has a job but can't make rent at his current place (long story). He asked me the other day, out of blue, if he could crash at our place for a few weeks. He already lives pretty close by. I asked Lauren and she was not happy. She hates Adam (they just met thrice before) but she is also very kind. She agreed for him to live at our house for a few weeks. The initial arrangement is for 6 weeks. I am hoping I can somehow get them sleeping with each other during this 6 weeks.

Have you talked to your brother? Have him be on his best behavior and flirt and hug her hello and goodbye. Then change to kiss hello and goodbye. Give her lots of attention. Tell your wife you both look good together and I like you to together. Make time for them to be alone. Make sure your wife knows you get excited to see them together. When she starts talking about him then you know they are ready to fuck.

[playwifeplease]

Thanks for the hot update Danny, your journey is electrifying, and I'm sure I speak for almost everyone on this forum to say "thanks for sharing and taking us along with you"

You say you "work from home" a lot? Well, maybe you need to go into the office for a whole day or several days, or twice a week, for a "team meeting" or such? That would be ample opportunity for Lauren and Adam to have the space & privacy to get intimate. The "I'll call you on the way home to "pick up food", or "let you know to start dinner" is perfect, as it gives that complete sense of safety for Adam.

Please disregard any perceived "slutty" comments made on your post. Actually, it's the fact that you are married to a beautiful, faithful, traditional and somewhat inexperienced wife, that takes this whole account of your journey to a whole new level.

Lauren is lucky to have you, giving her the freedom to explore her sexuality within the confines of a loving married relationship, and you so lucky to have her, understand your feelings and needs, consider them, and then be willing to 'test the water'.

Not many of us are lucky enough to have the 'planets align' to such a degree, so congrats in finding yourself in this beautiful situation.

Looking forward to further updates, but please put your own life first and do not feel pressured to respond to every comment or request.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Guys guys guys...stop with all the bloviating. This is Danny's story to tell. Let him tell it on his time and on his terms. Stop making predictions and making all these suggestions. It gets old after a while. If your suggestion is that important send him a pm.

End rant.

[wittol]

Maybe don’t send him a pm; try to relax instead.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

No, don’t send him a pm; try to relax instead.

Copy that

[dadah]

amongst all the excitement, discussion etc i just want to tell danny how impressed i am with what he has accomplished in his relationship with lauren. i remember i think how an angry and pious lauren threw danny out of the bedroom when he first broached the subject of her 'fucking around', so to speak. and now here we are with danny and lauren acting as 'partners in crime' almost daily to get her pussy licked and her fucked regularly!! and danny you have accomplished this with lauren in just a few months. it took me 8 years to get to where you are in just a few months !! enjoy !!!

i'm not one to preach or act as if i know more than i actually know, but if i can give you any advice it is this: encourage lauren to realize, acknowledge and enjoy the power of her sexuality. encourage her to fuck a lot !! and i don't mean just adam!! i mean others. this is not about her building a relationship with adam or anybody else. i hope it is about lauren learning to appreciate the fun of fucking and the fun of enjoying the power of her sexuality and the sheer fun of being 'naughty". if it's all open and consensual between you and lauren, it can be a world of fun. i know, i've lived it......after 8 years ! have fun !!

[Luigical1931]

Hot update Danny. She’s got Adam in the palm of her hand hasn’t she? Wanted to return the favour but was pissed off that he wouldn’t fuck her so denied him. He must have a serious case of blue balls by now. She sounds like a very confident and powerful woman.

At least he’s shown he does care about what you think by saying no, there is a respect there for you.

Also sounds like you’ve all got a better nights sleep (it actually sounds like Adam was a bit sleep deprived this time round).

Have a good day

[jenisonherway6]

“ I decided not to talk a lot about my feeling here.”

bummer. some folks are just uncouth. block the ones who bother you. without the feelings, the psychology reported by the participants, it’s just more pornography.
thanks for sharing, anyway. good luck to you all.

[Luigical1931]

Also Danny, just want to apologise if I’ve come across a bit much or one of those who have talked about Lauren in a negative way.

Myself - I’ve got a pleasure kink, love seeing and hearing about women losing control. This then links to the cuckold fetish where they do things they wouldn’t normally do when they lose control.

That’s my angle when replying to things, but I do recognise that you’re all people and you all have jobs, lives and commitments (like myself and most other people on here).

Honestly, sometimes your updates are just so hot that it becomes difficult to not ask a question (probably an inappropriate one), give a suggestion or try to add to your update to build it up even further.

Keep posting, we are all rooting for you and you getting what you want out of this kink as much as we are for Lauren.

[The Owl]

I decided not to talk a lot about my feeling here. I don't like the way some people talk about my wife, like she is some sex crazed slut in DMs and sometimes here. I am discussing them with Lauren. She constantly asks me how am I doing and if I am okay with what's happening. maybe I am not like other cucks here. I am happy with how things are going between them. I felt more jealous when she went on a date with that guy from bumble or texting her high school teacher but with Adam, I am somehow not very jealous.

Thank you for keeping us updated. Regarding your wife, she sounds about as far from being a "sex crazed slut" as I can imagine. She has moved slowly toward being a hotwife, and only with a LOT of encouragement from you. When people respond to your post, they are projecting their own thoughts and feelings onto reality.

With regard to your feelings, it sounds like you are enjoying Lauren exploring her sexuality with Adam. My guess is you and she will find a way to make it happen.

Have you two thought about using a toy (toys) with increasing girth to help prepare her for Adam's cock? Before my wife gave birth to our first child, the midwife gave us (me) instructions on stretching the opening of her vagina to make it easier for the baby's head to crown out of her. Slowly but surely, I was able to stretch her vagina so it opened a little bit more each day without any pain or tissue injury. A dildo with increasing girth from tip to base - with lubrication - may be helpful. Lauren wants to feel Adam's cock inside her. Everything you (she and you) can do to make that possible and pleasant is worth doing. It may also be helpful for Adam not to use a condom given that she has an IUD. A well lubricated cock may slip in easier than a latex wrapped erection. Just some thoughts that may be helpful.

Enjoy the ride. I'm guessing Lauren will as well.

[Gearup]

Danny
This is the best (and most exciting) thread on this site. Most of us who are participating in this thread are living vicariously through you and Lauren and enjoying your adventure together. For most, this is far more exciting than our own lives - we are just happy that you have been so open sharing the details and your inner most thoughts.

As for you taking 15 minutes to orally pleasure Lauren before she reached an orgasm & it seems you are challenged because Adam does it faster..... thats normal and for many, even fast. Women do not just go from 0 to 60 in the sexual pleasure world in 60 seconds. Besides, isn't getting her to that point slowly and deliberately with passion half the fun? why race? those beautiful lips are meant to be savored snd enjoyed - not eaten like a big Mac - 4 bites and and done. The arousal process takes time both mentally and physically. Physically, both you and Adam are doing the same thing - eating Lauren's pussy. Mentally, however, Lauren is reacting differently. You are her husband - safe and secure. She is intimately familiar with you so when you go down on her she is not aroused at the beginning and has to warm up. Adam is different - he is taboo. being with him sexually is the forbidden fruit or cheating mentally. So when she makes any move to engage with him sexually she has already become aroused - before she opens his bedroom door and sneaks in to his bed to fuck. Thats why she cums faster with him - not better just different. And over time, he too will become the familiar and she wont get aroused as fast. Your job- improve your game everytime you eat or fuck her. while pleasuring her with your mouth, play sensual music, use your hands to caress her breasts, finger her ass or lightly choke her throat. you have home field advantage - use it.

[Luigical1931]

Hope all is okay. Must be early hours where you are and getting close to the ‘wake up in the middle of the night’ time and go and see Adam time.

How was she after last time? I actually mean sleep wise (I know, shock horror that I haven’t asked something sexual!). Did she mention about being tired, or it impacting her work etc.?

Any plans to leave the home this weekend? Even just for a run or to go shopping?

[jenisonherway6]

https://www.slutwives.com/threads/my-ko ... ure.69068/

https://www.slutwives.com/threads/my-as ... ore.69609/

RDR, please read these and find inspiration.

[WatchinginNJ]

it may be your writing style or otherwise, but you appear to be aloof and somewhat unaffected by your situation. this can’t be, of course, as the reason that you are here, sharing, is because of the erotic kink that has taken hold of you as it has so many of us. are you experiencing the fabled “cuck angst”? how does that feel to you? what is Lauren expressing about her adventure? do you feel that she may be holding back from you, for fear of upsetting you?

I decided not to talk a lot about my feeling here. I don't like the way some people talk about my wife, like she is some sex crazed slut in DMs and sometimes here. I am discussing them with Lauren. She constantly asks me how am I doing and if I am okay with what's happening. maybe I am not like other cucks here. I am happy with how things are going between them. I felt more jealous when she went on a date with that guy from bumble or texting her high school teacher but with Adam, I am somehow not very jealous.

Hey man, a little bit of advice. There's an ignore button. Just put people on it. Some people can find one little thing about your situation and fixate on it with their kink. It's driven a lot of people off this site, and likely people from participating.

The good news is those people will quickly filter themselves out because they just can't help it.

[Gulfcpl]

it may be your writing style or otherwise, but you appear to be aloof and somewhat unaffected by your situation. this can’t be, of course, as the reason that you are here, sharing, is because of the erotic kink that has taken hold of you as it has so many of us. are you experiencing the fabled “cuck angst”? how does that feel to you? what is Lauren expressing about her adventure? do you feel that she may be holding back from you, for fear of upsetting you?

I decided not to talk a lot about my feeling here. I don't like the way some people talk about my wife, like she is some sex crazed slut in DMs and sometimes here. I am discussing them with Lauren. She constantly asks me how am I doing and if I am okay with what's happening. maybe I am not like other cucks here. I am happy with how things are going between them. I felt more jealous when she went on a date with that guy from bumble or texting her high school teacher but with Adam, I am somehow not very jealous.

A lot of good threads and posters have been driven off because of the constant nagging. The ignore button is great.
Hey man, a little bit of advice. There's an ignore button. Just put people on it. Some people can find one little thing about your situation and fixate on it with their kink. It's driven a lot of people off this site, and likely people from participating.

The good news is those people will quickly filter themselves out because they just can't help it.