Did sexual dysfunction play a role in turning you cuckold ?

[gazdenied]

This is totally yes for me. Since for as long as I can remember I've had a problem maintaining an erection, I don't last very long when I do and I'm small (3.5" at best) and thin. The best thing really was to be a loving and adoring cuckold to my lovely (slut) wife. It certainly works for me.

[mhlman]

It was not so much sexual disfunction as it was sexual molestation. When I was about 13 my uncle would babysit with his girlfriend. After he sent us to bed she would give him a blowjob. Once when I was getting up to hit the can I went by the family room and watched from the dark while my uncle got a blowjob. He didn't see me but she did. As she caught my eye I froze. My uncle was a real Hardass and I knew if I was caught I would be in big trouble but I could not stop watching. After she was done and my uncle was asleep she came into my room. She sat on the side of my bed and asked if I was excited. She reached under the covers and jerked me off. This became a bit of a routine but sometimes she would take me in the bathroom and play with my cock and ass. It progressed until she was putting the toilet plunger handle my ass. I knew it was wrong but she knew just how to hit the sweet spot and she would Laugh when I came like that. I can't tell you how sad I was when my Uncle split up with her. I was also a voracious reader and read every book in my dads library which included books like Mandingo that told of naughty women that wanted those big black taboo cocks. This also heed to shape my sexual proclivities to this day.

This is exactly similar to my teenage experience.

[carolinacuck]

Having a small penis (under 5") was the primary reason I became a cuckold. C told me some stories of her well hung BF's, and I realized how much she missed that aspect of sex...and of course it turned me on.

[theothercuck]

No, I have a 7 inch penis, it's 8 if I'm really excited. A huge part of it though was that we were doing long distance and she was at a summer camp, skinny dipping with a lot of young, fit guys every night. So I suppose part of it was that she wasn't getting as much action as she wanted.

[slowsteady]

Read the myriad postings on this site from men regarding their various sexual dysfunctions. Notice the way that many guys channel sexual deficiencies toward cuckolding thoughts and ideas. Interest in all aspects of a wife getting sex from capable lovers increases to the point that some couples sample and eventually embrace and practice cuckoldry. One thing leads to another and a lifestyle might develop. One where a couple somehow accepts the wife's loins becoming soiled by seed other than hubby's.

I've noticed that the harsh realities a number of cuckold husbands must deal with tends to emasculate some of them. This results in humongous sexual dysfunction among those cuckolds. They are soon replaced by capable lovers and alienated from the cunt of his own wife. His balls have been blown off by his wife's amorous attentions and behavior to her lover......... You want to talk sexual dysfunction? Look at all the cuckolds comfortable wearing panties. How about all the cucks who are infatuated with their wife's fit lover. They lust to blow or get fucked in the ass by her lover. Then there are the cuckolds craving denial and chastity and/or immerse themselves deeply into sissydom. There are plenty of sex capable cuckolds out there. That said, I believe that the majority of cuckolds have some serious degree of sexual dysfunction. Sure, there are plenty of cuckolds who jerk off excitedly as their wife dates and fucks other men. However, I believe that the majority of cuckolds suffer cuckold related sexual dysfunction. They cum too quick or can't cum at all. Their limp cocks loosely dangle in their pants, panties or CBs and basically serve as ornaments or decals of "manhood".

Many cuckolds are very happy in marriage and certainly enjoy living the lifestyle! They have much sex with their wives and wouldn't change anything about their cuckolding! No argument.

I feel that the majority of cuckolds walk around with their balls blown off. Other men fuck their wives in their own bed. Wives deny sex to the cuck and lavish exotic sex on their lovers. Women rule them and call all the shots. Etc, etc, etc, etc......

If you are a cuckold, odds are that you suffer some serious sexual dysfunction as a direct result! It comes with the territory.

[dbishop]

I’ve thought about this a lot and I think yes I’m an indirect way. Younger I had a lot of performance anxiety to the point I thought I had serious ED. I didn’t and I got over it mostly. And I have a big dick and am decent in bed. But I’ve still always kept the anxiety and usually can’t get hard for a while the first time.

So I think part of what I love about all of this is when another man is fucking my wife it takes all the pressure and expectation off me.

[SailorGuy]

I wouldn't call it "dysfunction" on my part, because when I first shared my fantasy with my wife we were excellent lovers together. The fantasy made it even better.
My wife was attracted to me largely for emotional/personal intimacy reasons. I was a nice guy who listened to her and talked with her, not just some "guy" who always had the ulterior motive of wanting to get laid.
So why the fantasy? LOL! Who knows? But it was there and I told her about it. My wife really got into it too. As a fantasy. We never dreamed it would actually become a reality.
But it did, in a kind of "organic" way, without us having to go out and look for someone. A neighbor we'd already known for years had recently divorced. He hit on my wife while I was out of town, and my wife - knowing my fantasy - decided to go for it.
He wasn't the kind of guy she'd ever think of being with or marrying. Not her type at all. And yet: his being different, and the fact that she knew she was secure in a good marriage with me, and the fact that she knew I wanted this, all led to her deciding to go to bed with this man.
And what she experienced with him just blew her away. Never been with a Man like this! He was very well endowed and knew how to please a woman.
When she told me about it all I was thrilled beyond belief. Especially when she told me about his cock and his physicality with her.
I asked her to please continue with this man, and she was happy to oblige. Now, twenty years later, she and I have evolved into a cuckold relationship. I haven't been allowed to have any kind of intimate contact with my wife for years. I am very happy to masturbate while she tells me about her great sex life.

[hotfreaks]

My turning into a cuckold is 2 fold. When I was younger I started reading penthouse letters and playboy articles about guys who enjoyed sharing there wives and girlfriends. And 2nd, when my wife and I first got together, she was still with her ex bf and seeing me on the side. I knew they were still having sex, however 1 text reignited the thought of all the articles I read. She sent me a text 1 night saying that sex with me was so different. Nothing dirty, however I knew she must have just gotten fucked, and it turned me on. 15 years later it still does. I also know I have a small cock, so that also adds to the thrill of sharing her with other men. That, and the fact that she is so hot, it would be selfish of me not to share her, and let other men feel the joy of being with her.

[Misslindassub]

possibly more the opposite combined with being a complete pervert,
I've always been more sexually dominant often into bdsm as a Dom/Master enjoying many women.

I grew bored, and tired, it's a lot of work being in charge.

[slowsteady]

possibly more the opposite combined with being a complete pervert,
I've always been more sexually dominant often into bdsm as a Dom/Master enjoying many women.

I grew bored, and tired, it's a lot of work being in charge.

Good answer!

[vmb69]

I would say for us it started before any disfunction. But with a case of ED, and already not being the biggest guy. My wife as decided that my best role is to be a cuck, and that the cock cage is a great way to handle my ED. She says she cant use it then it shouldn't be used. As of a couples months now we have experimenting with cock cages. We have finally gotten the holy trainer and I have been as of today locked for 6 days, just coming out for showers and the gym, sometimes she unlocks it so I can a bit if a breather. Next week she wants me to wear it day and night, unlocked to shower only, and the week after same.

[ErikaPeter]

Not really. My husband developed mild ED as he grew older, but it was reasonably well managed with Cialis. He was also actually quite good at pleasuring me. For us, it was a matter of opening up to new and varied experiences. In retrospect, some of my new partners are better than my husband sexually, either because of physical attributes or because of skill. However, I was never really dissatisfied with my husband. I just wanted to push the boundaries of taboo behavior, and to enjoy more variety.

[mfm4bnc]

Not getting pregnant when trying increased my cum fantasies...

[NC-hotwife-hubby]

Erikapeter, I agree 100%

[Mark01]

I know for my wife and I, my sexual inadequacies probably helped my wife to turn me into her cuckold. I have had the desire to be cuckolded since our relationship began but she flat out refused to open her legs for anyone else. I have always had a very small wee wee, under four inches when erect but when we first got together I could at least maintain an erection and had some sexual stanima. My wife became pregnant with our child and after giving birth my little wee wee never fit right in her beautiful pussy again. Disappointment after disappointment led to sexual frustration for my wife.
Soon my sexual inadequacies made me feel emasculated. My erections started to weaken and I began to prematurely ejaculate when I could maintain an erection.

Since my wife cannot not have an orgasm clitorally it became quite onvious that I would never sexual satisfy her again by having traditional sex. As a replacement for my pathetic member I bought her large black dildos and her eyes would roll back into to back of her head as I fucked her with an eight inch, then ten inch, and evern a 13" inch dildo.

As I bacame replaced in my martial bed with silicone I started to feel like less and less of a man. Soon I began wearing woman's panties filled with thick maxipads and even tampons. I turned into a complete sissy and one could only imagine how disappointed my wife was. Maxipads were eventually replaced with very thick and very pink disposavle diapers and I basically turned into a little girl full time im the bedroom.

My wife was extremely sexually deprived and frustrated until her ex-boyfriend contacted her one day. Their talk quickly turned sexual and within one week his 9" cock was buried deep into her neglected pussy. The day I became her cuckold I decided that since I was no longer man enough to fuck my wife that I belonged in diapers permanently and I have worn them everyday since. Her life most definitely changed as she finally could feel like a real woman again since she had a real man to not only fuck her but also give her such earth shattering orgasms that her lips would go numb. I needed to be replaced in the bedroom and I was.

[ArizonaGuy]

I have not had sexual intercourse with my wife since January 2018. I started wearing panties this pass January when she throw out my boxers and told me I didn't need them anymore. After a long thought and finally making a decision that has been a long time coming I told her I want to become feminine. After a lengthy discussion, she is okay with my desire to change and then I started using estrogen. I have told two female friends what I have decided and they both are okay with my decision. Finally I had a conversation with HW's FB and told him what was going on. He was a little taken back but he is okay with my change. Dropped a bomb shell and asked him to become the male in our relationship. So, now I am on estrogen twice a day, wearing panties every day coming feminine each day.

I told them I have changed by name to a feminine name which is " Pauline" and they agreed to call me Pauline. That also goes for anyone on "Our Hotwives" calling me my feminine name.

Pauline

[Naplescuck]

I’m a cuck-wannabe, and I’ve told my wife several times.....not lately, but perhaps it’s time again. Anyway, part of my wanting to be a cuckold (soooooo bad) is because I want to see her pleasured, in a way I know I can never give her and I know 1000 percent that she can experience with “the right man or the right men”. And yes, I guess you could call it sexual dysfunction or you could just say I’m lacking. I know it, it’s a fact, my wife knows it, she’s told me from the very first time I entered her and consistently throughout our 30 years of marriage. But when I look back at all the women I dated and slept with (there were 43) there were little things and big things that I didn’t put together until I found “cuckold” information well into (10 or 12) years of marriage. I just thought I was some kind of weirdo, nut, or perv (because I thought I was the only one having these thoughts) that got so hard, so turned on by the idea of my girlfriends and then my wife being fucked and satisfied by a nice size cock and by extension a man that knew he had a nice size cock

[Wooster]

Absolutely. I've always had a difficult time getting hard and especially staying hard. From the beginning of our relationship, we agreed that she would be free to date whoever she wanted, since I knew she wasn't going to get enough quality or quantity of sex from me. That's been great for me since there's no pressure to perform, and therefore no frustration and conflict about sex. When she started dating her current boyfriend, it became clear that their relationship was going to be much more than just sexual. I suggested that she save sex exclusively for him, so that that could be a special thing they share together. She happily agreed, and we're doing very well this way a few years in.

[gandhhotspot]

yes. I developed pyeronies. we had previously talked about getting a 3rd for her needs because I am tiny 4" not thick and cum off way too fast. She has told me she pleasures herself every day. Now she bought herself a pegging strapon. to use on me.

[stevens4fun]

Very sexy! Thanks for sharing with us!

Is the seven year itch a dysfunction? My wife told me no for years thinking I would be jealous. Tired of the nagging she had an old boyfriend send a couple videos of them fucking. She jerked me off to the video pointing out what a good fuck her ex was. I came everywhere. Later she caught me watching the video. The dysfunction was when I was younger and I used to get horribly jealous

[stevens4fun]

I've been married twice. My ex noted that I got really hard when she talked about having sex with other guys. She liked the idea that I'd be hard as a rock watching her having sex with another guy, and I couldn't touch her until she was finished with him. Later, as we aged a bit, I wasn't getting as hard as I used to, and she expressed a desire for a long term lover who would get harder and stay hard inside her. That's kind of how it evolved and it usually involved slightly younger guys.

[Minnhotwife]

I’m a cuck-wannabe, and I’ve told my wife several times.....not lately, but perhaps it’s time again. Anyway, part of my wanting to be a cuckold (soooooo bad) is because I want to see her pleasured, in a way I know I can never give her and I know 1000 percent that she can experience with “the right man or the right men”. And yes, I guess you could call it sexual dysfunction or you could just say I’m lacking. I know it, it’s a fact, my wife knows it, she’s told me from the very first time I entered her and consistently throughout our 30 years of marriage. But when I look back at all the women I dated and slept with (there were 43) there were little things and big things that I didn’t put together until I found “cuckold” information well into (10 or 12) years of marriage. I just thought I was some kind of weirdo, nut, or perv (because I thought I was the only one having these thoughts) that got so hard, so turned on by the idea of my girlfriends and then my wife being fucked and satisfied by a nice size cock and by extension a man that knew he had a nice size cock

Thanks for sharing your experiences with us! You are definitely not alone and glad you found OHW.

Although we are now moving towards swapping and swinging, I am always down for my wife fucking other guys as much as she can.

Is that Naples FL or IT?

[hasabrain2]

Some guys have a double whammy, small dick and premature.

Women (and men) deserve sexual satisfaction.

I appreciate men who know they are inadequate. That they love their women so much they want to see her satisfied by another.

[Misslindassub]

Dysfunction ? maybe but only as functioning dysfunctional pervert,
I've always been more of a pussy hound and Dom until the last few years where I've recognized submission and cuckolding as another fantastic perversion to add to the menu.( although for some reason more hung up on on this kink ).

[Des 31]

I don't consider dysfunction as the stimulus for me to want my wife to seek other guys. Our marital sex had become routine, even boring at times, for each of us. I had thoughts for years before how exciting it would be for other men to fuck her, but the routineness was the trigger. It took about a year to convince her. She was then 28, now 35, and loves the freedom to have sex with other men. Our marital sex improved. She became a more confident woman and is generally happier in about every way.

I tell her I'm as thrilled as she each time someone else is fucking her, but she laughs about that and says she doesn't quite see how that's possible. She prefers to be one on one with another guy, so I either stay home if she is away or sleep in our guest room whenever she has a visitor. If she is leaving to be fucked, I'm typically jerking off at our front window as she backs out the driveway. When I'm relegated to our guest room, I'm masturbating while she is being fucked.

Although my wife and I still have sex, there are times I feel dysfunctional when I see other guys' display of stamina and my wife's glorious reaction to them fucking her. I realize another guy fucking a woman he isn't in constant contact with is going to be more enthusiastic and that's true with the wife as well. But it does cause an occasional wish of "Wow. I wish it was that way with me and her." But it's almost always better for a woman than with the guy she has been living with for years. My wife says. If it wasn't better with another man, what would be the point of doing it at all?" I can't argue with that logic.

~ Des