Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

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How did your stamina change after becoming a cuckold?

My stamina significantly improved
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14%
My stamina slightly improved
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5%
My stamina did not change
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19%
My stamina slightly decreased
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15%
My stamina significantly decreased
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47%
 
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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by D+D » Fri Dec 23, 2016 8:30 am

When we first started, we fucked like crazy after she had been out with someone. As we progressed, I became more cuckold for some reason. We don't fuck as often. If I don't think of her big cocked boyfriend fucking her, I do OK. If I think of him or if she mentions his big black cock, I'm done in one big gigantic orgasm. Poof!, it's over.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by Cuckold53188 » Fri Dec 23, 2016 8:38 am

fragile3013 wrote:
bradisalpha wrote:
platov wrote:
Pinks Hubby wrote: At the moment while I am at the height of my sexual pleasure, cumming inside of her, I am also humiliated at the fact that I can no longer fuck my wife the way that she deserves to be fucked. In the moments afterwards, I begin to accept that she deserves to be sexually satisfied by another man who can fuck her better than me. She now needs to cuckold me for her benefit. It wouldn't be fair to her for me to deny her that benefit.

It's not my choice anymore to be a cuckold. I let that fact sink in those moments. I may have approached my wife years ago about this fantasy, and wanted it so bad, but I usually felt as if I could control it and stop it if I wanted. But this is different now, and I must face the reality that I am not able to properly fuck my wife when I so often cum too quickly. I am now obligated to be a cuckold.

So when I am laying next to her in the minutes afterwards, I try to embrace the inadequacy and humiliation, and turn it into sexual arousal. "Thank you for fucking my wife the way that she deserves, the way that I cannot." That's what cuckolds do.
I apologize for my bad english. I quoted pinks because this is my situation now. I lack the stamina so my wife is now an hotwife. this was originally a my choice because I love her and I wont her to be satisfied. My sex life is worsened and actually I'm denying myself: She would want to have sex with me but I cannot because I feel my impotence and have sex with her would be humiliating fo me. she is very been sorry for me but I cannot embrace my humiliation. So I let her run with others and I don't want her have senses of guilt so I have a mask, but I suffer: it hurt a lot. I'm not an happy chuck. When I'm alone I cry and I have the sense of the failure. I cannot embrace my inadequacy and mine is a bad life. I will accept all for her but I will never an appy chuck...
You must learn to embrace it and feel proud that you encouraged your wife to find the pleasure she needs so badly. Learn to be proud to be her cuckold and enjoy the humiliation that you feel.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by pancuckold » Fri Dec 23, 2016 9:16 am

I generally can last as long as I want to and often don't ejaculate at all during sex. Some of this, however I felt was due to learning "too well" to last a long time and for a decade now I really haven't been able to get there in under an hour; for all my adult life my idea of a quickie has been on the order of 15 minutes.

About 2 years ago, actually wanting to both spend less time on sex and imagine myself so excited about sex I could perhaps orgasm prematurely or without touching. This coincided with really focusing on the cuckold side of our relationship. Still I answered that my endurance is increased because it has, if I want I can go (even) longer now but as you get to 2+ hours of sex play eventually you're just wearing out your partner :-).

Here's how it's been on the shorter end for me.

I still can't get there in under 5 minutes and that would usually be masturbating. I guess maybe once I managed 2 minutes.

When I want to I can get there in 15 now anytime I like but what gets me there quickly is very definitely seeing her get it from another guy or imagining that. In that sense I guess you could say cuckolding has had an effect.

Just a couple of times I've brought myself to the edge of orgasm as she teased me and then begun sex, once ejaculating on the first thrust of entry and the second time spilling semen onto her pussy, not even making it in. These times had all of the emotional content of a premature ejaculation however I don't think you can really call it premature when I set it up with 1/2 hour or more of sex and masturbating before.

The best part of these for me however was that she clearly got to see how excited I was about it and she did enjoy it.
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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by D+D » Fri Dec 23, 2016 11:58 am

Cuckold53188 wrote:
fragile3013 wrote:
bradisalpha wrote:
platov wrote:
I apologize for my bad english. I quoted pinks because this is my situation now. I lack the stamina so my wife is now an hotwife. this was originally a my choice because I love her and I wont her to be satisfied. My sex life is worsened and actually I'm denying myself: She would want to have sex with me but I cannot because I feel my impotence and have sex with her would be humiliating fo me. she is very been sorry for me but I cannot embrace my humiliation. So I let her run with others and I don't want her have senses of guilt so I have a mask, but I suffer: it hurt a lot. I'm not an happy chuck. When I'm alone I cry and I have the sense of the failure. I cannot embrace my inadequacy and mine is a bad life. I will accept all for her but I will never an appy chuck...
You must learn to embrace it and feel proud that you encouraged your wife to find the pleasure she needs so badly. Learn to be proud to be her cuckold and enjoy the humiliation that you feel.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by Johor » Fri Dec 23, 2016 12:22 pm

D+D wrote:
I think that there are quite a few of us here that would love for Brad to be their wife's bull, lover, owner, whatever he wants.
I like brad's attitude. It would be interesting to see where life would go with him regularly fucking my wife. As much as I already want to eat his cum in a creampie he would make, there is no telling......
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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by jw_kk » Fri Dec 23, 2016 1:20 pm

My stamina has generally increased - in part it is the challenge of staying hard, lasting long enough to pleasure her, and the competitive effort of fucking my wife as "good or better" than one of her lovers.

The exception is usually when she's had a solo encounter - when she tells me about the event, sometimes I cum spontaneously, in a matter of minutes when she is giving me the details.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by bradisalpha » Fri Dec 23, 2016 1:41 pm

cantbelieve wrote:Seconds, I literally now last only a handful of seconds.
I have seen some cucks that have gotten so excited (of course after I have teased him) that he cums before he gets it in.. And that is always a special treat for me as I watch him try to hold it.. And then see it squirting.. And the look on his face as I laugh and tell him that is why I am fucking his wife.

The ultimate for me is to put a cuck in a chair wearing pink transparent panties and tying his wrists behind him leaving him in the chair wearing nothing but the panties and unable to touch himself. I watch him as his wife and I talk and fuck teasing him the whole time and watching him get more and more excited .. Until he is thrusting his hips up and down in the chair basically fucking air uncontrollably .. With his pathetic dickie poking up in his panties... Until he cannot hold out any longer and cum starts coming out if his dickie and soaking through his panties in a big soaking wet spot. Then watching him slump back down in the chair.. Panting and embarrassed. And we leave him there while his cum begins to dry leaving his panties stiff and sticking to his hair.. Into a mess... A cummy mess. But, no matter how humiliating it is to him, the next time we are together he will do it all over again !! That is the beauty of a cuckold that can let his mind control his dickie in a very submissive sensual situation and lose all voluntary control.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by mwmbound » Sat Dec 24, 2016 8:22 am

Wow Brad that is one exciting scenerio!!
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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by wifedateshubwaits » Sat Dec 24, 2016 9:56 am

Add me to the list of men who now ejaculate prematurely since being cuckolded. It's gotten worse over time and my wife will frequently comment, "And that's why I have lovers" whenever I fail to last more than a minute or so.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by Cuckold53188 » Sat Dec 24, 2016 11:18 am

bradisalpha wrote:
cantbelieve wrote:Seconds, I literally now last only a handful of seconds.
I have seen some cucks that have gotten so excited (of course after I have teased him) that he cums before he gets it in.. And that is always a special treat for me as I watch him try to hold it.. And then see it squirting.. And the look on his face as I laugh and tell him that is why I am fucking his wife.

The ultimate for me is to put a cuck in a chair wearing pink transparent panties and tying his wrists behind him leaving him in the chair wearing nothing but the panties and unable to touch himself. I watch him as his wife and I talk and fuck teasing him the whole time and watching him get more and more excited .. Until he is thrusting his hips up and down in the chair basically fucking air uncontrollably .. With his pathetic dickie poking up in his panties... Until he cannot hold out any longer and cum starts coming out if his dickie and soaking through his panties in a big soaking wet spot. Then watching him slump back down in the chair.. Panting and embarrassed. And we leave him there while his cum begins to dry leaving his panties stiff and sticking to his hair.. Into a mess... A cummy mess. But, no matter how humiliating it is to him, the next time we are together he will do it all over again !! That is the beauty of a cuckold that can let his mind control his dickie in a very submissive sensual situation and lose all voluntary control.

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Unread post by CuckedDude » Mon Dec 26, 2016 8:02 am

This fucken Brad guy should be nominated and voted ( who's going to
vote against him? ) into the Bull Hall of Fame ...........this board is awash
in us swishy unmanly soft dicked cucks all clucking and yapping about
what panty looks best and will my wife's lover like my nails pink?
that a strong male manly presence is a breath of fresh ballbag air.
We love you Brad ....please be nice to us cucks remember we're only
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Unread post by BOATER1164 » Mon Dec 26, 2016 10:27 am

My stamina is pathetic compared to her lovers, and we haven't really thought of myself as a cuckold versus a hotwife husband. We aren't into outright humiliation, and will never will wear a cage.

But when they are fucking so well, and I'm taking pics, or waiting my turn, I see those facets. She's been known to brush me off if I jump in somewhere, telling me to wait my turn. One time wevwere with her bbc lover boyfriend and they had finished their 1st round, I came in under 10secs of entering her soaked and stretched cum filled pussy...and she held in a soft giggle. I think he did too. She started to suck him again while i was cleaning her out, and in less than 5 mins from cumming in her he was ready again! So there's the humiliation aspect.

We got into hotwifing because i was always a fast shooter and she likes cocks bigger than my average 6".
Even a viagra doesn't help much to delay the inevitable...just makes me
harder faster, and maybe a 2nd round an hour later.
So HWing and basic cuckolding has definitely lead to faster cumming on my part. But we arent complaing, and it lets her enjoy her lovers even more.
But we cucks also have to be secure and man enough for this lifestyle IMO, which is reassuring.

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Unread post by bradisalpha » Tue Dec 27, 2016 1:35 am

CuckedDude wrote:This fucken Brad guy should be nominated and voted ( who's going to
vote against him? ) into the Bull Hall of Fame ...........this board is awash
in us swishy unmanly soft dicked cucks all clucking and yapping about
what panty looks best and will my wife's lover like my nails pink?
that a strong male manly presence is a breath of fresh ballbag air.
We love you Brad ....please be nice to us cucks remember we're only
cucks not real men.
Lol !! I am always nice to cucks. I even let you watch up close sometimes.. On your knees next to the bed with your wrists bound behind you... With your dicks pressed up against the bed.. Trying to fuck the slot between the mattress and box springs as you watch... Cumming into the slot and making a mess... While your wife and I watch your facial expressions as you feel your cum building up but trying to stop it.. And your face scrunching as you cum. And then the look of humiliation as you feel your cum all over your dickie and the mattress and know that you have a mess to clean up.

And you will know that I like pink transparent bikini panties and red nail polish.. To match your red lipstick. There should never be a question or clucking and yapping about it.

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Re: Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

Unread post by calicolombia69 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 5:06 pm

By Stamina I assume you refer to how long one lasts before orgasm.

If so, I had more stamina 16yrs ago. Maybe had to do with being younger? Or perhaps no kids so we could scream as much as we wanted? Or yes, we felt WE were her studs and she was fresh meat at the time. Mine however was a confessed unfaithful slut as we moved from friends to lovers 16yrs ago.

I definitely orgasm at the count of 3 whenever she has been recently fucked.

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Unread post by cuckdave11 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:33 pm

I answered that my stamina is slightly decreased before I really thought about it. It's actually greatly decreased. She hasn't yet though found a man that can make her cum by fucking only. She will soon start looking harder I think.

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Unread post by Tether » Mon Jan 02, 2017 8:40 am

I definitely cum faster now. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more she and/or her lovers talk about my poor stamina, the worse my stamina gets. I think it's because the more they talk about it (and laugh at it), the more excited and aroused I get, thus, the faster I cum.
The upside is that there's less disappointment now. She accepts that I cum quickly and doesn't expect me to last long or hope that I'll last long. And on those rare occasions when I do last, it's just a nice bonus for both of us.

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Unread post by jenscuck » Mon Jan 02, 2017 9:13 am

Sloppy Seconds get me off in just a few strokes!

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Unread post by Aynsley » Mon Jan 02, 2017 11:15 am

Count me in the 'quicker' category.
Additionally, Iris had her Dr. 'tighten' her muscles, while he was operating on her
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and the result is an amazingly tight love zone, for a 52yo woman.
And while this results in rave reviews from her very large lovers,
it also means that I don't stand a chance. LOL

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Unread post by gamma » Tue Jan 03, 2017 9:12 am

Sure my stamina decayed! I never thought it would be possible to cum without touching... until it happened while she was taken by her BF. The first times simply from watching. Many times as I was about to enter her, or after a few strokes inside I would lose it.

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Unread post by bgated » Tue Jan 03, 2017 6:30 pm

used to go 15-20 minutes no problem before. Now that we've had 'the talk', I'm down to about 5 minutes. I feel much more comfortable, open and relaxed when having sex now, so it just comes out when it comes out.

The wife hasn't done anything (or plans to do anything) outside the marriage, but we did have an open talk and she hasn't reacted negatively. She seems happier actually.

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Unread post by hub_of_HW2b » Wed Jan 04, 2017 4:38 pm

Pinks Hubby wrote:
bradisalpha wrote:As a BF, I find that once I am with a wife her husband cums much faster.. To the point of as soon as he enters her sometimes. It is so exciting to a cuck when his wife is being fucked by a BF that he can't really help it.
Exciting and humiliating.

It's hard to describe the precise feeling of inadequacy when I cum inside of my wife so quickly. The combination of knowing that stamina is a major contributor to the quality of sexual pleasure that she receives, and knowing that my cuckold fantasy is the primary reason that I cum so quickly, both cause me to feel extremely sexually inadequate at the exact moment the I am cumming inside of my wife so quickly after I first enter her.

My fantasy of her being fucked by another man better than I can fuck her has caused me to actually become less able to fuck her as good as I used to. Therefore, most any another man can easily fuck her better than me now. My cuckold fantasy has caused it to become a reality.

At the moment while I am at the height of my sexual pleasure, cumming inside of her, I am also humiliated at the fact that I can no longer fuck my wife the way that she deserves to be fucked. In the moments afterwards, I begin to accept that she deserves to be sexually satisfied by another man who can fuck her better than me. She now needs to cuckold me for her benefit. It wouldn't be fair to her for me to deny her that benefit.

It's not my choice anymore to be a cuckold. I let that fact sink in those moments. I may have approached my wife years ago about this fantasy, and wanted it so bad, but I usually felt as if I could control it and stop it if I wanted. But this is different now, and I must face the reality that I am not able to properly fuck my wife when I so often cum too quickly. I am now obligated to be a cuckold.

So when I am laying next to her in the minutes afterwards, I try to embrace the inadequacy and humiliation, and turn it into sexual arousal. "Thank you for fucking my wife the way that she deserves, the way that I cannot." That's what cuckolds do.

It's another reminder that once the genie is out of the bottle, you can never put it back.
I can definitely relate to the changes you have noticed. My stamina also became much worse once I began openly discussing the cuckold topic with my wife. I've gone from being able to possibly last long enough to make her cum to now cumming within 30 seconds from one of her quick hand jobs. Now we are at the point that I avoid intercourse since I know it only benefits me. She hasn't agreed to cuckold me yet but I am keeping my hopes up.

The cuckold mindset is a strange and wonderful thing. It is a path that is meant to be for the lucky few I believe.

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Unread post by desertsub » Thu Jan 05, 2017 9:36 am

My stamina has definitely gone downhill since my wife started back cuckolding me. I can't say that I cum quicker because my wife no longer allows me to cum inside her, but I usually have to pull out after a few strokes to keep from cumming. Since she has gotten comfortable with the humiliation thing she has gotten to be a lot like Ares, she will let me inside her and then start with the humiliation comments which just make me want to cum that much quicker. Like Mr. Ares I'm pretty sure she does this on purpose!

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Unread post by gazdenied » Fri Jan 13, 2017 7:36 am

When we first started in the cuckold lifestyle, my wife would tell me about her nights of sex, having me masturbate until I came. I, of course, would try and hold out for as long as possible. Even so it was only for about ten minutes. She would then stop telling me and go to bed saying she was exhausted.

She then decided that I was taking too long so one night she started telling me while I pulled away and she suddenly stopped after about five minutes saying she was tired and I was taking too long. It didn't take long for me to cum within the five minutes.

She then told me she wanted to see how quick I could cum and would give me a time limit which gradually decreased as I achieved it. No more talk just a stop watch and her saying stop when then time was up. The fastest I ever managed was 14 seconds.

After many years of this sort of training I am now unable to last longer than a minute (two if I'm thinking about something else).

I don't mind and she gets a lot better lasting sex elsewhere.

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Unread post by Mia » Fri Jan 13, 2017 12:35 pm

gazdenied wrote:When we first started in the cuckold lifestyle, my wife would tell me about her nights of sex, having me masturbate until I came. I, of course, would try and hold out for as long as possible. Even so it was only for about ten minutes. She would then stop telling me and go to bed saying she was exhausted.

She then decided that I was taking too long so one night she started telling me while I pulled away and she suddenly stopped after about five minutes saying she was tired and I was taking too long. It didn't take long for me to cum within the five minutes.

She then told me she wanted to see how quick I could cum and would give me a time limit which gradually decreased as I achieved it. No more talk just a stop watch and her saying stop when then time was up. The fastest I ever managed was 14 seconds.

After many years of this sort of training I am now unable to last longer than a minute (two if I'm thinking about something else).

I don't mind and she gets a lot better lasting sex elsewhere.
Welcome to OHW, gazdenied.

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Unread post by CuckPride » Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:04 am

gazdenied wrote:When we first started in the cuckold lifestyle, my wife would tell me about her nights of sex, having me masturbate until I came. I, of course, would try and hold out for as long as possible. Even so it was only for about ten minutes. She would then stop telling me and go to bed saying she was exhausted.

She then decided that I was taking too long so one night she started telling me while I pulled away and she suddenly stopped after about five minutes saying she was tired and I was taking too long. It didn't take long for me to cum within the five minutes.

She then told me she wanted to see how quick I could cum and would give me a time limit which gradually decreased as I achieved it. No more talk just a stop watch and her saying stop when then time was up. The fastest I ever managed was 14 seconds.

After many years of this sort of training I am now unable to last longer than a minute (two if I'm thinking about something else).

I don't mind and she gets a lot better lasting sex elsewhere.
That's really hot!

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