Our Hotwives

My wife was virgin when I married her in 1978. I succeeded to persuade her to become a hotwife two years after our marriage. With my continued encouragement and to my and her pleasure she steadily increased the frequency of her fucking other men. In two years time she fucked other men three times a day on the average. Beside she fucked me in the evening, though less and less as time proressed. The reason for this was that she found much better fuck buddies than me, and she got enough sexual satisfaction during the day.
As she found more and more good cocks she understood me that my cock wasn't suitable for fucking any women. We agreed that while she will further increase the frequency of her fucking other men she will gradually withdraws her pussy from me. We set 1983 december 31. as deadline for me to mentally a physically use to the fact that I can get sexual satisfaction only by jerking me off by myself.We had a big flat and one of my wife fuckbuddies lived always there so my wife fucked him instead of me in the evenings. This went on for more then ten years and I enjoyed very much watching my wife fucked by other men while jerking me off.
Back to the question: We estimate thas she fucked about five hundred men. Not very much considering the life style she continued. More impressive is the number of her fucking of other men. It is around 25 thousand while she fucked me about 500 times.

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:54 am

Herboy wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:21 pm

This seems to be a very common question, I've answered it many times on different forums.
I never seem to get tired of it though.
So, here goes.
We've tried counting, we tried listing them by first name and if she didn't remember the name a one word description would substitute.
Short answer, we don't really know.
But we can safely say it's somewhere between 60 and 100.

My husband is very obsessive about this topic. He actually keeps spreadsheets of all my unique partners (name/nickname, age, race, height, weight, physique, cock size) and encounters (partner[s], date, time, venue, acts, my level of satisfaction). For safekeeping, he kept the spreadsheets on an encrypted external drive. When it died, he had to reconstruct the spreadsheets from our memories, emails, and texts. Since 2012, I am up to 82 partners.

I hope he now has a backup of your fucking data! lol

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:54 am

Herboy wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:21 pm

This seems to be a very common question, I've answered it many times on different forums.
I never seem to get tired of it though.
So, here goes.
We've tried counting, we tried listing them by first name and if she didn't remember the name a one word description would substitute.
Short answer, we don't really know.
But we can safely say it's somewhere between 60 and 100.

My husband is very obsessive about this topic. He actually keeps spreadsheets of all my unique partners (name/nickname, age, race, height, weight, physique, cock size) and encounters (partner[s], date, time, venue, acts, my level of satisfaction). For safekeeping, he kept the spreadsheets on an encrypted external drive. When it died, he had to reconstruct the spreadsheets from our memories, emails, and texts. Since 2012, I am up to 82 partners.

Thank you for sharing, Erika That is a respectable number. I hope one day to see my wife match your record but right now she has issues about her physical appearance (although she is very sexy and her fears are not justified. Still, it is HER body and HER feelings on this topic are the most important, not mine.) I will wait patiently until the if or when she decides to become a HW again.

Erika, since you are a female I would like to ask your opinion: does having many partners gradually increase a woman's confidence and her sense of being desirable? I always thought so but, to be fair, I haven't had the opportunity to ask too many women that question. What do you think?

TinyBoyDick wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2019 7:35 pm

So, please share how many DIFFERENT men your wife or GF has been fucked by - either since you've been married to her or in her life.

A bunch. We lost count. The first year, counting didn't seem important and each of us would that thought we could remember any number. By the time I got around to wondering, I asked. Each of us were sure we missed some so we never started a count.

Fortunately, I began keeping a computer journal detailing her more memorable experiences and posted several of those at the Hotwife forum on this website. Neither of us want to remember those that didn't work out well anyway, and there have been a few.

As my wife is a working girl once a week, she is now around the 615 mark

pwsub wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 4:43 pm

As my wife is a working girl once a week, she is now around the 615 mark

615 is a very respectable number. That is a LOT of cocks. O wonder, does she fuck men because she ENJOYS the great variety or is it because she need the money? Would she stop if she had the choice?

I think she always wanted to try it, once mentioned it 25 odd years ago, the money is great but it is her choice and always comes home 'fulfilled'

I was her first, about 4 years ago now. Since then she has been fucked by 18 other guys ... and two girls

TinyBoyDick wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 10:52 am

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:54 am

Herboy wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:21 pm

This seems to be a very common question, I've answered it many times on different forums.
I never seem to get tired of it though.
So, here goes.
We've tried counting, we tried listing them by first name and if she didn't remember the name a one word description would substitute.
Short answer, we don't really know.
But we can safely say it's somewhere between 60 and 100.

My husband is very obsessive about this topic. He actually keeps spreadsheets of all my unique partners (name/nickname, age, race, height, weight, physique, cock size) and encounters (partner[s], date, time, venue, acts, my level of satisfaction). For safekeeping, he kept the spreadsheets on an encrypted external drive. When it died, he had to reconstruct the spreadsheets from our memories, emails, and texts. Since 2012, I am up to 82 partners.

Thank you for sharing, Erika That is a respectable number. I hope one day to see my wife match your record but right now she has issues about her physical appearance (although she is very sexy and her fears are not justified. Still, it is HER body and HER feelings on this topic are the most important, not mine.) I will wait patiently until the if or when she decides to become a HW again.

Erika, since you are a female I would like to ask your opinion: does having many partners gradually increase a woman's confidence and her sense of being desirable? I always thought so but, to be fair, I haven't had the opportunity to ask too many women that question. What do you think?

Yes, I do think that being attractive to other men, especially young, virile men who could have the pick of any woman, can boost a woman’s self-confidence. But she needs to be selective about her partners, and make sure that they are respectful of her needs.

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Thu Mar 14, 2019 4:01 am

TinyBoyDick wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 10:52 am

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:54 am

Herboy wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:21 pm

This seems to be a very common question, I've answered it many times on different forums.
I never seem to get tired of it though.
So, here goes.
We've tried counting, we tried listing them by first name and if she didn't remember the name a one word description would substitute.
Short answer, we don't really know.
But we can safely say it's somewhere between 60 and 100.

My husband is very obsessive about this topic. He actually keeps spreadsheets of all my unique partners (name/nickname, age, race, height, weight, physique, cock size) and encounters (partner[s], date, time, venue, acts, my level of satisfaction). For safekeeping, he kept the spreadsheets on an encrypted external drive. When it died, he had to reconstruct the spreadsheets from our memories, emails, and texts. Since 2012, I am up to 82 partners.

Thank you for sharing, Erika That is a respectable number. I hope one day to see my wife match your record but right now she has issues about her physical appearance (although she is very sexy and her fears are not justified. Still, it is HER body and HER feelings on this topic are the most important, not mine.) I will wait patiently until the if or when she decides to become a HW again.

Erika, since you are a female I would like to ask your opinion: does having many partners gradually increase a woman's confidence and her sense of being desirable? I always thought so but, to be fair, I haven't had the opportunity to ask too many women that question. What do you think?

Yes, I do think that being attractive to other men, especially young, virile men who could have the pick of any woman, can boost a woman’s self-confidence. But she needs to be selective about her partners, and make sure that they are respectful of her needs.

Hello Erika,.. am I correct to assume that hubby does not do other women, and as such though your count is above 60, his is only just you... or is there still some swinging going on, where he does other women once in a while?

Secondly, has there ever been a time that you wanted to have a repeat sex episode with one of your attractive men, and the stud declined leaving you wanting?

My wife was a virgin when she got with her first husband and counting the guys she fucked between him and I and the ones she has fucked since we have been married it is well above 30. It is hard to say because there have been a couple of free for alls for her at our swingers club where she wasn't sure how many guys fucked her.

My hotwife has had sex 16 times with 10 other men since we started on May 5, 2018. Lots of fun and not slowing down!

MyQ79 wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:44 am

My hotwife has had sex 16 times with 10 other men since we started on May 5, 2018. Lots of fun and not slowing down!

Enjoy it while it lasts! There are no guarantees but who knows? It may be a permanent lifestyle change.

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Thu Mar 14, 2019 4:01 am

TinyBoyDick wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 10:52 am

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:54 am

Herboy wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:21 pm

This seems to be a very common question, I've answered it many times on different forums.
I never seem to get tired of it though.
So, here goes.
We've tried counting, we tried listing them by first name and if she didn't remember the name a one word description would substitute.
Short answer, we don't really know.
But we can safely say it's somewhere between 60 and 100.

My husband is very obsessive about this topic. He actually keeps spreadsheets of all my unique partners (name/nickname, age, race, height, weight, physique, cock size) and encounters (partner[s], date, time, venue, acts, my level of satisfaction). For safekeeping, he kept the spreadsheets on an encrypted external drive. When it died, he had to reconstruct the spreadsheets from our memories, emails, and texts. Since 2012, I am up to 82 partners.

Thank you for sharing, Erika That is a respectable number. I hope one day to see my wife match your record but right now she has issues about her physical appearance (although she is very sexy and her fears are not justified. Still, it is HER body and HER feelings on this topic are the most important, not mine.) I will wait patiently until the if or when she decides to become a HW again.

Erika, since you are a female I would like to ask your opinion: does having many partners gradually increase a woman's confidence and her sense of being desirable? I always thought so but, to be fair, I haven't had the opportunity to ask too many women that question. What do you think?

...But she needs to be selective about her partners, and make sure that they are respectful of her needs.

This is an excellent point, Erika.

When my wife and I were active in the lifestyle we had a policy of what we called "veto power." The concept was very simple: EITHER ONE of us could "veto" what was going on. If she didn't like what was going on or who it was going on with, she could stop it immediately, no matter how much I was into it or approved. If I didn't like something about the situation or if I sensed danger of any kind, I could put a halt to it.

We gave each other veto power over any situation. No warning or explanation was needed. The veto was absolute and non-negotiable. This arrangement made us both feel secure in the fact that we would not get out of hand and leave our partner uncomfortable or vulnerable. We didn't use the veto often but it worked like a charm when we did.

5 men
2 of them fuck her continuously

Welcome to the forum. She sounds hot.

R says she lost count sometime around 35, after she divorced her first husband. Just before they split up, she started an affair with a married guy (Jim) that went on for 10 years. In addition to Jim, she had a few steady bfs during that time. When R and Jim split, she went on a sex rampage,fucking about 25 different guys over 6 months. We met on a blind date near the end of that. Unfortunately, only one other man (Robert) since then, and he was one of her earlier steadies. They hookup about once a month, same as R and I.

NewtonBlade wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 16, 2019 1:42 am

R says she lost count sometime around 35, after she divorced her first husband. Just before they split up, she started an affair with a married guy (Jim) that went on for 10 years. In addition to Jim, she had a few steady bfs during that time. When R and Jim split, she went on a sex rampage,fucking about 25 different guys over 6 months. We met on a blind date near the end of that. Unfortunately, only one other man (Robert) since then, and he was one of her earlier steadies. They hookup about once a month, same as R and I.

Well, I guess you're the guy that finally fills the bill for her! ... except for Robert.

As of last Monday, 91. 50, prior to me and 41 in the last 2 years after we met. Looking for lucky 100 by the end of the year. 100 seems to be a given since she has fucked 5 guys so far this year. At that rate she should fuck Mr. 100 some time in July. We should probably give Mr. 100 a plaque or trophy for helping Trish fuck her 100th guy.

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 13, 2019 3:54 am

My husband is very obsessive about this topic. He actually keeps spreadsheets of all my unique partners (name/nickname, age, race, height, weight, physique, cock size) and encounters (partner[s], date, time, venue, acts, my level of satisfaction). For safekeeping, he kept the spreadsheets on an encrypted external drive. When it died, he had to reconstruct the spreadsheets from our memories, emails, and texts. Since 2012, I am up to 82 partners.

Same, although I focus more on sexual acts, her enjoyment, location, and anything memorable about the encounter than on the guy involved.

It comes in very handy (pun intended) when reminiscing

hando wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2019 11:09 am

My wife was extremely active from when she was 18 until we got married when she was 28. According to her, and confirmed by her sister, she used to go home with a different guy every night for most of those 10 years. Conservatively, she's been with at least 1000 men. If you do the math and be a little less conservative, it works out to around 2500 men. I fucked her on our first date, and right after we finished our first fuck, she got booty calls from two different guys, and it was only 10:30 or so. She has consistently cuckolded me for all of the 39 years we've been married, so she's way past the 2500 number by now.

Now that is one hot wife!!!!!! Nice!!!!

She tells me "35 or 40, i stopped counting at 30". I told her if she was a man she'd never stop counting.

TinyBoyDick wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2019 7:35 pm

Sadly, my own wife has only been fucked by about 19 or 20 men. (We're talking actual pussy and/or ass penetration. I don't count BJ's) I know that is not a very impressive number. To be perfectly honest, my desire is to see her fucked by hundreds of men (I'm very serious.) The thing is, she has taken a very LONG break from the lifestyle because she gained some weight and doesn't think she's sexy anymore (I don't agree but it's her body.) I'm hoping when she sheds some pounds and can get back into her sexy outfits, her fuck numbers will rise quickly.

So, please share how many DIFFERENT men your wife or GF has been fucked by - either since you've been married to her or in her life.

7 before she met me. Now around 25 more or so in the last six years, most of those in the last three. I couldn’t be more with you on the goal of 100s. I want the number to be so so high. Our second year was so slow, I actually added some spice by offering her 500 for every new guy she fucked. Hah. It worked

Shes had sex with 10 men. Lost her virginity at 15. Met her at 23. Her first extra marital cock came about on holiday in Turkey. First black guy over 3 years ago.

JMarsh wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 27, 2019 2:53 am

Her first extra marital cock came about on holiday in Turkey.

Would enjoy the details. Local guy or a tourist?

I scrolled through to be sure I hadn’t already responded. We have been at this for 7 years of a 30 year marriage and the number of unique individuals is 50. But there are still a lot of guys she hasn’t fucked.