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realcucklife · Unread post by **realcucklife** » Thu Jun 27, 2019 4:14 pm

Keep the communication open.
Do this as a text to make it easier for you.
Send her a text that you loved going down on her thinking about her evenings fun, and how much you enjoyed the feeling of submission doing that.Asked her if she enjoyed it. And tell her you look forward to the next time.

Sounds like you really loved the experience this time, again is this because she involved you in it more? This is the tip of the iceberg my friend.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Thu Jun 27, 2019 5:45 pm

Hi Breaker,

After all this time, she is finally allowing herself to be pleasured like a HW, and you have been amazingly patient in guiding her by the hand to that acceptance.

Hopefully, there is more to come, and perhaps she may start to consider other candidates if Dylan is only there for the summer.

wocka-wocka · Unread post by **wocka-wocka** » Thu Jun 27, 2019 7:50 pm

realcucklife wrote: ↑
Thu Jun 27, 2019 4:14 pm
Keep the communication open.
Do this as a text to make it easier for you.
Send her a text that you loved going down on her thinking about her evenings fun, and how much you enjoyed the feeling of submission doing that.Asked her if she enjoyed it. And tell her you look forward to the next time.

Sounds like you really loved the experience this time, again is this because she involved you in it more? This is the tip of the iceberg my friend.

Do something like this, only be quite sensitive to what Mrs. Breaker can receive.

afagehi7 · Unread post by **afagehi7** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 3:08 am

Amazing. I don't know how you kept it together so we'll. Did y'all talk more about it?

FFDriver · Unread post by **FFDriver** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 4:04 am

Well done, Breaker. It'll be interesting to hear how things went last night - after the afterglow has subsided. Since you've kept your cool about pestering her for details, and this is what... the 3rd or 4th time for her (that you know about), maybe she will be more comfortable and share more details.

This might also be a time when you're close and intimate to let her know you are comfortable with the way things are progressing. Instead of pushing what you want from all of this, try and get her to tell you how she would like to proceed. Would she like to increase the frequency, maybe give her more time so she doesn't have to rush home immediately afterward, even spend the night. Tell her you're OK with her pushing the boundaries more; maybe amp up her dominant side. This can be difficult to discuss, but when she pushes her boundaries is when she will discover her 'happy medium,' where she wants things to be. It may be an occasional evening with Dylan, or someone else she trusts and is comfortable with will satisfy her urge for something new and different.

Keep us in the loop....

corey22901 · Unread post by **corey22901** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 8:42 am

Breaker, next time you clean her afterwards and she allows you to have penetration, I suggest you make it last as long as you can, but don't let her cum.

I know, why?

Once you have cum, tell her that you want her to have her have a wonderful conclusion to the evening, and part her legs and just say "may I?" and then slowly tease her clit and at the same time you lick your cum out. If she reacts negatively to you cleaning her out, reassure her you want to do this. I know, I know, it's hard to do as once you cum, it is usually the last thing you want to do, but consider it under the heading of training.

The goal here is obvious - you want her to know you are more than fine with her coming home used and you are more than happy to clean her. Realcucklife has it 100% right - tell her that the feeling of submission worshiping her pussy on Wed was perhaps the best night ever.

Short story - I am underendowed (very thin) and wifey does not cuck me, and she can't orgasm via penis alone. Duh. So we got into a habit of me coming and then cleaning her out to a powerful orgasm as I eat her. No wet spot, no clean up for her - and now that I am caged, I miss the clean up - but my oral skills are very very good.

Cleaning her after she comes home makes her activities now your mutual activities and by this intimate act, she is relieved of guilt.

seydonar · Unread post by **seydonar** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 1:37 pm

I like that she told you that you "behaved very well". That's a great sign!

Breaker445 · Unread post by **Breaker445** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 3:45 pm

Thanks for the suggestions and advice! I had something typed out from our night together, but I had issues and lost it and at the moment not in the mood to re type the entire night out, but basically I am just along for the ride at this point, she is in complete control. For one, our nightly routine of lounging on the couch and me massaging her feet, I wasn't paying full attention as I was massaging them with one hand and I was on my phone. So to change that she told me to get lotion and put it on her feet, making me put my full attention to massaging her feet. Our night lead to the bedroom and although I thought my performance was really good, she quickly put my ego back in check letting me know that although I'm good, she's had really good. And the way she told me that was extremely hot and that little comment has stuck with me all day. Then fast forward to pillow talk and she told me she had had a lot of sex for the week and that tomorrow I was not going to get any, well for her and I, our time in bed was on par for the week, but it was incredibly hot to hear her say that because it completely highlighted she was still tired from Wednesday night.

Anyways, she has said other things or done things that are just subtle, but let me know she is enjoying all this. It has a completely different feel than the first go around. I am excited to see where she takes this!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 7:19 pm

There may be weekly or regular dates in the days to come ... I wonder if there's an overnighter in the works?

wocka-wocka · Unread post by **wocka-wocka** » Fri Jun 28, 2019 7:43 pm

BallSpanking wrote: ↑
Fri Jun 28, 2019 7:19 pm
There may be weekly or regular dates in the days to come ... I wonder if there's an overnighter in the works?

You need to be careful with this kind of thinking, Breaker.

She is, first and foremost, your life partner. Don't give her any other impression than, the extra sex is fun for both of you. The emphasis is, it enhances the relationship between the two of you. Reaffirm this with her.

4v273 · Unread post by **4v273** » Sat Jun 29, 2019 4:24 am

wocka-wocka wrote: ↑
Fri Jun 28, 2019 7:43 pm

She is, first and foremost, your life partner. Don't give her any other impression than, the extra sex is fun for both of you. The emphasis is, it enhances the relationship between the two of you. Reaffirm this with her.

This.

If my poor memory serves….everything you have written about you and your wife.....the above is your goal.

Others have different goals, fantasies, experiences that they want for themselves. Often, their enthusiasm...can give the impression what you have now is somehow not enough. That you are holding back your wife from 'fully and properly enjoying the LS' because you are not doing what they think is the right way.

The 'right' way is the way that works for both of you.

I think it's significant your wife came home to you tired and sore, wanted and enjoyed reconnecting fully with you. Keep, cherish and nurture this, and never let it go.

A very, very, good place for the both of you to be.

wocka-wocka · Unread post by **wocka-wocka** » Sat Jun 29, 2019 8:45 am

4v273 wrote: ↑
Sat Jun 29, 2019 4:24 am

Others have different goals, fantasies, experiences that they want for themselves. Often, their enthusiasm...can give the impression what you have now is somehow not enough. That you are holding back your wife from 'fully and properly enjoying the LS' because you are not doing what they think is the right way.

The 'right' way is the way that works for both of you.

I think it's significant your wife came home to you tired and sore, wanted and enjoyed reconnecting fully with you. Keep, cherish and nurture this, and never let it go.

A very, very, good place for the both of you to be.

Exactly right. I cannot stress enough, do not leave her with the impression that she is "not enough." I think you do this already Breaker, but, just emphasizing this for the members who treat this lifestyle like porn.

FFDriver · Unread post by **FFDriver** » Mon Jul 01, 2019 3:11 am

Breaker, I hope the weekend went well for you; or at least went well for Mrs. Breaker. Reading your message from Friday, I see a few key words - 'along for the ride, she is in complete control,' 'although you're good, she's had really good,' 'tomorrow you're not getting any.' It sounds like you're enjoying this and getting off on it.

My imagination has gone off the rails regarding your weekend. Anxiously awaiting your report.

Breaker445 · Unread post by **Breaker445** » Mon Jul 01, 2019 7:24 am

Good points! I guess I'll post just to update there was nothing really to provide from the weekend, no updates on any future dates or anything like that. We were a little busy, but what I found interesting was although I didn't get any action, because she said she was exhausted in that category from the week, she did end up using her toy multiple nights.....Which again goes back to making me realize and goes with me underestimating her dominance is also how sneaky she can be, and that is a huge turn on for me. So of course my mind the last few days has been thinking what she's been thinking of and wow her libido has sky rocketed, which is exciting. She's also just expressing her dominance a little more casually now, like last night as we lounged on the couch she simply told me to rub lotion on her feet like it was expected of me. It's a sneaky great way to get my full attention and she really enjoys it.

4v273 · Unread post by **4v273** » Mon Jul 01, 2019 8:40 am

Breaker.....a suggestion. Think 'subtle' instead of 'sneaky'.

There is a difference. I think your wife knows this and is getting great enjoyment 'guiding' you to what you both want.

It may well be this is my wife's and I's preference showing, we both believe dominance is at it's best served with subtlety.

corey22901 · Unread post by **corey22901** » Mon Jul 01, 2019 9:19 am

Breaker, since she is using her toys, may be a nice thought to buy a new one for her. Vixen makes very high quality replica cocks and there may be one that approximates what you believe she would like.

I know she is not a "size" queen, but she has mentioned he is bigger than you and it leaves her very happy. Don't go huge, just well endowed. My wife thought my skinny 5 incher was good .... until she tried one that is a bit larger than the average guy. I warm it up for her, set the lube next to it and then give her some privacy.

When she is feeling like she wants to connect a bit more with me, she has me fetch the Spare Parts harness and then I make her a woman with her Vixen friend. All while I am caged. I can say as a man it is weird pumping her and feeling nothing. Good news for her, I can go all night....

You can just say that you know she is happy with her new friend and she might not be as sore if she got used to a bit more girth.

FFDriver · Unread post by **FFDriver** » Tue Jul 02, 2019 3:31 am

Breaker, a quick analogy. You have a pile of lumber. You can build a workbench for the garage, or build a piece of furniture for your home. The former is rough and crude but it accomplishes a task and it's a usable tool, while the latter is a fine piece you're proud of and derive pleasure from for a long time. I see your relationship, since you've backed off and reduced the pressure on Mrs. B, as building furniture instead of a workbench. It seems what the two of you are developing is 'furniture.'

If I wore your shoes, and admittedly I'm working off my perception of your relationship with your wife as you've described it over the last few years, here's how I would proceed.

The two of you seem to have the ability to separate the kink from what pleases both of you, and at those times speak honestly to each other. I would set the stage for having a meaningful conversation, and then I would honestly tell her what pleases me, and I hope pleases her. I would describe the pleasure I get from sharing you and deriving pleasure vicariously through you. I like that you enjoy the newness with him - his different style and technique, and I hope it continues. I like the thought of you enjoying better sex than I can provide, yet I feel even more bonded to you and in love with you than if we had never traveled this road.

I particularly enjoy the subtle control you exert over me now. You are no longer "My possession" to use as I please; I must now earn everything you wish to give me... or refuse to give me. Everything you do now is a test of my affection for you, and the further you push it, the more I like it. For example, if you said you had decided to be exclusive to him for a while - as a test of my love - I know I'd swallow hard, bite my tongue and double down on my attention for you. Even if you said it to push my buttons, it would be a test of my affection and devotion if I didn't know how serious you were.

OK, I think you're understanding my thoughts and hopefully she will respond and share her thoughts with you. She might say she wants to stop, and if she does, applaud her for trying it for you. This might also convince her that you really do enjoy the lifestyle and if she's teetering on the edge of going further, you might really get a hotwife out of the deal.

Decades ago my wife let slip, "You would probably let me have a boyfriend." I replied, "As long as you 'saved the last dance for me'" (The Drifters, 1960). She's a very private woman, extremely discrete... and over the years I spotted finite little signs of her indiscretions. I always felt it improved what we shared... I got the best of all worlds. Hope things continue to work out for you.

Breaker445 · Unread post by **Breaker445** » Tue Jul 02, 2019 9:51 am

4v - Good point! And I agree, she is guiding us on how she wants it to be, which is the real exciting part.

corey - that would be a lot of fun!

FFDriver - That's a good analogy, and I like that conversation idea, might just bring that up to her in the coming days.

echoplex · Unread post by **echoplex** » Tue Jul 02, 2019 4:07 pm

Breaker - Where you the first and only guy she ever slept with until she had sex with Dylan?

Mrbigbull · Unread post by **Mrbigbull** » Wed Jul 03, 2019 10:22 am

38kewp wrote: ↑
Wed Jul 03, 2019 2:25 am

Breaker445 wrote: ↑
Mon Jul 01, 2019 7:24 am
Good points! I guess I'll post just to update there was nothing really to provide from the weekend, no updates on any future dates or anything like that. We were a little busy, but what I found interesting was although I didn't get any action, because she said she was exhausted in that category from the week, she did end up using her toy multiple nights.....Which again goes back to making me realize and goes with me underestimating her dominance is also how sneaky she can be, and that is a huge turn on for me. So of course my mind the last few days has been thinking what she's been thinking of and wow her libido has sky rocketed, which is exciting. She's also just expressing her dominance a little more casually now, like last night as we lounged on the couch she simply told me to rub lotion on her feet like it was expected of me. It's a sneaky great way to get my full attention and she really enjoys it.
Is it ‘dominance’? Or perhaps she has sexually moved on from you? Yours is hardly a shared activity arrangement…more like tangential observer.

That is what I also thought.
I do not "see" her do things specially for him, things she knows he gets a kick from it. It is all about her enjoyment, not his.

But if he is happy this way, and likes it this way then I think it is okay.

Cheers.

TheHammer · Unread post by **TheHammer** » Thu Jul 04, 2019 8:08 am

Have Dylan pick out a new hairstyle for her.

Glad to hear things are going well!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Fri Jul 05, 2019 9:52 am

Hey Breaker,

Has she hinted anything for the weekend?

Breaker445 · Unread post by **Breaker445** » Fri Jul 05, 2019 12:08 pm

echoplex - yea I was her first and only until him.

38kewp and Mrbigbull - I could see that in a way, although she still enjoys our time and hasn't completely shut me out from us being intimate. I guess it is more like she does things how she wants and it is for her enjoyment, but I do like it like that because the focus is on her and although I don't get the bells and whistles of it all, at it's core that is dominance on her part.

TheHammer - That would be exciting, but I see it a better chance that she'll start picking out outfits that he prefers.

BallSpanking - Nothing hinted yet.

The last few days we have just been very busy but have spent a lot of time together which has been good, and we've kept this whole lifestyle separate. She hasn't mentioned anything about an upcoming date, but I am at a point where I wouldn't be surprised if she told me one was coming up. Whether she brings it up soon or not, I do plan on having a talk with her about what the plan is moving forward and what she see's their "relationship" as. Could be easy as it's coming up to two weeks to just check in and see if she does plan on making him a regular guy or if it's a good thing but its going to happen more sporadically, or like it's been mentioned above, maybe she's had her fun and is done or done for awhile.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Fri Jul 05, 2019 7:02 pm

Thx for the update... It shouldn't be too long before it comes up again.
Ever since you've been playing casual, she seems to be getting more enjyment out of it.
With any luck, she will make it a regular thing, so she might want to continue dating after Dylan leaves again.

ericsacto · Unread post by **ericsacto** » Fri Jul 05, 2019 9:24 pm

They were texting quite a bit before they got together. Do they still text often?

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