Page 1 of 1

What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2020 3:07 pm
by NSEW1
Which of the following would you not allow or want in your cuckolding relationship? What are your hard limits?

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2020 8:35 pm
by Rhino444
A few things on that list. Definitely not into sissy stuff, nor would I ever fund dates. I still need to be able to kiss my wife and see her naked. And I find the idea of calling another dude sir or master just because he's fucking my wife ridiculous.

I'm down with just about anything else though.

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2020 8:51 pm
by knight4princess
Interesting responses so far. I checked as "off limits" everything starting with "being verbally abused or degraded" and ending with "chastity for weeks or months" -- with the exception of the chores. I'll be glad to run drinks and grab fuck towels for them. I wouldn't be down for mowing the lawn while they fuck or washing his car though. For the most part I'm good with the other items.

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2020 5:38 am
by iloanmywife
My only hard limit is funding their lifestyle. If another guy wants to take my wife to dinner or on a vacation, I’m not writing a check. I also get nothing out of the “sir” or “master” stuff. Feels artificial. I’m not really into spanking/paddling but my wife very much is, so I’ve sometimes been side-by-side with her and taking a belt along with her. It turns her on immensely but just makes my ass hurt.

And I don’t see “chores” as sexy play. I already have a to-do list a mile long, and I actually have done chores while my wife was getting laid. It just didn’t feel like it had anything to do with sex. The way I see it, if a guy is fucking my wife several times a month he could at least help me clean the garage once on a while. 😁

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2020 6:38 am
by NSEW1
Not surprising that “nothing off limits” gets only 3% of votes, underscoring that nearly everyone has limits.

Also interesting that while some limits are more common than others, there is a broad diversity. What works for some is objectionable to others. I expected more pronounced winners and losers.

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2020 8:13 am
by desertsub
I'm pretty deep into being cuckolded and submitting to both of them. The only one I checked was "Funding their lifestyle". If he wants to take my wife out to dinner or to a hotel he can pay for it! I HAVE paid for his drinks at the bar though because my wife told me to.

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2020 8:31 am
by veub
From reading on here, the correct answer to what you will do is "whatever she wants me to do." The alternative is her leaving you.

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2020 9:39 pm
by Rhino444
Ah yes, I neglected to mention chores. I could maybe see the humiliation in something like serving drinks if that counts as a chore, but if you think I'm going to wash your car while you fuck my wife, keep dreaming.

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Wed Dec 23, 2020 2:06 pm
by tosaintsfan
I submit to many things on the list but will never call a boyfriend/bull sir or master, and never submit to any physical abuse. I also checked will not be ssified, but I will wear panties if requested, so I am not sure if i am sending mixed messages here. I have never been in a position where i was expected to pay everything so i didn't specifically check this, although i would likely rebel against that also.

I have never been outed to my family or friends but Marla has talked about me being a cuckold to several of her friends. Not sure the word cuckold was used but it was clear she fucked other guys with my knowledge. She even told one friend that I cleaned up a cream pie. I dont mind , in fact it turns me on, when she talks about me encouraging her to have boyfriends but the cream pie confession took it too far from my view. Perhaps if was part of a sex talk that evolved into that subject it would have been fine, but it came out of left field in a general what's new type of conversation.

TO

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Wed Dec 23, 2020 2:28 pm
by canadianwittol
I must laugh a little at the list because while there are many things on it I can tell you today I would never do, I can also see four items which ten years ago I would have told you that I would never do, but which over time I have found myself doing. The bigger surprise is that the ones I would have expected to be most difficult to overcome weren't anywhere near as bad as my fears worried they could be.

Of course I still have limits and nothing turns on/off like a light switch. But limits are, I think, much more fluid than we realize and not *always* in your total control unless perhaps you're willing to stake out a completely selfish position.

As we've become accustomed to saying, our cuckold lifestyle is always "a work in progress".

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Wed Dec 23, 2020 2:38 pm
by tosaintsfan
canadianwittol wrote:
Wed Dec 23, 2020 2:28 pm
I must laugh a little at the list because while there are many things on it I can tell you today I would never do, I can also see four items which ten years ago I would have told you that I would never do, but which over time I have found myself doing. The bigger surprise is that the ones I would have expected to be most difficult to overcome weren't anywhere near as bad as my fears worried they could be.

Of course I still have limits and nothing turns on/off like a light switch. But limits are, I think, much more fluid than we realize and not *always* in your total control unless perhaps you're willing to stake out a completely selfish position.

As we've become accustomed to saying, our cuckold lifestyle is always "a work in progress".
Agree completely. I know that I have evolved in this lifestyle. When I started I never wanted anything to do with humiliation, but I am turned on with mild humiliation now, but I know I could never submit to worshipping a boyfriend (calling him sir) or physically submit to another male. There are some lines that my ego would not allow me to cross.

TO

Re: What’s off limits for you in cuckolding?

Posted: Wed Dec 23, 2020 4:34 pm
by NSEW1
canadianwittol wrote:
Wed Dec 23, 2020 2:28 pm
I must laugh a little at the list because while there are many things on it I can tell you today I would never do, I can also see four items which ten years ago I would have told you that I would never do, but which over time I have found myself doing. The bigger surprise is that the ones I would have expected to be most difficult to overcome weren't anywhere near as bad as my fears worried they could be.

...

As we've become accustomed to saying, our cuckold lifestyle is always "a work in progress".
Very true... things are fluid. What are some examples of things you might have rejected initially but have come around to?