Potentially the Start

[MustBeDenied2]

Thank you for the update, DDW!

I really appreciate hearing the conversational aspect of the cuckolding.

MBD

[venus-can99]

The conversation about long-term chastity must have been exciting and a bit anxiety as well for you DDW.
Great to hear that DDWHW found being topless in front of other men and women very "normal". I am looking forward to her visiting nude beachs with her bf when the weather warms up

[Deepdownwannabe]

The conversation about long-term chastity must have been exciting and a bit anxiety as well for you DDW.
Great to hear that DDWHW found being topless in front of other men and women very "normal". I am looking forward to her visiting nude beachs with her bf when the weather warms up

I'm not sure anxiety would be the correct word. Inner nervousness might be a better description.

[venus-can99]

I'm not sure anxiety would be the correct word. Inner nervousness might be a better description.

Thanks DDW. Execellent description. Would we hear from DDWHW about the superbowl party stint? It would be really hot to get her perspective and she is also good at writing.

[Deepdownwannabe]

I don't tell her when to come on here and give her views. She does that when she feels like it, as she has said she does not want to detract from my outlet.

[Watchinu69]

Great update thanks DDW- now that your caged indefinitely & your wife is having the thrill & excitement of great sex, plus the power of knowing she now needs nothing sexual from you -
Does this make you happy knowing you will not get to orgasm for extended periods of time, if that?

Thanks love to hear your thoughts.

[Deepdownwannabe]

The uncertainty gives me the angst that is always discussed, I won't lie there. But she had a twinkle in her eye it seemed when she discussed it.

[Mike4Fun]

A Valentine's Day caging plan....did it come with a box of chocolates?...This is said in fun and in no way is it a put down.
All the best!

[eater]

that's intense. buckle up for a wild ride

[elina]

....... She told me she loved the timed safe. When she is away with her bf, part of what excites her is the fact I am unable to 'self-pleasure'. "I can't explain why, but I just do" were her words. It is quite a thing to hear your wife say she prefers to have her husband locked up. "It isn't even because he likes to know you are caged, there is just something inside me that enjoys it".

Her arms were around me on the couch as they always tend to be when there is a discussion along these lines. "So I think you should be prepared for this to really be part of your future going forward. I wanted to use this month as a longer-term practice run and I can already tell you that I am liking it." I wasn't sure what to say, even as she ran her hand along "her" cage as she described it. "So you might want to do some research into how this 'long-term chastity' could play out, you can even get another cage if you want".

This added a new wrinkle I'm not sure I was fully prepared for, I just knew she was really beginning to love the idea of keeping me in this cage, which means I knew this rabbit hole was going to be explored more.

As for further details on her Super Bowl serving, evidently there were a few other ladies there, who just smiled at her.

Dear DDW

I think this is a good thing.

To me the most obvious explanation for Your Wife's feelings is that while She enjoys Her relationship with Her new Boyfriend, She wants to feel absolutely sure that She can retain control over you as Her Husband and the one She wants to have a long-term relationship with. I am not saying this is the only interpretation but the only one who can assess if it is likely correct or not is DDWHW.

In my world, I would have been more concerned if She did not care what you did while She was away.....

As for cages, I don't think you have told us what you are using now? But getting a custom fit cage suitable for long term use which also supports proper hygiene is probably going to be a good investment if this is where DDWHW wants to take you now.

Sincerely
elina

[Deepdownwannabe]

I didn't have a choice to get her an outfit, so I ventured out to do just that. Satisfied as good as I could be, I returned home and put her gift on the bed for when she got home from work. A smile met me when she saw the items waiting for her.

She put her gifts on just as seductively and teasingly as before. All red. Garter, stockings, panties, bra, even shoes....she was building up quite the garter collection now. Only she did not put on a dress. She put on a coat. A long length coat. She winked at me when she saw my realization of what she was doing. "A Valentines surprise I guess". And after a hug and kiss she was gone, telling me she would not return until the following evening as she was going to go straight to work from there.

I did not hear anything after she left.

[MustBeDenied2]

Nice update. It seems that these events usually precede a conversation in which she tells you what the new rules will be. Can’t wait to hear about that.

I’ve been thinking about what your wife said about keeping you in chastity. From the start, she has liked knowing that you are at home wondering what she is doing, but unable to give yourself any release. Now that she has informed you to get ready for long term chastity, she is expecting you to move the game along yourself. Essentially, she wants you to check mate yourself.

She’s done the research and she knows what she wants. She just wants you to ask for it. What’s it going to be?

Prostate massages? You can stay locked indefinitely and still get your release.

Pegging? She doesn’t miss your penis, but she probably does miss the intimacy of penetrative sex. You should propose that she peg you.

MBD

[Watchinu69]

DDW- thanks for the update....I understand your angst... but are you happy with the situation being locked up - and your wife enjoying the sexual ride of her & her BFs life?

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update DDW. Does she keep essentials at the BF's place for overnight stays or does she pack an overnight bag ? Just cusrious.

[Deepdownwannabe]

Thanks for the update DDW. Does she keep essentials at the BF's place for overnight stays or does she pack an overnight bag ? Just cusrious.

She has stuff there now

[venus-can99]

She has stuff there now

Thats great to hear. I am so glad she found a nice bf with whom she appears to have an emotional connection as well. At the same time she is still very much in love with you and makes sure you are taken care of with hugs and hj's

[BallSpanking]

It looks like she may become exclusive to her BF, or otherwise keep you in penetrative denial indefinitely ...
Sounds like she is in love with her BF who fucks her a lot better.

[_xavier_]

How fun to think about you researching and shopping for a device to securely lock your penis away more permanently. The ultimate act of acceptance and submission to her preference that you remain pent up and helpless to do anything about it without her blessing.

Please share more of that journey with us as it happens. I'm sure folks here will have advice, but I'm mostly curious about the cages you consider and eventually decide best fit you as her cuck. Will it be a big steel cage like.mad max, masculine, brutal, but heavy and severe? Maybe a cute, non-threatening pink plastic option?

It sounds like it's going to become a real part of you going forward. An accessory that goes everywhere with you and replaces your manhood. A pretty important choice...

[Open2it]

Given the opportunity and the knowledge that you’re probably going to be in chastity more often then not, you should look at a custom made cage. Comfort and ease of cleaning are the most important considerations. Stainless steel, open bar designs work well. However, you should also discuss the realities of a chastity lifestyle. How often will you be let out to “stretch”, supervised or unsupervised, emergency key access, intimacy and alternate forms of intimacy, safe words, etc. You don’t want to be locked and forgotten or totally ignored. It’s a big step and can have its own forms of reward for both of you as long as you take the time to understand each other’s desires and fears.

[Long Lurker 34]

Given the opportunity and the knowledge that you’re probably going to be in chastity more often then not, you should look at a custom made cage. Comfort and ease of cleaning are the most important considerations. Stainless steel, open bar designs work well. However, you should also discuss the realities of a chastity lifestyle. How often will you be let out to “stretch”, supervised or unsupervised, emergency key access, intimacy and alternate forms of intimacy, safe words, etc. You don’t want to be locked and forgotten or totally ignored. It’s a big step and can have its own forms of reward for both of you as long as you take the time to understand each other’s desires and fears.

DDW - Just to do a little tag onto O2I's comment. In your post from the 14th there was her observation about her feeling more at ease with you being locked up and that this was going to be a longer term situation (or at least that's how I took it).
- If you haven't investigated it, you both should delve into "cock milking". A release for you of a sort and this should be part of your arrangement with DDWHW that she has to provide you with this as a minimum stimulation. Which is only fair, your body has physical needs too.

[Open2it]

Like many other activities, it’s a team sport meaning you both need to be on the same page. Things can go south quickly if only one of you enjoys it. Resentment is not fun.

[Deepdownwannabe]

When she got home last night, she simply said "The look on his face when I dropped my coat was worth it, knowing I drove over here like that". She smiled in the kitchen when she said that, and I could only imagine it. "We didn't sleep much". And that was that.

[Watchinu69]

So many questions-- can you share some details??

[BallSpanking]

Will she be moving in with him?

[Deepdownwannabe]

So many questions-- can you share some details??

I don't have details....that is what she said about her Valentines evening