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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by viking53 » Tue Jan 28, 2025 1:02 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Mon Jan 27, 2025 12:12 pm
Thinking about all of the story here, I can't help wonder if Lexi's sexual adventures with Sipho haven't included some girl/girl fun. I'm sure the folks that like to hang in that atmosphere would certainly enjoy watching two very HOT women enjoying themselves. Then I wonder how long will it take before Ky, Lexi/Jaimee and Joanna get to enjoy a full on threesome!! Someone already mentioned my further thought of the possibility of a polyamorous arrangement in the household. I'm sure Ky would enjoy the girl show they could put on for him.

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Jaimee's sexual debut was together with her girlfriend Brooke which was very intensive and someone she was considering marrying before Ky came along so there is no doubt she would be open for some girl/girl fun.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by wannabecUKold » Tue Jan 28, 2025 2:08 am

Ah yes Brooke. That was the name. Two incredibly hot girls having passionate sex together, eventually found by Ky_Da and J’s brother (to his surprise and delight!). That night was her first piercing.
That’s what the finest English boarding schools teach our girls:
Miss Buss and Miss Beale
Cupid’s darts do not feel
How unlike us
Miss Beale and Miss Buss
(Dorothea Beale founded J’s school)

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by mick_flow » Tue Jan 28, 2025 4:01 am

Mycall wrote:
Mon Jan 27, 2025 9:28 pm
This is all incredible writing and such emotionally intense stuff.

If Lexi really is starting to explore sub space this could be quite transformative, from what I understand this can be a very profound experience and totally different from vanilla sex, it also requires a lot of trust in your partner (Sipho in this case) as mentally it is a very vulnerable position to let yourself fall into. She will probably need a lot of reassurance and love after sessions like these. I can see a situation arising where you have a duality with Sipho taking her to these extreme but almost transcendent trance like states and you being the ground she comes back to. If my knowledge of BDSM serves me right this could deepen your connection but it could also serve to create a divide where she begins to see you less as a sexual being but more as an emotional partner and lifetime love.

Not sure I have described this especially well as I am not a great writer but I do have some knowledge on the psychological aspects of deeper BDSM states like sub space and it’s totally different from a playful session of being tied up and spanked a bit. In fact I would say it’s probably way deeper stuff than most cuckold fantasies go.
Think you hit the nail on the head. Lexi’s (Jaime’s) sexual mind will be locked on Sipho. It’s not about just the physical experience any more it’s also the mental one. Sipho is giving her something Ky never can.

Ky remains her rock, and her love. Where she goes to find rest, family, and peace. A warm comfort.

The challenge the balance at home for Ky and two relationships. If Jaimee comes home to find Ky and Joanna in bed and her rock missing that would be bad. If jaimee starts to imagine that Joanna is some sort of threat to her, that would be bad.

But…. If Sipho can take charge of Jaimee sexually, Ky can perhaps guide Jaimee on the love, and comfort and family side.

The desire would be for Jaimee to see Joanna and Ky as both love, comfort, family and care. If this happens it provides Jaimee with extra support and avoids the issues above. If this happens you could imagine Jaimee returning from Sipho and crawling into bed between Ky and Joanna. Searching and seeking out their love as comfort, happy to find them entwined and in bed together.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Mycall » Tue Jan 28, 2025 7:35 am

I think the kind of dynamic Sipho is bringing out is something that could never be sustainable in the real world.

“Can you pick up my prescription on the way back from dropping the kids off at school”

“Yes daddy”

It just doesn’t work, the mundane reality of everyday life would erode that erotic tension incredibly quickly. Jamies needs the tender gentle love, companionship and partnership that Ky brings to the table in order for Lexi to experience the escape, thrill and hedonism that Sipho is offering.

I do think that this exploration of subspace is really going to change things. That can be pretty profound and result in mental states similar to what people seeking enlightenment might find through decades of meditation. I can see this changing the dynamic and making Lexi incredibly malleable to Sipho’s every whim. This sort of transformation is what both Ky and Jamiee were fantasising about before this started.
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This is all incredible writing and such emotionally intense stuff.

If Lexi really is starting to explore sub space this could be quite transformative, from what I understand this can be a very profound experience and totally different from vanilla sex, it also requires a lot of trust in your partner (Sipho in this case) as mentally it is a very vulnerable position to let yourself fall into. She will probably need a lot of reassurance and love after sessions like these. I can see a situation arising where you have a duality with Sipho taking her to these extreme but almost transcendent trance like states and you being the ground she comes back to. If my knowledge of BDSM serves me right this could deepen your connection but it could also serve to create a divide where she begins to see you less as a sexual being but more as an emotional partner and lifetime love.

Not sure I have described this especially well as I am not a great writer but I do have some knowledge on the psychological aspects of deeper BDSM states like sub space and it’s totally different from a playful session of being tied up and spanked a bit. In fact I would say it’s probably way deeper stuff than most cuckold fantasies go.
Think you hit the nail on the head. Lexi’s (Jaime’s) sexual mind will be locked on Sipho. It’s not about just the physical experience any more it’s also the mental one. Sipho is giving her something Ky never can.

Ky remains her rock, and her love. Where she goes to find rest, family, and peace. A warm comfort.

The challenge the balance at home for Ky and two relationships. If Jaimee comes home to find Ky and Joanna in bed and her rock missing that would be bad. If jaimee starts to imagine that Joanna is some sort of threat to her, that would be bad.

But…. If Sipho can take charge of Jaimee sexually, Ky can perhaps guide Jaimee on the love, and comfort and family side.

The desire would be for Jaimee to see Joanna and Ky as both love, comfort, family and care. If this happens it provides Jaimee with extra support and avoids the issues above. If this happens you could imagine Jaimee returning from Sipho and crawling into bed between Ky and Joanna. Searching and seeking out their love as comfort, happy to find them entwined and in bed together.
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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by scdiver » Tue Jan 28, 2025 9:38 am

I just can’t stay quite. My favorite porn is where the bull takes the wife away from the husband. Just like what was done to me. Yet your story has been my favorite read since before you started this thread. I have enjoyed Jaimee’s adventures and your angst and excitement from them. But I fear you disappearing for a long time, only to come back and tell us how Lexi left you for Sipho. Yea I don’t want that to happen.
Ask yourself. What are you getting out of the current arrangement. You are not allowed to watch or be a part of Lexi’s experience. Lexi gets pulled away from you in the middle of a date with you and friends. That shows no respect for you at all. And by your writing Lexi at first tried to tell you it was for you but then admitted it was what she wanted. When Sipho is pulling Lexi away from you Lexi always blames you first for letting her get branded. Jaimee pushed you into Joanna as a consolation to try to satisfy you as Lexi get deeper and deeper into Sipho’s world.
Again what are you getting out of this. It seems to me that all you get is to pick up the pieces and try to put Jaimee back together when they are through with her and dump her at your doorstep.
Ky, other than my wife and myself you two are my favorite couple. I can’t wait for your updates. Please continue to write no matter what happens and I wish you all the best

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by veub » Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:27 pm

mick_flow wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 4:01 am
Mycall wrote:
Mon Jan 27, 2025 9:28 pm
This is all incredible writing and such emotionally intense stuff.

If Lexi really is starting to explore sub space this could be quite transformative, from what I understand this can be a very profound experience and totally different from vanilla sex, it also requires a lot of trust in your partner (Sipho in this case) as mentally it is a very vulnerable position to let yourself fall into. She will probably need a lot of reassurance and love after sessions like these. I can see a situation arising where you have a duality with Sipho taking her to these extreme but almost transcendent trance like states and you being the ground she comes back to. If my knowledge of BDSM serves me right this could deepen your connection but it could also serve to create a divide where she begins to see you less as a sexual being but more as an emotional partner and lifetime love.

Not sure I have described this especially well as I am not a great writer but I do have some knowledge on the psychological aspects of deeper BDSM states like sub space and it’s totally different from a playful session of being tied up and spanked a bit. In fact I would say it’s probably way deeper stuff than most cuckold fantasies go.
Think you hit the nail on the head. Lexi’s (Jaime’s) sexual mind will be locked on Sipho. It’s not about just the physical experience any more it’s also the mental one. Sipho is giving her something Ky never can.

Ky remains her rock, and her love. Where she goes to find rest, family, and peace. A warm comfort.

The challenge the balance at home for Ky and two relationships. If Jaimee comes home to find Ky and Joanna in bed and her rock missing that would be bad. If jaimee starts to imagine that Joanna is some sort of threat to her, that would be bad.

But…. If Sipho can take charge of Jaimee sexually, Ky can perhaps guide Jaimee on the love, and comfort and family side.

The desire would be for Jaimee to see Joanna and Ky as both love, comfort, family and care. If this happens it provides Jaimee with extra support and avoids the issues above. If this happens you could imagine Jaimee returning from Sipho and crawling into bed between Ky and Joanna. Searching and seeking out their love as comfort, happy to find them entwined and in bed together.
Sipho says that Ky will be her "rock," but given Sipho's description of her future life, how much "rest, family, and peace" will there be left? He will be in command of her time and activities for years. Sipho has been upfront about his plans on having her go ever deeper into "Lexi's" life and Ky loves the plan. Sipho has no concern about calling her into work at any time, and she "must" comply; that doesn't seem to leave much time for anything else now. When she gets even more involved in this long-term project will she have any time or interest in even dropping a text message to Ky or the kids?
One more point... If it were just about Jaimee cuckolding me, this would be all I'd need to say. But Sipho's involvement has stretched Jaimee's limits as well. Many of you might wonder why I haven't used my safe word more often, considering how far things have gone. All I can say is that I've been the one to pull back in the past, and Jaimee has always respected that, allowing me to end the game. This time, we agreed I would try to let things unfold naturally, giving her the reins. We set a timeline to this experiment, extending until our Florida trip in July. Yes, it's gone further than I anticipated, and there have been numerous times I've been on the brink of using my safe word, but I'm committed to letting Jaimee hold the power until our agreed end.
My best guess is that when the time comes for the Florida trip, Sipho will veto it. That crisis will likely bring an end to this story.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by veub » Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:32 pm

veub wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:27 pm
mick_flow wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 4:01 am
Mycall wrote:
Mon Jan 27, 2025 9:28 pm
This is all incredible writing and such emotionally intense stuff.

If Lexi really is starting to explore sub space this could be quite transformative, from what I understand this can be a very profound experience and totally different from vanilla sex, it also requires a lot of trust in your partner (Sipho in this case) as mentally it is a very vulnerable position to let yourself fall into. She will probably need a lot of reassurance and love after sessions like these. I can see a situation arising where you have a duality with Sipho taking her to these extreme but almost transcendent trance like states and you being the ground she comes back to. If my knowledge of BDSM serves me right this could deepen your connection but it could also serve to create a divide where she begins to see you less as a sexual being but more as an emotional partner and lifetime love.

Not sure I have described this especially well as I am not a great writer but I do have some knowledge on the psychological aspects of deeper BDSM states like sub space and it’s totally different from a playful session of being tied up and spanked a bit. In fact I would say it’s probably way deeper stuff than most cuckold fantasies go.
Think you hit the nail on the head. Lexi’s (Jaime’s) sexual mind will be locked on Sipho. It’s not about just the physical experience any more it’s also the mental one. Sipho is giving her something Ky never can.

Ky remains her rock, and her love. Where she goes to find rest, family, and peace. A warm comfort.

The challenge the balance at home for Ky and two relationships. If Jaimee comes home to find Ky and Joanna in bed and her rock missing that would be bad. If jaimee starts to imagine that Joanna is some sort of threat to her, that would be bad.

But…. If Sipho can take charge of Jaimee sexually, Ky can perhaps guide Jaimee on the love, and comfort and family side.

The desire would be for Jaimee to see Joanna and Ky as both love, comfort, family and care. If this happens it provides Jaimee with extra support and avoids the issues above. If this happens you could imagine Jaimee returning from Sipho and crawling into bed between Ky and Joanna. Searching and seeking out their love as comfort, happy to find them entwined and in bed together.
Sipho says that Ky will be her "rock," but given Sipho's description of her future life, how much "rest, family, and peace" will there be left? He will be in command of her time and activities for years. Sipho has been upfront about his plans on having her go ever deeper into "Lexi's" life and Ky loves the plan. Sipho has no concern about calling her into work at any time, and she "must" comply; that doesn't seem to leave much time for anything else now. When she gets even more involved in this long-term project will she have any time or interest in even dropping a text message to Ky or the kids?
One more point... If it were just about Jaimee cuckolding me, this would be all I'd need to say. But Sipho's involvement has stretched Jaimee's limits as well. Many of you might wonder why I haven't used my safe word more often, considering how far things have gone. All I can say is that I've been the one to pull back in the past, and Jaimee has always respected that, allowing me to end the game. This time, we agreed I would try to let things unfold naturally, giving her the reins. We set a timeline to this experiment, extending until our Florida trip in July. Yes, it's gone further than I anticipated, and there have been numerous times I've been on the brink of using my safe word, but I'm committed to letting Jaimee hold the power until our agreed end.
My best guess is that when the time comes for the Florida trip, Sipho will veto it. That crisis will likely bring an end to this story. Of course, if Jaimee/Lexi has any brains, avoiding Florida in July might be a good reason to side with Sipho.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Goodboy66 » Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:43 pm

veub wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:32 pm
veub wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:27 pm
mick_flow wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 4:01 am
Mycall wrote:
Mon Jan 27, 2025 9:28 pm
This is all incredible writing and such emotionally intense stuff.

If Lexi really is starting to explore sub space this could be quite transformative, from what I understand this can be a very profound experience and totally different from vanilla sex, it also requires a lot of trust in your partner (Sipho in this case) as mentally it is a very vulnerable position to let yourself fall into. She will probably need a lot of reassurance and love after sessions like these. I can see a situation arising where you have a duality with Sipho taking her to these extreme but almost transcendent trance like states and you being the ground she comes back to. If my knowledge of BDSM serves me right this could deepen your connection but it could also serve to create a divide where she begins to see you less as a sexual being but more as an emotional partner and lifetime love.

Not sure I have described this especially well as I am not a great writer but I do have some knowledge on the psychological aspects of deeper BDSM states like sub space and it’s totally different from a playful session of being tied up and spanked a bit. In fact I would say it’s probably way deeper stuff than most cuckold fantasies go.
Think you hit the nail on the head. Lexi’s (Jaime’s) sexual mind will be locked on Sipho. It’s not about just the physical experience any more it’s also the mental one. Sipho is giving her something Ky never can.

Ky remains her rock, and her love. Where she goes to find rest, family, and peace. A warm comfort.

The challenge the balance at home for Ky and two relationships. If Jaimee comes home to find Ky and Joanna in bed and her rock missing that would be bad. If jaimee starts to imagine that Joanna is some sort of threat to her, that would be bad.

But…. If Sipho can take charge of Jaimee sexually, Ky can perhaps guide Jaimee on the love, and comfort and family side.

The desire would be for Jaimee to see Joanna and Ky as both love, comfort, family and care. If this happens it provides Jaimee with extra support and avoids the issues above. If this happens you could imagine Jaimee returning from Sipho and crawling into bed between Ky and Joanna. Searching and seeking out their love as comfort, happy to find them entwined and in bed together.
Sipho says that Ky will be her "rock," but given Sipho's description of her future life, how much "rest, family, and peace" will there be left? He will be in command of her time and activities for years. Sipho has been upfront about his plans on having her go ever deeper into "Lexi's" life and Ky loves the plan. Sipho has no concern about calling her into work at any time, and she "must" comply; that doesn't seem to leave much time for anything else now. When she gets even more involved in this long-term project will she have any time or interest in even dropping a text message to Ky or the kids?
One more point... If it were just about Jaimee cuckolding me, this would be all I'd need to say. But Sipho's involvement has stretched Jaimee's limits as well. Many of you might wonder why I haven't used my safe word more often, considering how far things have gone. All I can say is that I've been the one to pull back in the past, and Jaimee has always respected that, allowing me to end the game. This time, we agreed I would try to let things unfold naturally, giving her the reins. We set a timeline to this experiment, extending until our Florida trip in July. Yes, it's gone further than I anticipated, and there have been numerous times I've been on the brink of using my safe word, but I'm committed to letting Jaimee hold the power until our agreed end.
My best guess is that when the time comes for the Florida trip, Sipho will veto it. That crisis will likely bring an end to this story. Of course, if Jaimee/Lexi has any brains, avoiding Florida in July might be a good reason to side with Sipho.
Maybe Sipho will persuade Jamiee that Ky can stay at home, they'll take the kids to Florida and arrange for Wade to meet his children.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by txrockdog » Tue Jan 28, 2025 1:26 pm

Contrary to what others seem to think, I don’t really see where Sipho has deviated from what he told Ky and Jaimee he wanted to do. He has certainly refocused Jaimee’s sexual attention to himself and his friends and taken them on a wild ride, but when they have taken time outs or changed course, he has honored their wishes, even if he put conditions on the changes. He told them upfront he wasn’t looking for short term individual play date type arrangements and wanted something longer term and deeper and it seems he has delivered on that.

All that to say I think Ky should still be wary of his ultimate intentions and protect his family and his relationship first, but the criticism and assumptions of evil intent on the part of Sipho seem a bit over the top given that he seems to have given them exactly what they all agreed upon (if not exactly the way they expected it) up this point.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by scdiver » Tue Jan 28, 2025 3:36 pm

Sipho says that Ky will be her "rock," but given Sipho's description of her future life, how much "rest, family, and peace" will there be left? He will be in command of her time and activities for years. Sipho has been upfront about his plans on having her go ever deeper into "Lexi's" life and Ky loves the plan. Sipho has no concern about calling her into work at any time, and she "must" comply; that doesn't seem to leave much time for anything else now. When she gets even more involved in this long-term project will she have any time or interest in even dropping a text message to Ky or the kids?
My best guess is that when the time comes for the Florida trip, Sipho will veto it. That crisis will likely bring an end to this story.

Veub, I agree. Every time Sipho pushes Jaimee to go beyond what Ky and Jaimee have agreed to, Ky spares Jaimee's feelings and says it is okay. Ky needs to tell her plainly that things are getting out of hand.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by mundyman » Tue Jan 28, 2025 4:32 pm

Hi Ky,
A quick question:
Has there ever been a time or times when Sipho called Jaimie to come to him and you or Jaimie said no?

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Mycall » Tue Jan 28, 2025 10:25 pm

I agree with this. Both Ky and Jamiee were looking to be pushed well outside their comfort zones and that is what Sipho promised.

Would just like to add that this only works because Ky and Jamiee have a strong relationship and solid foundation. Sipho provides a source of escapism from the mundane everyday realities of life. The fact that it is an escape allows for the (Sipho / Lexi) relationship to maintain a sense of intensity and momentum that wouldn’t work if it was all day everyday. Basically the Cuck / Kink side of things needs to be punctuated by times of grounding and normality otherwise it would rapidly begin to loose it’s intensity.

One analogy I could think of is when I used to put on raves. I would work all week and live my normal day to day life and then every other Saturday we would drag the sound system into the woods and get high and dance all night like there was no tomorrow. I couldn’t have done this everyday, I would have burned out and got sick of it very quickly, but as a form of escapism it was a beautiful sense of release and something I would look forward to and cherish.

Kink / fantasy play is 90% psychological and the rest physical. People seem to forget this and think it’s just about sex or who can thrust better or has a slightly bigger penis but really it’s about what is going on under the hood in our minds. Any kind of breakdown in Jamiee’s family life would dismantle the dynamic that makes it exciting and interesting in the first place. However, feeling close to the edge and like you are playing with fire makes it all the more exciting.

Also one thing people don’t seem to realise it that we are getting a condensed highlights reel rather than a true day to day blow by blow account of everyday life, what we read here is going to be highly skewed towards the kinky side of things.
txrockdog wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 1:26 pm
Contrary to what others seem to think, I don’t really see where Sipho has deviated from what he told Ky and Jaimee he wanted to do. He has certainly refocused Jaimee’s sexual attention to himself and his friends and taken them on a wild ride, but when they have taken time outs or changed course, he has honored their wishes, even if he put conditions on the changes. He told them upfront he wasn’t looking for short term individual play date type arrangements and wanted something longer term and deeper and it seems he has delivered on that.

All that to say I think Ky should still be wary of his ultimate intentions and protect his family and his relationship first, but the criticism and assumptions of evil intent on the part of Sipho seem a bit over the top given that he seems to have given them exactly what they all agreed upon (if not exactly the way they expected it) up this point.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Mycall » Wed Jan 29, 2025 1:56 am

You do realise that we only get snapshots right?

I am pretty sure that there is plenty of family time and grounded real life happening between the events being recalled. Personally I don’t think Lexi would be sustainable as a full time persona. She is an escape into hedonism that can only truly exist because she is grounded by Jamiee. If Sypho’s antics broke up Ky’s family then he would also dismantle the dynamic he has been cultivating. If life is fairly vanilla then you crave excitement and adventure but if life becomes to uncertain you will start to crave security and order.

Do you get what I am saying?

Jamiee’s having a strong grounded relationship plays perfectly into what Sipho wants because then what he provides offers an exciting escape from everyday life.

Admittedly I could see an extended appearance for Lexi, say a week for example but I think anything more and the excitement and buzz would wear off and she would start craving comfort and security.

It’s all about balance, if you get this right then she will appreciate and relish each side more with the contrast enhancing the dynamic of both sides of her life.
veub wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 12:27 pm
mick_flow wrote:
Tue Jan 28, 2025 4:01 am
Mycall wrote:
Mon Jan 27, 2025 9:28 pm
This is all incredible writing and such emotionally intense stuff.

If Lexi really is starting to explore sub space this could be quite transformative, from what I understand this can be a very profound experience and totally different from vanilla sex, it also requires a lot of trust in your partner (Sipho in this case) as mentally it is a very vulnerable position to let yourself fall into. She will probably need a lot of reassurance and love after sessions like these. I can see a situation arising where you have a duality with Sipho taking her to these extreme but almost transcendent trance like states and you being the ground she comes back to. If my knowledge of BDSM serves me right this could deepen your connection but it could also serve to create a divide where she begins to see you less as a sexual being but more as an emotional partner and lifetime love.

Not sure I have described this especially well as I am not a great writer but I do have some knowledge on the psychological aspects of deeper BDSM states like sub space and it’s totally different from a playful session of being tied up and spanked a bit. In fact I would say it’s probably way deeper stuff than most cuckold fantasies go.
Think you hit the nail on the head. Lexi’s (Jaime’s) sexual mind will be locked on Sipho. It’s not about just the physical experience any more it’s also the mental one. Sipho is giving her something Ky never can.

Ky remains her rock, and her love. Where she goes to find rest, family, and peace. A warm comfort.

The challenge the balance at home for Ky and two relationships. If Jaimee comes home to find Ky and Joanna in bed and her rock missing that would be bad. If jaimee starts to imagine that Joanna is some sort of threat to her, that would be bad.

But…. If Sipho can take charge of Jaimee sexually, Ky can perhaps guide Jaimee on the love, and comfort and family side.

The desire would be for Jaimee to see Joanna and Ky as both love, comfort, family and care. If this happens it provides Jaimee with extra support and avoids the issues above. If this happens you could imagine Jaimee returning from Sipho and crawling into bed between Ky and Joanna. Searching and seeking out their love as comfort, happy to find them entwined and in bed together.
Sipho says that Ky will be her "rock," but given Sipho's description of her future life, how much "rest, family, and peace" will there be left? He will be in command of her time and activities for years. Sipho has been upfront about his plans on having her go ever deeper into "Lexi's" life and Ky loves the plan. Sipho has no concern about calling her into work at any time, and she "must" comply; that doesn't seem to leave much time for anything else now. When she gets even more involved in this long-term project will she have any time or interest in even dropping a text message to Ky or the kids?
One more point... If it were just about Jaimee cuckolding me, this would be all I'd need to say. But Sipho's involvement has stretched Jaimee's limits as well. Many of you might wonder why I haven't used my safe word more often, considering how far things have gone. All I can say is that I've been the one to pull back in the past, and Jaimee has always respected that, allowing me to end the game. This time, we agreed I would try to let things unfold naturally, giving her the reins. We set a timeline to this experiment, extending until our Florida trip in July. Yes, it's gone further than I anticipated, and there have been numerous times I've been on the brink of using my safe word, but I'm committed to letting Jaimee hold the power until our agreed end.
My best guess is that when the time comes for the Florida trip, Sipho will veto it. That crisis will likely bring an end to this story.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by mundyman » Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:13 am

I find this idea written by scdiver is really hot, dark, and not ve4y practical, but
Holy fuck what an idea to think about:

“Here is an idea I have for you to think about. You have 4 months till you can fuck Jaimee again. Why don’t you set it up with Sipho for Lexi to live with him for the month of May, just like you had her live with Wade when you went to Guatemala. Jaimee can totally loose herself as Lexi and you can live with Joanna as husband and wife. You can even set up some safeguards like dating Jaimee a couple of times or you can have her totally immerse herself in her world of slut slave.”

I wonder what kind of person she would return as?
How would her personality be changed, as if she would be brainwashed into being Lexi all the time, her outlook on life and expectations changed.
How strung out and used up would she be after being the sex slut and who’re to Sipho?
What would she look like physically?
Who would she be after not having her rock and anchor to return to for an entire month….
Thoughts to fantasize about, but not practical in the real.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Goodboy66 » Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:32 am

Mundayman

Jaimee now has children. Her moving out for a kink may not be the best parenting.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Mycall » Wed Jan 29, 2025 6:43 am

I totally agree, I could possibly see something like a week working but not a month. I also think the dynamic would change over a month. With Wade it was more like living as a couple whereas what Sipho does is very different. It’s much more high intensity and I think it would be very hard to sustain something like that for a month without crashing down.
Goodboy66 wrote:
Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:32 am
Mundayman

Jaimee now has children. Her moving out for a kink may not be the best parenting.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by mundyman » Wed Jan 29, 2025 6:44 am

Goodboy66 wrote:
Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:32 am
Mundayman

Jaimee now has children. Her moving out for a kink may not be the best parenting.
Thus the reason I said not very practical in real life.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by veub » Wed Jan 29, 2025 9:35 am

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by veub » Wed Jan 29, 2025 9:36 am

You do realise that we only get snapshots right?

I am pretty sure that there is plenty of family time and grounded real life happening between the events being recalled. Personally I don’t think Lexi would be sustainable as a full time persona. She is an escape into hedonism that can only truly exist because she is grounded by Jamiee. If Sypho’s antics broke up Ky’s family then he would also dismantle the dynamic he has been cultivating. If life is fairly vanilla then you crave excitement and adventure but if life becomes to uncertain you will start to crave security and order.
Jaimee works with Sipho every day. She spends, at least, a few nights a week working for him. I doubt that there is plenty of family time."

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by Wistful » Wed Jan 29, 2025 9:54 am

Ky-Da has been a valued contributor here for years, sharing his and Jaimee’s life with us as they play their “game.” Ky is a great writer, often prolific when their adventures are in full flow. In those periods their story has been wild and exciting, and very positive even with the bumps in the road.

This latest iteration began with their move back to The UK. The story renewed with promise. Up to and including the night when Jamie brought Sipho home—so Ky could witness Sipho working his magic with Jaimee.

Then Ky took a multi-month writing break, and when he did return he explained their story, “the game,” had advanced so much that he’ll need many posts to relate it. And he has been trying . . .

But I can’t say I’m enjoying their story anymore. I’ve been hooked by Ky’s writing, and I’m sure I will continue to read, but for me the tenor has changed. Whereas I used to be reading, say, a warm exciting adventure story—now I’m reading, say, horror.

Others on OHW have written before of an “operator” wedging themselves between a husband and wife, with the express purpose to change the wife and erode the marriage bond. I’ve never enjoyed those stories, perhaps just my nature, but Sipho is taking those tales to a new dark low.

Total denial of sex between KY and Jaimee. The body (enhancements?) The need for the new persona, Lexi. The complete control of Lexi’s sex life, of Jaimee’s life? This has become a hopeless Jeckyll/Hyde horror show.

And I find it ugly. Does anyone really see a one-inch-tall tattoo at the waist saying “temptation”, tempting?

Oh well, Ky has in the past been able to explain away missteps, mishaps. Maybe there will be a more positive resolution to this episode of the “game.”

I’ve learned not to offer negative comments here on OHW. I did that once, years ago, joining in a chorus. The effect was only that the beloved poster more or less stopped posting, and her scant posts since have lost much flavor. Can’t for the life of me figure out why I am doing it again . . .l

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by txrockdog » Wed Jan 29, 2025 10:39 am

Wistful wrote:
Wed Jan 29, 2025 9:54 am
Ky-Da has been a valued contributor here for years, sharing his and Jaimee’s life with us as they play their “game.” Ky is a great writer, often prolific when their adventures are in full flow. In those periods their story has been wild and exciting, and very positive even with the bumps in the road.

This latest iteration began with their move back to The UK. The story renewed with promise. Up to and including the night when Jamie brought Sipho home—so Ky could witness Sipho working his magic with Jaimee.

Then Ky took a multi-month writing break, and when he did return he explained their story, “the game,” had advanced so much that he’ll need many posts to relate it. And he has been trying . . .

But I can’t say I’m enjoying their story anymore. I’ve been hooked by Ky’s writing, and I’m sure I will continue to read, but for me the tenor has changed. Whereas I used to be reading, say, a warm exciting adventure story—now I’m reading, say, horror.

Others on OHW have written before of an “operator” wedging themselves between a husband and wife, with the express purpose to change the wife and erode the marriage bond. I’ve never enjoyed those stories, perhaps just my nature, but Sipho is taking those tales to a new dark low.

Total denial of sex between KY and Jaimee. The body (enhancements?) The need for the new persona, Lexi. The complete control of Lexi’s sex life, of Jaimee’s life? This has become a hopeless Jeckyll/Hyde horror show.

And I find it ugly. Does anyone really see a one-inch-tall tattoo at the waist saying “temptation”, tempting?

Oh well, Ky has in the past been able to explain away missteps, mishaps. Maybe there will be a more positive resolution to this episode of the “game.”

I’ve learned not to offer negative comments here on OHW. I did that once, years ago, joining in a chorus. The effect was only that the beloved poster more or less stopped posting, and her scant posts since have lost much flavor. Can’t for the life of me figure out why I am doing it again . . .l
To me the difference with Ky and all those others who have reacted negatively to any critique is that Ky is more willing to discuss his own emotions and the background talks and discussions he and Jaimee have along the way to negotiate their path. He openly admits he wouldn’t advise anybody to follow in their path, but they both appear to enjoy their time pushing the boundaries. So many other thread authors seem to treat those personal discussions as “boring” or not worth talking about, but to me they are what lends and authenticity and depth to this thread that would
be missing with just a simple recitation of the sexual acts involved.

It could all still end in tragedy, but I don’t sense that as an imminent outcome based on Jaimee’s emotions about how Ky handled her leaving at the club. Back when they were discussing this prior to engaging with Sipho, Jaimee said something like “this would be real and could really hurt you!” And Ky’s response was something to the effect that he was tough enough to handle it.

I think the fears of many here have good foundations, and it is the mark of a talented author and story teller in Ky that so many of us feel connected enough to them to want to express those fears and not see them get hurt. But I don’t sense that Ky is turned off by the fact that he is provoking those emotions or repulsed by the negative comments. He is welcome to correct me if I am wrong, but the comments and discussions seem to be something he welcomes, so I wouldn’t say you should feel hesitant to weigh in with your opinion, respectful as it was.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by scdiver » Wed Jan 29, 2025 1:29 pm

Texrockdog says it could end in tragedy but not soon and he is right. It will take some time for it to unfold. Jaimee is a sex addict and like a drug addict or a gambling addict or a drug addict the outcome ends in tragedy. By Ky’s writing, Sipho is only interested in seeing how far he can take Lexi into the world of her addiction and Sipho does not care about the collateral damage done to Ky’s and Jaimee’s family. This was proven to me by the way Sipho outed Lexi to Ky’s friends by taking Lexi away from Ky on Ky’s date with Jaimee and their friends and by the way Sipho sent Lexi home half dressed, looking like a gang banged tortured slut, in a cab instead of being bothered to drive her home himself.
I have been in Ky’s shoes so many years ago. I too had a family destroyed by the promises of a person much like Sipho.
Ky needs to realize the damage this addiction will do to his kids. His Kids by my estimation are four and six years old. At that age it is fairly easy to think you are hiding the sexual activity from the kids. But make no mistake the kids are age it is fairly easy to think you are hiding the sexual activity from the kids. But make no mistake the kids are picking up far more than most adult know. It is just that at this age the kids have no idea what they know. As the kids turn to preteens the teen agers they will start to remember what they have seen and will start asking questions.
Does Ky want one of the kids to see him on top of Joanna or to see Lexi come home the way she did in Ky’s writing. It is just a matter of time before this happens. How does Jaimee explain to her kids the tattoos on her body and what will Ky do when he finds his teen age daughter wanting to be just like her mother.
That is when the tragedy will strike.
Ky, you have kids. You and Jaimee need to be a role models for them. Yes play a little but Sipho needs to go. Get into the life fully when they have left home. Until that time your kids need to come first.
End of rant for now.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by mick_flow » Wed Jan 29, 2025 10:12 pm

scdiver - I feel you.

My wife spent nights away with her lover. Turned into weekend trips. Nights during the week. Visits over when I was away. Week long vacations. God it was hot. Yes I encouraged it.

When the wife was away I’d take our boys out. Do something fun. Science museum, amusement parks, trips out. It helped me keep my mind off the angst, and I got time with the boys.

It was fun. But the angst started to fade. It felt normal that she wasn’t around. It also felt a bit empty. Lonely. I started seeing another women as well.

Then wife came home one day. Talking about co-parenting, separation. I stared out at the precipice. The future of only seeing the boys part time. The loneliness of the life I was about to lead.

My wife thought I wanted it. That id enjoy it. After all I’d pushed her, right?! Had another women right?

I posted here for help, I omitted the other women at the time - but you guys were awesome.

Now I sat about undoing it hard. Dropped the other women, I explained that full separation isn’t something I wanted. That I’d fight for the boys. Etc.

It was a horrid horrid time. We both said some horrible things. I pointed out all the time I’d had with the boys, the adventures we’d had with out her. That got to her. Hard.

We are still together. Which is awesome. I love her to bits. Did I fuck it up? Yup… ohh yup…

We tried the lifestyle again a year later. Then eventually paused it completely for both of us.

She didn’t want to miss the time with the boys.

I love ky’s writing. His story is just epic. But I don’t want him experiencing any of the pain of what I went through. If that means the story is curtailed … then that’s ok… better the family is safe.

Take care ky. Hope you guys are all doing ok scdiver ?

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by scdiver » Thu Jan 30, 2025 6:11 am

Mick_Flow, I am doing well. My new wife and I have grown old together (it has been 40 years). We have two kids from this marriage and several grand kids from this marriage. My oldest son has reached out and is trying to build a relationship again. My wife and I are so much in love with each other. Night and day from my first marriage.
I have been in love with Ky's story since the beginning with Derek. I so much see the seeds of utter destruction with Ky and Jaimee and their involvement with Sipho that I had with my first marriage.
I have no skin in their story and I find it hard to write on these forums in fear someone might recognize me. But I had to put my two cents in in hopes that Ky will come to his senses and fight for Jaimee the way he did with Derek.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by scdiver » Thu Jan 30, 2025 7:28 am

Mick_Flow, I also want to thank you for telling your story. The dangers of this lifestyle can be overwhelming.
Ky, we need to hear from you. Is all okay, I hope so.

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