Wife and my Dad

[frank22]

That being said I think a sad ending to this adventure would look like this:

What if upon hearing the truth he decides hes going to take whats his? If it's no longer secret they wont have to sneak around.
I'd imagine it wouldn't happen immediately, starting off with him calling her to his place. (Or even showing up and taking her). She would drop everything and head there.
For a while she will return the same day. Would start off great with her telling you the details, you loving every second of it.
As time passes she will start spending the night. When it's a single night you'll still be excited and she will still be thrilled to give you details. Probably will be losing interest in your cock, but will still let you lick her sore pussy.
When he decides to make her completely his she will be gone for days at a time, returning only when he leaves out of town. Shes annoyed with you asking for details the second she walks in the door. Lost all interest in you sexually, maybe stays completely covered around you.
When he returns to town and you're alone again, You notice she forgot her birth control pills in the bathroom, and before calling her you triple check the calendar and notice it's been 2 weeks since the pills were taken.

A very realistic scenario. I think Jenna will grow bored in giving Dave the juicy details a few months from now and will start spending more and more time at dad's house(as this post suggests). At this point, the marriage will completely collapse.

[creampiecurious]

A very realistic scenario. I think Jenna will grow bored in giving Dave the juicy details a few months from now and will start spending more and more time at dad's house(as this post suggests). At this point, the marriage will completely collapse.

Another realistic scenario is that they all die horribly in a car crash tomorrow. OMG!! We'd better stop!!

Has anyone considered the idea that Jenna loves Dave deeply, and that while she's enjoying her new "power" over Dave, she has zero intention of leaving him for a man some 20+ years older?

John may be fun, but Dave is her loving, committed husband. The man she married.

[ericsacto]

John may be fun, but Dave is her loving, committed husband. The man she married.

Agree. Jenna should just enjoy the best of both worlds.

[frank22]

A very realistic scenario. I think Jenna will grow bored in giving Dave the juicy details a few months from now and will start spending more and more time at dad's house(as this post suggests). At this point, the marriage will completely collapse.

Another realistic scenario is that they all die horribly in a car crash tomorrow. OMG!! We'd better stop!!

Very funny. I guess I'll stop posting on this thread, since most of you want it to sound like an echo chamber anyway. I also see that posting concerns or warnings about Dave's situation is a complete waste of time since he seems hellbent on seeing this thing through no matter what the consequences are. Anyway, I'll shut up now.

[creampiecurious]

My apologies; my intent was not to piss people off, though I can see how it may look.

My point was that cautionary advice is good. Worst-case scenarios stated as fact help nobody. Dave, Jenna and John need realistic advice and warning and, yes, love. They don't need to hear that it's already too late.

[Niblick]

Consider my pompoms a waving.

Personally, I come here because I have a fantasy that involves my wife fucking a well hung stud and having the best sex of her life. I have and can do so many things for my wife. But, that I can not do. I can not fuck her with my big dick because I do not have one. I DO want to be there WITH her for every thrust of that big cock.... I don't think I have cuck tendencies, but after reading so many of the stories by the cucks here I can respect the fantasy/fetish that trips their triggers. Not for me, but hearing about it can be hot!

Anyway, I'm rooting for Dave because the kid has shared an incredible story with us. He has opened his heart and let his joys, fears, and his fantasy become one of the most followed stories ever on this site. He has listened to, and responded to almost everyone's doubts and cautions. His answers and the reasons behind them show me a thoughtful, intelligent mind that is open to what others have said about his course of action.

Not to be a contrarian AZ, but I have to agree with CPC...
"My point was that cautionary advice is good. Worst-case scenarios stated as fact help nobody. Dave, Jenna and John need realistic advice and warning and, yes, love. They don't need to hear that it's already too late."

Niblick

[peaceman75206]

The problem is that all the speculation on outcomes is quite possible, whether contrarian or pom poms. All of us wish the best for Dave, Jenna, and John but don't know how to get there or what it finally looks like, except that the family stays together in a functioning, loving, communicating unit. What we don't want is for any of them to experience any pain, especially self-inflicted. The family has already experienced the pain of the loss of a loved one. They, like we, are human, subject to the weaknesses and strengths associated with humanity. Our advice is offered out of our humanness, and is imperfect at best. Their actions grow out of their humanness and reflect that same imperfection.

So, proceed with caution. Listen to all the advice, and choose your direction carefully, knowing we care about you.

Thanks Dave for sharing so completely and honestly. We wish you the best.

[loumont64]

Not really wanting to set John up, just wanted to she what her reaction to the question might be.

Have to jump on this bandwagon - I would love to see how Jenna responds to the potential of another female prowling the grounds, so to speak.

[1texn]

Dave, 

I have composed  some comments to post on here several times but always stop myself.
I really don't like to give relationship advice to others but every once in a while I break my self imposed rule.  There is some good advice available on this board and plenty of BAD advice. (Have a look at Tatsaw's lengthy thread for examples.)

  I believe some on here are projecting their personal "kink" onto your situation and would like to see you do whatever gets them off. I get that, but you are dealing with a VERY delicate situation here.

I'm going to make a few comments based on 1. having had a Dad (Duh!) and 2. Being a Dad of adult sons.  The "old horn dawg" in me gets the relationship between Jenna and your dad. I'm not sure I could've or would've done it but I totally understand passion and strong sexual attraction. I'm sure we have all made some bad choices in the heat of passion.  I am certain that your dad is coping with some measure of guilt over this but still feels the passion for Jenna in spite of it.  In fact, as it stands now, there is still a safety net for all  three of you: Jenna tells your Dad that it's been hot, it's been fun but it's better that we  don't continue. As long as it remains yours/hers little secret nobody gets hurt. That safety net will be there at any time in the future, if needed.

I'm of the opinion that you need to take a hard look at the risk/reward of telling your dad. 
I've tried to project myself into the situation (hypothetically) as a dad of adult sons to try to come up with a scenario that wouldn't freak me out and damage at least a part of  my relationship with my son that I could share with you, but Dave, I can't seem to come up with anything that would make the whole thing "OK." I'm not saying it would affect my love for my son, it's just that it would make our relationship "weird" in an unpleasant way if he or his wife came to me with this. I would already be trying to deal with guilt and then be confronted with additional drama at a time when I'm still dealing with the loss of a wife - not a good thing.

The safety net would be gone and there might be painful relationship consequences for years to come.

You "might" be able to get away with having Jenna hint at the fact that you encouraged her to be particularly attentive or caring with him to help him along in his time of grief and hint that you have no problem with a little extra intimacy,  but to go much farther than that may be a bridge too far. 

One thing that I thinks is important is to trust Jenna and her judgement. She is the only one who knows "everything" (apparently except for this forum). As long as she is careful, everyone is at least getting something out of this - good sex, if nothing else.  If you want to go forward with full disclosure, you are really going to need her.

It is not my intent to be judgmental  here. I appreciate your openness and honesty and allowing us along on your wild ride. I hope this all works out reasonably well for all parties. 
Cherish your wife.

1texn

[mopacpower]

Dave, how was the holiday?

[flexi_1]

Hi Dave,

Hope all is well on the family front and things are rolling along smoothly.

Thanks for sharing everything thus far. I look forward to reading the progress with it all ans like others, would hope some day Jenna logs on and gives us details from her perspective.

I still hope to read the very first time story too! Has there been any more sessions since last time?

[omaha2some]

Any developments from last night? Did they attend class?

[bubbajack]

"The problem is that all the speculation on outcomes is quite possible, whether contrarian or pom poms. All of us wish the best for Dave, Jenna, and John but don't know how to get there or what it finally looks like, except that the family stays together in a functioning, loving, communicating unit. What we don't want is for any of them to experience any pain, especially self-inflicted. The family has already experienced the pain of the loss of a loved one. They, like we, are human, subject to the weaknesses and strengths associated with humanity. Our advice is offered out of our humanness, and is imperfect at best. Their actions grow out of their humanness and reflect that same imperfection.

So, proceed with caution. Listen to all the advice, and choose your direction carefully, knowing we care about you.

Thanks Dave for sharing so completely and honestly. We wish you the best."

This, per Peaceman, above.



Plus, advice is only really good (or bad) if it turns out to have been predicated on a correct (or incorrect) guess at the outcome. Before that, it only sounds good or bad.

[lozrob66]

This isn't going to end well. All the PomPom waving in the world will not bridge the ever widening gap between these three people.

Dave's fantasy is a little more than I could imagine a young wife wanting and nothing that any father would want to contemplate for a son. The longer John is kept in the dark the harder the explaining is going to be. Does John want to find out he is being lied to? Does he want to be found out as a betrayer?

I wouldn't like to see anyone hurt and wish them well. I will be cheering if by some luck and judgement it all ends well. Keeping the secret may be the only means to an end?

[armyguyot1]

OK. I am having withdrawl symptoms. No word for some time from Dave. A lot of us fantasise about Jenna and haven't heard any of her slutty behavior in awhile. You can't just cut us off like that Dave. Are you like a drug dealer or what. You got us all hooked. Hope all is well and looking for an update on the wonderful wife of yours.

[mm69]

i hope everything is ok.

[roadrunner]

It does seem odd, no first time info, no Sunday bbq info, & no Thursday night dance info. Is this a game. As someone posted "I feel used'

Come on guys. This is the way Dave has always posted! Patience please!

[wingman]

I agree with Roadrunner. Patience is what we need to give Dave in return for what he has given us...a peak into a private and exciting time in his life.

keep it hangin Dave!!!!

Always got your back.....

Wingman

[creampiecurious]

I am still hoping that Dave, Jenna and John can navigate this minefield safely and happily.

That said, date night has come and gone without an update. I fear we may have pushed Dave away. I hope he will come back, if only to tell us things are OK.

[tinkertwo]

Maybe encourageher can provide us with an update.

[Joatster]

I keep watching this one for new stuff. This is well written and a fascinating side road on the hotwifery map. Dave, I know it is difficult to put in the effort that decent writing takes, but we are sure enjoying it.

[curiousdave]

Hey guy's I'm still around, doing ok. I've just been extremely busy and haven't had even 5 good minutes to sit down and write anything. I really haven't had much to report anyway, until last night. She finally went to see him again. I'll try and update everything later today/tonight.

[armyguyot1]

Thanks Dave but you could have said whether she saw him or fucked him just to appease us a bit.

[bubbajack]

I think Curious Dave may have the most thoroughly compartmentalized mind of anyone I have heard of, at least since Bill Clinton.

If ANYTHING like this were going on in my sex life , the only kind of "being too busy" that I would be able to sustain my attention for would have to involve wild animals, gunfire, or a jury trial (maybe - a bad verdict can usually be appealed! )

Hang in there, big guy (oh, wait! "Big Guy" is your Dad, right? Or has Jenna not yet reported that she can't feel you in her any more? ).

(I'm out of popcorn - please don't post anything till I get back from the store! )

[mopacpower]

I like kettle corn better.