Young married guy here

[playwifeplease]

Danny,
I also agree that 'coming out as a cuck' would be a bad move.
It would change the dynamics severely forever, with Adam pitying you or looking at you as some freak (not everyone understands our cuck tendencies and how powerful they can be) and also, as some have pointed out it would 'provide ammunition against you' if he ever needed it in the future, plus he might actually just 'let it slip' to his pals. Additionally, he will probably realise, he 'has been played' all along, which is another issue you can do without.

I think the best route is, if Lauren to take Adam aside and tell him she felt so guilty about cheating on you, that she confessed to you.

Lauren says she was stunned when you said that you already knew, as you had noticed her slipping out of bed in the middle of the night. You didn't mention it, because you didn't want to chance everything blowing up and losing her.
Lauren now says she told you, that would never happen and that she loves you, and this cheating is just about sex. (that also reinforces the "it's only FWB going on here" narrative)

She also says she apologised to you, telling you that she initiated the whole thing and seduced Adam (that gets him a guilt free pass).
She then tells Adam that you said that you are OK with it, since he knew that your sex life wasn't enough for her, so in a way he's OK with it (which kind of cucks you, but it doesn't, as you come over as loving and supportive to her as your main priority).

Hope part of my suggestion helps, good luck moving forward and thanks again from me (and no doubt many of our wives/partners who have witnessed an unaccountable explosion in their sex lives .. lol) for sharing all the detail.

[wannabecUKold]

Thank you for the clarification. Any ideas on how you can make that happen without him also knowing that you're a cuck? Do you mean something like just him knowing you're OK with 'sharing' her or something?

I wanna just mention that I am just telling you guys what my current state of mind is. I am not sure how I/we will let him know in future. I think the next few days are going to be disruptive due to holidays and other plans. So I do not want to think too much about it.

Right now, I am thinking of only letting him know that I am just okay with sharing her. The only downside of this approach is he will not know my cuck desire -- watching them fuck.

Hi Danny
You are so good to us, keeping us updated.
I can understand you want Adam to know.

It’s odd that he hasn’t asked Lauren whether you have any inkling. Judging by his panic about the hickeys, he has no idea that you know already.
I wouldn’t disclose that you’ve known all along. That will make for a lot of bad feeling. It’s not necessary.
You can simply use a more recent fact that has led to your discovering the affair - such as by seeing the hickeys.

It will be easier if Lauren makes the first disclosure because she’s already talking to him and involved in the affair with him.

Imagine Lauren talks to Adam when you’re out on a run:
“I took my top off and I forgot I had the hickeys. Danny saw them and he guessed. He said he’d had his suspicions.
He wasn’t cross.
We had a long chat. He’s had anxiety problems about sex recently and he understood I was frustrated.
He’s OK with us continuing to have sex together. Yes he really is. He is happy to share me with his big brother.
But only on condition that you don’t try to take me from him. He’s my husband and I love him.
And you must treat me properly - I told him about the fight and the grudge sex and he wasn’t happy.
He only wants me to have sex with you, no one else, apart from him of course.
He wants me to come to your bed in the evening and then return to him for him to reclaim me and to sleep. He’s OK if I spend the night with you at the weekend.
And we can go bareback. Yes we even discussed that.
He would also love to bring us breakfast in bed one morning. And see us naked together some time and join in and I said he could. He thought it would do his libido good. [He’s really turned on by being cuckolded by me having sex with you.] But he doesn’t want any humiliation. He is doing you the biggest favour, letting you sleep with his lovely wife.
So those are his conditions. This is how I want it too.
He knows I’m talking to you now. He wants you to take me now, while he is out running. I’m going to text him now. When he gets back, make sure you thank him.”

[RunDannyRun]

I think letting him know is gonna happen much later. I just want to see how things progress in the coming days.

[wannabecUKold]

I think letting him know is gonna happen much later. I just want to see how things progress in the coming days.

That would be good.
But sometimes these things slip out of your control. Lauren is probably dying to tell him that you know and may let it slip soon (as she could easily have done regarding the hickeys).
You might want to tell her never to let him know you’ve known all along.

[bradisalpha]

...are the wannabe alphas who are always trying to top from the bottom. these you can spot by their tone. they see themselves as the sole authorities, the mansplainers. they’re here to tell everyone what’s what and to police the behavior of others.
....

I think so many men in particular aren't used to advocating for themselves that they do this. I hate to say it, but it's kind of slimy.

I've played with a couple of Cuckold couples and was the stunt dick. I know my role but it can be pretty off-putting when they say one thing, but in reality they do something else. "Oh he's just going to watch" then every 10 seconds he's directing her or trying to tell you how to fuck her, or how to move.

I mean if that's your thing, cool, but let me in on it before hand.

I also have experienced the “top from the bottom” interruptions and instructions.. very irritating. I am very Dominant and nip it in the bud. I give him the choice of not saying a word unless spoken to.. or.. leave the room until he is invited back in. I make it clear that if I am going to fuck his wife that he will also understand that he is the cuckold and he will act like one !! I find the wife much more receptive, relaxed, and MUCH more sexually aroused once her husband is put in his place as she has to put up with his constant interference also.. probably with everything !! .. which makes our time together much hotter, special and satisfying. I have never had a cuckold push back on this Dominance and have seen him accept his submission gracefully and also heighten his sexual experience going forward as he submits to becoming a proper cuckold husband.

It amazes me that Danny is able to even think straight with all the comments and advice coming from all directions here !!! Complements and excited responses are one thing.. but all of the posts telling him what he should do, and what Lauren should do.. and how he should feel, and what’s going to happen if he does this or that.. some from ones that have never even experienced the lifestyle or have been in his position. They don’t even really know him or Lauren !! I would think that is hard to handle in itself. But Danny seems to be handling and controlling the situation quite well on his own.. guiding Lauren and Adam along in there “cheating” adventure. Good for you, Danny !!!

Hell, I might as well add my prediction and advice to everyone else’s !! One day the cheating scenario will wear out and Danny will make a great cuckold to Lauren and her new Alpha Boyfriend !!!

Just my 2 cents worth…..

Brad

[Luigical1931]

What was the white stuff round his top? You mentioned about it a few times, but didn’t actually say what it was…

Where’s he going this weekend? Presume tonight is a fuck night then if he’s not going to be home for the weekend?

Just some of her juices that dried up.

I meant he is going away next next weekend. Like from 20th onwards.

Jesus, how wet does she get for it to get on his t-shirt?

You mentioned you might have noticed some small differences when going down on her, but it might have been psychological. What were the differences you noticed?

I get that blowjobs might be out of the question, but what about a handjob? Just find it odd that at times like this one and the previous one where she tried and failed at giving him a blowjob, that he doesn’t want his release, even if it’s just via a handjob.

She could suck his big balls while she wanks his cock, surely that would feel good for him…

I can’t believe you purposefully left them alone, brave move on your part.

How are you feeling now after their session the other day? You sound in a better headspace around it all?

[Coolcalm]

I may be the only one thinking this…idk.

If this is all about sex, and everyone is cool with it, then whatever…knock yourselves out and enjoy.

However…..Danny & Lauren, in my opinion, need to keep something front and center in regards to all this. Adam is NOT, a good dude. He’s not trustworthy, he’s not loyal, he drinks too much, and he’s prone to violent outbursts. Regardless of his BS excuses at to why….thats who he is, and people his age don’t suddenly change.

As a woman who’s had good fuckings delivered from big cocks…there is no sex and no cock worth being involved with long term when it’s attached to a piece of shit human, and all signs lead to that being what Adam is!!!

Absolutely THIS!
Adam is scum and everyone needs to know that going forward.

[Gearup]

Hang in there Danny. Enjoy the ride

[bradisalpha]

Danny,
I also agree that 'coming out as a cuck' would be a bad move.
It would change the dynamics severely forever, with Adam pitying you or looking at you as some freak (not everyone understands our cuck tendencies and how powerful they can be) and also, as some have pointed out it would 'provide ammunition against you' if he ever needed it in the future, plus he might actually just 'let it slip' to his pals. Additionally, he will probably realise, he 'has been played' all along, which is another issue you can do without.

I think the best route is, if Lauren to take Adam aside and tell him she felt so guilty about cheating on you, that she confessed to you.

Lauren says she was stunned when you said that you already knew, as you had noticed her slipping out of bed in the middle of the night. You didn't mention it, because you didn't want to chance everything blowing up and losing her.
Lauren now says she told you, that would never happen and that she loves you, and this cheating is just about sex. (that also reinforces the "it's only FWB going on here" narrative)

She also says she apologised to you, telling you that she initiated the whole thing and seduced Adam (that gets him a guilt free pass).
She then tells Adam that you said that you are OK with it, since he knew that your sex life wasn't enough for her, so in a way he's OK with it (which kind of cucks you, but it doesn't, as you come over as loving and supportive to her as your main priority).

Hope part of my suggestion helps, good luck moving forward and thanks again from me (and no doubt many of our wives/partners who have witnessed an unaccountable explosion in their sex lives .. lol) for sharing all the detail.

I believe this, in detail, is the PERFECT way to expose the “cheating” and yet leave a comfortable path to go forward.

Danny will have to decide when the timing is right, depending on other activities going on around them considering the upcoming holidays, etc. But, it will be important to expose it before any explosions take place, and lead seamlessly into the hot wife/cuckold lifestyle that it is now destined and inevitable.

Again.. just my 2 cents…..

Brad

[joel68]

And one helluva ride it has been. They have only fucked three times by my count. Possibly many hot times ahead down the road.

And, Brad, you are very astute on this.

[Gearup]

Yes, Lauren will go to Adam's bed - likely tonight AND tomorrow night - and he will fuck her a lot but not violently.

assuming no unforeseen issues, this will be a big weekend of fucking for Lauren

after their little talk about his hate fuck and Lauren shutting him down because she was sore, Adam will be more attentive, more gentle making sure she is enjoying it but still go for fucking Lauren in marathon fashion. in his mind, better to fuck Lauren well without putting her out of action for days. Quality and quantity of her orgasms will be his driving goal.

Lauren obviously loves to get fucked and is a willing participant. the intense pleasure of Friday's Fucking will drive her to crave more and have her going right back to Adam Saturday night. She will be pretty tired Sunday but blissfully so. This weekend will be more into "love making" than raw fucking as Adam knows the more pleasure she has the more he will get to fuck her. Lauren will love it. Adam loves fucking Lauren. Who wouldn't?

The only wild card I see might be the option for some daytime fucking if Danny decides to "leave them alone" for an extended period of time during the day on Saturday. If that happens, Adam will be tugging on Lauren's shorts the minute Danny walks out the door.

He is such a lucky bastard

[Rogueuser1]

Danny,

Love the update thanks! My advice is to wait as long as possible - maybe forever - before letting him know you know. You can't take that genie and put it back in the bottle. A better solution may be for you to start hanging out with friends or joint a book club in the evening after dinner - something that gets you out of the house. Even if it isn't real and you just leave the house for two hours every Tuesday night so she can get the fucking she craves without having to lose sleep. Plus a little human contact could be good - just don't go to a bar and start drinking - that is a recipe for disaster.

Second, does Adam have any actual skills when it comes to the trades? A guy his size would be great for welding or HVAC or even plumbing - though he may not want to deal with people's shit all day (see what I did there?? ). He is on a bad path but all is not lost if he can keep his temper in check, his drinking under control, and he is willing to work with his hands. I can see why he feels like a loser - since professionally he is - but maybe you two can help steer him towards something he would be better at. He certainly doesn't sound like someone capable of office work.

[ticklemang]

Can’t wait to see how this progresses. I wonder if there is a chastity cage in your future. I could definitely see that being something Lauren (and maybe Adam) would be interested in.

[ffoy]

My ex-gf said once that sucking a huge cock is very hard but also very arousing
She had a guy of 20cm before me (according to her words)

[RunDannyRun]

Danny,

Second, does Adam have any actual skills when it comes to the trades? A guy his size would be great for welding or HVAC or even plumbing - though he may not want to deal with people's shit all day (see what I did there?? ). He is on a bad path but all is not lost if he can keep his temper in check, his drinking under control, and he is willing to work with his hands. I can see why he feels like a loser - since professionally he is - but maybe you two can help steer him towards something he would be better at. He certainly doesn't sound like someone capable of office work.

Without going into too much detail, He works on cars and trucks now. He is usually the first person I go to when I have car troubles. He was the one who helped pick up my first car. But he had lot of issues previously with the management of various garages. He seemed to have cleaned up his act now.

[Dream Weaver]

...are the wannabe alphas who are always trying to top from the bottom. these you can spot by their tone. they see themselves as the sole authorities, the mansplainers. they’re here to tell everyone what’s what and to police the behavior of others.
....

I think so many men in particular aren't used to advocating for themselves that they do this. I hate to say it, but it's kind of slimy.

I've played with a couple of Cuckold couples and was the stunt dick. I know my role but it can be pretty off-putting when they say one thing, but in reality they do something else. "Oh he's just going to watch" then every 10 seconds he's directing her or trying to tell you how to fuck her, or how to move.

I mean if that's your thing, cool, but let me in on it before hand.

I also have experienced the “top from the bottom” interruptions and instructions.. very irritating. I am very Dominant and nip it in the bud. I give him the choice of not saying a word unless spoken to.. or.. leave the room until he is invited back in. I make it clear that if I am going to fuck his wife that he will also understand that he is the cuckold and he will act like one !! I find the wife much more receptive, relaxed, and MUCH more sexually aroused once her husband is put in his place as she has to put up with his constant interference also.. probably with everything !! .. which makes our time together much hotter, special and satisfying. I have never had a cuckold push back on this Dominance and have seen him accept his submission gracefully and also heighten his sexual experience going forward as he submits to becoming a proper cuckold husband.

It amazes me that Danny is able to even think straight with all the comments and advice coming from all directions here !!! Complements and excited responses are one thing.. but all of the posts telling him what he should do, and what Lauren should do.. and how he should feel, and what’s going to happen if he does this or that.. some from ones that have never even experienced the lifestyle or have been in his position. They don’t even really know him or Lauren !! I would think that is hard to handle in itself. But Danny seems to be handling and controlling the situation quite well on his own.. guiding Lauren and Adam along in there “cheating” adventure. Good for you, Danny !!!

Hell, I might as well add my prediction and advice to everyone else’s !! One day the cheating scenario will wear out and Danny will make a great cuckold to Lauren and her new Alpha Boyfriend !!!

Just my 2 cents worth…..

Brad

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[Cuckcuckgoose1]

So Adam will be here this weekend and gone the next? You were kind enough to give us all a heads up about Lauren wanting to be fucked on Wednesday night. It was hot knowing about it in advance and looking forward to hearing you report on it.

So what about tonight? Is it on? I mean none of you need to get up early for the next two days. And also, do you think she may want to up the ante and have him give it to her again tomorrow night even if she gets it tonight? Would you want her to do that?

And if it's going on this weekend, are you planning on listening to them fuck? Maybe even leaving the door open just a crack? That would be close to watching them, lol.

Hi Joel, sorry for doing this publicly. I know you are really excited but your suggestions often give me anxiety. I am just playing this whole thing by the ear and I give you folks a good summary of what happened, as soon as possible. I ask Lauren countless questions to get her recollect even the minutest details and I am very glad that she doesn't get sick of these needling questions.

I don't know when they will fuck again. I do not know what I will do during that time. If I know, I will let you guys know immediately. Please remember that we are two working professionals who really want to excel at our jobs. I absolutely love the analysis that most folks provide to my updates but asking me when they are going to fuck next and what I am going to do is kind of making me nervous.

ETA: I didn't mean to discourage any kind of discussions around this. But incessantly asking me when is their next fuck is kind of aggravating.

RDR, thanks for addressing the "Pervert Gallery". Perfectly said.

[Rogueuser1]

Danny,

Second, does Adam have any actual skills when it comes to the trades? A guy his size would be great for welding or HVAC or even plumbing - though he may not want to deal with people's shit all day (see what I did there?? ). He is on a bad path but all is not lost if he can keep his temper in check, his drinking under control, and he is willing to work with his hands. I can see why he feels like a loser - since professionally he is - but maybe you two can help steer him towards something he would be better at. He certainly doesn't sound like someone capable of office work.

Without going into too much detail, He works on cars and trucks now. He is usually the first person I go to when I have car troubles. He was the one who helped pick up my first car. But he had lot of issues previously with the management of various garages. He seemed to have cleaned up his act now.

That is encouraging - there are definitely always openings in that field and it is definitely one where you can be forgiven for being a bit temperamental as long as you don't start screaming at a customer or get violet. Hopefully you two can encourage him in that direction even as your wife is providing him "physical support". I doubt you actually want him living with you forever but once he is back on his feet if he ends up visiting twice a week for a home cooked dinner would certainly be reasonable...

[ColoCuck75]

The way things are going reminded me of this cuckold posting I ran across recently. Enjoy!
https://www.tumblr.com/cuckoldlifeofjos ... urce=share

[KevKev]

Danny, how are you feeling about all of this? I'd imagine that you have a lot of conflicting feelings about everything. When Lauren said that Adam was the best lay of her life, did that hurt your feelings terribly or were you okay with it.

[jeffx]

I think the best thing to do is to eventually tell Adam that you and Lauren have an open marriage and that she'd asked if it was OK for her to see Adam and you agreed.

I think it would be very harmful for your relationship with Adam and your friends and family that he could tell out of anger or disgust at you, if you were to tell him that you're a cuck.

By calling it an open marriage, he won't look down on you, as you're also going out and seeing other women. (Which you aren't)

With the next guy you can let him know you're a cuck if you want, but I REALLY don't think you should with Adam.

As I've said before, I think Adam was a dangerous choice and I don't think he just wants sex with Lauren.

[davidm205]

Danny simple suggestion to keep from being burned out. Ignore the hordes here! I just read your inputs only. With everything on your plate easy to get burned out. Maybe pm any here you find informative. Keep that dialogue private.Just simple suggestion….. You need to be on your top game dealing with this….

[sandy691196]

Danny,

Love the update thanks! My advice is to wait as long as possible - maybe forever - before letting him know you know. You can't take that genie and put it back in the bottle. A better solution may be for you to start hanging out with friends or joint a book club in the evening after dinner - something that gets you out of the house. Even if it isn't real and you just leave the house for two hours every Tuesday night so she can get the fucking she craves without having to lose sleep. Plus a little human contact could be good - just don't go to a bar and start drinking - that is a recipe for disaster.

Second, does Adam have any actual skills when it comes to the trades? A guy his size would be great for welding or HVAC or even plumbing - though he may not want to deal with people's shit all day (see what I did there?? ). He is on a bad path but all is not lost if he can keep his temper in check, his drinking under control, and he is willing to work with his hands. I can see why he feels like a loser - since professionally he is - but maybe you two can help steer him towards something he would be better at. He certainly doesn't sound like someone capable of office work.

I am sure Danny too is thinking about some scheme whereby he can leave the house for Lauren to get her fucking without losing sleep. One night of lost sleep per week would work out if Lauren gets a second fuck in the evenings on Saturdays.. like you are suggesting.

This would give them their twice a week fucking without both times being "sleepless"..

[jenisonherway6]

RDR,
how do you define “cuckold”? what does it mean to you?

does your aversion to taking on the label for yourself have anything to do with Adam’s right wing political bent and the common use of the term as an epithet against liberals?

[Luigical1931]

I normally wake up about now and wonder ‘I wonder if Lauren has gone down to Adam yet’. Your story is like a drug.

Loads of comments and opinions on here, take them all with a pinch of salt. You know the situation best, you’re sharing snippets of information and people are trying to tell you what to do next like they’ve known you your whole life.

What you three are doing is hot as fuck, see where it takes you. If at any point somebody isn’t happy then stop and figure it out (which you already did successfully at the start of the week).

Enjoy the ride. It’s what you wanted originally and I’m pretty sure it’s everything you wanted so far?

Hoping for an update again while it’s in the middle of the action today, but if not don’t worry