Two Weeks to go

stevens4fun · Unread post by **stevens4fun** » Fri Sep 01, 2023 6:10 am

Peaks23s story this far really highlights how challenging it can be for a couple to find the right guy and make it all happen. Work, family and events all have to be managed and scheduled. It's a bit easier with a cooperative "ex" though.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Fri Sep 01, 2023 6:42 am

stevens4fun wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 01, 2023 6:10 am
Peaks23s story this far really highlights how challenging it can be for a couple to find the right guy and make it all happen. Work, family and events all have to be managed and scheduled. It's a bit easier with a cooperative "ex" though.

It's been quite a journey I can tell you.

I'm really amazed we have reached this far, considering it had been a point blank "no" for many years.

My main concern now, is that if, for some reason this doesn't happen (I'm so hoping it does) then I'll have to find another way of convincing her that sex with someone else would be amazing for her and for us. If not, it will all fall flat and we'll be back to square one and I don't want that.

She has said that she's meeting this ex, because she already knew him and had some kind of connection, albeit a decade or so ago.

Occasionally, there has been a glimpse of light when I've suggested that she just goes out for the evening and let's someone flirt and chat her up. It works in fantasy, but she says she couldn't have first night hook up, it would make her feel cheap.

There also isn't anyone else that I/we can think of that would be a suitable candidate.

Little does this guy know, that he is the key to us enhancing our relationship. Sometimes I really wish I could speak to him and let him know, but as you'll all know from earlier posts, this guy has no clue that I am aware of what's going on. He's getting his kicks thinking that she isn't "getting any" at home and he's the knight in shining armour to give her what she needs.

Frustrating doesn't cover it!!

Abrandnewstart194 · Unread post by **Abrandnewstart194** » Fri Sep 01, 2023 10:02 am

All it will take is the once, then whether you like it or not, she’ll be off to the races, and you had better LEARN to like it because the chances of her stopping once she has tasted it are slim.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Sat Sep 02, 2023 4:09 am

Abrandnewstart194 wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 01, 2023 10:02 am
All it will take is the once, then whether you like it or not, she’ll be off to the races, and you had better LEARN to like it because the chances of her stopping once she has tasted it are slim.

I believe you are so so right.

I'm keen to learn to adjust to her new found desires, we've just got to get this first meeting to happen.

7 sleeps to go and it's gone very quiet on the contract/message front.

I think she feels he's letting her down and feels snubbed which has knocked her confidence. She's gone from showing genuine excitement whilst they message each other, checking out hotels etc to saying that she's not going to chase/message him unless he messages her.

So worried we'll be back to square one.

joel68 · Unread post by **joel68** » Sat Sep 02, 2023 5:40 am

Could be. Maybe he’s having second thoughts about it. I agree it’s best to let him come to her and not sound too desperate on her part. Yours too for that matter.

I guess as the time gets nearer you will find out more. At this point, from what you have posted, I think it’s doubtful that he will ghost her. But he may bail again and also may bail permanently. Be prepared for that.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Sat Sep 02, 2023 7:50 am

It's now definitely frustrating, but on the plus side, she keeps looking at her phone, keen to see a message from him! But she's sticking to her guns as she sent the last message so it's up to him!

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Sun Sep 03, 2023 2:14 am

6 sleeps to go and all is still quiet.

The hope is, is that in a few days time, the hotel will be confirmed and then it'll be on. It's still a strange calm before the storm at the moment.

Unread post by **kaskap79** » Sun Sep 03, 2023 2:54 am

Silence before the storm.

Hope it will be a good storm with a lot of joy.

stevens4fun · Unread post by **stevens4fun** » Sun Sep 03, 2023 6:13 am

Peaks, we found that most guys couldn't wrap their arms around the idea that by having regular sex with my wife they'd be supercharging our marital sex. Guys who thought of themselves as "players" were pretty naive about how it all works. Her ex was a good fit for us as there was still quite a bit of sexual chemistry between them. But as my wife told me many times "as good as the sex is, there's no way I could live with him again." Her ex never understood why it was so hot for me and when he found a girlfriend and remarried it all ended. Too bad, my wife and I still joke about this "convenient orgasm" relationship with her ex.

Peaks23 wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 01, 2023 6:42 am

stevens4fun wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 01, 2023 6:10 am
Peaks23s story this far really highlights how challenging it can be for a couple to find the right guy and make it all happen. Work, family and events all have to be managed and scheduled. It's a bit easier with a cooperative "ex" though.
It's been quite a journey I can tell you.

I'm really amazed we have reached this far, considering it had been a point blank "no" for many years.

She has said that she's meeting this ex, because she already knew him and had some kind of connection, albeit a decade or so ago.

Little does this guy know, that he is the key to us enhancing our relationship. Sometimes I really wish I could speak to him and let him know, but as you'll all know from earlier posts, this guy has no clue that I am aware of what's going on. He's getting his kicks thinking that she isn't "getting any" at home and he's the knight in shining armour to give her what she needs.

Frustrating doesn't cover it!!

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Sun Sep 03, 2023 10:53 pm

Just 5 sleeps to go (potentially).

They say no news is good news. We both just want to get this to happen but it's all down to him now.

I'm just going to spend the time thinking positive thoughts and hopefully there will be some developments.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Tue Sep 05, 2023 11:08 am

4 Sleeps to go.

I'm sure anyone that reads this thread, would like more juicy details, but I'm afraid I haven't got them yet.

I'm having to wait patiently and hope for her to say to me "Saturday is on". Until that point, I'm still stuck in Limbo land.

This thread really is turning into a diary for me, for which I apologise!

Unread post by **whosbeensleeping** » Tue Sep 05, 2023 11:19 am

Heck no, that's one of the reasons for this place. Glad you have this outlet.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Tue Sep 05, 2023 12:28 pm

It seems that she's not expecting everything to be a go for this weekend, in some ways, if it happens last minute, then it'll be a good thing as it will be a quick "all systems go" kinda thing.

Otherwise the countdown might have to be reset.....again

Unread post by **whosbeensleeping** » Tue Sep 05, 2023 12:55 pm

Hope he surprises and comes through.

Texas Jack · Unread post by **Texas Jack** » Tue Sep 05, 2023 2:49 pm

Peaks23 wrote: ↑
Tue Sep 05, 2023 11:08 am
This thread really is turning into a diary for me, for which I apologise!

Never any need to apologize, ever. Thank you for sharing your adventure. It's fun to follow along.

Long Lurker 34 · Unread post by **Long Lurker 34** » Tue Sep 05, 2023 4:36 pm

Peaks23 wrote: ↑
Tue Sep 05, 2023 12:28 pm
It seems that she's not expecting everything to be a go for this weekend, in some ways, if it happens last minute, then it'll be a good thing as it will be a quick "all systems go" kinda thing.

Otherwise the countdown might have to be reset.....again

P23 - Oh definitely keeping tabs, even if not commenting. Really want, as much as you, to read "Huston, we have lift off!!"

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Thu Sep 07, 2023 7:53 am

So it's not two more sleeps to go.

Unfortunately, a truly unavoidable delay this time. I don't reckon he's into period sex!

Could be another two weeks

They still are talking to each other so the day will still come, just gotta be/stay patient

lovethis · Unread post by **lovethis** » Thu Sep 07, 2023 11:45 am

All the best dude. This is gonna happen. Be patient take her out for dinner and let her know how special she is to you. Tell her she is beautiful and that your love for her is only getting stronger and deeper.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Thu Sep 07, 2023 9:39 pm

Thanks man,

That sounds like a good idea!

I will obviously let everyone know when a new date is set...

mastiff · Unread post by **mastiff** » Fri Sep 08, 2023 3:32 am

Unfortunately this is often part of the process

Lucky Dog · Unread post by **Lucky Dog** » Fri Sep 08, 2023 7:11 am

Yes, this can go on for a long time. My wife was only 32 when she set up her first date, but she was almost 50 when they finally connected. LOL, sorry, just kidding!

It's not unusual that things take a while. It's only when the other person is flaking out that you need to change direction towards someone else. I've learned that any relationship between 2 people is complicated. A relationship with 3 people is about 10 times more complicated.

lovethis · Unread post by **lovethis** » Mon Sep 18, 2023 2:40 am

Hey there how is it going. Is there a countdown yet?

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Mon Sep 18, 2023 9:18 pm

So, we've had a quiet week or so. It's been a bit strange and we've not really talked about it.

They've still been talking (a bit) to each other but nothing had been mentioned about setting another date. We've also been a bit busy with mundane life stuff which hasnt helped.

We did have quite a frank discussion though last night and it was really helpful to us both. It was kind of like a 'clear the air' moment and we had a reset. After all the failed attempts we both now seem to be back on the same page and there is a new focus on getting a date set.

After the great chat, we also had a great fuck, with him as the main focus. I've now just basically got to wait for news from her that they have set a date.

Then I'll be able to start another countdown!

lovethis · Unread post by **lovethis** » Mon Sep 18, 2023 11:01 pm

Thanks again. It will happen. In the meantime take her out, show her off. Get her to wear something that will grab attention and sit back and watch the action. She may enjoy the attention and knowing you approve she can act like a single girl on the prowl.

Unread post by **kaskap79** » Tue Sep 19, 2023 3:03 am

Happy for you, that you are back on track.

Remember to pamper her, but also to have sex where hotwifing is not the topic. It has to be just the two of you.

Now that you have cleared the air with her, don't be surprised if a date comes today or tomorrow.

Enjoy the lovely waiting time. Once she leaves for him, every feeling will be multiplied with a thousand.

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