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Re: progress story

Unread post by wocka-wocka » Tue Mar 19, 2019 6:09 pm

jps18 wrote:
Sun Mar 17, 2019 12:00 am
even if it was a short trip .
Once again, this isn't a porno movie. Two years of support is not "short."

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Re: progress story

Unread post by jps18 » Wed Mar 20, 2019 12:29 am

The build up with the Breakers over a two year period was amazing , hot , exciting for me as well as Breaker . Short trip , meaning that Mrs. B had only a hand full of encounters with Dylan . If she only does this once , breaker has had an amazing journey , and once the fantasy became reality , things were over quickly . I'm just hoping things are going well for the Breakers .

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Re: progress story

Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Wed Mar 20, 2019 3:15 pm

This forum gets so annoying the moment the audience doesn't get it's fix on the cycle it likes to jerk off too.

Has it occurred to the hand-wringing contingent that perhaps now that he's reached his goal, he may not feel he needs daily advice on how to get there? And that after two years of sharing his every thought on this topic in delicious detail that maybe he's a little drained? Maybe he's just recharging a bit.

Think of breaker like a man kept in chastity being teased by the possibility of his fantasy for 96 (holy crap, 96!) pages of journey. Building up and gaining energy from that tension and angst. Now he's seen it happen. The release of that pressure at the culmination of his desire and efforts to achieve it. Now he's probably finding it a little harder to find motivation for sharing his thoughts. He's probably aware that the situation is delicate, and maybe he's respecting his wife's wish to not make everything about this lifestyle and finds he's better able to moderate his excitement for the subject when he doesn't immerse himself in posting to us. Or maybe he's just gotten busy.

He's always shown this community a great deal of respect and generosity. I suspect he'll be back and keep us updated to date with how things proceed. He'll need us again. But man would I find it exhausting to be in his shoes if when he does return he had to come back to pages of disappointment and pouting responses guillting him about his absence and/or challenging his credibility and feel like he had to address all this empty projection.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by FNQLivin » Wed Mar 20, 2019 3:53 pm

Well said.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by London_professional » Thu Mar 21, 2019 10:20 pm

I think he’s laughing his head off. All these little cucks running around up in arms over something that is so clearly a work of fiction.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Watchinu69 » Fri Mar 22, 2019 4:50 am

Bahahahaha ... and he’s not caring what the cucks will be forced to wack off too next.... ;)

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Re: progress story

Unread post by armyguyot1 » Fri Mar 22, 2019 5:02 am

Welcome to the forum Watchinu69 . I will remove you from newly registered.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Watchinu69 » Fri Mar 22, 2019 5:10 am

Thank you.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by conflictedhubby » Fri Mar 22, 2019 7:01 am

London_professional wrote:
Thu Mar 21, 2019 10:20 pm
I think he’s laughing his head off. All these little cucks running around up in arms over something that is so clearly a work of fiction.
I'm curious as to why you consider it a work of fiction? I mean I suspected a recent poster was fake as well, but I decided I was being too cynical and tried to offer genuine advice. Turns out it was fake and I felt burned, but all the signs that made me suspect 'she' was fake came back as obvious to me after the fact.

I haven't seen any signs of Breakers story being fake, so I'm curious what makes you believe it is? I'm assuming your a bull considering your name, so is this just a snap judgement reinforced by a sense of confidence or are there hints I am missing?

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Niblick » Fri Mar 22, 2019 7:24 pm

Here are the rules of this forum. Rule 2.1 is pretty high on the list... Just saying!
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When Inigo deleted all the rules and partly reconstructed them I have a record of them and am posting them here. Nothing will be changing that Inigo has put in place except these rules cover what he left out.

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1) Various portions of this forum are dedicated to different topics (these should be self-explanatory). If a post is not on topic it may be moved to a more appropriate section of the forum, edited, or deleted without warning.



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2.1) Thou shalt not call out another user for well written fiction presented as fact. At the very best it is rude. If you don’t believe a “true story” is true just move on to the next thread or keep your trap shut. Yes, I appreciate a true “true story” as much as the next guy, but so much of this lifestyle is unbelievable to the common man that it is ridiculous for any of us to make grand pronouncements about the writings of another. Such pronouncements interfere with the flow of thoughts around here and may make newbies hesitant to post. Result? I’ve fucking had it with this BS. I *will* be looking to make an example out of somebody. Get it?
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Re: progress story

Unread post by London_professional » Fri Mar 22, 2019 9:20 pm

Just read the last post. I genuinely had absolutely no idea you were not meant to call out well written fiction presented as fact.

I sincerely apologise.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by frb » Mon Apr 01, 2019 8:16 pm

Breaker, please come back and update us on things. Even if your wife hasn't done anything with her gym buddy, there must be some thoughts or conversations going on there... No matter what, your fans want to hear from you. Please indulge us when you have a chance and ignore anyone who discourages you from posting. The number who miss your posts far, far outweighs the other.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Goodboy66 » Tue Apr 02, 2019 12:54 am

London_professional wrote:
Fri Mar 22, 2019 9:20 pm
Just read the last post. I genuinely had absolutely no idea you were not meant to call out well written fiction presented as fact.

I sincerely apologise.
I like what you did there.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by NotaCuck » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:41 pm

I haven't been a member very long, but Progress Story was one of first articles I read in depth. It took a long time to get through all the pages and it didn't occur to me at the time this thread was still moving along. Coincidentally I arrived at the last page just about as the first date was going to happen. That made it even more exciting to think all this hot action was now going to take place "real time."

The morning of the first date as I awoke, my first thoughts were, "tonight's the night." It was as if I was living my dream vicariously through Breaker. The next week or so was very exciting to see Breaker go from a wannabe (like me) to a full fledged Cuck.

And then nothing. We all hear over and over again that reality is nothing like the fantasy. Like the rest of you, I have no idea what happened as Breaker has disappeared.

I hope that he's living the dream and has no need to post here as he now has everything he dreamed for.

If the reality was far more than he could handle and his life crashed, then he has my complete sympathy and I wish him the best in his life and marriage.

Good luck Breaker and I hope all your dreams have come true.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by conflictedhubby » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:44 pm

Well said NotaCuck

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Suchen Zucker » Wed Apr 03, 2019 5:48 pm

I don't know but it would seem to me that if it all went to hell in a handbasket he would have said something. It would be out of character for him to just stop posting like this, unless...

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Re: progress story

Unread post by conflictedhubby » Wed Apr 03, 2019 6:28 pm

Unless he just had the focus of his fantasies after years finally culminate into a grand event that ended up petering out into just everyday life becoming the norm again? I would expect anyone to have that happen would just need a break. Imagine feeling that angst for years at every little thing she did that hinted at his fantasies, it escalates more and more until it finally happens. And then it stops. The angst isn't there anymore. No adrenaline, no endorphins. Just everyday life. I believe anyone would find it hard to return here and post details to what you feel is just nothing, there are no hints to feel angst off of because the deed has been done, hints just don't have that same feeling anymore...talking about them would feel like talking about the weather. Unless something tangible happens Breaker's only posts would amount to "Not much happened during the past few weeks. We're still alive, carry on".

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Whosbeensleeping » Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:34 pm

Let's hope that the Breaker hasn't tripped! ;)

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Thu Apr 04, 2019 8:39 am

Hey everyone. I appreciate the continued interest and I have enjoyed reading the recent posts and ideas. Really, although I felt like there hasn't been much to post recently about the topic because it stopped so abruptly, I also really haven't figured out really how to express my thoughts and feelings after the whole thing. However, conflictedhubby's post is pretty spot on, if I could put it into a short response his seems to fit really how it is and how I feel.

I guess given what I had experienced over the years, and the excitement of getting to the finish line and having it end like it did felt so "meh". I haven't had anything of real value of excitement and hotness to share, which I felt I had plenty to share over the time posting here. I also feel a sense of selfishness in it all. Because she gave it a try, but stopped after the try, I figured that would be fine with me, I could always go back to that night and that time and replay that over and over in my head, and think of all that happened. But as time has gone on, that month or two of heightened excitement seems more and more distant and more and more surreal. I guess I was left thinking about how fun, exciting and hot the whole journey was and now that it was over so suddenly and no signs of it being talked about again or remotely being hinted or teased at, I just felt deflated. I don't know really how to explain it, like you just went on the craziest and most intense roller coaster ride and now you're standing in line to the ride to the train that takes you on a tour around the park at 2 mph.

I've kept in mind her request that she didn't want this to take over our relationship, so I hadn't brought it up, I refrained from "breaking the ice" on the topic and bringing it up to get us talking about it again. I figured I would wait and wait until she decided to bring it up. But as each day has gone on I just have more and more thoughts on to why can't we continue to play? And I also have felt I've learned from the first time that if she brings it up again and says she is thinking of starting up again that I will most definitely speak up more about what I need with the whole thing, which I do think she'd be way more understanding about given the first time.

But like I said, as far as the fun and the whole topic, there just hasn't been anything I have felt noteworthy of a post. Only recently has she very subtly and slightly dropped a tease with it. Which lead to maybe the hottest and closest thing to restarting with it all, when she told me how often she gets hit on and when she saw how excited I got hearing that and how much I enjoyed hearing it, she slightly furthered it by telling me she'd find it fun to be out with me, looking hot, but keeping me at a distance, implying I was at a distance from her and seeing her get hit on. This rang bells to my ears and she knew she had me hooked and when I told her how exciting and hot that would be she said teasingly, "Show me." and she took me to the bedroom. It turned into a hot night, but that was a few days ago and she hasn't brought anything like that up again. It's a bit frustrating because it just feels like that whole dynamic works very well, but it's teased and then stopped. It's also frustrating because I am thinking and saying, "Yes! Yes! That is exactly what I want!!" and I get my hopes up and then it stops. But, it also leads me to hope and thinking that if she wants to start back up, there will be more involvement and way more communication. I guess it's hope that just like I feel like I have grown from the first time, that if there is a second time she too has grown from the previous time.

Going back to the abrupt stopping of it all, I guess since I just felt like I haven't had anything to post, I didn't feel the need to just post this particular part. One night when she did one of her subtle teases. I made a comment back about the abrupt ending to the fun and she brought back the feeling of feeling guilty and bad about it, and I again tried to show her that it didn't bother me, when I sort of showed that reasoning didn't bother me she threw out another obstacle which was Dylan had moved, or I guess more like he was out of town for the next few months. This conversation was awhile ago, but a lightbulb went off in my head and again left me with a little hope that maybe she'd try again with someone else. But again the topic went dry and so I wondered that maybe she'd keep in touch with him long distance, but that hasn't been the case.

So that is where things are. Things have just sort of been mundane with it all. I do have hope, especially with the recent subtle hints and teases, that things could pick back up again, but I also understand that they might not.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by subtoall » Thu Apr 04, 2019 10:06 am

Breaker445 wrote:
Thu Apr 04, 2019 8:39 am
I made a comment back about the abrupt ending to the fun and she brought back the feeling of feeling guilty and bad about it, and I again tried to show her that it didn't bother me...
Breaker,
I'm so glad you're back online, and letting all your fans know that you guys are ok.

I quoted only the sentence fragment above, because I believe this is key to why you are stuck where you are. I'm going to be blunt: I don't think you're response to her sharing that she feels guilty was helpful. You made your response about what you're thinking instead of what she's feeling. You'll want to attend to her feeling (guilt), not share what you're thinking (this didn't bother me).

A better, empathetic response would be: "Oh sweetheart, I don't want you to feel guilty. I want you to feel good about yourself, to have fun, and be happy no matter what we are doing. You're not hurting me or our marriage when you do what I have asked you to do. In fact, it's the complete opposite. I've never felt closer or more in love with you than I do right now. What can I do right now to help you feel less guilty?"

Try listening to her expression of her feelings and responding to those by saying you don't want her to feel {whatever bad feeling she just said}. And then ask what you can do to help her feel better.

You can't go wrong with this approach and it will really open up your communication together. Good luck.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Wifesharing » Thu Apr 04, 2019 10:35 am

Nice to see you post. It is not a shock at all that you are conflicted and you didn't get enough detail or what you wanted and really don't have enough to relive it over and over again. I am glad you got to where you wanted sad that it went down like it did. She was fine as long as she didn't have to share anything with you and it was her thing alone, once you showed how you felt and that you needed to have a tiny bit more she shut it all down. She punished you she may or may not have stopped. She however most likely did if she can't have it her way then nothing. The punishing is likely sub conscious no reason to dewell on that .

You seem to be dealing with all well and I feel you will both come through it just fine. She was not totally at fault you wanted this so bad you were willing to let it go one without making it clear what you wanted. She tried it the only way she knew she could.

I hope that you get over the conflicted things and either you two have a great life outside this world, or at some point can finally openly communicate about your ultimate desires .


Again thanks for coming back and touching basis and good luck with everything.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by 4v273 » Thu Apr 04, 2019 10:41 am

subtoall wrote:
Thu Apr 04, 2019 10:06 am
Breaker445 wrote:
Thu Apr 04, 2019 8:39 am
I made a comment back about the abrupt ending to the fun and she brought back the feeling of feeling guilty and bad about it, and I again tried to show her that it didn't bother me...
Breaker,
A better, empathetic response would be: "Oh sweetheart, I don't want you to feel guilty. I want you to feel good about yourself, to have fun, and be happy no matter what we are doing. You're not hurting me or our marriage when you do what I have asked you to do. In fact, it's the complete opposite. I've never felt closer or more in love with you than I do right now. What can I do right now to help you feel less guilty?"

Try listening to her expression of her feelings and responding to those by saying you don't want her to feel {whatever bad feeling she just said}. And then ask what you can do to help her feel better.

You can't go wrong with this approach and it will really open up your communication together. Good luck.
My view.....I don't think you said or did anything wrong.....there is nothing wrong with being honest.

Having said that....the above can not be improved. It's awesome. It's the perfect response. And you can still use it.....

subtoall :up: :up: :up: :up:


I will add this. Keep up with perfecting your oral skills. Become the master at it.

Then ask her to reserve it for the 2 of you. Just for you. Make it your own special way to be intimate. Gently point out by keeping that between you....she has no need to feel guilty about sharing other stuff. It may help her feel that what ever else she does....it will not take this from your marriage. You both will have something unique and special to only the 2 of you.


Good luck :up: :up: :up: :up:
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Re: progress story

Unread post by chris » Thu Apr 04, 2019 1:20 pm

subtoall wrote:
Thu Apr 04, 2019 10:06 am
Breaker445 wrote:
Thu Apr 04, 2019 8:39 am
I made a comment back about the abrupt ending to the fun and she brought back the feeling of feeling guilty and bad about it, and I again tried to show her that it didn't bother me...
A better, empathetic response would be: "Oh sweetheart, I don't want you to feel guilty. I want you to feel good about yourself, to have fun, and be happy no matter what we are doing. You're not hurting me or our marriage when you do what I have asked you to do. In fact, it's the complete opposite. I've never felt closer or more in love with you than I do right now. What can I do right now to help you feel less guilty?"
I agree with subtoall that it's not about you, it's about her.

However I'd take it a step further, by not trying to change how she feels. I'd suggest "Oh sweetheart, I did notice it seemed like you felt guilty. Tell me more about your feelings?"

This lets her open up about why she feels guilty. You can keep asking follow-up questions, to really understand yourself why she feels guilty (and this process of talking it out will usually also help her feel less guilty!). Once you have a good understanding, then start tackling the reasons why she feels guilty, not that she feels guilty.

The point is you can't tell someone how to feel. You can only talk them through their feelings, and if you can help her see that perhaps the underlying reasons for how she feels this way may not be as they seem, then the feeling itself will change on its own.

My 2 cents!

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Someofallthings » Thu Apr 04, 2019 4:03 pm

Breaker - glad you're okay, and sorry things have been difficult to discuss. For what it's worth - here are some thoughts. Also - I'm 61, was married over 10 years, divorced about 10 years, and in a solid relationship now for over 5 years. (Does that suggest I have some kind of wisdom? Probably not. )

Totally agree with Chris - you shouldn't try to make her feel something different - just listen to her feelings and validate them. There are real reasons that she feels guilty. These are actions that most people *would* feel guilty about. And she was doing something she was conflicted about for you - not really because it was what she wanted. Just because you don't want her to feel that way doesn't change that she does - and it is selfish to think she shouldn't have those feelings if it doesn't bother you. She isn't having feelings of guilt *for* you. You need to show that you care how it felt to her and why. You don't do that by saying it's all good because it didn't bother you.

Also - I am struck once again by how much you guys need to develop some basic tools to talk to each other. Forget about whether it will ever happen again. Tell her you're struggling with not being able to discuss your own feelings. Tell her you're not trying to talk her into doing it again (and mean that), but that you'd like to be able to just talk about what happened , how she felt, how you felt, and that you find it hard to not be able to share those feelings with each other. Don't do it as a way to get her to do it again - do it because you two really need to talk to each other. It's just so much easier when you learn to talk to each other about how you genuinely feel - even when it's stuff you think "I shouldn't feel this" - it doesn't matter. You do. She does.

Honestly, you guys are the perfect scenario for couples therapy. You love each other, no one wants to leave -but you need some help with something. If you could find someone kink friendly who will accept the cuckolding thing as neutral and just help you both talk to each other, I think it could do you both a lot of good.

Just my opinion.

Good luck.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Bayless » Thu Apr 04, 2019 5:38 pm

Good Evening Breaker,
A little more Conservative view here. Telling her about your problems in trying to get her to further discuss how she reflects on the overall situation does not follow, at least in my experience, how the female mind works. The whole theme of what is currently happening in our society regarding male/female relationships at every level is a new world for most of us. Not better or worse just another evolutionary step.

There is no timetable for you and Mrs. Breaker. Her comfort level, and her vision of who she wants to become must be your priority. You love her completely and she loves you and she is dedicated to your happiness. You both, comparatively speaking, are very young. Enjoy your life and each other. “To live is so startling it leaves little time for anything else.” e. Dickinson.

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