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Should a hotwife remove her wedding rings when she dates?

Only if she wants to, or has to, in order to consummate the prospective relationship.

I'm always been okay with my wife letting men think she's "cheating" on me, simply because it means she doesn't scare off men who would be weirded out by the HW thing. For her and me, it's always been about her pleasure, and whatever she has to do to get a man in bed with her is fine with me.

I've never been a fan of this but I will defer to the decisions made regarding the nature of the objective at the time. Since most of my wife's partners KNEW the both of us (longtime friends) her rings were never an issue. When she went OFF the reservation it was usually under "deep cover"... meaning that not even her husband knew about it, so I can't address that circumstance.

When -I- went off the reservation I wore mine; I wanted my candidates to know I was married.

If she's a hot wife that means her husband knows she fucking someone. Why would she have to remove the wedding rings in that case? It should be no secret to the parties involved that she's married and her husband is okay with it. Just my opinion.

I agree with Tomwolfe. My wife Cindy's current B.F. thinks he is involved with a women who is cheating on her husband. She cares for him to much & does not want to risk losing him to tell him the truth.

My personal opinion is no. It has a greater meaning to be married to me than it does sleeping with any other person, so says she when I asked her prior to this thread. She also had a guy once ask if she wanted him to cum on her ring. I thought she was going to punch him and he was a pretty big dude. Were both just not into that type of humiliation. The symbol of our marriage our rings are sacred to us. Back in the day when I'd get pissed at her for something I'd take it off that used to really hurt her. Yes, I know I was a jerk!

That said there is a lot of merit to what TW says. We have known guys that were very interested in her and she was hot for them as well. As soon as they found out she was a Hotwife and that I knew interest died off. It was about taking off the ring but thinking he was man enough to make her want to cheat on me. So I would say I share Mickey's thinking but Ikmstkm has a good point too. Having been scratched a time or two myself by that rock.

After all is said and done, she is still a married woman, and I'm glad to say, my wife! She feels the same way, so the rings never leave her finger

I love when she brings home pic's of her left hand w/ wedding ring wrapped around a nice, fat, hard cock that she is about to have.... oh YUM!

I would never consider removing my wedding rings as a precursor for sex with any man. I'm a married woman when it starts.... with whatever that might imply (possibly danger?), and I'll be a married woman when it's done. A man not mature enough to cope with that idea should look elsewhere.

I may tweak the scenario to suit MY whims. I might say that my husband knows about such behavior and will be told everything.... or I might give the appearance of a wayward wife cheating on a clueless husband ; if a prospective partner doesn't like anything he see's, he's free to walk -- as am I.

Diane

Ring huh? If one takes them off are they doing so to "protect" that relationship or "reject it?" Guess it's the person in question that needs to answer that. I don't think about my ring really, it's that's cause I don't lie about what's up with me yes I'm married you know this.

To expand a bit on what texans_at_play above said, my wife attracted the attentions of a really hot Jamaican performer on one of our trips to Hedo II. Among other things, I have a tremendous photo of he and my wife, both totally naked, and him laying on his back with a huge hard-on while my wife lay next to him on her side and pumped his monster cock to orgasm while she french kissed him. The photo captures their passionate kiss at the same time her hand is still wrapped around his cock with his dripping cum in gobs all over her wedding rings and curled fingers. That photo gets me hard every time I even THINK about it.

May we see the photo, please?

bubbajack wrote:May we see the photo, please?

I'd truly love to post it Bubbajack but wifey has told me that if I ever post a photo of her she will turn me into a eunich.
Sorry

Intrepid in Florida wrote:

bubbajack wrote:May we see the photo, please?

I'd truly love to post it Bubbajack but wifey has told me that if I ever post a photo of her she will turn me into a eunich.
Sorry

Now *that's* motivation!

Ok so Im apparently not in the norm but I do remove my ring when I go on dates. With the exception of when Im with M. I do this because in the beginning I wore my ring and on a first date with a FB(around valentines day) a waitress made a comment about is this your Valentines date and how long have you been together and it was awkward for both of us so now I take the ring off when I go out (I do still wear it on the initial "meet and greet" meeting which is usually just a cup of coffee or a quick drink). Hubby and I have discussed getting a ring that symbolizes our relationship but is not my wedding ring set that I could wear on my left middle finger when I go out but we havent yet. Hubby doesnt care if I wear my ring so this is how I prefer to do it.

Jill always has her rings on, she says she finds it more exciting, and often rubs them with her finger when she is having sex with other men, and it really does excite her. She feels like a "bad girl", and I love that! :-)

The wedding ring symbolizes the eternal nature of the bond you hope to have with your husband. The rings location, on your ring finger of your rigth hand, symbolizes the vows taken. Hopefully all of us want to have the symbol of a lasting relationship always present. Some may choose to move the ring to the left hand to symbolize vows taken being broken? Namely,the fidelity vow, taken by many of us I'm sure. Others, may see the cum dripping from the ring, as it sits on the wife's rigth hand, a symbol of her naughtiness, somthing both her husband and she are aroused by. I think removal of the ring altogether may symbolize her departure from her relationship from her husband altogether, albeit even for short while, this may prove harmful.

mrsJ wrote:Ok so Im apparently not in the norm but I do remove my ring when I go on dates. With the exception of when Im with M. I do this because in the beginning I wore my ring and on a first date with a FB(around valentines day) a waitress made a comment about is this your Valentines date and how long have you been together and it was awkward for both of us so now I take the ring off when I go out

Not to hijack the thread but this might demonstrate how your concerns are more about nervous anxiety than anything external (like a flashing sign on your forehead.)

I was in a restaurant with my daughter; 16, and somewhat precocious. We were across the table from one another, leaning forward with our fingers intertwined on the table as she was relating a cute story about her boyfriend at school (confiding in Dad.) The server appeared, looked us both up and down, then raised her eyebrows at this 40 year old man and his wedding ring! My daughter, not one to pass up a good opportunity to show off, took my hand in both of hers and asked the woman, "He thinks I'm too young for him. What do you think?"

The server blanched, gave me a withering look, then addressed my daughter. "Well, whatever floats your boat, dear... go for it." Fortunately she didn't call me "Daddy" in front of the woman!

You could have told the waitress you were "second cousins" and let her spin it however she wanted... or that the man was "the last one on your agenda for today". You can be sure she's probably heard worse.

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My wife never removes her wedding ring when she has sex with her bull

My wife always wears her ring. She says, jokingly, that the only reason she married me was to have a husband to fuck around on. She loves showing me pics of her ring with her hand wrapped around a lovers hard cock and has been known to IM them to me while she is out playing.

A wedding ring on a woman represents a challenge that a prospective lover cannot easily dismiss. It is more fun, always, to seduce or be seduced by a woman who is "taken."
The sex is better when there is the added thrill of being with a "cheating" woman. Sex is about lust and passion, but let's not ignore the surge of power a man enjoys when he is fucking another man's wife. And I think some married women also get a thrill knowing they are engaged in an activity that society frowns on, something naughty and daring but very exciting.

Nope, when she is with another man the main thing that she needs to remove are her Panties. The wedding ring can stay on her finger.

My wife lovingly keeps her rings (which I designed and gave as a wedding gift) and always stroke the other guy's cock with her left hand and later guides it into her pussy with her ring hand. Lots of symbolism there. And when she rides a cock she will turn her upper body towards me, showing the Tiffany heart necklace I gave her for Valentine's Day and mouth, "I love you" then grin as she sees me stroking my very hard cock.

Leaving her rings on are a reminder to all involved that she is 'fucking around' and is 'married'. The bull gets a thrill from fucking this beautiful wife ... knowing that her husband knows. The wife is then constantly reminded that her sexuality is more important than her marriage and that she can be both a wife as well as a lover to men other than her husband. The husband is reminded that the woman that he pledged to love is still able to fuck other men... and his role is acceptance of her desires. Those around these three get to see the wife, her lover and her husband all playing the roles that they so desire.

Mrs M wears her wedding rings when she fucks her lovers.