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Re: progress story

Unread post by Someofallthings » Tue Mar 05, 2019 5:26 pm

First time posting, though I have read this entire thread (which was exhausting!).

I'm not going to comment on the specific cuckold -related issues - I share the fantasy, totally get the turn on, but haven't gone there for real yet and not sure we ever will.

However, I do have some expertise in relationships where communication isn't good that failed (and fortunately, now with one where it is good).

Breaker - nothing I have to offer is radically new on this thread. But throughout my reading of this thread, I have been repeatedly upset that you two don't really talk to each other! You love each other, you have attraction still, you enjoy being together. But you don't really talk. You have had some recent progress in your talking - but even now, it's like an iceberg - most of it is still under the surface. Reading about your interactions, it was painful to see how much is being hidden.

She hasn't said exactly what she feels guilty about or what she likes and you have never had the courage to tell her what you want and what you need. Not really. After all - this started because you wanted to share a cuckolding relationship with her - but that isn't what was happening at all. You have to be brave and REALLY say it all. It seems to me that when you try, it generally goes well - she wants to talk I think. So take encouragement from that.

You say you want to give her what she needs...right? What she needs is your help being honest and open. She needs you to show her how to stop hiding and teasing and avoiding. It really doesn't matter why - shyness, control, guilt - ultimately neither of you is really being honest. And you have to stop telling her whatever she wants is just fine. I don't think that's what you really believe. You're both being cowards (and I mean that in the nicest way). :)

If you can't talk now - just wait till you have kids (if you ever do). That shit is REALLY hard.

It doesn't sound like she'll do it without you. So you have to be stronger than you have been and insist. Show some confidence in your marriage in a real way - not a fantasy. Maybe you guys should find a kink-friendly couples therapist and get some help. And as far as how things go in bed with you two - despite the way out there cuckolding thing - you two seem downright conservative about everything else. How about exploring things together - using toys, using a strap on for YOU (that'll work right into the femdom theme). I don't get how it's too embarrassing to use toys together but it's okay to have another lover. There are a gazillion books, blogs, websites with ANYTHING you can imagine - explore some together. And when she says "you're weird" or "that's weird" - tell her "no, it isn't - it's healthy and fun". In some ways, I think you guys jumped too fast to such a complex and risky kink, without passing through some less difficult stages - that's part of what has gone wrong. You didn't build a mutual understanding, tolerance, and tools for sharing with each other your true feelings and reactions. My GF and I still are working on how to deal with how to talk about when she whines about how it feels stressful when she ties me up or how the positions I want to do are difficult for her to cum with or how I say I want to be her sub but then don't act submissive. I cannot imagine going straight to what you need to discuss. But you do need to discuss it because that is where you are.

Anyway - I hope things go well - you seem like nice people who really love each other. But PLEASE - take some initiative on improving your relationship in and out of bed. And don't say it's not the right time because she's not doing anything. It is never the wrong time to bring up something concerning in your relationship - because you care about that relationship. You can be a submissive cuckold and still be strong and assertive when needed. And your wife needs it now.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by armyguyot1 » Tue Mar 05, 2019 8:00 pm

Welcome to the forum Someofallthings and good luck in your quest.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Bayless » Wed Mar 06, 2019 4:33 am

To Someofallthings and in defense of the Breakers:
“One Size Does Not Fit All”, “Different Strokes for Different Folks”, and
“Cuckolding Is Not A Pure Science.”

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Someofallthings » Wed Mar 06, 2019 8:19 am

Bayless wrote:
Wed Mar 06, 2019 4:33 am
To Someofallthings and in defense of the Breakers:
“One Size Does Not Fit All”, “Different Strokes for Different Folks”, and
“Cuckolding Is Not A Pure Science.”
Totally agree and no need to defend - i wasn't attacking. I've just seen first hand the result of ignoring problems because they're difficult to talk about. Not only do they often compound over time, but the stress of convincing yourself it'll be okay saps the energy out of you and creates distance you're not aware of.

I like these people and want to see them do well.

But I don't pretend to know the right "way". It's just my opinion.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by conflictedhubby » Wed Mar 06, 2019 5:12 pm

Breaker has also mentioned that he doesn't share everything with us, there are a lot of aspects to their relationship we are not privy to. All we can do is offer what points of view we can and hope it helps.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by ddriver86 » Tue Mar 12, 2019 11:06 am

Hey Breaker,

Giving you a shout out bump.

How are both of you? Doing great and sex as usual? No Dylan?

Is wife still excited and planning her Girls Night Out?

Hope all is well!

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Tryn » Thu Mar 14, 2019 10:28 am

Hi Breaker! Hoping you will update us on things, even if they’re mundane. Hope you’re doing well!

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Thu Mar 14, 2019 10:54 am

Thanks guys, although we are doing good unfortunately there is nothing to update. The girls night out seems to have been forgotten or the plan fell through and for us things are just very vanilla at the moment. She hasn't brought the topic up since our last talk and that is fine with me, I'll patiently wait until she does bring it up.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Bayless » Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:28 am

Breaker. You are doing great. The fruit will fall when it is ripe. Kindness is it’s own reward.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by billy12345 » Fri Mar 15, 2019 5:43 pm

I hope this isn’t taken the wrong way, but how can this story go from being so white hot for so long with daily/semi daily updates on everything from Mrs breaker fucking Dylan to just seemingly innocuous conversations for months/years to....nothing? Even an update about how literally nothing is happening? I don’t get it.

Either Mrs Breaker is remarkably adept at being able to completely shut this portion of her life off at the drop of a dime...or the author has run out of material? Really hope it’s the former....

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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:18 pm

Yeah, it really is surprising that for a few weeks it appeared that she couldn’t get enough of Dylan’s big cock. She even snuck around on her husband to get fucked. This took about 2 years to get to this point.

Now it appears that it’s gone from 60 mph to zero just like that. I would be interested in hearing from some of us who had an interest in this thread what their opinion is as to why this occurred. It’s a mystery to me as it appeared that she was really getting into the whole thing. Anyone have any ideas?

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Bayless » Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:29 pm

Per Billy12345, If there is no news, and Breaker responds as he did only a few days ago, then any news he creates is “fake news.” In reading most of the contributions to this forum, including my own, almost every example emphasizes how long it took to convince the wife that this was a realistic option, and examples of the progress being stop/start depending on many possible road blocks from family, jobs, health to available play mates, and it seems that there are more examples of interruptions for the younger age range (like the Breakers) then the 35 to 65 participants who have more freedom to make their own choices. So, no news is preferred to “fake news.) Only an observation.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by billy12345 » Sat Mar 16, 2019 2:08 am

Bayless wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:29 pm
Per Billy12345, If there is no news, and Breaker responds as he did only a few days ago, then any news he creates is “fake news.” In reading most of the contributions to this forum, including my own, almost every example emphasizes how long it took to convince the wife that this was a realistic option, and examples of the progress being stop/start depending on many possible road blocks from family, jobs, health to available play mates, and it seems that there are more examples of interruptions for the younger age range (like the Breakers) then the 35 to 65 participants who have more freedom to make their own choices. So, no news is preferred to “fake news.) Only an observation.
I hear you. There was no excuse (family, jobs, health, etc) given for this sudden stoppage though....

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Re: progress story

Unread post by conflictedhubby » Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:17 am

billy12345 wrote:
Sat Mar 16, 2019 2:08 am
Bayless wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:29 pm
Per Billy12345, If there is no news, and Breaker responds as he did only a few days ago, then any news he creates is “fake news.” In reading most of the contributions to this forum, including my own, almost every example emphasizes how long it took to convince the wife that this was a realistic option, and examples of the progress being stop/start depending on many possible road blocks from family, jobs, health to available play mates, and it seems that there are more examples of interruptions for the younger age range (like the Breakers) then the 35 to 65 participants who have more freedom to make their own choices. So, no news is preferred to “fake news.) Only an observation.
I hear you. There was no excuse (family, jobs, health, etc) given for this sudden stoppage though....
I would think the Ms. Breaker displaying signs of feeling guilty is a sufficient reason for anyone to suddenly stop until those feelings have been sorted.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by wocka-wocka » Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:13 pm

billy12345 wrote:
Sat Mar 16, 2019 2:08 am
I hear you. There was no excuse (family, jobs, health, etc) given for this sudden stoppage though....
Yes, there is. Some women do it, then figure out if it works for them, and in what way. That takes time.

Because women's interests are geared much more to closeness and a kind of security with their spouses, sometimes they want to be sure everything is okay. That takes time.

Her interests may only be casual. Which would also mean everything would return to normal until she feels an urgent need. The urgent need could come rarely. (More time)

It's not a porno movie.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by FNQLivin » Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:25 pm

wocka-wocka wrote:
Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:13 pm

It's not a porno movie.
Thank you. This is a great forum and very supportive, but these are real people. They owe us nothing.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by jps18 » Sun Mar 17, 2019 12:00 am

As long as everything is good with the Breakers and things get sorted out in Mrs. B's mind , it's all good with me . Breaker will update us if there are any updates to be given . I've enjoyed the ride he has taken us on , even if it was a short trip . That has yet to be figured out . I hope everything works out for this couple !

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Someofallthings » Sun Mar 17, 2019 7:31 am

FNQLivin wrote:
Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:25 pm
wocka-wocka wrote:
Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:13 pm

It's not a porno movie.
Thank you. This is a great forum and very supportive, but these are real people. They owe us nothing.
+1 * 10 to that.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by London_professional » Sun Mar 17, 2019 8:49 pm

Assuming, just for one second, that this story has been real, which I very much doubt.

Then I wonder if the flak this author gets from the forum, may have contributed to him choosing not contribute further.

I think it’s much more likely that he’s gotten bored with the creative writing course.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by TheHammer » Mon Mar 18, 2019 4:51 am

Breaker,

How has the sex life been between you two? Is she still giving you blow jobs? Anything else of note?

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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Mon Mar 18, 2019 5:24 am

Regarding it being real or not: I find it hard to believe that anyone would stretch this out for two whole years like he did if it was not truthful.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Bayless » Mon Mar 18, 2019 7:26 am

Agree 100% with Joel68. I am starting to believe that Mrs. Breaker was thrilled by Dylan, but treated like just “the piece of the week” by him. With her very, very limited experience and her being treated like a queen by Breaker the contrast was not what she expected. The saga may not be over, but if it does continue she will be as Professor Harold Hill said in “The Music Man,” a sadder, but wiser girl!!

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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Mon Mar 18, 2019 7:42 am

Bayless, your take could be a possibility. There has been a whole lot of speculation as to what’s up. For a time it was a fantasy and turned into reality just recently. That may be a factor. Or maybe she saw this as something having a negative impact on their marriage as well. Who knows? But once she deals with whatever it is she could start back up. Either with Dylan or some other dude down the road. We know that Breaker is hoping she does.

But he was patient throughout the time it took to get her fucked. It appears from what he posted that he is in that mode now. Just waiting.....

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Re: progress story

Unread post by ffoy » Mon Mar 18, 2019 1:53 pm

London_professional wrote:
Sun Mar 17, 2019 8:49 pm
I think it’s much more likely that he’s gotten bored with the creative writing course.
And this writing course was beyound amazing. As a non-native English speaker (actually not an English speaker at all) I had a great pleasure by just reading these artistic texts written so smoothly and neatly. I believe I have learned a lot from them.
Now I'm wondering, if Breaker has finished writing his story (which would be really sad), what to take next? Maybe Tolkien? I have been scared to read original English fiction before

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Re: progress story

Unread post by JackCUK » Tue Mar 19, 2019 7:34 am

First time posting on this thread but it's been amazing, Breaker thanks for sharing.

I do wonder if Breaker has been posting less recently because the reality turned out different from the fantasy? That it has been harder to process emotionally and less of a turn-on now that it has happened for real? Breaker if that's the case, although it might not seem so interesting or you might not be so motivated to write about it, I for one would really be interested. As a wannabe who has come pretty close on occasion I would really like to know how it feels even if it's difficult or not what you expected - it would help me to know what I might be getting in to! It's obviously really hot to hear about when things are going well and living up to the fantasy, but it would be good to know about the complicated real-life stuff too.

Whatever is the case I hope you and Mrs. Breaker are doing ok.

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