Sorry for the lack of updates, but thought I’d drop in to let you all know things are going well.
One dynamic that has happened naturally is a bit of a cuckold thing with her sex toys. She’s eager to tell me how good they feel and how much better they are than me—some of that is teasing, but there’s certainly some truth as she will very frequently want her toy to start a session. Combine that with her loving me masterbating while watching her and I could see this developing into a fun cuckold gateway.
I’m not pushing anything though—things are still emotionally complicated due to her affair, so I’m letting things play out organically.
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great progress
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Thanks for sharing your story here. I feel as if I was with you during this journey. My takeaway is that your wife cheated (no it isn't a justification) because you were too submissive. She seemed to open up sexually when you, frankly, fucked the shit out of her. She wanted to be dominated and your anger brought that out....and she responded! She wants to be fucked!
Seems that you're headed back to that submissive role again, this time with humiliation, and I'm not sure if that is the best path forward for you. Have you thought about hotwifing vs. cuckolding?
Seems that you're headed back to that submissive role again, this time with humiliation, and I'm not sure if that is the best path forward for you. Have you thought about hotwifing vs. cuckolding?
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I thought I’d give an interesting update. On the whole, we’ve still had our ups and downs as we navigate the emotional turmoil of the affair, but my wife told me over the weekend that even though she’s not up for being a hotwife right now, she won’t rule anything out in the future and wants to do more to fulfill the fantasy for me for the time being.
She said she did some looking around on the internet and wants to understand the fetish better, so she ordered this book off Amazon: “Hotwife: A Couple's Guide to Hotwifing (Female Led Relationship)”—it’s supposed to arrive today.
I’m not familiar with the book, but Im thinking I may try to read it as well—I was thinking I could even highlight passages so she knows what I connect with. I want to be cautious though to make sure I don’t overstep or under step here. I keep reinforcing how much it means to me that she ordered the book and I feel like that affirmation is making her feel good that she’s doing something nice after all the pain she has caused.
I recognize she still has anxiety over the fetish though—worried about saying the wrong thing, so I’m doing my best to dissuade her of that—I’ve never gotten angry or shown hurt over anything she’s said in an erotic setting.
Any feedback on how to proceed with the book or insight from anyone who has read it would be great though!
Lastly, we also discussed more about what we can do to keep our sexlife on track—she is still plagued by feelings of obligation during sex (some of which is my fault due to my reaction post-affair), so I’m doing my best to repair that damage and remove the pressure from her. At the same time, she wants to have regular sex to maintain our intimacy. We settled on regular sex about once a week; at least 3x a month.
I also requested no more BJs (they have been a source of negativity at times if she does it out of a feeling of obligation and I don’t pick up on it). So BJs are only a special occasion thing and she can’t give more than one a month—again, the idea is to take away that feeling of obligation/expectation.
In return, she’ll be more open to sexual fun most other days—though most will be me just jerking myself off while she either sits with me or masterbated with a toy. We agree that an obvious way to play into the cuck fantasy is for her to use her toys to make me feel inadequate.
She also told me again that she thinks it’s a kinky idea to train me to enjoy my cum—so with her swallowing a lot less of it, it’s a good time for me to take on the role so one of us gets to eat it.
And lastly, we haven’t been using the cage as much lately and she wants to use it more, but sometimes feels silly asking me to put it on. I think I need to take the lead on it and just start wearing it more frequently. We’ve also discussed how wearing it overnight can lead to temporary size shrinkage and she LOVES that—she thinks most guys are so obsessed about their dick size, so me willingly shrinking mine for her turns her on. I asked if she’d care about it during sex, but she said the sex is just for our emotional connection and her toys do the job of filling her up.
So overall, it feels like we are moving together in the right direction—I’m excited for the next steps!
She said she did some looking around on the internet and wants to understand the fetish better, so she ordered this book off Amazon: “Hotwife: A Couple's Guide to Hotwifing (Female Led Relationship)”—it’s supposed to arrive today.
I’m not familiar with the book, but Im thinking I may try to read it as well—I was thinking I could even highlight passages so she knows what I connect with. I want to be cautious though to make sure I don’t overstep or under step here. I keep reinforcing how much it means to me that she ordered the book and I feel like that affirmation is making her feel good that she’s doing something nice after all the pain she has caused.
I recognize she still has anxiety over the fetish though—worried about saying the wrong thing, so I’m doing my best to dissuade her of that—I’ve never gotten angry or shown hurt over anything she’s said in an erotic setting.
Any feedback on how to proceed with the book or insight from anyone who has read it would be great though!
Lastly, we also discussed more about what we can do to keep our sexlife on track—she is still plagued by feelings of obligation during sex (some of which is my fault due to my reaction post-affair), so I’m doing my best to repair that damage and remove the pressure from her. At the same time, she wants to have regular sex to maintain our intimacy. We settled on regular sex about once a week; at least 3x a month.
I also requested no more BJs (they have been a source of negativity at times if she does it out of a feeling of obligation and I don’t pick up on it). So BJs are only a special occasion thing and she can’t give more than one a month—again, the idea is to take away that feeling of obligation/expectation.
In return, she’ll be more open to sexual fun most other days—though most will be me just jerking myself off while she either sits with me or masterbated with a toy. We agree that an obvious way to play into the cuck fantasy is for her to use her toys to make me feel inadequate.
She also told me again that she thinks it’s a kinky idea to train me to enjoy my cum—so with her swallowing a lot less of it, it’s a good time for me to take on the role so one of us gets to eat it.
And lastly, we haven’t been using the cage as much lately and she wants to use it more, but sometimes feels silly asking me to put it on. I think I need to take the lead on it and just start wearing it more frequently. We’ve also discussed how wearing it overnight can lead to temporary size shrinkage and she LOVES that—she thinks most guys are so obsessed about their dick size, so me willingly shrinking mine for her turns her on. I asked if she’d care about it during sex, but she said the sex is just for our emotional connection and her toys do the job of filling her up.
So overall, it feels like we are moving together in the right direction—I’m excited for the next steps!
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I think you are right to just put on the cage yourself without being told. It might also be fun to do something to the key to make it harder to just get in a moment such as putting it in a cup of water and freezing it. That way it takes some time to get to it and she has to think twice if she really wants to unlock you.
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I think that’s a fun idea. She does get caught up in the moment and want sex with me, so if she couldn’t unlock me and used her toy instead, she’d be fine. I think at this point she’d still feel a bit guilty about it—but I’m going to keep this in the bad of my mind.Rogueuser1 wrote: ↑Thu Dec 15, 2022 6:00 pmI think you are right to just put on the cage yourself without being told. It might also be fun to do something to the key to make it harder to just get in a moment such as putting it in a cup of water and freezing it. That way it takes some time to get to it and she has to think twice if she really wants to unlock you.
Separately, I’m having a bit of an issue with the cage. I wore it for two days—slept with it ok first night, but second night was rough. It’s a CB (plastic), so what happens is when I get hard during sleep, it pushes the ring down and really chaffes under my scrotum and on top of my shaft—it’s like a bad burn on the bottom and a pinch on the top.
I can apply lube to lesson it during day, but at night the damage is done by time the pain wakes me up. Today I had bruising on the top of my shaft (looked like damaged blood vessels)—so I left the cage off. Bottom-line, I’m not sure I can make it work long term during sleep.
Anyone with firsthand experience that can offer advice would be appreciated!
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I don't have first hand experience of long term cage wearing. Mine are only for sex sessions, as extra fun.drstrangelove wrote: ↑Fri Dec 16, 2022 6:04 pmI’m having a bit of an issue with the cage. I wore it for two days—slept with it ok first night, but second night was rough. It’s a CB (plastic), so what happens is when I get hard during sleep, it pushes the ring down and really chaffes under my scrotum and on top of my shaft—it’s like a bad burn on the bottom and a pinch on the top.
I can apply lube to lesson it during day, but at night the damage is done by time the pain wakes me up. Today I had bruising on the top of my shaft (looked like damaged blood vessels)—so I left the cage off. Bottom-line, I’m not sure I can make it work long term during sleep.
Like anything that has direct contact with sensitive skin, it will need time to wear in. You will need to have breaks from wearing it, to allow your skin to heal and adjust.
Also, check carefully the parts of the cage that are touching you and causing the problem. Rough edges, or even just clean cut edges can cause friction. Use a very fine abrasive and smooth out rough bits. Round off square cut edges, even just a little.
Only go back to using the cage once things are back to normal.
If eventually long term wear is something you want to persue, then a custom fit cage might be worth investing in.
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Have you considered pre-lubing with something heavy duty like vaseline that will last all night? That is the recommendation here on a blog that does a lot of chastity writing. I think her husband is locked every day: https://www.evolvingyourman.com/ufaqs/i ... ould-i-do/
You may also want to make sure your cage is the correct size: https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2021/01 ... cock-cage/
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Thank you for these two blogs, I should have been caged a long time ago. My MIl is going to cage me this Tuesday. I’m a nervous wreck but excited to the max.
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And that's why they make silicone ones. Search for them, they are easy to find.drstrangelove wrote: ↑Fri Dec 16, 2022 6:04 pmToday I had bruising on the top of my shaft (looked like damaged blood vessels)—so I left the cage off. Bottom-line, I’m not sure I can make it work long term during sleep.
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Thanks for all the replies and my apologies for the lack of updates. We're starting to look into a new chastity cage, so there's that.
I do want to provide an update on the hottest conversation I've ever had though as I thought you'd all enjoy it. I still don't know how to post pics of the texts, so I'll type them all out again.
The setup here is that my wife has been struggling with playing into the hotwife fetish verbally--she can get started and last a few minutes, but quickly loses her confidence and feels awkward. She had an attempt last night that ended poorly and she got frustrated. I was up most of the night and jerked off around 5 a.m. as I hadn't gotten off from our play session the night before (I think I accidently had some caffeine) and she got up early and went downstairs to paint. We began texting and she was very frustrated with herself--she didn't understand why she kept feeling awkward--she really wanted to play into the fetish with me and knows she keeps messing up when we do anything verbally. She asked if we could try it with texts instead to start and let it build up her confidence.
Now for context, one of the things I've been asking for from her for 15 years is for her to tell me some of her old sex stories--but she always refused noting that they were dark periods in her life and she feels really self-conscious talking to me about them. But as I've noted, she was very slutty in early college, sleeping with 20+ guys in a couple of years, but that's largely all I know. So this was my chance to get some insight through text and I went for it.
Me: Well now I'm too excited by all the possibilities of you texting me about your past. There are so many thing I want to know. I've been waiting for this offer for 15 years!
Her: I'm so glad we could come up with a solution.
Me: Lol. Soooooo when was your first cream pie?
Her: What is a cream pie?
Me: When a guy cums inside your pussy.
Her: Lol. My first cream pie was in college. It was with a guy named [Br]. We went back to [Dorms] and he came in me after we had doggy.
Me: Slow down. What year? Sophomore?
Her: It was junior year early in the semester. [Note: I met my wife a few weeks later in late fall--we kissed the first night, but nothing more; spent all night talking and I didn't make a move.]
Me: Was that your first time with him?
Her: Yes he was a one night stand.
Me: Fuck that is so hot babe--you met him at the bars? Which one?
Her: We met at [R]. It was a Friday night.
Me: What's his last name? Did I know him?
Her: I don't remember his last name. Probably not. I don't remember what people he hung out with but I remember him saying he didn't go to the bars much.
Me: Did he approach you at the bar?
Her: I approached him.
Me: You were so fucking hot then (still are)--that's right when I met you. Did you have a line or just say hi?
Her: I just said hi and told him I noticed him and thought he was cute.
Me: That's so bold! Was that normal for you? Or did you just really think he was hot?
Her: I thought he was hot.
Me: Ok, so he sees you and clearly thinks the same so you start chatting. How long before you decide to leave together? Who invites who back?
Her: We talk for about 30 minutes and it's already late and he tells me he's leaving and wants me to come back with him.
Me: So you go back to his apartment--do you hang out in the common area or go right to his room? No roommates?
Her: No we go straight to his room and his roommate is gone for the weekend.
Me: Immediately start kissing and hooking up? Walk me through it.
Her: We immediately start kissing. I remember he used lots of tongue. Then he slowly undressed me, taking off my skirt and commenting how he thought it was hot I wore a thong with my skirt.
Me: Fuck.
Her: Then I start taking off his clothes and he's wearing tight boxers to accentuate his large dick. Then I start rubbing his cock. He's already dropping pre cum. I assume that is because he was so turned on by my thong and skirt. I don't think he met many girls who would wear that out to the bar.
Me: His dick was above average--like my size? Or even bigger? [Note: I'm a little more than seven inches.]
Her: I think it was bigger than yours. Probably by about two inches.
Me: That's huge--did that turn you on or make you nervous?
Her: And it was really thick. At first was nervous because I didn't know if my hand would fit around his cock.
Me: Fuck.
Her: But the pre cum helped slide gently around his dick. And then we moved to the bed.
Me: Did you put your mouth on it or did you not waste anymore time?
Her: And he was very dominant--he started to finger me for a few minutes and then slid his dick in.
Me: I can't imagine something that big even fitting inside you--you're so tiny. You didn't care about him not using a condom? Did he ask?
Her: He didn't even ask. He just put his dick in. That's how dominant he was. Completely took control.
Me: He didn't even know you were on BC? Were you nervous or caught up in the moment?
Her: Just completely caught up in the moment. My impulse just took over.
Me: That's a hot impulse.
Her: He took my hands and put them over my head as he rode me missionary. And he fucked me hard.
Me: Did it hurt?
Her: No I was completely turned on by him. I thought it would at first but I wanted an orgasm.
Me: Fuck you are so perfect babe--I love that you got what you needed. Did you cum during missionary?
Her: I was just wet from the start. And yes. I came so quickly. I was so turned on by how hot he was.
Me: Fuck babe.
Her: As soon as I came he just aggresively flipped me over. He started to do doggy. Slapping my ass.
Me: Fuck--quite a contrast to our first meet a few weeks later. I was just hoping I'd get to eat you out and all I got was a kiss.
Her: He was just riding me so hard over and over and fondling my breasts.
Me: My god, I'm sure you were in heaven.
Her: I was you know how much I like when you play with my boobs. It turns me on and I get instantly wet thinking about it. As soon as he started playing with my boobs I knew I was going to cum again.
Me: I know, I wish I could fuck you like that too, but I enjoy getting to play with your breasts while you cum with your toy. But you deserve to get fucked hard by a big dick anytime you want babe--I want you to feel free to enjoy life to the fullest. It's so hot.
Her: You know I was just thinking how much I enjoy when you play with my boobs and I use my toy. The heavy vibration. You caressing my breasts sucking on them. Turns me on.
Me: I know--it makes me happy when we do that. Participating in you having such an awesome orgasm. Do you think he felt you about to cum again?
Her: I think he felt it because I exploded. It was such an incredible orgasm.
Me: You probably squirted babe with a dick that big and you so turned on lol.
Her: He definitely had the largest cock I've ever seen. And it felt so good having him inside me. And as we did doggy I felt him cumming. His dick was enlarged. He went so deep inside me.
Me: Did he warn you that he was going to fill you up?
Her: No he was too caught in the moment.
Me: He just took you home, fucked you raw and cream pied you without ever asking if you were on BC or if it was ok?
Her: Yes. It was so incredibly impulsive and dominating. And I didn't think twice about it. I was so caught up in the moment.
Me: That's so fucking hot. And that's so alpha him just taking you and owning you like that.
Her: I was so turned on by him and his cock. I didn't mind at all that he came in me. I knew I was on BC and would be safe.
Me: Don't you miss getting fucked like that by an alpha guy who just dominates you?
Her: Yea I enjoy getting fucked by an alpha guy who takes control. Who will fuck me so good.
Me: You don't mind that I'm not that guy? That I'd prefer to gently lick your pussy if you let me instead? I would have loved to be waiting in your bed that night to gently sooth and kiss your pussy afterward. It must have been so swollen and sore after that. Did you go home or sleep over?
Her: I like that you lick my pussy and I can control you and your orgasm. In fact I am happy you masterbated this morning thinking of me. I slept over at his house. [Note: I had told her I jerked off next to her thinking about her affair sex.]
Me: You're all I ever think about now when I masterbate. And I love that you have complete control over me and my orgasms. He didn't fuck you again in the morning?
Her: I didn't want to walk home that night. And yes that morning I woke up to a nice big surprise.
Me: Fuck.
Her: I slept naked.
Me: Fuck.
Her: And he was fondling my breasts and I was so wet. And he was so turned on. Morning wood, naked girl in his bed.
Me: OMG he dumped another load in you didn't he?
Her: Of course he did. He felt all over my naked body. My boobs, then my stomach and makes his way down to my pusy and starts fingering it. He pushed up his rock hard dick. Massaging it into my back.
Me: Fuck he just takes you however he wants.
Her: Dominant and controlling. And he feels I'm instantly wet. And I start to massage his dick. And it has cum dropping out of it. Like he's ready for another round.
Me: Fuck you must have been so sore and you didn't care.
Her: No I was ready for round two. I figured I probably would never get a dick that size again. So I wanted to just have this experience. I figured I could go home and have a shower afterward but I wanted to just get messy. And we worked up quite the sweat the night before. And I just wanted to feel that cock inside of me.
Me: Mmhmmm that's why you didn't go home the night before.
Her: Of course I wanted to do it again. And feel him in me again. Then he flipped me completely over on my stomach on the bed and slipped it in. He just kept spanking me. Pulling my hair.
Me: And now there was so question where he'd cum. He owned your pussy at that point so anytime you ever fuck again he'd expect to finish deep inside.
Her: He just owned my pussy and I wanted him to cum in me again.
Me: Fuck you love his aggression. I feel so unnatural when you ask me to spank you and pull your hair.
Her: It felt so free and liberating. And he just rode me for 30 minutes my ass red from him spanking me.
Me: OMG that's a long pounding from something that big!
Her: So long and I was sore for days afterwards.
Me: I can't imagine how torn up and messy you were.
Her: I really needed someone to gently lick my pussy for days afterward...
Me: I'd give anything for you to find an alpha guy like him with a big dick to treat you right--it's the only way I'd ever get to see your pussy like that again. I'd have licked his cum right out of you and gently massaged your pussy lips.
Her: That would have felt amazing. You don't mind licking his cum right out of me?
Me: Of course not--that's what you would have needed from me. I can't fuck you like that, so I just want to be useful.
Her: Hmmm I like the idea of you cleaning me up right after sex. That's hot. Licking all the cum.
Me: I wish I could do it all the time--even after your toy makes you cum. Would you have been bothered by me licking his cum out of you? Maybe self conscious knowing he left two big loads in there and how deep he shot.
Her: No I would have enjoyed it. Ugh that sounds incredible. Licking my cum after I make myself cum. You're making me want to come up and use my toy. While you just fondle me.
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And that was that. She came upstairs and got herself off with her toy and I jerked off watching. So fucking hot.
I do want to provide an update on the hottest conversation I've ever had though as I thought you'd all enjoy it. I still don't know how to post pics of the texts, so I'll type them all out again.
The setup here is that my wife has been struggling with playing into the hotwife fetish verbally--she can get started and last a few minutes, but quickly loses her confidence and feels awkward. She had an attempt last night that ended poorly and she got frustrated. I was up most of the night and jerked off around 5 a.m. as I hadn't gotten off from our play session the night before (I think I accidently had some caffeine) and she got up early and went downstairs to paint. We began texting and she was very frustrated with herself--she didn't understand why she kept feeling awkward--she really wanted to play into the fetish with me and knows she keeps messing up when we do anything verbally. She asked if we could try it with texts instead to start and let it build up her confidence.
Now for context, one of the things I've been asking for from her for 15 years is for her to tell me some of her old sex stories--but she always refused noting that they were dark periods in her life and she feels really self-conscious talking to me about them. But as I've noted, she was very slutty in early college, sleeping with 20+ guys in a couple of years, but that's largely all I know. So this was my chance to get some insight through text and I went for it.
Me: Well now I'm too excited by all the possibilities of you texting me about your past. There are so many thing I want to know. I've been waiting for this offer for 15 years!
Her: I'm so glad we could come up with a solution.
Me: Lol. Soooooo when was your first cream pie?
Her: What is a cream pie?
Me: When a guy cums inside your pussy.
Her: Lol. My first cream pie was in college. It was with a guy named [Br]. We went back to [Dorms] and he came in me after we had doggy.
Me: Slow down.
What year? Sophomore?Her: It was junior year early in the semester. [Note: I met my wife a few weeks later in late fall--we kissed the first night, but nothing more; spent all night talking and I didn't make a move.]
Me: Was that your first time with him?
Her: Yes he was a one night stand.
Me: Fuck that is so hot babe--you met him at the bars? Which one?
Her: We met at [R]. It was a Friday night.
Me: What's his last name? Did I know him?
Her: I don't remember his last name. Probably not. I don't remember what people he hung out with but I remember him saying he didn't go to the bars much.
Me: Did he approach you at the bar?
Her: I approached him.
Me: You were so fucking hot then (still are)--that's right when I met you. Did you have a line or just say hi?
Her: I just said hi and told him I noticed him and thought he was cute.
Me: That's so bold! Was that normal for you? Or did you just really think he was hot?
Her: I thought he was hot.
Me: Ok, so he sees you and clearly thinks the same so you start chatting. How long before you decide to leave together? Who invites who back?
Her: We talk for about 30 minutes and it's already late and he tells me he's leaving and wants me to come back with him.
Me: So you go back to his apartment--do you hang out in the common area or go right to his room? No roommates?
Her: No we go straight to his room and his roommate is gone for the weekend.
Me: Immediately start kissing and hooking up? Walk me through it.
Her: We immediately start kissing. I remember he used lots of tongue. Then he slowly undressed me, taking off my skirt and commenting how he thought it was hot I wore a thong with my skirt.
Me: Fuck.
Her: Then I start taking off his clothes and he's wearing tight boxers to accentuate his large dick. Then I start rubbing his cock. He's already dropping pre cum. I assume that is because he was so turned on by my thong and skirt. I don't think he met many girls who would wear that out to the bar.
Me: His dick was above average--like my size? Or even bigger? [Note: I'm a little more than seven inches.]
Her: I think it was bigger than yours. Probably by about two inches.
Me: That's huge--did that turn you on or make you nervous?
Her: And it was really thick. At first was nervous because I didn't know if my hand would fit around his cock.
Me: Fuck.
Her: But the pre cum helped slide gently around his dick. And then we moved to the bed.
Me: Did you put your mouth on it or did you not waste anymore time?
Her: And he was very dominant--he started to finger me for a few minutes and then slid his dick in.
Me: I can't imagine something that big even fitting inside you--you're so tiny. You didn't care about him not using a condom? Did he ask?
Her: He didn't even ask. He just put his dick in. That's how dominant he was. Completely took control.
Me: He didn't even know you were on BC? Were you nervous or caught up in the moment?
Her: Just completely caught up in the moment. My impulse just took over.
Me: That's a hot impulse.
Her: He took my hands and put them over my head as he rode me missionary. And he fucked me hard.
Me: Did it hurt?
Her: No I was completely turned on by him. I thought it would at first but I wanted an orgasm.
Me: Fuck you are so perfect babe--I love that you got what you needed. Did you cum during missionary?
Her: I was just wet from the start. And yes. I came so quickly. I was so turned on by how hot he was.
Me: Fuck babe.
Her: As soon as I came he just aggresively flipped me over. He started to do doggy. Slapping my ass.
Me: Fuck--quite a contrast to our first meet a few weeks later. I was just hoping I'd get to eat you out and all I got was a kiss.
Her: He was just riding me so hard over and over and fondling my breasts.
Me: My god, I'm sure you were in heaven.
Her: I was you know how much I like when you play with my boobs. It turns me on and I get instantly wet thinking about it. As soon as he started playing with my boobs I knew I was going to cum again.
Me: I know, I wish I could fuck you like that too, but I enjoy getting to play with your breasts while you cum with your toy. But you deserve to get fucked hard by a big dick anytime you want babe--I want you to feel free to enjoy life to the fullest. It's so hot.
Her: You know I was just thinking how much I enjoy when you play with my boobs and I use my toy. The heavy vibration. You caressing my breasts sucking on them. Turns me on.
Me: I know--it makes me happy when we do that. Participating in you having such an awesome orgasm. Do you think he felt you about to cum again?
Her: I think he felt it because I exploded. It was such an incredible orgasm.
Me: You probably squirted babe with a dick that big and you so turned on lol.
Her: He definitely had the largest cock I've ever seen. And it felt so good having him inside me. And as we did doggy I felt him cumming. His dick was enlarged. He went so deep inside me.
Me: Did he warn you that he was going to fill you up?
Her: No he was too caught in the moment.
Me: He just took you home, fucked you raw and cream pied you without ever asking if you were on BC or if it was ok?
Her: Yes. It was so incredibly impulsive and dominating. And I didn't think twice about it. I was so caught up in the moment.
Me: That's so fucking hot. And that's so alpha him just taking you and owning you like that.
Her: I was so turned on by him and his cock. I didn't mind at all that he came in me. I knew I was on BC and would be safe.
Me: Don't you miss getting fucked like that by an alpha guy who just dominates you?
Her: Yea I enjoy getting fucked by an alpha guy who takes control. Who will fuck me so good.
Me: You don't mind that I'm not that guy? That I'd prefer to gently lick your pussy if you let me instead? I would have loved to be waiting in your bed that night to gently sooth and kiss your pussy afterward. It must have been so swollen and sore after that. Did you go home or sleep over?
Her: I like that you lick my pussy and I can control you and your orgasm. In fact I am happy you masterbated this morning thinking of me. I slept over at his house. [Note: I had told her I jerked off next to her thinking about her affair sex.]
Me: You're all I ever think about now when I masterbate. And I love that you have complete control over me and my orgasms. He didn't fuck you again in the morning?
Her: I didn't want to walk home that night. And yes that morning I woke up to a nice big surprise.
Me: Fuck.
Her: I slept naked.
Me: Fuck.
Her: And he was fondling my breasts and I was so wet. And he was so turned on. Morning wood, naked girl in his bed.
Me: OMG he dumped another load in you didn't he?
Her: Of course he did. He felt all over my naked body. My boobs, then my stomach and makes his way down to my pusy and starts fingering it. He pushed up his rock hard dick. Massaging it into my back.
Me: Fuck he just takes you however he wants.
Her: Dominant and controlling. And he feels I'm instantly wet. And I start to massage his dick. And it has cum dropping out of it. Like he's ready for another round.
Me: Fuck you must have been so sore and you didn't care.
Her: No I was ready for round two. I figured I probably would never get a dick that size again. So I wanted to just have this experience. I figured I could go home and have a shower afterward but I wanted to just get messy. And we worked up quite the sweat the night before. And I just wanted to feel that cock inside of me.
Me: Mmhmmm that's why you didn't go home the night before.
Her: Of course I wanted to do it again. And feel him in me again. Then he flipped me completely over on my stomach on the bed and slipped it in. He just kept spanking me. Pulling my hair.
Me: And now there was so question where he'd cum. He owned your pussy at that point so anytime you ever fuck again he'd expect to finish deep inside.
Her: He just owned my pussy and I wanted him to cum in me again.
Me: Fuck you love his aggression. I feel so unnatural when you ask me to spank you and pull your hair.
Her: It felt so free and liberating. And he just rode me for 30 minutes my ass red from him spanking me.
Me: OMG that's a long pounding from something that big!
Her: So long and I was sore for days afterwards.
Me: I can't imagine how torn up and messy you were.
Her: I really needed someone to gently lick my pussy for days afterward...
Me: I'd give anything for you to find an alpha guy like him with a big dick to treat you right--it's the only way I'd ever get to see your pussy like that again. I'd have licked his cum right out of you and gently massaged your pussy lips.
Her: That would have felt amazing. You don't mind licking his cum right out of me?
Me: Of course not--that's what you would have needed from me. I can't fuck you like that, so I just want to be useful.
Her: Hmmm I like the idea of you cleaning me up right after sex. That's hot. Licking all the cum.
Me: I wish I could do it all the time--even after your toy makes you cum. Would you have been bothered by me licking his cum out of you? Maybe self conscious knowing he left two big loads in there and how deep he shot.
Her: No I would have enjoyed it. Ugh that sounds incredible. Licking my cum after I make myself cum. You're making me want to come up and use my toy. While you just fondle me.
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And that was that. She came upstairs and got herself off with her toy and I jerked off watching. So fucking hot.
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Sounds like you need to get her a 9 or 10 inch strapon and wear it for her while you're caged and just stand behind her playing with her tits while she fucks her brains out on her big lover's cock and really stretches herself. You may not be able to fuck her brains out, or be the really huge cock she misses, but you can at least be the one to play with her while she uses you to get herself off... hell you could even buy a 12X3 silicone dong and surprise her with it from behind and hear her gasp and moan. (I know I would)
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So I had another fun exchange with my wife the other day via text, but I was feeling lazy about typing it all out. However, I have also posted these last two on the hotwifetexts sub Reddit, so it occurs to me I can just leave a link here for you guys.
So this was a story about a repeat hookup with a big dick from college. The last time she slept with him she was actively sleeping with me.
https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwifetexts/c ... ame=iossmf
So this was a story about a repeat hookup with a big dick from college. The last time she slept with him she was actively sleeping with me.
https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwifetexts/c ... ame=iossmf
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Those messages are hot! Anxiously awaiting your next update.
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So a fairly significant update.
I’m traveling with my mom in Italy and my wife is home with the kids. We’ve had a few sexually charged convos, largely about her wanting me to get more serious about my chastity cage.
I think it’s two things off her: first, she knows I like it, but second, she’s a very jealous/nervous person, so while she won’t always say it, I think she loves the idea of me not being able to cheat.
So yea, she is pushing for me to stay in it 24/7, but us still fool around a few times a week. She knows I cum nearly every day and has been honest that I’ll need to adjust a bit away from that. It makes me a bit nervous, but I’m game to keep pushing the envelope.
The other night we had this conversation: https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwifetexts/c ... ame=iossmf
Now, much of it is her playing into my fantasy, but it’s still major progress for me. I never was expecting her to just jump into bed with another guy, but I think now the seed is firmly planted and she would be open to the right guy and right situation. I need to remember to take it slow though and let things happen organically.
I’m certain we’ll sext 1-2 more times before I head home, so these have been great opportunities for me to be honest and her to dip her toes in the water to gauge my reactions.
I know I’m still a long way off, but if she cucks me one day, this thread is going to be such a wild ride to look back on!
I’m traveling with my mom in Italy and my wife is home with the kids. We’ve had a few sexually charged convos, largely about her wanting me to get more serious about my chastity cage.
I think it’s two things off her: first, she knows I like it, but second, she’s a very jealous/nervous person, so while she won’t always say it, I think she loves the idea of me not being able to cheat.
So yea, she is pushing for me to stay in it 24/7, but us still fool around a few times a week. She knows I cum nearly every day and has been honest that I’ll need to adjust a bit away from that. It makes me a bit nervous, but I’m game to keep pushing the envelope.
The other night we had this conversation: https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwifetexts/c ... ame=iossmf
Now, much of it is her playing into my fantasy, but it’s still major progress for me. I never was expecting her to just jump into bed with another guy, but I think now the seed is firmly planted and she would be open to the right guy and right situation. I need to remember to take it slow though and let things happen organically.
I’m certain we’ll sext 1-2 more times before I head home, so these have been great opportunities for me to be honest and her to dip her toes in the water to gauge my reactions.
I know I’m still a long way off, but if she cucks me one day, this thread is going to be such a wild ride to look back on!
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So it’s been an eventful week away from my wife with lots of Sexting and sexual talks. Last night she texted me a sexual fantasy that was incredibly hot to hear. None of this is real, but I suspect you’ll enjoy the chat.
https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwifetexts/c ... ame=iossmf
https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwifetexts/c ... ame=iossmf
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
Wow....that's some hot chat. You two seem to be in a much better place now. Thanks for sharing.
Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
That is a hot conversation!! The more you have these conversations the more she will shift from them playing into your fantasy to it being her fantasy/desire. Follow her desire to have you caged. Those extra days between release will escalate the sexual tension and lead to more intense orgasms. You may want to suggest a one or two week trial run with 2 (or 3) days caged at a max. Then decide on stopping or going forward. You never know until you try it!!
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Hot! Thanks for sharing!!
Hopefully your new cage fits better and you are able to wear it longer (though you may regret that!).
Hopefully your new cage fits better and you are able to wear it longer (though you may regret that!).
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
Sorry for the lack of updates as it’s been a few strange months. January was all the affair anniversary dates that messed with me a bit, but then we focused on the non-sexual parts of our relationship and things went well. We’ve had a good couple of months.
It was my birthday yesterday and I told her I wanted to talk a bit about what a Cuckold relationship would look like for us when she is ready. She’s acknowledged over the last year that she’s open to the hotwife dynamic, just not quite yet. So we used this time to discuss what it might look like.
She talked about the guy and how she wanted him to be younger than her. She preferred he also be unmarried, but it creates the issue of him staying exclusive to her—she figured she’d have to be willing to have sex with him about four times a week to keep his attention. She gauged to see if I was ok with that and I was. I explained that I’d understand I’d get less sex and I’d instead redirect my energy into providing her emotional support. She seemed really comforted in that.
She noted that she’d want the guy to be very carefree—like her—as a contrast to me. With me, sex is too complicated and I’m always thinking too much—she wants it to be light and fun. She envisioned it would be as simple as going to his place most evenings during the week and just hanging out with him; no strings or pressure.
Lastly, she said one thing that she is looking forward to is that she won’t feel that sense of obligation to get me off. She talked about how she would feel relieved knowing my orgasms would be from me masterbating—so it would take all the tension on sex out of our relationship. She wants to talk with me and cuddle with me instead. But now, with her not having a bf, she doesn’t feel right about it, but if she has a Bf and I agree to it, then it will just feel like a new normal.
I also asked what she would do for her bf if it was his birthday and she told me she’d do whatever he wanted—she’d focus on his pleasure. Her best guess is that she’d wear lingerie to his place; start off with a BJ, then let him take the lead if he wanted and choose the positions, etc. she joked that I know how much she valued her sleep, but she’d make an exception on his bday to be available to him all night. She also isn’t a fan of condoms and noted she’d be ok with him cuming inside her and that we’d have to figure out some method of BC probsbly to avoid any issues.
And then we contrasted all that to my birthday—she used her toy in the other room and came hard. Then she came into the bedroom and let me fuck her hand and cum all over my chest and face. It was an absurd amount of cum and she laughed noting how glad she was she didn’t have to swallow it.
We then went to bed and it was a bit weird—we both acknowledged that she had better sex tonight than she would have had with me and that I really enjoyed the HJ and wasn’t upset at not getting more for my bday like most guys would expect. So yea, it’s been a rocky trip, but it seems like progress.
I don’t want to suggest it’s all rainbows though—there are lots of ups and downs and we’re still doing couples therapy. I’ll do my best to keep this thread updated more often!
It was my birthday yesterday and I told her I wanted to talk a bit about what a Cuckold relationship would look like for us when she is ready. She’s acknowledged over the last year that she’s open to the hotwife dynamic, just not quite yet. So we used this time to discuss what it might look like.
She talked about the guy and how she wanted him to be younger than her. She preferred he also be unmarried, but it creates the issue of him staying exclusive to her—she figured she’d have to be willing to have sex with him about four times a week to keep his attention. She gauged to see if I was ok with that and I was. I explained that I’d understand I’d get less sex and I’d instead redirect my energy into providing her emotional support. She seemed really comforted in that.
She noted that she’d want the guy to be very carefree—like her—as a contrast to me. With me, sex is too complicated and I’m always thinking too much—she wants it to be light and fun. She envisioned it would be as simple as going to his place most evenings during the week and just hanging out with him; no strings or pressure.
Lastly, she said one thing that she is looking forward to is that she won’t feel that sense of obligation to get me off. She talked about how she would feel relieved knowing my orgasms would be from me masterbating—so it would take all the tension on sex out of our relationship. She wants to talk with me and cuddle with me instead. But now, with her not having a bf, she doesn’t feel right about it, but if she has a Bf and I agree to it, then it will just feel like a new normal.
I also asked what she would do for her bf if it was his birthday and she told me she’d do whatever he wanted—she’d focus on his pleasure. Her best guess is that she’d wear lingerie to his place; start off with a BJ, then let him take the lead if he wanted and choose the positions, etc. she joked that I know how much she valued her sleep, but she’d make an exception on his bday to be available to him all night. She also isn’t a fan of condoms and noted she’d be ok with him cuming inside her and that we’d have to figure out some method of BC probsbly to avoid any issues.
And then we contrasted all that to my birthday—she used her toy in the other room and came hard. Then she came into the bedroom and let me fuck her hand and cum all over my chest and face. It was an absurd amount of cum and she laughed noting how glad she was she didn’t have to swallow it.
We then went to bed and it was a bit weird—we both acknowledged that she had better sex tonight than she would have had with me and that I really enjoyed the HJ and wasn’t upset at not getting more for my bday like most guys would expect. So yea, it’s been a rocky trip, but it seems like progress.
I don’t want to suggest it’s all rainbows though—there are lots of ups and downs and we’re still doing couples therapy. I’ll do my best to keep this thread updated more often!
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Thank you for the update
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Glad to hear you both are keeping up with the therapy and the communication... sounds like a pretty hot birthday for sure! Thanks for sharing!
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
It was hot, but I stumbled into some sensitive stuff that reminded her of the affair and she kind of shut down. It’s all so delicate to navigate.Rogueuser1 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 12, 2023 4:23 pmGlad to hear you both are keeping up with the therapy and the communication... sounds like a pretty hot birthday for sure! Thanks for sharing!
One thing that I took away was she seems to genuinely like her toy more than me, but she goes with sex to make me happy too. I think I should encourage her toy more as it seems like a logical pattern that would make her hot wife lifestyle more natural—especially like last night with her using the toy on her own and not being distracted by my needs.