I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

[insertomit]

In every boys life they need a loving, caring, and protective father figure to help them. As they grow they need a male mentor to guide them the rest of the way as kids eventually find out their parents don't know everything. It looks like your sons have the best situation they can have. Three people love these children unconditionally. The only apprehension seems to be Jamie's strong connection to Wade and Ky's nonbioligical link to his children. These are small things and don't mean your wife will leave you for him. Sex doesn't even need to be involved with you three adults to give these kids a happy development. That is for your own bonding and and emotional needs. The thing that comes first is the well being of your kids and I don't see how more people loving and caring for your children is a bad thing. You should wake up every day feeling blessed.

I am sure you trust your wife and all three of you will come to the best place for them.

[Ky_Da]

An adult now, but i was an adopted baby. Right from the start i always knew and was fine with it. I had a loving home and great parents. I have another family member that is still growing up under the illusion that his biological dad was his only dad. I know its not, and so does many others in the family but he's oblivious. I don't think its fair to him... i think his mom [my aunt]will take that secret to her grave. We don't dare tell him as it would be devastating for him. You may cut Wade out of your life but there will come a time when you need to make a decision on whether you tell the boys or not. They may figure it out on their own as well, and that could go any which way.
I suppose if it were me, I would like to know from the start what they dynamic was and never lied to. I wouldn't need to know the details, but it would be good to know that i'm not my dads kid, and at some point in the future if i wanted to I could meet my biological Dad.
I suppose you only have a few years before they're old enough to start understanding those things.
I think Wade deserves a spot in those kids lives as Uncle Wade. You took the risk so you should deal with the consequences through the lens of whats best for the twins. Jamiee and Wade should be no more, but the family should have a relationship with Wade... eventually he'll find someone else, but i don't see why he can't still be your friends.

Your thoughts reflect our in a lot of ways. We’ve both come to the conclusion that we’ll tell the boys I’m not the biological father at some future point, when they’ll be old enough to understand. I agree that if they found out from some other source, that’d be a lot more devastating than learning the truth from us. As to Wade’s involvement, well, we’re still working that one out. The integrity of our family unit is obviously the most important thing, but his involvement (if any) is still an ongoing point of discussion between us.

[insertomit]

Is it you or your wife that wants to include Wade or a little of both? Why don't you write out a pro and con list to help you make that decision.

[sadie]

In every boys life they need a loving, caring, and protective father figure to help them. As they grow they need a male mentor to guide them the rest of the way

A digression from the topic (well maybe not)

I'll suggest that there's strong consensus in peer reviewed research that children of same sex couples fare just as well as those with heterosexual parents. So there's no basis for saying that a father figure is an essential.

[sadie]

@38kewp I agree with your proposition, however the statement I responded to was gendered every which way and I wouldn't agree that gender-role models are a good thing anyway. However that's pretty serious drift and I think we'll outside of the scope of Ky's thread.

[Xalar11]

Just want to give this thread a bump, before it gets lost. I'm sure Ky will return at some point.

[wannabecUKold]

Just giving this a bump, not to hassle Ky_Da but just so that this thread doesn't disappear.
I hope you, Ky, and the family are all well.

[sabya167]

Just giving this a bump, not to hassle Ky_Da but just so that this thread doesn't disappear.
I hope you, Ky, and the family are all well.

[jailor0]

Bumping this awesome thread

[txrockdog]

Bump to keep this from going away. Still among the hottest threads I have ever read, anywhere on the web.

[sabya167]

Yeah, okay, I'd buy that.

[livinginsin]

Ky,
thanks for sharing your story. You are a phenomenal writer, with an amazing ability to vividly capture conversation, behavior and feelings between people. I can't think of any author that has better captured the intimacy and nuances of sexual obsession, joy and angst. Take care.

[livinginsin]

Ky,
thanks for sharing your story. You are a phenomenal writer, with an amazing ability to vividly capture conversation, behavior and feelings between people. I can't think of any author that has better captured the intimacy and nuances of sexual obsession, joy and angst. Take care.

[Breakerhymen]

Bump.

[Ky_Da]

Hey all,

Been a minute since I posted I’m this thread. I’ve been writing a story in the library to keep my mind occupied and get my cuck fix. My real life has been pretty tame. The cuckold/hotwife thing is on the back burner for a while, probably a long while. You see, the wife is pregnant again, and this time there’s no question it’s mine, wahoo!!! I’m just hoping it’s not twins again. I don’t think I could go through twin newborns again. God that almost killed us.

It’s so crazy to think back on the adventures we had. To be candid, I’m happy to have my wife back and not have another guy involved in our lives. There’s simply an intimacy you lose when you play in the alt lifestyle.

Take care everyone. Hold your loved ones tight.

[Freemans892]

Congratulations

[R_H_NC]

Hey all,

Been a minute since I posted I’m this thread. I’ve been writing a story in the library to keep my mind occupied and get my cuck fix. My real life has been pretty tame. The cuckold/hotwife thing is on the back burner for a while, probably a long while. You see, the wife is pregnant again, and this time there’s no question it’s mine, wahoo!!! I’m just hoping it’s not twins again. I don’t think I could go through twin newborns again. God that almost killed us.

It’s so crazy to think back on the adventures we had. To be candid, I’m happy to have my wife back and not have another guy involved in our lives. There’s simply an intimacy you lose when you play in the alt lifestyle.

Take care everyone. Hold your loved ones tight.

Thanks for checking in Ky

[R_H_NC]

Hey all,

Been a minute since I posted I’m this thread. I’ve been writing a story in the library to keep my mind occupied and get my cuck fix. My real life has been pretty tame. The cuckold/hotwife thing is on the back burner for a while, probably a long while. You see, the wife is pregnant again, and this time there’s no question it’s mine, wahoo!!! I’m just hoping it’s not twins again. I don’t think I could go through twin newborns again. God that almost killed us.

It’s so crazy to think back on the adventures we had. To be candid, I’m happy to have my wife back and not have another guy involved in our lives. There’s simply an intimacy you lose when you play in the alt lifestyle.

Take care everyone. Hold your loved ones tight.

Thanks for checking in Ky and huge congratulations to both of you.

[wannabecUKold]

What a joy for you all. Best of luck. And thanks for checking in, Ky, it's great to hear from you. Love to the mistress of the house.

[elina]

Congratulations!
Glad you are looking forward to become a father again.

Sincerely
elina

[wifeneedn]

Thanks Ky for the good news update and congratulations! Thought of you many times and how you were doing.
Cheers.

[txrockdog]

Hey all,

Been a minute since I posted I’m this thread. I’ve been writing a story in the library to keep my mind occupied and get my cuck fix. My real life has been pretty tame. The cuckold/hotwife thing is on the back burner for a while, probably a long while. You see, the wife is pregnant again, and this time there’s no question it’s mine, wahoo!!! I’m just hoping it’s not twins again. I don’t think I could go through twin newborns again. God that almost killed us.

It’s so crazy to think back on the adventures we had. To be candid, I’m happy to have my wife back and not have another guy involved in our lives. There’s simply an intimacy you lose when you play in the alt lifestyle.

Take care everyone. Hold your loved ones tight.

Congrats KY! I was wondering if you had had any luck trying for another child. I assume by your confidence that you eventually asked for the truth about her trips “out with friends” and she reassured you that nothing was happening?

[mundyman]

Great news!! Congratulations!!!
Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy and a healthy new addition to your family.
Cheers!!!

[Ky_Da]

Hey all,

A sincere thank you for all the congratulations and well-wishes. We found out last week it’s going to be a girl, so we’re pretty excited about that. My wife actually made a joke about maybe we got a girl because the seeds weren’t planted so deep. Fuck, she can still push my buttons when she wants to!



Like I posted before, Jaimee and I are happily living the vanilla life right now, so I don’t have any fun kinky stuff to update anyone about. But, if you’re feeling in the mood to read something ‘saucy’, please give my story in the library a chance. It’s called “To the Edge and Back”, and it’s loosely based on my wife in a very alternate universe type situation. Please take time to leave a comment. That’s the only compensation I get, but it’s worth it.



Our only big news is it looks like we’ll be temporarily moving to the UK for a couple of years. My wife’s been missing her family and we want them to know their grandkids better, so we’re going to make the move. There’s an opportunity within the company I work for that would put us within a few hours of her parents place. The plan isn’t to stay there permanently, but the contract is for two years, with a possible one-year extension. So in the not to far distant future, I’ll be posting from a different time zone. The only drawback is that my wife’s already told me I can’t wear my baseball hat while we’re there. I don’t know about that, I’m still going to bring it with me.


Later, Ky

[elina]

Good luck Ky,

Congratulations on getting a Baby Girl. I am sure that She and Her mom will keep you plenty busy in the next couple of years, so not a bad idea to have the grandparents close.

Many males, cucks or not, sooner or later discover that it makes their Wives very happy to live close to Her family.
Maybe you will discover after three years that you love it there and will find permanent opportunities there?

Also, the English is horny lot, you should know from your Wife.
So if She wants to take up cuckolding again, She will find equally good opportunities in the UK!!

Welcome to Europe!!

Sincerely
elina