What is your relationship with masturbation?

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What is your relationship with masturbation?

I masturbate regularly and independent of my wife
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66%
I am allowed to masturbate but there are restrictions
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11%
I may only masturbate with permission
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8%
I may only masturbate while supervised
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7%
Masturbation is prohibited or severely curtailed
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9%
 
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What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by jacksonjones » Fri May 24, 2019 2:02 pm

Very curious how much of a role masturbation plays in your cuckolding.

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Unread post by EDAS » Fri May 24, 2019 2:28 pm

I masturbate but I never come. Never. Well, to tell the truth, I did come four times this year (2019). I wish I hadn't. I always regret coming when I do allow myself to come. I should add that I am not my wife's cuckold, but another woman's cuckold in a way. It would be too complicated to explain.

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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by VictorCharlie » Fri May 24, 2019 3:51 pm

I have sex with my wife most nights so have little need to jerk off. I suppose it is a daily occurrence when one of us is out of town.

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Unread post by SailorGuy » Fri May 24, 2019 4:43 pm

Masturbation has been my only sexual expression for many years now. And I love it. I get to masturbate either next to my wife in bed while she tells me about her lover or on my own when she is at her lover's house. My wife won't even kiss me anymore; her lover won't allow it. But the total denial adds to the intensity of being a cuckold, which is a constant high.

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Unread post by SutterKane » Fri May 24, 2019 6:14 pm

I mostly jack off as I watch her BBC Bull fuck her senseless. She loves to tell me to cum on my hand as he fills her with his powerful seed deep in her married cunt.
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Unread post by Cumcpl » Fri May 24, 2019 9:10 pm

Currently masturbation is cancelled as we try a denial solution for me. Before I did a lot of jerking off when I had the urge
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Unread post by 2wheel » Sat May 25, 2019 2:20 am

Sometimes it's my best friend.

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Unread post by IWorshipMyWife » Sat May 25, 2019 4:53 am

My masturbation happens at night next to my wife in bed when she isnt out with one of her men. She usually uses her vibrator in front of me and gets off on her men and sometimes allows me to masturbate watching her.

If she's in a real good mood she'll give me a foot job or sit on my face after she came while I jerk to completion.

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Unread post by Misslindassub » Sat May 25, 2019 5:31 am

I masturbate on average twice a day, last one each night in bed next to the wife hoping she'll join in do or say something.

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Unread post by wifedateshubwaits » Sat May 25, 2019 6:52 am

Masturbation is an important aspect of my sex life and without it I’d have a tough time with this lifestyle. I’ll often masturbate before my wife’s dates, sometimes while she dresses as I love to watch her primp for another man. Then when my wife is out, there’s no way I can keep from masturbating. I know some guys try to hold off, but there’s no way I could do that and my wife is always anxious to hear how many times I jerked off and what I was fantasizing about. And then, I will frequently masturbate when my wife returns home from a date. She likes to watch me get off while describes her date and I can prolong my orgasm better that way.

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Unread post by Cdncuck » Sat May 25, 2019 6:55 am

My masturbating is controlled by my wife. Depending on her mood, I may be given free reign with my cock when she goes out. On the nights she goes out, when she tells me to jerk as much as I want, it's her way of telling me there will be no sloppy seconds that night. Other times she will tell cage me before she leaves and that's that until she comes back. On those nights she might allow sloppy seconds or,she may order me to jerk in front of her as she tells me about her night.

When she has guests over, I'm sometimes instructed to jerk as I watch them fuck. Sometimes she allows me to join and suck her tits, lick her cunt or rim her as she plays with the other guy. If I'm good she may let me rub my cock off against her leg as she fucks. She has me jerk off about a dozen times a week and allows me sloppies once every couple of months.

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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by jacksonjones » Sat May 25, 2019 7:37 am

wifedateshubwaits wrote:
Sat May 25, 2019 6:52 am
Masturbation is an important aspect of my sex life and without it I’d have a tough time with this lifestyle. I’ll often masturbate before my wife’s dates, sometimes while she dresses as I love to watch her primp for another man. Then when my wife is out, there’s no way I can keep from masturbating. I know some guys try to hold off, but there’s no way I could do that and my wife is always anxious to hear how many times I jerked off and what I was fantasizing about. And then, I will frequently masturbate when my wife returns home from a date. She likes to watch me get off while describes her date and I can prolong my orgasm better that way.
That sounds very hot indeed! I enjoy playing with my penis while i watch my wife do yoga, shower or get dressed.

Date prep is a big fantasy of mine - it's very generous of her that she includes you in her time like that!

Does your wife put any restrictions or demands on your masturbation? Mine likes me to cum on myself - she'll often giggle as i spurt everywhere.

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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by Cuckoldguy21 » Sat May 25, 2019 7:51 am

My wife always masturbated me to keep me docile. That is my only sexual release and as a result, I lost the ability and interest to have sexual intercourse.

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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by timskii2 » Sat May 25, 2019 10:48 am

My wife "L" prefers being responsible for my orgasms. I get a lot of hand jobs. She loves how hard I get and how hard I cum when she strokes me and talks about how much she loves "big thick man cock."

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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by cuckoldcpl4fun13 » Sun May 26, 2019 10:38 am

I allow husband to masturbate to a ruined or minimized orgasm probably once a week. He MUST ask for permission and I supervise. When I have a boyfriend or lover, I milk him.

He also has issues with not feeling involved when I cuck him which makes him lose interest. This method of supervised masturbation and milkings keeps him active and feeling part while not giving more than he truly needs. I've found that this works best for us both and keeps us both interested, involved and feeling like this truly is the right lifestyle for us.

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Unread post by Wooster » Sun May 26, 2019 2:03 pm

Masturbation is how I get off, so it’s very important to me. I’ve always had trouble getting hard and staying hard enough for intercourse. It’s a great relief to me not to to have to try to do that any more.

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Unread post by troilusand » Tue May 28, 2019 5:35 am

Our relationship? Masturbation and I have been together 10 years longer than my wife and I, hee hee.

Cressida was shocked to learn that I usually whacked it about three times a day when I told her about halfway through this adventure. She always knew I was completely oversexed (I was ALWAYS trying to fuck her) but never knew how much! She was surprised to learn that sometimes I'd jerk it right after fucking her when she fell asleep.

Alas, as I get older, it's about once a day now.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Tue May 28, 2019 7:43 am

I masturbate often but the best for me is when another guy is fucking her, either in our bedroom while I'm in another room or she is out on a date. I try not to masturbate at least a day before she has a date but I'm not always successful at that. When she is getting ready to go out and telling me what she expects to be doing, it's difficult to hold back. She doesn't want me to have sex with her the day before and we're usually able to hold off until she returns. Sometimes she will jerk me off while telling me about her date instead of us fucking as she tells me.
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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by Des 31 » Tue May 28, 2019 7:47 am

cuckoldcpl4fun13 wrote:
Sun May 26, 2019 10:38 am
I allow husband to masturbate to a ruined or minimized orgasm probably once a week. He MUST ask for permission and I supervise. When I have a boyfriend or lover, I milk him.

He also has issues with not feeling involved when I cuck him which makes him lose interest. This method of supervised masturbation and milkings keeps him active and feeling part while not giving more than he truly needs. I've found that this works best for us both and keeps us both interested, involved and feeling like this truly is the right lifestyle for us.
Seems like a good plan.
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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by SutterKane » Tue May 28, 2019 3:47 pm

Cuckoldguy21 wrote:
Sat May 25, 2019 7:51 am
My wife always masturbated me to keep me docile. That is my only sexual release and as a result, I lost the ability and interest to have sexual intercourse.
Would you be willing to tell us that story? And how you feel about that fact.
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Re: What is your relationship with masturbation?

Unread post by SutterKane » Tue May 28, 2019 3:50 pm

cuckoldcpl4fun13 wrote:
Sun May 26, 2019 10:38 am
I allow husband to masturbate to a ruined or minimized orgasm probably once a week. He MUST ask for permission and I supervise. When I have a boyfriend or lover, I milk him.

He also has issues with not feeling involved when I cuck him which makes him lose interest. This method of supervised masturbation and milkings keeps him active and feeling part while not giving more than he truly needs. I've found that this works best for us both and keeps us both interested, involved and feeling like this truly is the right lifestyle for us.
Would you be willing to tell us more about this. How you make it work. How he deals with this and how much you like having that kind of control over his sexuality?
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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Wed May 29, 2019 3:18 am

Right now, because he is not allowed to penetrate me during sex, I masturbate him to completion or he masturbates himself, once or twice a week . He also masturbates on his own, apparently a couple of times a week. However, he has agreed to be caged, so soon I will have complete control over his masturbation.
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Unread post by bradisalpha » Tue Jun 11, 2019 10:09 am

Cuckoldguy21 wrote:
Sat May 25, 2019 7:51 am
My wife always masturbated me to keep me docile. That is my only sexual release and as a result, I lost the ability and interest to have sexual intercourse.
This seems to be a normal progression. I have seen many cuckolds brought to this point.. a good way to keep his wife clean and ready for her BF... and still keeps his aggressiveness in check.

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Unread post by desertsub » Tue Jun 11, 2019 10:26 am

My wife is very jealous and has always considered me masturbating as cheating on her. As she became more dominant over me she told me no more masturbation without her permission but I could not keep from playing with myself. I'm pretty sure she knew this, as she came home unannounced from work one day and caught me red handed! (Pun intended!) She became furious and slapped me several times, acting pretty much the same most women would if they caught their husband with another woman! A short time before this we had gotten a custom made chastity cage and determined that it was comfortable enough for long term wear. She promptly locked me in it, informing me that since she couldn't trust me to keep my hands off of 'her' penis I would be locked 24/7 from then on. Looking back, I feel that she timed this so she could lock me 24/7 after we had gotten a cage that I could live locked in. In the last 4 years I have been allowed to masturbate less than a dozen times and only for her entertainment and never to orgasm. She recently told me that she wants to make me masturbate in front of some of her friends but that has not happened yet.

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