Men who were turned into cuckolds by their GF or wife: What was her way of getting you to surrender?

[R_H_NC]

I have a brother who kept badgering his (first) wife to have a threesome with another chick. She eventually gave in...and decided that she really liked other chicks. In fact, she liked chicks so much, she left him for another woman.

Initial story line in Friends when Ross was married. As xleglover would say..."Be Careful What You Wish For"

[Lucky Dog]

Do you feel any difference when your wife is with a woman compared to when she is with another man? Do you feel more or less submissive? I understand your wife's other man is a submissive, but how do things play out with her woman friend? Is it dominant - submissive, or more equal? Is the woman dominant to you at all? My wife hasn't been with a woman, so I'm curious what it might be like.

I know that it might be not reasonable, but her having sex with another woman was no problem for me to accept at all while my macho part had a lot of problems to accept another man. Took some time to talk it through and give it a first easy try, but now i am ok with them having sex and surprisingly realized that I can also get something out of it myself.

As for her experience with her best friend I think it as hard to compare with other as my experiences with others here on the board. While I am really interested in others views and opinions and agree with people on certain points there is none here who I would say I could identify with in most things. So I think it hard that you caould take something out of it for your relationship.

Back to the original question: My wifes best friend might be slightly submissive - if at all, but she is heavily maso. So much in fact that that you have to take extra care that there will be no permanent harm, because her tolerance is so high that this in itself would not protect from serious harm.
But as always that is only one part of it. If I would have to describe her I would rather put first that she is an open and easy going persson with an easy laugh and sometimes crazed ideas. That makes time never boring when she is around, but somestimes hard to endure, when you are at the center of the newest funny idea she and my wife got into their minds...^^
How is she towards me ? Rather neutral though I have to do as she asks. But there ususally is not much to talk about should my wife not be present.

This sounds like a very different dynamic, although probably mostly because of the nature of the woman involved. As you say, it would be hard to generalize this to other relationships. But all in all, it does sound hot.

[dinoo]

The very beginning was on holidays at a nude resort when my wife asked me to show her my “porn collection” on my laptop. I asked her not to blame me before I did. She wouldn’t.
She then remarked what excited me rather a lot. Among other things it was also cuckolding.

Well, even before our marriage in 1970, she liked to tease, to challenge me.
One example:
One year, I played the national university students tennis championship on 1969. She would arrive there one day later just at a time that I had to play my second single. So I couldn’t look after her at the railway station.
I asked a new friend to pick her up. During my match they appeared. Obviously they had met each other in a special way because they behaved like a bold couple in love. During a switch later in the match, I saw my GF give me a defiant look as he took one of her breasts in his hand. One or two changes later I saw them tongue kissing. They continued this behaviour. It will be clear that I could no longer concentrate on the match that I lost. It is only one example. She was a beloved girl among my friends. And we both loved it.

Back to those holidays on 2008.
My (then) wife asked me what was my greatest fantasy that could happen to her. I answered to watch another man cumming on and in her mouth. “And then you have to tongue kiss me” she reacted.

Back from the South of France, we decided to visit a sex club. After some research she (!!!) chose a nudist evening at a manson, named Castle Waterloo.
Being nude ment no clothing nor hiding things were allowed. It was very crowded (the management told me around 200 people). I estimate between 30 till 40 couples. So a big surplus of single men.

Scouting the rooms was of course the first thing to do. At a certain moment we had to pass a very narrow corridor with mainly a lot of men. Once side of this corridor was a dark room with on one side a lot of holes in the wall. A hand came trhough one hole and grabbed the pussy of my wife. She was shocked and took some distance from that wall. Locical, because we weren’t only 5 minutes in. With her back to a nice looking man from the middle east, he grabbed her breasts and massaged them. I was scared that my wife wouldn’t like it and would ask me to leave the club. So I asked him to let her alone but then my wife said to me “Let him, I love his attention.”

This man got this and with both hands he massaged her breasts and played with her nipples. A second man put his hand between her legs to massage her pussy. She opened her legs to accommodate him. Then she moved so that she got their dicks in her hands and jerked off slightly. She kept looking me straight in the eye as if to say "get used to this other woman."

She then kissed both and said she wanted to scout the rooms. But both men followed us. We came into a crowded room with a huge king sized bed. We found a place for her alone. The first man she met before, kneeled on the floor and began to lick her pussy. He raised up but keeping his mouth on her pussy. So there was my wife, with her shoulders on the bed, her legs over his shoulder and a guy licking her pussy. The second man pushed his dick into her mouth, to fuck her mouth.
The first one put a condom on and began to fuck her. My wife with two holes filled. She came violently. (Later on she told me that the second one came into her mouth.)

A third man had placed himself alongside her left side. With him she had sex till he had to leave the club. I didn’t exist anymore for her.
At the end of this evening (better is morning) 6 men came onto her body.
But both are a rather long story for this thread.

A HW was born within 15 minutes after our arrival at this club. And I, at the same time I was turned into a watcher by her. She stayed a HW, I the watcher. Or name it cuckold: I was changed into being her safeguard. If necessary…..
Sometimes she allowed me to participate….

[trecital]

I voted in the "You caught her cheating, it turned you on, you forgave her," category. This is the most 'popular' category, so far.
My initial thoughts were about us having threesomes, something I'd always been interested in, either MMF or MFF. But it wasn't long before I started taking a more passive, more submissive role, rather than an equal participant. It was more like MFm. Bit of a cliche, but he did have a bigger dick. And he was more muscular than me, had more stamina. I wasn't too bad. Not a wimp, weakling, sissy or submissive type. But he was just better. He could make her cum. I never have. I just slipped into a more cuckold role. I just found more excitement that way. Some jealousy, yeah. Also lots of fear and excitement as I moved towards being a cuckold, and wanting humiliation.

[A Perfect Match]

Seeds were planted a long time ago. I was a young teen in love with a girl who loved sex. There was always a bunch of guys hanging around her. I thought she was just flirty and there would be times where she would disappear with one for a few minutes and for months I never clued in on anything. She'd also give amazing blow jobs on the says she seemed most flirty. She liked to give blow jobs often. I guess when your girlfriend is giving you constant blow jobs and initiating sex all the time you don't really suspect her of doing the same thing with others at the same time. The first time I knew of something she was fingered on the hood of my car by a friend when I went inside a friends house for something. I was too embarrassed and humiliated to bring it up, but she knew I was aware. In because an unsaid thing. She would constantly give me blow jobs and sex, but at the same time play with others. She wouldn't do anything in front of me but she wouldn't exactly hide it by dipping into another room with someone else once in awhile, We broke up eventually when she started playing with a guy I hated. If not for that she probably could have strung me along indefinitely. Since then with others, it made me excited when ever a girl friend was alone with a guy for what ever reason. There was always a very powerful "What if?" much later that became an "I need to see it for myself" FWIW she married the guy I hated, many years later, then divorced him. But she still has the power to make him come over, mow her lawn in insane summer temps and when he tries to go inside to take a quick shower she tells him to beat it until next week when he comes to mow her lawn again.

[Cuck_Steve]

I wanted to see my friend fuck my wife, but was only meant as a one off.

However, afterwards she said she needed to have him again and was going to. She said she loved me but was going to be seeing him regularly. That was that. I accepted it. From then on, she made all the decisions about our sex life (them having sex, my dickie caged up)

Five years on and he lives with us and I’m their cucky boy.

[bltn1966]

I put “Other”. Marie and I were swingers at the time. Besides swinging, she didn’t think she could have sex in front of me. We also not into cuckolding. I never thought I would be a cuckold. One night Marie bumped into one of her childhood crush at the swingers club. The guy was a complete asshole. I didn’t like him at all. We ended up going back to his place so they could “reminisce” about the old days. Soon enough the guy started kissing and groping Marie. I stood up to beat his ass and Marie gave me a stern look. I could see by the way she was looking at me she didn’t want me to cause a scene.

I would love to watch Marie with another man…just not this asshole. But now my wife is begging me to sit down and watch her have sex. Marie was giving him a blowjob when the asshole shook his whiskey glass. He told me to pour him some more whiskey. That’s it!!! I was about to give him a free concussion when Marie stopped giving him a blowjob and gave me another stern look. I felt like a little bitch when I poured whiskey in his glass.

I wanted him to hurry up and fuck Marie so we could leave. I was 100% sure he was going to be terrible in bed and Marie would regret being with him. Boy was I wrong. He fucked Marie for almost in hour in every position imaginable. He also had to keep telling me how good he was fucking my wife. I hated it but I loved it at the same time. That’s the first and only time I felt like a cuck.

[simpforjada]

February will be a full year since I've been her cuckold. We will have been married for four years in March. She has done some professional modeling and so attention from other men has always been a part of our relationship. She picked up on the fact that it turned me on when we'd be out and men would flirt with her and she'd flirt back. In February, one of her admirers sent her roses to our house. She informed me that she was going to start seeing him romantically. So it just kind of happened. She has always been dominant in our marriage and so becoming her cuckold has just been a natural evolution of that.

[mrdnrm]

More or less of the following, let's call it a hybrid of 1, 6, and 7
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I caught her cheating, confronted her, and she told me she would not stop. If I wanted to stay with her, I would allow her.

Started swinging but she was jealous of you with other women so she told you that she wanted to play alone.

Started experimenting with threesome(s) and found yourself with her going more for the other man until she altogether kicked you of her play with the other man.
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She cheated of me in the first month of dating and then a few other times over the first few years of marriage. In short I excited her and was very intense with sex (foreplay) but when in came to PIV I came too fast. She became very disappointed. Just like all the other girls I dated. But that is a longer story. We did try a threesome first it well, then one night we went to a sex club in Tampa. I was in a 69 position with another woman and my wife was having no more of that. That was the last time I touched another woman. So we went back to threesomes real fast, like the following weekend and that's when she said it. We met this guy out for a few drink and within the hour we were in his hotel room. The two of them were kissing standing next to the bed as I walked up behind her and held her hips, she stop and point to the chair on the other side of the bed, and said, "go sit and watch". When they were done the first round and he rolled off her, she called me over. She looked right at me and said "now that was real good" as she grabbed me by the arm pulling me down toward her pussy, I knew what she wanted. Yes I enjoyed the cream pie. That was in 2003, and that has been my role in our marriage since. Watch and clean!

[ucaneffher]

Relationship 2:
Currently Not in the lifestyle nor have we ever discussed being in it but she has been playfully mentioning every single day for nearly 2 weeks on wanting to date or get a second boyfriend. She mentioned that now that we are getting serious, she is realizing she will never get to date again. When I ask her if she wants to date, she playfully says yes. If my instincts are right, she is preparing to make me into her cuckold.

I am more than prepared to buy her more lingerie, more sexy clothes, more high heels, I am prepared to drop her off and pick her up from her dates, , I am ready to take her more frequently to gyno appointments to get tested if she’s going to be active, and I am more than happy to assist her with anything that will make her single/dating life easier for her. I am ready to spend more time alone if she is wanting to become a hot girlfriend. I am ready and happy to let her make me her cuck.

Wow I posted this in February 2021... almost 2 years and have to say that a lot of those things that i described above have been done since that post and I'm very happy about it!

-i have definitely bought her more lingerie and sexy clothes which she has ultimately worn out both for myself and others.

-i have dropped her off and picked her up from a couple of her dates.

-ive taken on more proactive roles to alleviate her stressors and responsibilities which have allowed her to date and go spend alone time with other men in their homes

-one i didn't mention back in Feb 2021: I had the absolute pleasure of going out with my girlfriend dressed very revealing and flirty and it resulted with her getting 'picked' up by another man. I definitely can't wait to see her going further in front of me.

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