We're totally honest but I still want her to cheat

[UK-Stag]

So my HW and I are totally honest with each other and she lets me know what's going on at every step, I identify as more stag than cuck but I personally think the terminology (for me) is bullshit. I'm a sliding scale sorta guy, depending on the mood.
Even though we're honest, I still get turned on by the idea of her cheating. I'd love her to be seeing a guy I know nothing about, coming home smelling of dick with a sloppy pussy after going out "to see a girlfriend". With her denying anything at all happened. Perhaps coming clean with me after it all comes to an end after a year or so.
I find it hard to understand why it turns me on, how can I be aroused over something I will know nothing about?

Any of you other hubbys experienced this?

[gulfcpl]

I wish my wife would go out and get laid without me initially knowing but I’d want her to tell me. I totally understand your fantasy.

[UK-Stag]

I wish my wife would go out and get laid without me initially knowing but I’d want her to tell me. I totally understand your fantasy.

She does do solo meets and it gets me off never knowing exactly what happened. She gives me all the details but not seeing it is so hot

[jim28]

I had told my ex that I would like Her to fuck around behind my back but She said She wouldn't do that. I suspect that She did, however.

I would have loved for Her to go "shopping" but come home with wet panties and a cream pie for me to clean all the while maintaining that She didn't do anything.

Or for Her to tie me up naked out in the barn and for me to hear a car come and leave a few hours later.

[UK-Stag]

I had told my ex that I would like Her to fuck around behind my back but She said She wouldn't do that. I suspect that She did, however.

I would have loved for Her to go "shopping" but come home with wet panties and a cream pie for me to clean all the while maintaining that She didn't do anything.

Or for Her to tie me up naked out in the barn and for me to hear a car come and leave a few hours later.

Great response, Jim. How did you feel suspecting she was doing it but never having it confirmed? Also, did you have any evidence it was going on? I know there are some who say that cheating has no part in a HW arrangement, but I say do what works for you

[mfm4bnc]

The thrill of finding clues... gradually leading to me catching them in delicto.

[UK-Stag]

The thrill of finding clues... gradually leading to me catching them in delicto.

My HW says she'll do it but I'm too nosey and she's shit at lying so we'll see how it goes

[ErikaPeter]

Before we entered this lifestyle, I had a couple of affairs. My husband was upset when he found out. Eventually, we worked things out. In retrospect, he did admit to me that he was excited by the thought of my being with the two men. I regret my affairs, but ultimately they did lead us to becoming a hotwife / cuckold couple. Now, I do meet up with new men without telling him, and he does no mind. I always tell him after the fact (although not always immediately), and he enjoys hearing whatever details I divulge.

[UK-Stag]

Before we entered this lifestyle, I had a couple of affairs. My husband was upset when he found out. Eventually, we worked things out. In retrospect, he did admit to me that he was excited by the thought of my being with the two men. I regret my affairs, but ultimately they did lead us to becoming a hotwife / cuckold couple. Now, I do meet up with new men without telling him, and he does no mind. I always tell him after the fact (although not always immediately), and he enjoys hearing whatever details I divulge.

Your hubby's a lucky guy, if only women knew they're men were more receptive to cheating hotwifing then a lot of problems would be solved

[Luv2watchher]

My wife and can tell each other anything, but she doesn't have to tell me everything (at least not for a while).

[UK-Stag]

My wife and can tell each other anything, but she doesn't have to tell me everything (at least not for a while).

What have you got going on?

[Des 31]

Before we entered this lifestyle, I had a couple of affairs. My husband was upset when he found out. Eventually, we worked things out. In retrospect, he did admit to me that he was excited by the thought of my being with the two men. I regret my affairs, but ultimately they did lead us to becoming a hotwife / cuckold couple. Now, I do meet up with new men without telling him, and he does no mind. I always tell him after the fact (although not always immediately), and he enjoys hearing whatever details I divulge.

We also became a hotwife couple after my wife's three-month affair with a coworker. I had encouraged her to date other men for a year or so before that but with the intention she would keep me informed. Once she confessed what I had learned, she agreed to have sex with other men. She broke off her relationship with the coworker, although I didn't think that was necessary. Our sex life is more exciting now and I love hearing her tell me her experiences.

But like you, she occasionally meets up with other men and tells me about it after they have sex. Her intent isn't to keep it secret but it isn't always convenient to notify me before they have sex. That works fine for us. Always enjoy reading your experiences. (Our thread is in the Hotwife section.)

~ Des

[Sharedherlots]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

[UK-Stag]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

That would drive me wild. Especially when you're getting sloppy seconds and can see the evidence

[Hotwife_N_Hubby]

We’ve talked about this. Then fucked about this. We have agreed - She is “allowed” to fuck around behind my back all she wants. As long as she comes clean to me about it.

We have yet to make this a reality.

[Luv2watchher]

My wife and can tell each other anything, but she doesn't have to tell me everything (at least not for a while).

What have you got going on?

Feel free to check us out under the Hotwife section under "She wants to find a steady".

[Sharedherlots]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

That would drive me wild. Especially when you're getting sloppy seconds and can see the evidence

She told me the cum stains I was seeing were just her natural juices leaking out all day. Lol. Never mind on days she was home all day her pantries were perfectly dry, then on days when I suspected she was out with someone there’d be a huge stain in her panties. And she’d let me take them off when we had sex which was basically daily. I think the idea of cheating drives her wild. She loves to cheat and isn’t quite as keen on sex with other men if it doesn’t feel like cheating. I guess that’s sorta her kink in a way. I’m not complaining!

[mfm4bnc]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

that would be in my top ten list

[mfm4bnc]

Before we entered this lifestyle, I had a couple of affairs. My husband was upset when he found out. Eventually, we worked things out. In retrospect, he did admit to me that he was excited by the thought of my being with the two men. I regret my affairs, but ultimately they did lead us to becoming a hotwife / cuckold couple. Now, I do meet up with new men without telling him, and he does no mind. I always tell him after the fact (although not always immediately), and he enjoys hearing whatever details I divulge.

We also became a hotwife couple after my wife's three-month affair with a coworker. I had encouraged her to date other men for a year or so before that but with the intention she would keep me informed. Once she confessed what I had learned, she agreed to have sex with other men. She broke off her relationship with the coworker, although I didn't think that was necessary. Our sex life is more exciting now and I love hearing her tell me her experiences.

But like you, she occasionally meets up with other men and tells me about it after they have sex. Her intent isn't to keep it secret but it isn't always convenient to notify me before they have sex. That works fine for us. Always enjoy reading your experiences. (Our thread is in the Hotwife section.)

~ Des

The way these stories get me so hot, I sometimes wonder if I have eroticized my anxiety of her cheating.

[D+D]

I wouldn't mind at all if my wife is seeing someone on the side without my knowledge. I just want her to sleep around! She has always told me before she's bedded someone, at least as for as I know, but if not, I can't wait to find out about it!

[bksurrey]

once my wife arranged to meet a lover without telling me, but then told me when she was on her way on the train. i thought she was shopping. another time i got a message when i was out in the evening to say she was in a hotel room just about to get fucked, and shes has told me before that she was staying at a friends, then told me in the morning that shed been fucked all night. so she has already fucked being my back, but now she has a new ish bull, who has told me that although i can watch them, he is planning on getting her to agree to fuck him behind my back as much as he can when im out and get her to lie to me about it and deceive me, so whenever she goes out or is home alone i will be suspicious and be looking for evidence, they could have already started

[mfm4bnc]

There are some fantasies that I love, that I do want to happen, and some that I don't want to happen. A fantasy that is very powerful to me, but that I don't really want to happen is this: She cheats fairly brazenly. My friends know it, colleagues know it. I get confronted by a friend in a manner that I could have deflected if she had only told me. However, because it was a secret, I get caught flat-footed, not knowing what to say....

[JeffBingham]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

This would piss me off beyond belief. Not the fucking part, but the dishonesty. Her fucking others is a huge turn-on. Her dishonesty is a major termite - it destroys wood.

But to each his own, I guess...

[UK-Stag]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

This would piss me off beyond belief. Not the fucking part, but the dishonesty. Her fucking others is a huge turn-on. Her dishonesty is a major termite - it destroys wood.

But to each his own, I guess...

I suppose it depends, my HW has permission to go behind my back and have an 'affair' her cheating turns me on. But it's not dishonest if I've said she should go for it. I hasten to add that it's me who wants her to cheat. I'm not just accommodating an already unfaithful spouse

[Sharedherlots]

My wife did this for over a year with a guy. I found out about a month into it but she always denied it. She’d cone home with cum stained panties, I’d find dried cum on her legs, didn’t matter. She’d act like I was crazy lol. Eventually one day we were looking at her phone together when a text popped up saying, “I can’t wait to tie you up again and cum in that pussy like I did yesterday.” No really getting out of that one huh? I was so turned on. After we talked about it I immediately undressed her and had incredibly hot sex with her.

This would piss me off beyond belief. Not the fucking part, but the dishonesty. Her fucking others is a huge turn-on. Her dishonesty is a major termite - it destroys wood.

But to each his own, I guess...

Yeah this was early on when we were dating and living together. At first I was like, “WTF?” But the problem was it turned me on so damn much I just couldn’t get mad haha. I also think she knew I knew and I got the sense she was basically trying to tell me she enjoyed the part where she got to keep it secret. Like it turned her on. She didn’t try hard at all to hide it. So I get what you’re saying for sure. I just think it was all sorta a game for both of us in a way. In fact, once I found out she only saw him a few more times even though I didn’t tell her to stop. I think once I found out, the excitement of the affair went away for her for the most part.