@subguy80 - I would like to hear from you. I often worry about you.
subguy80 wrote: Wed Sep 05, 2018....She told me she wants to give him a “present.” She asked me what I thought about the idea of giving him exclusive use of her pussy. I said of course, since she has denied me intercourse in the past where a BF was giving it to her regularly. At those times I actually enjoyed it and made up for the loss with amazing oral with her. But this time she says she wants to restrict my tongue as well.......She wants to see what effect it has on him. She thinks he’ll really get turned on to get that kind of power.
[apologies for using crude language here] For a guy who wasn't really a bull and not initiated in cuckolding/hotwife/D/s or any specialist lifestyle - this must have been an amazing gift, totally unreal and unexpected. It would be really interesting to see how he responded to it over a period of time. To get complete access to a super-hot super-sweet beauty like Sarah, with no interference whatsoever from her husband, and no need to seduce or romance or spend anytime outside the bed (of course Jamal did eventually bring wonderful friendship on the table for you both later on). Whenever you need her just let your needs be known and then either the husband takes the kids out to icecream and you can go and enjoy the woman or the husband moves to a motel while the kids are at grandparents and you get the woman for a whole weekend! And she is available to you for quickies every morning (actually not just quickies...depends on how much time you have...she will be available for you). This kind of gift must have seemed like a gift from the top level God to Jamal. That's why he changed his life/career plans and stayed back in your town to continue relationship with Sarah.
Of course, most of what I have written in above is my reading of the situation and it might colored by my own fantasies. It would be good to know the reality.
Looking back at last 7-8 months how would you characterize the impact of the power (the "premium exclusivity") that Sarah gave as present to Jamal on him?
subguy80 wrote: Wed Apr 03, 2019
the big, big new is we're having intercourse again after seven months....It took me by complete surprise and I didn't say anything...She started rocking and we had this incredible, amazingly intimate sex. Afterwards, as we were laying together in the afterglow, I didn't want to ruin the moment by talking about "what just happened," so we feel asleep like that.
Over the past few weeks, we've talked a bit about the "change in rules," but not that much...I haven't asked her if Jamal knows. I've decided to let her take the lead on this new development. I didn't write about it at first because I wasn't sure it would continue or if it was Sarah being horny and spontaneous.....So, yes, things are great.
If you don't mind me asking are the "changed rules" still in effect or have you found yourself cut-off again?
Does Jamal know that rules have changed or Sarah decided that this aspect is meant to be kept private between you two.
Have you done an Root Cause Analysis using 5 Whys or whatever methodology you were taught to follow to understand why Sarah changed the rules? Can you share the conclusions of your investigation please?
How would you characterize the impact on Jamal when Sarah took the ownership of her sexuality back from him (if he knows)?
Finally, it'd be great to get an update on your plans to take the three-wheeled couple on vacations. It will be lovely break for you three!