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I have read lots of SPH or cuckold stories, and seen cuckold MEMEs which endourse the the idea that the cuck is "worthless in bed" or "only good at eating pussy." Along the same lines of the idea that if you are blind your other senses become more developed. For a few years before my wife overcame her fears and made me a cuckold, she let me know that my dicklet didn't have what it took, but I was "great" at oral. The third guy she fucked after becoming a hotwife, ate her pussy in front of me. She was remiss to let him at first, but I encouraged her to relax. She responded to his tongue even more than to mine, and after he left admitted that he was "better". I am over fifty and have ate more pussy than I have fucked. Always thought that I was great at it. I now realize that I am just average of slightly above average, but not great. Anyone else??

I would not worry too much about how she responds to him, until after this had been going on for six or more months. It's NRE. You know the saying, no matter how hot a girl is, some guy is tired of fucking her? Well it goes the same way with women, they get tired of fucking same guy. No matter how great he is, she has more to try out, who are new and unexplored, so she will dump him and move to the next.

My wife brags to her girlfriends that I'm the best she's ever had but a while back she met with a black bull and he had her orgasming hard within a couple of minutes of going down on her! When I questioned her about it later she said he was as good as me but not better, he just seemed to know exactly how to trip her trigger. I can't get her off that quick without some other foreplay leading up to it, and he pretty much did it right off the starting line! I think she was just trying to stay with what she has always said about me being the best but I'm okay with someone else doing her better and told her so.

My wife says I give the best face she's ever had. However, no matter how good it is, she prefers a nice hard cock. I'm good to take the edge off during the week but come the weekend, she needs something thick and hard.

My wife is impressed at how well I eat her pussy and how much I enjoy it. By comparison, her exes didn't eat pussy. She didn't ask them to because 1) she craves vaginal sex, 2) she believes men prefer vaginal sex, 3) she considers oral to be gross, so she only gave bj on rare occasions to demonstrate willingness to sacrifice. She receives oral only when I instigate. She probably gets somewhat turned on seeing me doing what most men won't do, rather than the actual physical stimulation because that pales compares to fucking for her.

She had a coworker (Coco) who talked openly about vanilla sex with new partners frequently. Coco was disappointed that some men refused to give oral. With that knowledge, she enjoyed oral a bit more. But as that slips into the distant past, she doesn't show any desire for oral.

As far as the cuckold oral myth, I feel pleasure from eating pussy because 1) the texture, taste and smell are fascinatingly arousing to me, 2) the meaning of being in the lower position suits me, and 3) I can explore inside the pussy more than I can with my dick. I'm probably not better at anything compared to a man who fucks my wife well, but I'd say I'm more content and willing to eat pussy.

Btw, I also like to taste and eat whatever come out of a pussy. My wife is used to wiping up whatever comes out of her pussy to avoid messiness so the man can fully enjoy fucking a clean pussy.

Voted #2, she's had better, but not by much. I'm very good, I've been told by multiple women including my wife.

My wife says I am the best she has ever had in the oral department but FAR from the best she has ever had penetrative sex with.
Her big cocked lovers make her wetter and bring her to orgasm -- I can't with my dick - just my tongue.
As far as better sex, she loves cumming from oral but she admits her BEST, STRONGEST orgasms come form a big cock fucking her.

Yes, my wife often tells me I am 'the best." But she also admits it's more fun with other men. I understand that. I live with her day to day, and they're not as familiar. Her most regular fuckbuddy is her boss and that's been ongoing for almost a year, now once a month. At first they were at it often and once spent five days together. I "date" her wife on the nights she and her boss are together, but neither my wife nor her boss will allow intercourse between his wife and me, and we respect their wishes.

my wife always liked me eating her pussy. I liked it too. much better than fucking it. she eventually said that my mouth and tongue was the only way I could make her orgasm. fortunately she now has a Man in her life with a Man sized cock.

Can it even be done wrong? It's always seemed pretty self-explanatory, and I've never had any complaints.

Regardless, to me pussy licking is a subservient act period, so even if you're good at it, you're still a loser cuck.

My wife has never said i am the best. In fact we didn't do a lot of oral prior to her hotwifing. Still, i try.

It’s not come up in our conversation. Whenever we’ve made any comparison Ann’s always said it’s different not better and she enjoys it all. Most of her boyfriends consider giving her oral as a warm up

My feeling is that I am the best because she gets incredibly turned on when I go down on her after her boyfriend has cum inside her, which none of them do.

I have only met one woman/girl that didn’t enjoy receiving oral sex and she was embarrassed about her flappy lips.

This post seems to evidence what many folks feel about giving women oral: they love it the most frequently with their husbands and long term partners with whom they may have done it for many months/years. Yes the novelty of a new tongue (and mouth) is great, but your husband has over the long haul, and probably with you navigating his head to the “right” place and moaning louder when his tongue hit the “right” spot with the right movement and the right pressure or suction, become an expert lingualist, and not just a big talker. And because a good husband, esp, if a cuckold, is motivated to do it “right” even if it takes great patience and unselfish focus and empathy, to learn just where you like it, with which kind of movements, and the precise snout of lingual pressure and sucking of the clit through his teeth or gums. Even the “best” clit artist husbands were not “great” the first (dozen) times. But good cucks instinctively work hard at knowing their hotewifes’s every preference and over time a good cuck frequently becomes an excellent, even “best” oralist. However, a cuck with inferior penisparts can never satisfy his wife in the usual masculine way no matter how hard he wants to and tries: that is why inevitably he, at best, is relegated to being your “celibate” and “platonic” servant, though masterful at giving head and licking up your lovers’ delicious cream from your lovely vulva and vagina.
BTW, any cuck who was the “best,” but has slipped in the ratings, you can regain your former title by going back to trying harder (no pun intended) and asking your wife to communicate in real time what sensations and locations are the now the best. After experiencing other good lovers, a wife’s erotic and sensual preferences may change as she finds new things that feel good. If you sincerely are anxious to be the best licker again, you will figure out her new wants and refine your technique to satisfy with your wife’s new needs and you’ll hold the crown again (pun intended). And if you don’t it probably means that the humiliation of not being #1 in any respect, is far more rewarding for your masochistic personality than regaining your supremacy at vaginal/clitoral lingual stimulation.

Welcome to the forum obedient husband. The other thing good oral technique does is makes a woman horny and easy for subsequent orgasms. A good oral technique can cause orgasm in record time and just make it easy for the next guy or next orgasm.

My wife has told me I'm very good, but hasn't said if I'm her best or not. At the end of the day, though, nothing makes her cum better than a large cock.

In what became "our club", many men dived between her legs to lick her pussy.
LadyD, my wife, loved it.
I asked her several times if someone did it better than I did, but it the answer was always that I was experienced in it. But as said by another poster, she admitted it is more fun with other men.

Till some day she confessed that the night before a man brought her to unexpected levels.
She: "There were men before who were as good as you, perhaps even better. But this man hadn't only the stamina, he let me discover the secrets of licking I never experienced before. I thanked him for his extraordinary efforts. He said it was all his pleasure and thanked me because of my extraordinary cooperation and hoped to meet me more times."
I asked her what was so extraordinary.
She: "If I came he was able to continue to keep me cumming without it was too much for me. He always switched to my pee hole to let me recover a little. So don't asked me how many times I came. All I can say is that I was in a state of a continuous orgasm."

Dinoo

Saturday night my wife was with a new guy, and he joined the ranks of the few who have actually made her squirt, something I have never been able to do. This is the third guy to do so, and he literally had her squirming on the bed and cumming within a minute or so of going down on her. He definitely outclassed me! I've seen one other guy have that effect on her and I doubt if it has any bearing on it, but both of them were black guys!

She told me after the first guy, that it is a combination of them fingering her pussy while they lick her clit. The third guy did it with just his fingers. I have tried but I have never been able to get it right. She eventually told me "It's alright dear, you just don't have the touch, but I still love how you lick my pussy!"

At least when you are in a long term relationship there is a con, but also pros for your sexlife.
Con: With time sex could become always the same and become boring if you do not work against this.
But there is also an even bigger pro: You get to know better and should exactly know what she likes most in which way in which situation.
That is not saying something new could not be, because it might be new and exciting, but it might harder for anew guy to hit the nail head on.. That said I do kot know if I might be the best, but I am confident, that I am well above average.
But again it is not that surprising when you het much more opportunities to learn than the average vanilla couple.

My partner was solo play only but I got the sense that not many of her bulls went down on her whereas I gladly did so!